I Know He's Cheating | FULL EPISODE | Ricki Lake

today women come clean once and for all when they tell their good friends I know he's cheating because he's cheating with me [Music] [Applause] all right according to check a mate that specializes in Private Investigations 60 percent of men who cheat cheat with a woman their lovers know or have met at least once today friends are coming clean with their girlfriends and saying sorry I'm cheating with your man [Music] with her friend Beverly's boyfriend Zachary for seven months now in just a moment we'll bring them both out but first Rhonda how did this all start well it started because we all live in the same town right and I hang out a lot and so does Zach and I had you know we bumped into each other a few times and you know conversation and one thing led to another did you know that that Zach was dating Beverly [Music] some people might say there are some lines that you just don't cross I didn't cross the line he did that was his girl not mine [Music] I know who she is and she knows who I am but we're not buddy buddy Chum Chum it never have been and you say that that basically the relationship between you and Zach is purely sexual well no it's not we had we don't just have sex we hang out we have fun together so you're in a relationship with him I don't call it that what would you call it I don't know but not that it's not a relationship it's a friendship whatever are you say sex partner sex thing it's a sex thing because stand up stand up she knew it's a sex thing if that was your she's not really your you're not really her friend exactly we're really not sure who she is you are wrong no I'm not yes you no I'm not wrong you're wrong why no I'm not wrong thank you what would you do if this was your friend cheating with your man should I get the beat down that's all no no no no you might you might you might try to get and and see the problem with girls like every time they Man cheat on them they wouldn't jump on the other girl if that's your man it's up to him to tell it no but like I'm saying you were supposed to be my friend you said enough cause you're not even making sense it's not like that Rhonda it's not right do you want Zach for yourself excuse me do you want Zachary for yourself man okay Rhonda one last question before we bring him out why tell her like this why tell her now well basically because I feel like if you mess with somebody's man you know you're not supposed to be speaking to them and all of that it should be no communication between you and you her you know so I just when she see me in the store you know she'll waving out and you know I'm really not about that I don't want to speak to her you know you just want to come clean today yeah you know just you know do you want to meet Beverly me too come on out [Music] [Applause] Beverly Rhonda has a secret hang on hold up hold up Rhonda has a secret that she wants to tell you ain't ain't no real way to say it I ain't gonna beat around the bush but I'm sleeping with your man and have been for a long time you what that I'm sleeping you need to ask him that when he come out here what you mean what you mean what I mean what I said you need to ask him that I'm gonna ask him when he come out yeah okay well you will believe it let me just remind you that you're you're on TV so try to refrain from that language okay can I move before I get mad yeah okay [Applause] [Music] let her do what she need to do because she definitely don't want to hit me so y'all do what y'all need [Music] 50 could you please move over once you made for her safety all right you know what hold on let's bring Zach out and let's talk to him Zach come on out me [Applause] yeah all right [Applause] sit down please sit down family please sit down so is it true Zach that you've been cheating with with Rhonda it's all upon life all upon their life that's right we will have this straight you're gonna have to straighten this out well why you want to act on a lot of characters on TV you are sleeping with him Beverly April the 2nd Holiday Inn hotel enjoy yourself [Applause] so wait a minute wait a minute hang on hang on are you doing this to get back at her or something [Music] [Applause] if you sleeping with my man I hope he take care of me like yours does okay I really hope so speak to me in this this situation what goes around comes around because that you're you're angry why are you so angry what I'm mad about are you mad I mean Ricky I can't see what she's seeing it but what you saw in him you was laying up with him you was with him for two years what did you see oh really [Music] do you practice safe sex all the time I don't know about her but I do I mean what is gonna happen I mean you who are you in a relationship with Zach both of them is that the case no not really not anymore no not really he's just it's just a money man really [Applause] stand up please Zach you must be one powerful man and ladies why do y'all do great degrade yourself the way y'all do like that I just know what I'm doing I both know and it's not worth it because Zach don't look all of that it ain't how you look look nothing what's gonna happen here today who's gonna continue with whom I don't know I don't want it you don't want him she can have him she can have him what about your friendship well we was never friends like you would call friends she knew who I was obviously every time I get an outfit she gotta get an outfit every time I get a guy it's like we can repeat all the day that's so weak and tired Beverly you should have came one better than that no no it's like really always did you suspect that this was going on well I mean it's like I really don't care you know I really don't care you