When Narcissism Comes To Church

so open your Bibles please the second Samuel 1818 second Samuel 1818 now Absalom now how many know who Absalom is first-hand experience right here they've lived through Absalom and as you're going on with God you will definitely have Epsilon's I will actually was going to preach more on Absalom than I that I'm going to today but I'm gonna start off with him but he also fits this description Absalom was David's third son and Absalom in his lifetime had taken and reared up for himself everyone say for himself a pillar which is the in the kings Dale for he said I have no sons to keep my name and remembrance now remember epsilen had sons I looked it up he had three that I know of and I'm sure he's probably had more so why is he building a monument to himself he says to keep my name in remembrance I'm sure the sons that he had didn't want to keep his name and remembrance they didn't want anything that he was doing they didn't want to be a part of it to keep my name and remembrance and he called the pillar after his own name and it is called under this day Absalom's place this morning I want to talk about the narcistic spirit spirit of narcissism in the church now just to kind of have a disclaimer here before we start we have a tendency to label things really fast and call everybody this or call everyone that everyone's a Jezebel everyone's this and that's very harmful so we don't want to be immature and do that but on the other hand of this we need to see the wake of destruction that is behind churches the destruction and lives ministries gifted people that sir under these type of anointing and these people also the good ministers that are controlled or manipulated by the narcissist so today we're going to talk a lot about what narcissism is and it's going to open up people's eyes and it's time that the church really starts exposing the abuse in the name of God because these type of abusers are always using the god card and because of there's so much innocence in people wanting to serve God that will give God everything we have including including our lives our time all of our money everything we have only to find out later that these leaders really are not walking with God they're being manipulative and controlling and it's just like Absalom here it's not about God it's about them and the first thing we see here about this kind of a spirit is that they build things to themselves now when we're in the kingdom of God the Bible says no flesh shall glory so you're going to see people that are building things for themselves and then those that are called we all are called to build things for the glory of God and there's really a fine line in some of it in the beginning but as time goes on the fruit is very obvious because a true spirit of someone that's not seeking the Lord and is in the ministry or and I'm only saying the ministry because it's one of the avenues or the areas they love to land in and as I was studying that there's there in every area of our life especially in government but they also land in ministry in clergy because of the power because of the admiration because of the fan clubs because of of what they can do when they're in positions of authority with very little accountability and as a result the good ministers many times get snuffed out because the narcissist comes in and there's such a bad spirit upon these people and first you have to know there's no love God is and so if things are not being done out of out of love we have to constantly go because what is love takes responsibility it takes care if you're a good parent you you love your children it's not your children are there to help you everything about this narcissistic spirit is backwards and it's all self-serving and it's all self seeking so here we see Apple Absalom who built a monument to himself always be leery of when people start doing things and building things so-called for God but it's really not for God what is it for themselves it's a tall pillar erected with pride and greed decorated with lust and power then chiseled in big letters is the name of its maker monument to self and another one that did this and we're going to talk about him later is Saul Saul also built things to himself and did things for himself and people can start off okay but if you don't stay surrendered if you don't stay committed if you don't stay broken if you don't continuously seek the Lord then all of a sudden you're gonna think this whole thing is about you and your church or your your ministry and you forget that really you're God's servant he is not your servant in second Timothy 3:2 it says for people will be lovers of self now this spirit we're talking about is loving of itself and we're not going to go into all the other things that the world says about this spirit but we're gonna try to stay cuz there's there's a lot of things the world has learned about this and sometimes they're wiser and the children of God but there can be a mixture so we want to stay really scriptural with this but in the end times and we're gonna see more of this we're gonna see more of lovers of themself and I believe God is tired of his people being manipulated controlled and abused in his name so people will be lovers of self lovers of money proud arrogant abusive disobedient to their parents ungrateful and unholy now what happens when we step inside the church God's given people gifts and talents and he's not going to take them away but they abuse their gifts and they abuse their talents and we have to know the difference in this hour