The Saddest Break Up Stories 😢😢😢 (r/AskReddit)

what's the worst way of so has broken up with you have her new boyfriend pick her up without letting me know that we've broken up dated for five years mostly long-distance he broke up with me the day before I got a job offer in the city he was moving till after graduation we now live near each other he had his mom break up with me for him Oh high school WTF that is the strangest way I can imagine a breakup going back in 1994 I went to Burning Man with my gf at the time long story short I packed it in early 3:00 a.m. one night and when I woke up she was gonna stall apparently she'd met some dude the night before and ended up going home to Portland with him never saw her again only know the whole story because one of her friends took pity on me and told me what had happened just about a month ago my so just cut off all contact randomly no goodbyes no anything we weren't currently fighting or anything severe last time I saw her was actually a very pleasant time it was just over like that kinda sucks I was away in San Jose CA for a week of training for work my wife takes the opportunity to move all her stuff out later tells me thank you for marrying me after her and her lawyer take me to the cleaners later on I get unsolicited email updates about her life crazy B I'm not interested in you or your life after you freaked me over fast forward a year and half later and I'm working my way through a five-year plan accomplishing things I would never have been able to with her in my life life is beautiful again after all the pain during a phone call with a friend we were making plans for a huge party in the next month and he mentioned that the party would collide with my work herm what your girlfriend told me that you said you couldn't go on holiday with her due to work so she asked me whether I'd take the spot in the booking because it's non-refundable I assumed that this was your idea so I didn't mention it to you earlier thank God for honest gross facebook messenger on my birthday which was also prom night phoned the police and accused me of groping the kids left at the altar two different women we'd been together for 2.5 years I had just bought a condo that we had planned on moving into and starting a family in out of nowhere I come home to a letter on my pillow and a bag of things I left at her place the letter said that it was over but not why it was over I tried calling her up but she had blocked my number so had her best friend and parents almost three years later and I still have absolutely no idea what happened or why she left and I still can't really afford the condo all by myself oh and my very first GF in high school just kept ignoring and avoiding me until I eventually just got the hint that really sucked too I planned a surprise hot air balloon ride for our one-year anniversary on our drive there she said she was getting back together with her ex that was a long freakin 90 minutes in a basket with her I ended up getting hammered on champagne and bass on the balloon operators car keys she told me I know you can't help it but it really bothers me that you're not American like if we got married and had kids they wouldn't be normal kids you know English is my first language and I've lived in America since I was a toddler my bad B you escaped consider yourself lucky we'd been together two years lived together won and had been remodeling her house she told me I should stay with my brother for a week while hunting so that we could save money on the gas it would take to do the one hour one way Drive every day it would also give us some time apart as we had been getting into little humans I agreed that it would be a nice little split and we could then go stronger than ever I thought we were on the same page and unannounced to her had asked permission from her family to marry her we talked on the phone every day and I even came back one day for her mom's day I was supposed to be back Sunday afternoon to do laundry and get stuff ready for work Monday morning she casually told me during a discussion at 11:00 p.m. Saturday night that she didn't want me to be in her house and that I needed to find someplace else to live but made a couple calls to get some place to stay and when I went to get my work stuff found out she had all of my stuff packed in boxes already apparently she had been telling everybody for the entire week that we had already broken up what makes it worse was that we both had kids and second grade and she was always stressing that we were a family also found out after that she had been going to lunch dates with another guy and pretending they were business meetings - she basically left my son and me and our dog homeless fortunately I've got some good friends that jumped in to help out row Frick that woman I broke up with myself really I unlocked her iPad and I was greeted with a Google search for advice on how to dump someone you live with claw twist her close friend was asking for advice about how to dump someone she lives with we were together three years and then had to make it into a long-distance relationship as she moved abroad for work we are doing our best to keep it together and going into I buy our ticket to visit her in New York we are English and then a few days before I'm gonna fly out she calls and says she doesn't want me to come and see her anymore after that things fizzled out pretty quickly I never thought she wouldn't want to see me so that really hurt at least she didn't make you fly out and pay for a ticket only to send you home I guess : I broke up with someone on April Fool's Day by accident she went to stay with a friend my friend and texted me that she wasn't coming back ended up hooking up with him and leaving me with a three-month-old child the things she said before she left - I have trouble thinking about them she didn't say anything maliciously either it was all well