did about five minutes ago I mean you were ready to punch her out she just talking I really don't care that's it so you're through with him yeah stand up man what do you love him do either one of you love him I care about him so it's just y'all sleeping together both of y'all sleeping with him well I don't know what they do you know I'm just concerned about what I do when I'm with him you know I care about Zach we have a lot of fun together it's not just about having sex with it all right why don't you guys take some time take a deep breath and we'll check back with you at the end of the show okay when we come back a girlfriend tells her good friend that since she left town she's not only been sleeping with her boyfriend but she's moved in with him as well we'll be right back [Applause] [Music] [Applause] if my best friend's boyfriend made a pass in me I would definitely tell him that I didn't appreciate it um I would tell him what I thought about him and then I would tell my best friend and advise her to break out with him I would probably let it slide and hope that she would realize kind of what a joke he was what kind of cruise do you have that your good friend's boyfriend is sleeping around what if she tells you she knows he's sleeping around because she's sleeping with him meet Tamara she says she is in love with Chuck who is waiting backstage the only problem is that he just happens to be the boyfriend of one of Tamara's good friends Kim Kim will join us in a minute and hear for herself for the first time but Tamara how did you get involved with Chuck in the first place I met him at a party and uh we became real good friends me him and her and it just it happened we're we're compatible well it just happened I you know I can't explain we became friends and we've got so much in common we're just alike you know our birthdays are in the same month and it's just hot damn no way yeah I mean but the don't you think there are some guys that should be off limits this was your friend's boyfriend is your friend's boyfriend well I've had boyfriends that my friends have taken that my friends have messed with it's just it wasn't meant to happen if we were there you know when she we took her to the airport we went back to his apartment had a steak dinner and we've been together since I was in need I get it so she went bye-bye on a plane and you just moved right in right [Laughter] so why are you ready to come clean today I've been wanting to come clean with her uh I don't like the lion um I don't feel like I'm really doing anything wrong because he's doing it with me do you want Chuck for yourself I'd like to have them for myself yeah so are you ready to come clean and tell Kim you're a bit of news yes I am all right we're going to get her so why don't you take a deep breath look she's got a big smile on her face are you the least bit nervous not really not really you afraid she might do something rash oh no she wouldn't do that all right well we have Kim here Kim come on out [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] hi Kim Tamara has a bit of news to tell you man Chuck's been together since we've dropped you off at the airport I'll try to let you know about it but he don't like me telling you this because I guess he loves you too he wants you you know but I just wanted to come clean with you and let you know everything that's going on what do you think about that Kim did you suspect anything you've been together all this time together how long is how long is this time how long is it it's been almost five months yeah no five months apparently you went on a trip and they dropped you off at the airport and ever since then I moved I moved back to where I was living before and he's supposed to be getting ready to be moving up there with her but in the meantime I've tried to tell her on the telephone I did try to tell her I've tried to complain about it all this time so are you doing this I mean my wheels are turning are you doing this to sort of make him decide who he's going to be with is he going to move in with with Kim or is he going to stay with you I just think it'd be nice if he'd be honest he would have never told me he wouldn't he would have denied it he would say I'm lying about it all right well we have Chuck here you want to meet Chuck Chuck come on out [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] in the middle yeah hi Chuck so what's what's the deal I'm deeply in love with Kim and then why are you holding her hand she's holding my hand why won't you hold his hand because he's with her obviously Chuck what's your side of the story okay um I was with Kim here about two years ago she moved in with my roommate and my roommate treated her bad and so I kicked him out and I I started going out with her and then she went back with her ex-husband and I had to let her go because I thought it was the best thing for her at the time because I wasn't ready to settle down so for two years she was pregnant when she went back with her ex-husband for two years I thought that was my kid I haven't eaten my heart out for two years trying to you know I'm in love with her I've been in love there ever since so what makes you decide to cheat on her with well Tamara is very beautiful in Charming young lady and she she went out of her way to to make sure that she got she gives us what she wants you know and the minute that the window was open for her to have what she wants she went for it full Full Tilt and and and I was defenseless against her charms so you're saying that the Tamara got her claws in you and you were just helpless there was nothing he was absolutely helpless he better have a better line than that foreign I wanted to marry her