we're living in narcissism is the love of self it's in a normal love of self it's it's not normal it wouldn't say not normal all of us can have some of these traits all of us can have some of this we need to repent of because we're all basically we're supposed to deny ourself in this movement that we've seen everyone's feeding their self feeding their desires feeding their dreams feeding their fantasies all in the name of God and so much of this teaching is flesh it's produced nothing but a lot of arrogant little brats running around in the name of God isn't that something I couldn't believe I said that so narcissism is a love of self abnormal loving of yourself where Christianity is the love of God loving God loving Jesus loving God in helping people narcissism serve self selfish ambition driven callings from God they're called to save the world and because they're so great and you're not you must follow them and not just follow them but don't question as you follow them what is it there's a lot of people to say what a lot of it is basically I believe it's the devil full-blown but it's a disorder there's different kinds there's there's there's control there's manipulation and then there's actually spirits that are mental they're just not normal and and what happens a lot of times from what I've studied is and I've been doing this a lot of unattach miss orders and stuff because of improper parenting and maybe the parents before them weren't properly parented but there's a cycle that they learn to survive there's a cycle they learn that they have to take care of themselves no one else will and they end up breaking their conscience their hearts broken they're living in chaos or what they do is they constantly have to look out for themselves and now that they're saved they haven't learned to surrender their lives to God if you're going to be a minister or leader in the Lord and you have these kind of issues in your background you have to make sure that you don't abuse and manipulate people because the cycle just continues so this person was treated and abused by their parents so what they do not even knowing that's all they know so they continually abuse their mates and their children and the cycle just goes on and on and on so it's a disorder when a person is overly occupied with himself and everything revolves around them now when you come into church who you let down your guard because you think they're a manor or they're a woman of God but if they have these orders and these disses things in their mind and mentally you have to know they have to get free they're human just like you are they might have a gift to do certain things but they they have to have the fruits and that's why in these end times we have to know those that labor among us we have to know the fruit what kind of fruit is there love is there peace and these nurses they have nope they have no peace they're driven they're driven to accomplish more to feel better about themselves always doing things on the outside building and all this grand or grandiose stuff so that they constantly feel good about themselves because they're so broken and they didn't get the love they needed when they were children does that make sense and it's everywhere it's in our government it's in our ministries it's in our families it's a pattern of survival and coping mechanisms that developed in early life to handle the chaos and stresses of life without God they use fear tactics and anger to manipulate and I think of as I've been studying this someone that had just gotten through school and got a degree just kind of mentioned this you know this person that you're dealing with is a narcissist and I know they don't label people and I know I know they're not ones that just kind of tagged things because a lot of people just do stuff but it stuck with me it was like that's it that's it that's what I got a study and I'm one of these when I study I study I go nuts I'm like okay I got all the books on it and then I got to figure it out then I got to see you know cuz I like to research things out and because I haven't heard this top much in church I was just like Lord is this what is this and as I started studying it the more and more first I thought I was just gonna study it for myself that's like this is everywhere this is happening in the name of God to wonderful Christians that love the Lord and the wake of these ministries is destruction there's people on the wayside their gifts and talents who weren't used they were abused and this is another thing of the cycle of narcissism they always have to have a supply in other words they they're like vampires that go and they suck out life or they suck out a gift of someone else to prop themself up and then when they're done with that gift or that person now stands up to them they can't stand to be challenged so if you challenge them you correct them you say this isn't wrong now all of a sudden because you won't be a flying monkey that means you're not a yes person you're not a you're not a person that you have to think for yourself in these days but there's a lot of people that get their life from looking up to these little mini gods they feel good important they feel like oh you know you have to have your own walk with God you can't in this hour you can't trust in men you have to trust in the Lord thank God for gifts and stuff like that but they're always taught they're signposts you don't worship a sign and and these people want worship they want admiration they they have to feed this this broken self that's that's been