thought out and it was clear that she meant every word about having never had feelings for me and all the rest I have never been such a broken human that was over five years ago and I still haven't regained the sense of empathy that I used to have I was in the middle of a game of sieve and she expected me to stop so she could break up with me I mean God dang woman you're already dumping me don't freak up my game as well trick diplomacy start that Manhattan Project everyone is getting a nuke now halfway through a handy on my birthday over text ignored me for a week beforehand zero stroke ten would not recommend exact same thing happened to me can confirm this is indeed zero stroke ten about three years ago now I was living with my so for about a year we had been together for a while before that and things were awesome at first over the course of the year things started to change sex was sporadic she would stay out late at night and I always had a feeling something was up just never any proof so at one point we were planning on moving back home near her parents we spent two months planning this and saving meanwhile things continued she got a DUI kept staying out late saying she was working to get ot and all that stuff we were fighting a lot and things were pretty stressful and tense eventually a few days before we were supposed to move out she disappeared all three days and wouldn't return a single call or text I was pretty worried and scared I spent the last day in our apartment alone drinking a bottle of whiskey to myself sad and depressed not knowing where she was or what was going on the last day around 3:00 a.m. I hear a knock on the door and it's the police I'm really drunk still and also super worried I'm about to hear some awful news instead the cops immediately handcuff me as I see her come around the corner with some guy they restrain me as I'm yelling at her what is going on and who this guy is the cops tell me to shut up and that they are there for her safety because she told them I threatened violence to her which never happened i sat there handcuffed and crying while she took everything all hers and mine while her new boyfriend laughter to me and she left the cops told me if I stepped out the door I would be arrested immediately took off with everything and left me in California with nothing so pretty battled in all I've spent the last 2-3 years trying desperately to get my life back together and it's been nothing but crap luck and more bad relationships since then if this is legit you should sue the police department they essentially aided a burglary had her friends meet me by the bus lanes after school said they had a message for me proceeded to throw confetti in my face while saying she's dumping you later on that same chick accused me of our ping her I was 12 years old middle school was a confusing time this is how I broke up with my first girlfriend it was at the end of sixth grade so we were going out in that middle schooler sense of the term she would call me up pretty much every day and I would listen to her talk only saying a few things every now and then one day I decided it was enough so after an hour of listening to her I told her I didn't want to go out with her anymore I didn't think it was so bad but starting in seventh grade she started a downhill spiral into drugs that landed her in rehab by the middle of high school my friends would always jokingly say I was the root of her problems not your fault everyone makes their own choices my ex GF got me fired from my job then as opposed to talking to me about it she went to her party because it was the last party she was going to before she went to take part in an internship we never really spoke again this didn't happen to me but I knew everyone involved my brothers run mate had a good job as a waiter in an expensive restaurant it was his dream to live in Hawaii he had been there on vacation twice and loved it he saved all his money to pay for himself and his girlfriend to move to Hawaii and live for three months assuming neither of them found a job they moved to Hawaii and he found a good job as a waiter before a month was out she didn't find any job and became extremely unhappy fast forward two months and they have spent all the money he had to move back to the mainland Portland Oregon three days later she broke up with him for good Facebook shot on April Fool's Day at 11 a.m. while I was at my job also it a workday where I had to do several long interviews with severely depressed patients I thought he was joking he was not joking I cried under my desk in between patients April Fool's Day is forever ruined text message we were in the same University course and classes and lived in the same building that was an awkward next four years around them this happened to my room mate but it was such a weird unnecessarily criminal way to break up with someone they were both PhD students a couple years away from graduating and had been dating for two years when he breaks up with her his reasoning was that eventually when they went on the job market he was going to be a professor at a much more successful school than her since his research was so great and hers was inferior and uninteresting he didn't want her dragging him down when he was picking a job I mean breakups are devastating enough good to bring the person's intelligence and potential career path into it is just crappy the two most important things in her life at the time were him and her research and he just shat all over both things in one fell swoop even when she was over him she was still freaked out about what he'd said about her research though intellectually she knew that he was in butthole and an idiot the kicker will she found out a few months later that he had started dating his roommates sister right after they broke up and had probably been seeing the sister behind her back for a few weeks so that was clearly