before she left I wanted to marry her then okay if I was married Tamara the night that she left if you were so in love with her and wanted to marry her why did you why were you intimate with her that night well it wasn't that night we were friends we're very good friends and we were all good friends and before she left we were all very good friends okay now so I mean we were all very very very good friends then she left and expects and and she knew she was living with me and there's just no possible way Kim tell me audience tell me if I'm crazy but if I were Kim I'd be a lot angrier than she looks right now what's going through your mind I mean what's what's gonna happen after to after today I don't know I just I know there's not any together I'm sorry I know those two are together and that's ours too she's not stupid she knew this was going to happen she she knew it was going to happen when she left when we dropped her off the airport she knew when I left them I felt like okay either it's gonna happen between them and or else he's going to decide who that he really loves me as much as he says and he's going to be a strong man and be a real man and that it's where he's going to stand [Music] okay yes what do you want to say why would you fall asleep with your friend's boyfriend what do you get out of it why don't you get somebody else of your own well it wasn't meant to happen it just you know I did have a boyfriend if you want to know the truth about it who do you choose who are you gonna choose I want to spend the rest of my life with it when we come back a friend tells her friend that not only has she been sleeping with her boyfriend for four years so have a lot of other women we'll be right back [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] good [Applause] [Music] if I walk into a room and I saw my best friend with my boyfriend I would tap her on the shoulder and squarely say move over I say way to go girl because I mean she's a great guy and she has a good taste I don't own the guy so more power to her [Music] back today friends tell their female friends to watch out for their boyfriends because they are sleeping with them meet quintella she says for four years she has been sleeping with her friend Mary's boyfriend that's a long time Mary and her boyfriend Joseph are in for the surprise of their life when quintella spills the beans so both people don't know huh yeah when did you start sleeping with Joseph right after my son's father got killed about like in 90 in the late 89 90. so did you know that he was involved with Mary yeah that didn't stop you huh no didn't stop either of you um do you feel that you have a right to be doing what you're doing yeah why well for the first first of all she's we are not really friends she stays around my house and he was flirting with me so I decided to flirt back with him so is it true that you slept with him the night that she gave birth to his child well he wanted to but I didn't [Music] don't you feel like a [ __ ] yes [Applause] so answer your question no I don't because for one thing I don't know her personally as long as he's taking care of me and my child I'm all right wait a minute she does come around your house I mean she passed she passes around my house in her car she doesn't even speak to me so it really doesn't matter it doesn't matter so you have no problems telling her today no I don't all right you ready to do it now yeah all right we're gonna go get Mary now [Applause] boy do you have guts quintella I mean oh my goodness all right we have Mary here are you ready to meet Mary Mary come on out [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] hi Mary thank you for joining us now quintella has a little secret that she would like to share with you well Mary I know you have an idea that well we call him bam I know you have idea that bam is sleeping was sleeping around and I was the one [Music] and I did and I did honey you wouldn't fooling me I knew it all along [Applause] [Music] fooling you he was fooling you because I don't have nothing to hide from you I don't have the uh I don't have to agree to anything with you he have to he have to answer to you I don't well that's the fact there I can agree with you on that but I tell you this what you were really doing was wasting your time well not really because as long as she was giving me his money I was like oh my God he was giving you money honey how would he be able to give you money when I'm getting it off [Applause] 14 years and have been going with him six years and he's still with me so how are you getting everything well as long as he's taking care of me and my child I wouldn't say it I was giving everything what would you want to tell Mary today because because he feel to believe that he can keep doing it without anybody finding out I don't mess with him no more because it really so it really doesn't matter because I have somebody and you say you can one thing because prove that you were with him huh can you prove that you were with him yes I can how because for one thing when he have sex he sweats a lot he does he sweats a lot wait a minute how many of you let me just take a little poll how many of you don't sweat when you have sex it's a certain way that he swear when he sweats okay all right wait a minute are you ready to are you ready to meet Joseph come on Jack Joseph he's coming [Music] [Applause] Joseph thanks for being here quintella why don't you share with Joseph what you just shared with us and with Mary that's all Meredith man you was fooling around tell the truth why are you fooling around with her tell the truth but quintella has proof [Applause] yes she says that she knows for a fact that she slept with you