broken and they they don't know how to do it other than use you manipulate you so I don't know if this makes sense so they use fear tactics and anger to manipulate if you always are afraid you can't talk to someone oh don't get them upset because they're very very they're fragile they're very very ego fragile they they will turn on you in a dime this is why the people that are really of God are long-suffering they're patient they care about you a to narcissist has no empathy they cannot feel for other people now I've been around ministries like this and I can't believe they don't care what they do to people next next with no feeling with no pain with no concern of what happens to these people that have dedicated years to their ministries that was one of my first signs this is demonic because it's not normal not to care about someone that's hurting it's like they have no they have no empathy this disorder they believe they're special and it's it's demonic because they really believe they are they believe they're so special they're above the rules there's a pride and arrogance that goes with this and they're very unteachable now they can come off very charming and that's usually to butter up to you know to make you become their friend and they become very buddy-buddy with people that have money in churches don't care so much about the ones that are hurting and can't do much for them that's not a true minister a true minister doesn't care in fact I've always through the years I've always said don't tell me if someone ties or don't ties I don't want to know I don't want to know what they do what they don't do I'm not supposed to be looking on the outward at all I'm supposed to be there to help them and serve them and bring them up they believe they're special above others and above the rules and there's an unteachable nough sits just something quite not right they believe they have a right to special treatment no this is the thing that I believe the last movement has been terrible in churches one things that something that's bothered me from day one there's an entitlement they believe they get special treatment ministers they believe they get special houses cars clothes everything but then their staff isn't treated well I have a problem with this do you a right to special treatment they're entitled after all they're the woman of God after all they're the man don't touch me I'm so anointed it might leak they lack empathy because they see people as objects this is hard when you see this of someone you've served for years and years and you live your life down is that there there you're being used as an object the ability to understand the feelings of others is foreign to them they can't understand either you submit and obey after all I'm over you I'm so much more talented gifted so there's different types and there's different levels of narcissists there's different you say this is theirs there's salt there's different levels there's different levels of brokenness there's different levels of control there's different levels of mind games there's different levels you you might meet one thing you've seen them you'll find another one on the opposite it's just oh my goodness they're the opposite but they're there their similarities but they're different it's state there's still the same spirit but it's different different mind games different manipulations you always feel you're not yourself around these people you always have to shut up in March lack of empathy they can't identify and understand with other people that's why usually they don't intercede for other people they're not intercessors because they don't want to take on the burdens of other people they want other people to serve them it's a and if you're married to one of these people it's hell on earth because it's all about them your needs are never met you're never taken care of it's all what you don't do for them because they lack understanding of others totally understand you'll see abuse abuse is misuse and the other hard thing is they make terrible pastors they make terrible fathers they make terrible mothers because you see abuse you the children being abused and if they're pastors you're gonna see cruel treatment of people and I'm talking cruel abusive everyone say not normal and I don't care who I want I almost want to swear I don't do that I don't care who in the hell you are you have no right to abuse people in the name of God you have no right to make them serve you you have no right to manipulate them you have no right for them to you to use them and then throw them away I've seen discarded good people because they're no longer of use to that ministry why basically one reason they stood up they will not tolerate someone that stands up for themselves and then what happens after you stand up this is how you know it's a true narcissistic spirit they will smear your name you can't walk away with a good okay I love you and know you will be smeared behind your back because they have to make themselves look good a true man or woman of God doesn't do this some people have left churches and their life has become hell because they left the so called only church or only minister that hears from God and how dare you touch God's anointed they're not anointed well they're anointed but not from God so let's look over here in 1st samuel 14 yeah i'm passionate about this subject first samuel 1424 I've had this god card played on me for so many years I've just woken up now if anyone says well God told me it's like huh yeah I mean my story goes deep with the god