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when you are actually ready to know who someone is and to and to sort through that i don't mean sort through if they bring you immense trauma and toxicity and all of that's not your job to sort through that but i mean to to you know that that gradual illuminating of who we are that happens when you actually take time with someone to get to know them and they get to know you and you know sometimes there are things where you're like don't love that don't love that but but you see that the raw materials that they have are actually very very good they're quite beautiful again i'm not saying there's a giant red flag that gets thrown up but you say but they're really attractive and we have great chemistry i'm not saying that i'm saying when you can see that someone's who they are as a human being and the kind of teammate they would be is really solid and and then it's the business of of knowing what you're willing to make peace with and of course we always we we tend to forget this someone else is going to have to make peace with certain parts of us right we don't we don't come perfect the friend of mine in london went through the thing you know where he his mom he kept leaving relationships over and over and over again and his mom said to him you know what's going on he said i just i feel like you know there's always something better there's always i there's that you know there's more there's i i shouldn't have to settle that i could get everything in one person and she said i i hate to be the one to break it to you but you're not perfect what you're asking for right now you're not bringing and and so i think that there's a when people fall in love too quickly i often think they're not ready and when people never fall in love i often think they're not ready both can be true because if we never fall if we never like anybody it's almost we're discounting people all the time on on on things that we perhaps shouldn't be discounting them on assuming we're in the dating game you know if we if we're meeting one person a year then it come everybody is in a great sample group but if you are in the process of meeting people dating getting to know people we you know there's there really is there's beauty in people there's beauty in people and people come alive when they feel seen and understood and not judged you

Channel: Matthew Hussey

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Length: 3min 21sec (201 seconds)

Published: Thu Sep 23 2021