because you sweat a lot [Applause] [Laughter] it's alive it's alive you haven't been sleeping with her for the past four years oh yeah yes please do me there's a mark on him that has been on him since date of birth and still there where's this Mark located I really don't know but I know one thing here stretch marks on his behind in his stomach [Applause] it's real yeah my gosh you don't buy it I mean Mary you came out here and you and you said you knew that it was going on on I knew that something was going on between them don't get me wrong okay but I figured like this just because someone's telling me that oh she's in the car with him and she's this and that no okay I I socialize with a lot of guys don't get me wrong but none of them disrespect him and they won't get out of the way with me I have them with an understanding that we're just friends and that's all it is to it okay but there's nothing wrong with him standing up talking to a woman there's nothing wrong with it at all but you know I trust him okay he may go out there he may be flirting around kids a lot of you men do it you know what I'm saying but it doesn't mean that he has to be sleeping in the bed where there's two types of food in the ground you know quintella what type are you in a bed I mean come on here you're gonna tell us that I mean he's got stretch marks all over his back he's sweating to death for one thing if we wasn't sleeping around I would have why would I get out here and tell you he was when we wasn't it's not like you it's not like he's a damn good thing in the bed oh my it's got night day oh I wish we didn't have to take a break but when we come back she may be the Godmother to her best friend's baby but that doesn't keep her away from her best friend's man we'll be right back [Applause] [Music] thank you [Music] if I had a best friend who's cheating another very close friend of mine I'd definitely tell them because I think Honesty is really important I would tell because I value friendships a lot my friends are like my family nope not my business not at all I'll just let her deal with it let them get caught [Music] they're best friends who share everything including a man although one friend doesn't know that yet meets chardasia she says that she wants to come clean with her best friend Lavon that she is sleeping with her man now shadesia how did you get involved with lavon's man well it started like I met LaVon in like four years ago and the next thing you know she met this she met her man like a year later he came to the job I didn't really know he was her man he came there he started flirting with me so I'm the type of girl I'm going to flirt back so next thing you know he been back and forth until the third or fourth time I realized when she came out she said that's Tyrell I said that's Tyrell and so I didn't want to tell her what he was doing because it was going to hurt our feelings we had been close and then you know after a while he asked me did it matter who he was and I said well yeah it matters that's my friend so after that I don't know he knew I used to stay over about about um by her in his house you know it's not really a house but it's apartment that their friend have and after that you know things just got out of hand because she trusted me so much with him so were you still sleeping with him when you found out that he was hers I knew he was heard before we even got intimate with each other it just happened I know y'all just don't understand I'm not going to try no no no no no I mean we don't mean to be coming down hard on you I mean we want to hear no we don't [Applause] so chardasia are you still seeing him wow no you don't I don't actually stop but it's for a reason in our a reason we stopped what's the reason I'll I'll say it I'd rather say that to her after she comes out I'd rather say it to her depending on her reaction okay well we're gonna we're gonna get Lavon now so you can tell her hang on let's remember everyone that they were brave enough to come on and do this so let's give them some respect okay now we have Lavon here you want to meet Lavon everyone live on come on out [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] hi Lavon shardesia why don't you tell her what you have to tell her LeBron you and I have been friends for like you know four years and you know your family's like my family and all that but you know your man here and all that [Music] you talking about oh um about six or seven months after you and him was dealing with each other we started becoming very you know intimate intimate with each other and it's been going on now for the past two years I tried to you know like get away from you when I moved to Connecticut I tried to get away but you found me and it's like I said I said you know just you know I wanted to just get away because I didn't want to tell you I know it hurt you but you found me somehow I was like you know I can't continue to be your friend without you knowing this um and I like to know you know does this change I mean I know I'm a godmother and everything of your of your daughter and you you my son's godmother but you know what you know I know what you think right now what do you think right now Lavon what cell I think hmm first of all don't think that it's all me because your man is sleeping with everybody in Brooklyn All right so don't think it's all me okay that don't that don't excuse what I did all right but it's like this you know he cheating all right you know he cheating you told me you think he cheating and all that so don't think he's been faithful he just did it because of me he's a dog let's get this straight first of all this is an ego thing okay listen listen listen you are lying