card thing because I got saved and that was used on me and I was just simply obeying I wanted to didn't want to miss God anyone else can say the same thing we're gonna talk for a second about Saul and first samuel 14:24 actually I had it right I just can't think today now this is a story that I want you to see how people that have no empathy are and if they're leading if they're leading people and they don't have empathy and they're not following God there's so much abuse and confusion and Saul's are good example here they're in a war and they're in a battle and people are tired and verse 24 you catch it up here curse curse it he's starting to make his own rules narcissists always have their own rules sometimes you don't know about them till you cross them there's no boundaries in a true narcissist they don't they don't care about your boundaries I've seen staff workers abused it didn't matter if their dads died you're gonna work today there's no there's no boundaries on you know it's just it's just you do this and you do it because I said so Saul is the same that's how he is they're in a war they're in a battle they're tired they're fatigued and they're hungry and so now because it's all about him it's not about God it's not about the kingdom you have to understand these spirits have to be exposed for what they are it's all about them this is all about Saul he said curse would be the man that eateth any food until evening why I want you to circle this that I might be avenged of my enemies so none of the people tasted any food it was all about he wanted revenge on his enemies and it's the weird thing is normal people look on and go how could you not care the needs of other people how could you not care that everybody that served you in this battle is starving it's time for them to eat there we read their fate they're tired he doesn't care because he doesn't have empathy and he can't feel you have to understand many of these people unless they cry out to God unless they repent unless they do a lot of things with their inner person you can't fix them now all of us fixers we love to fix people this is a spirit unless they call out unless they want deliverance you can't help them because once you get in your way and they don't want to hear your counseling they don't want to hear you advice they will dispose of you and their own son here we see Jonathan his son and he's actually the one that was he's a hero he's the one that saved the day he's the one that brought them all to victory let's see how he treats someone that's really not supposed to be on his side but disobey one of their rules and they all it see verse anyway all the people they saw honey on the ground this is this is food they could have ate it they could have been refreshed but because of the the vow that their leader made we can't touch it everyone say stupid vowel didn't help anybody and when the people were coming to the wood behold the honey drop but no man put his hand to his mouth for the fear they feared the oath but Jonathan his son didn't hear about his crazy rule he was just a normal guy hungry saw honey on the ground and he ate it and he got enlightened too gave him strength but all the other people were faint verse 29 then said Jonathan and my father hath troubled the land it's hard being a child of a narcissist because you see what they're doing to everyone and there's nothing you can do to change them then said Jonathan my father's troubled the land he said how much it helped them verse 30 how much more if happily the people had eaten freely today of the spoil of their enemies which they found for there had not been now a much greater slaughter amongst the Philistines and other they're hungry now they've tired they're hungry they're faint and then all of a sudden because the people SLU they were starving they did eat and they ate with blood they weren't supposed to there's a whole thing going on here so Saul tells him to build an altar unto the Lord the same was the first altar that he built unto the Lord hint-hint this is the first altar he built he shows you right now he's not committed to God most of these people don't have prayer lives they don't want to be with their staff they don't they always put someone else in charge of their stuff they don't want to mess with lowlife people unless it's to impart they're only an extension of them and they better do it right because they've got to look good image is very important to this spirit it's all about how you look and Saul asked counsel of God in verse 37 shall I go down after the Philistines will thou deliver them into the hand of Israel remember this is his first altar of calling on God but God didn't answer him so God didn't answer him so what does he do he goes and makes up his own rules anyway he decides well I'm not gonna wait on God anymore and that's the problem he had through his whole being king of Israel he never waited on God he always would not do what the prophets told him he would do he'd always have an excuse they have a hard time taking blame they have a hard time admitting it's their fault you don't see true humility and a to narcissist you just don't see it then now he's mad and he's angry because they're telling him Jonathan accidentally he didn't know you made this crazy rule but he you know got some honey and now he disobeyed you what are you gonna do well he says he just obeyed me I don't care who you is Jonathan's got to die so now the people don't know what to do they're afraid and people that are truly under a - narcissus spirit live in fear fear of when