the real reason in why he decided that it was nicer to tell someone you were leaving them because they were stupid and would be unsuccessful later in life than that you have found someone else is still a complete mystery to me to those who want to know what happened to them he hasn't graduated yet and is still in school and my friend decided to go into the private sector instead of academia and is now making Matt Bank called Mia see and said he was done with me on the microphone while he was be jing at my birthday party in our local bar in front of all my friends the amazing part was we got back together after that then broke up again four months later without explanation or further contact it's only been a few days but I'm doing surprisingly well though Frick you I'm not slowing my life down to be sad over someone that decided to discard me without notice ghosting man that crap sucks arse my wife of ten years announced her infidelity with a co-worker and our divorce two days before Christmas last year then decided to clean out the house on Christmas Eve a day later I came home to a sad empty house on Christmas Eve she even took our dinner to share with her newfound love and because everywhere else was closed I ate beans from a condemned made a cheese sandwich we shared an apartment in California and she was visiting her mother in Peru where she is from she expected to be gone for several months about five months later I was at a small party with a bunch of our friends and overheard someone say something about her new husband four years ago in college I introduced my gf to my entire life best friend who happened to come with me to the same College after a few days I found them at the library they had met to study without telling me anything but didn't suspect a thing there flirting was intense even in front of my face later on I asked my friend to stop when we were alone he said he was sorry that she was very cute next day we go for some beers best friend tells me again that bros before hoes one hour later they are making out in front of me at a party AOL instant messenger heartbroken an hour after I had the surgery to remove our miscarriage child he did this through text two weeks ago he texted me late at night and said I love you I tried to call him but he didn't answer drove to his house where I was informed by the officers there that he hung himself I guess dying is pretty crappy god I miss him I've lived through two suicides family not and so that being said please don't hesitate to reach out for help survivor's guilt is some heavy crap and will mess you up learn from me and get help before you hit rock bottom not after my heart goes out to you well apparently there's a word for it and it's called being ghosted which basically means he just stops all communication with me suddenly I never got an explanation to why he wanted to break up I had been with her for four and a half years got engaged on our four-year anniversary while planning to get married on our fifth we had been living together for about a year and a half I go away for a month for Fahmy training and a few days before I get back she tells me she has something special planned for when I get home she picks me up right from my armory and we drive down to Cedar Point one of our favorite places and where we got engaged we spend the night in a nice hotel spend the next day at the park and then drive home but she drops me off back at the armory so I can get my vehicle and tells me she'll meet me at home I Drive home and she's not there I go inside and all of her stuff is gone I get a text a few minutes later saying I don't want to see you anymore please don't ever talk to me again never heard from her again I tried calling and texting no answer I check her Facebook and find I being blocked I have a mutual friend check it and he tells me she already changed it to in a relationship with a guy from her work a younger sister ends up telling me that she had been cheating on me with him for about six months so basically right after I proposed and she said yes we went out for lunch on the day we took possession of the upstairs suite in the house we were living in we made love he kissed me when I went for work told me to have a good day and then moved all his crap out he moved all my stuff upstairs so at least I had that but I came home to all his crap gone almost three years recovering from cancer found now she was cheating due to me getting more attention than her it was Valentine's Day I ordered food from the best restaurant in town I got her a box of chocolates and some flowers I set up the dinner on a table in my small dorm room with a candle she had social anxiety and didn't like going out I got a text from her that she wanted us to break up so she can be with her long-distance ex-girlfriend straight up no explanation we were 16 and trolling around the mall on a date one Friday night and we sat down on one of the couches in Best Buy that they have in front of their TV displays we were joking around and at a lull in the conversation she broke up with me I kept asking why and she said it's not a big deal just stop asking never got an actual explanation it left me pretty freaked up because I had no idea what I did wrong and it left me with trust issues that I had to work through he broke up with me and got back together with me four times all in the span of maybe six months I was in high school and was too stupid to know better and the final time he said he never actually liked me he just didn't want to see me cry and then a couple years after that he ended up are paying my best friend by providing me with a letter of reference for future lovers if you are new to the channel you can subscribe I publish new videos every day until then check another video [Music] bye for now [Music]

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Length: 18min 33sec (1113 seconds)

Published: Tue Nov 12 2019