please you Lions ladies [Applause] we'll be right back after this [Music] hi we are back now Lavon thank you for staying with us we cut out early because you heard some terrible news and I'm sorry that you had to hear it here but I just I want you to know that violence is never the solution and won't be tolerated here okay what what is going through your mind right now I mean is your friendship I mean she came here sincerely I I think sincerely to tell you so that she could come clean with your friendship and not have any secrets or lies first it's just the ego thing with her she want everything she thinks she could have everything she wants me and his boy have been together for the for four and a half years he been with me she did it to other people yes she might have she might have messed with him but he not her type so I I say he ain't messing well that's what I'm saying but all of it will come out all of it will come out the truth will be told all right so now that the truth has been told what can my guests today do with this information that their boyfriends have been sleeping with their best friends with us right now is Carol Botwin author of tempted women passions perils and agonies of female infidelity what do you want to add today well I want to talk to Lavon I mean we we have here four women who are obviously angry and upset which is a very natural human reaction they should be yes they should be and uh Lavon keeps saying it didn't happen which is very common to women in this kind of situation they deny what's really sometimes in front of their nose because they really don't want to know and I think Lavon and all of these women have to face the facts and decide what they want to do with the rest of their relationship Lavon you want to go on with this relationship I mean it's something she probably has to think about I can't answer that question yeah I don't blame you yes first of all I think it's bad enough that men will sleep with I mean women who know that these guys have women and they still take it upon themselves to sleep with them that's number one what's wrong with all these females today first of all y'all got to realize that if the man is taking he's off limits to y'all okay off limits Point Blank period y'all have to have more yourself as women have more Scruples as women to say how could you even do something like that's that's disgraceful Point Blank period Well I would like this point as an expert here I would also like to turn my attention to the guys involved here because who are they to begin with right they have they have all these women fighting over them they have slept with with the women's best friends what are you fighting over really a guy who's going to do it again with somebody else if the other woman gets it yes they marry what do you want to say something yes okay just like earlier talking to her okay I said can you prove this okay I mean it's like this movie Crush how many of y'all seen this movie Crush here it is this 28 year old man and his 14 year old girl setting this man up claiming she's got all these things going on is that what you're saying this is so what I'm telling is is the crush thing and it has always have been but yet she can't tell me anything anything to prove to me that she have been in bed with him she cannot tell me anything but really doesn't matter because like I said before long as he take care of me and my child I'm all right long as I'm getting them ends I'm fine you can't get all his money don't believe that he don't have right back after this [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] yes ma'am what do you want to say I want to ask Joseph a question hey Joseph we got a question for you Joseph you've been quiet through this whole thing are you really having an affair with this lady wait a minute what was that what was that Joseph stand up and say that again if you would say so you're you no you've never slept with this woman you know Ricky Ricky having written also a book about male infidelity the male the male and motto is always deny deny deny yes ma'am I have a question for this lady right there which one there's four of them the one in the middle the third one Mary Mary sweetheart you ain't got nothing to worry about you take your man home you work your problems out oh yes and you don't worry about like her because they got them [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] when Dallas get down Mary hang on yes I just want to say I think the problem is the problem is not with the women the problem was with the men [Applause] now now the women that were out here before it just keep in mind there is nothing more gratifying to a man's ego than to have two attractive women fight over him and they're just sitting back your friends are the ones that had to tell you you're sitting up there taking the heat now from the psychiatrist and they're just sitting there in the front row with their women and they're the ones who are at fault okay thank you yes ma'am I say get rid of the friends and the men you wait wait say that again I don't think everybody heard listen to her about advice everyone get rid of the friends and the men that's right and with that we'll be right back Joe Chapman brought to you by [Music] e it should be an Unwritten rule Between Women you don't go after your friend's man no matter what there are plenty of other fish in the sea and anyway if he's going to cheat with you he's probably going to cheat on you down the road as well thanks for watching till next time promotional fees have been paid by the following foreign [Applause]

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Length: 40min 11sec (2411 seconds)

Published: Mon Jun 26 2023