the next rage is going to be fear of when the next stupid vow is going to be seeing because they have a way of always being angry anger is always very very close in a spirit like this and you will be punished silent treatments mind games smear tactics people will be turned against you you don't even know what you did but they got to them and then now all of a sudden because a true narcissist draws a line you're either for them or against them they don't they demand a hundred percent loyalty they demand it it's called total control this true spirit of God is not controlling the true spirit of God doesn't manipulate the true spirit of God doesn't abuse but because children have been raised under this kind of a spirit they gravitate towards leaders in the church that are like this abuse feels normal being demanded they give if you don't come to this every single service if you don't do this and do this do this okay okay will come will come and they become little minions a little yes people and what happens if you totally yield to a narcissist you become a codependent of the north that's what they want they want you to become codependent on them they hate people that stand up to them they can't stand someone that's got a brain hate to say it that way but it's kind of the way it is shut up in March so here we see wants to kill his own son and he's explaining what he did he said I just took a little honey he said it was you know now I have to die and he says God do so and more so thou shalt surely die Jonathan now he brings in God into the picture now this is where it gets confusing when you just want to serve God and you love the Lord but you want to follow God through the leader then the leader uses the god card well you can't question when people say God said God told me there's a thousand people here that have to give me money God said there's 60 of you that give your $58 seed it's all a bunch of junk so the people rescued Jonathan and he didn't die no thanks to his father they finally said no we're not gonna let Jonathan die so you see there's no empathy towards his own children he would have let Jonathan died because he crossed one of his Commandments because he it wasn't about Jonathan it's always about them remember this is not the kingdom this is not how God rules it's not how he expects his church to function but because so many leaders haven't had training and they're just put in spots and positions because they have gifts but there's no fruit and then the end time we're supposed to judge people's fruit is there love is there compassion do they care for people what how do they treat their family how do they treat their husbands how do they treat their wives that should be a first sign because you will see abuse on the mate con you'll always see an abusive mate they're always walking around sad depressed and can't say much are you with me the church is a prime hunting ground for narcissism with little real accountability they only put people on their boards they can control I have first-hand a lot of insight into boards very boring a significant opportunity for attention and a spotlight so we have a lot of sick people and grandeur positions in the name of God and if you can spot one of these pretty soon you're gonna see the pride you can see the arrogance you're gonna see the control they use the word of God they slice and dice people up they make them feel little less than and then their sermons are always about themselves it's always about me me how great I am how I do this how I do this so right that's why you need to follow me because I'm so perfect and everybody if my children are perfect everything's perfect it's it's this thing of oh I just wish I could be like you we're called to be like Jesus and we have made celebrities out of ministers not all of them and the ones that are should be honoured and treated right aren't because we don't know what to look for in a true minister so we're looking for all the outward signs to make us feel good now we can connect to that system everyone say the the ways narrow folks the church the prime hunting ground with little real accountability a significant opportunity for attention in the spotlight they often preach with rigidity condemnation confront confrontation all in the name of God of course narcissists are control freaks one-man show not a team player you won't see them having and raising up a lot of other leaders around them because they're threatened the moment someone else has a gift that might outshine them everything's a threat and must be removed just like David David is a threat to saw so what did he do he tried to kill him someone tried to help these priests will someone help David in the in the cave of a deulim and he got angry about it he killed 85 priests just because they helped David you helped my enemy then you got to go to see how this isn't the Spirit of God God doesn't work this way how we've been deceived in the body of Christ others are a threat and must be removed so Saul kept trying to get rid of David throwing spears given him in his daughter with wrong motives to try to make him unhappy and miserable always manipulating always a game always has to win always has to be on top and even when you know they're not playing they're playing they can be gifted talented brilliant but one of the things you see you see a driven Asst they believe they have a special mission from God and you're not going to get in the way of it I could say stuff here but I won't they are always right and you're always wrong their behavior doesn't match up with what they preach they preach on but there is no love you can see in people's staff in their home life what they're like and if there's not love there there's not love because those are the people that are closest so what if you walk in you see everybody bowels down everyone's afraid to talk everyone's can't give my opinion that's abusive atmosphere no love as a leader a narcissist would have followers power admiration special privileges and they always have to dominate and dazzle they feel specially gifted and you are not so you better follow them there's different types of narcissists and we can't go on to them but I just want to hit the the ones that come to church they're bullies always putting co-workers down always putting down family members behind their back they're very strong cowards they don't like to go to people they always send someone else to straighten you out they very seldom will will take care of their own business they have to have their little flying monkeys do all the work or the the little minion the little minions the big bullies and churches go big or go home because they fantasize about greatness and all the great things that God's told them to do in church people are used then discarded with no remorse it's next next this one's a better singer I want this one well what are you gonna do with that one just tell them they're done you don't do that to loyal people you don't treat God's people like this why do they act this way because they were neglected and abused when they were growing up which creates insecure attachment style and I talked about that last week they're not properly attached they can't properly have healthy relationships because they fear abandonment there's such abandonment issues they don't trust anyone so there's never a healthy relationship and I don't care where it is it's it's it's not a normal healthy relationship remember again narcissists are religious they're not spiritual religion is man-made man centered two ministers are spiritual there's a whole difference about man centered and most of these people they fear intimacy you don't see them a lot of times they don't know how to truly enter into worship they won't surrender they won't give themself on there you don't see them on their faces worshipping God they're always like in to the praise the power that they don't like intimacy and they don't like intimacy in relationship so you never can get them to really be vulnerable or tell you about themselves they always keep you at a distance and they keep God at a distance so you're gonna see a wake of strife and division and all this is a perfect climate for abuse playing God he puts people's lives at risk for the sake of the greater good well we're gonna get rid of this song or this musician or this why because there's a better one for the greater good that's the way the Illuminati is you know that we're gonna get rid of the population we're gonna depopulate why for the greater good mother earth needs to be loved so we're gonna kill all the people thank you for all those amens they state what they do is for God but the end of the day it's all about them they're not servant leaders they dictate and control their sermons are always about them Christian behavior is easy to fake and many in the church are naive and gullible and vulnerable to manipulation they're always surrounded by yes-man they're always the strong godly prophets are always kicked out they don't like to be second-guessed they don't like to be told they're wrong okay I'm gonna go fast here okay I believe they have a broken conscience in their world they're always right they dismiss and minimize their faults it's all about their world and their reputation and they need to be on center stage now they won't admit this and many of them don't even see this about themselves but it's a pattern of relationships it's a pattern of abuse and people that leave so wounded and hurt and they're never restored driven to achieve greater things in an effort to feel good about themselves many of the things they're building is not about God God didn't tell them to do it they don't care the burden they put on the congregation as long as they can build something and they feel better about themselves isn't that sick their worst enemy is themselves they always sabotage whatever is going great for some reason they have to destroy it and that's why they're their real battle is themself and they're they destroy things they destroy people they destroy things it's just a matter of time this is the other thing you need to understand because if they can control you by you feeling sorry for them they have power over you they control you through pity now they're the victim and because they're the victim you have to feel sorry for them and if you fall for it now they're controlling you so they have many people that defend them because they're being controlled and manipulated through self-pity through fear so they stand up for these people they defend them so when they're hurt they act like a victim and they smear their enemies they demand pity look at Saul many people were denied unconditional love warmth and attention acceptance from their parents and they become bitter about it they become emotionally broken and as a result of being emotionally broken they use others to gain advantage it's a sense of power and control to dominate and use them only to discard or throw them away later this is one of the things I've seen in ministry that I just could not understand next next always looking out for someone better to replace this person aren't you glad God doesn't do that to us like a vampire they go from one victim to the victim to another victim and never gain healthy relationships they continue this cycle of abuse they were shown this is all they know be and then it becomes I believe it's a mental demonic thing because they just keep on doing this their cycle doesn't get broken the only way and I've studied some of this the only way a lot of these people can get help is they have to fail they have to keep failing so bad that they finally cry out to God you can't depend on yourself you can't depend and we all have issues that we could say this this isn't this we come to a point we know I can't do this on my own I got to cry out to God so many times pray they fail because then they can get help they can get broken they can get truly connected to God and realize you know what I'm not such a great thing because really inside they don't feel they're great it's a false self it's a fake thing that they have to put on that's why it's image but inside they don't have an inner life with God they're not really walking with the Lord they continue the cycle of abuse they were shown it needs to be repented of grieved over and work through amen oh did I get through this okay one more thing I want to just share a couple things out of this book how am i doing for time what's that okay I should close right here I just want to just a couple of things because I might not get you guys again here on this state vindictiveness and smear campaigns against people who disagree with them or refuse to tolerate their manipulation you have to know if you're going into a minister and they're smearing people you better be careful because you might be listening to the wrong person a true minister of God doesn't smear people it's I mean that's that should be a first clue let me go through this really quick what do nurses is love and want power admiration sympathy attention prestige money popularity pity control influence possessions recognition entitlement unquestioning loyalty narcissists typically hide the feelings they think will cost them power and will show you whatever feelings they think will help them gain influence over you charm flattery what do they hate two more things they hate being ignored they hate being questioned they hate being seen as common being criticized being disobeyed being disregarded having to respect other people's boundaries being coming in second jealous and envy is always there being told they can't do something or have something they always say watch me I always get what I want normal people don't say that they hate having to follow the same rules as everyone else not getting to be the boss not being allowed special privileges not getting their way not being well served now this is where Christians have fallen into this spirit we got to serve Hitler we got a serf Hitler being told they're wrong they can't stand it or will not tolerate people that are not yes people again they know when they feel sorry for them they have a lot of power over you no matter the setting the narcissist will be the one expressing disdain for others trying to be the boss trying not to follow the rules upsetting everyone else upsetting everyone else is not normal you shouldn't live in or work in an atmosphere where they're always trying to upset people and set people against each other lying great liars in the name of God God told me to tell you this manipulating creating problems and trying to gain attention admiration or pity and last why how do narcissus react to being ignored they hate being ignored they can be expected to get very upset about it if they feel overlooked and heated or treated as an unimportant ignoring a narcissist can bring on their rage which typically leads to any number of bad behaviors Tantrums and this is a thing some of these people act like they're 10 12 years old these Tantrums they have that's where they're mentally and emotionally stuck you're like are you seriously an adult they're stuck in this this pain of wherever they were at and they haven't grown up and they bring on this rage which typically leads to temper tantrums manipulation smearing grandstanding lying playing victim nasty retaliations and refusing to cooperate after their most common reaction are their most common reactions hallelujah let's pray father we thank you that you can show us who the souls are who the Absalom's are they're mixed you said that the wheat and the tares are gonna grow together and we pray for some of these people Lord that we know they have a heart but they need to get their heart right right before you and stop abusing your people in your name so father God we thank you that this YouTube will be sent to the people that need it the people that need it now we thank you Father wherever they are and this goes to different states and different places even countries Lord we pray for this to fall into the hands of the right people that they can come free they can be delivered they can separate from these abusive type people sometimes it's no contact they just have to get delivered they have to walk it out and get free from these people Lord we ask you for the wisdom to do what you want us to do in this hour but we thank you for the light the insight and the teaching we thank you for the Holy Spirit and everyone said amen

Channel: Roberta Morrison

Views: 26,073

Rating: 4.903904 out of 5

Keywords: Roberta Morrison, Living In His Presence Church, Bible teaching

Id: TLYmOJhv8OY

Length: 45min 28sec (2728 seconds)

Published: Sun Jan 10 2016