She cheated, so I got with her MOM! - r/aita - Reddit Relationships

remember to subscribe for daily ridded stories okay story time nuclear ghosting revenge on cheating fiance [Music] first time posting long time reader short time member of rendit not sure if this is pro revenge nuclear revenge or nuclear ghosting but here goes the players are myself fiance and casemon time frame 2013 and it has obviously been several years since the incident and i literally have never told anyone in my new life about this tonight i have some good wine to drink and figure i'll let my fingers do the talking i thought i had met the perfect woman we met in the last year of college we met at a party and hit it off instantly she was a beautiful blonde with sun kissed skin and she could have been a model think kate upton type figure she was kind compassionate sympathetic good listener and had an active life with many friends she liked my friends and it was awesome over the three years we knew each other in how our friend groups merged several of our friends began dating each other it was some of the best times of my life i was on for a post grad in finance and she had a degree in contractual law this is just to say we ended up being successful in our own rights but i'm no slouch in the looks department either 5 feet 11 inches 190 pounds and like the gym i wasn't a super athlete but let's just say i was built but i was slash am very shy and didn't have a lot of prior relationships prior to meeting her the first evening we met we were smitten first night we talked all night then it went to texting slash phone calls daily then dates weekly then after a year when i started working my new job she moved in i loved her family and her family loved me mostly her mother as her father was standard fish as he was to everyone it was a whirlwind romance after two and a half blissful years of overseas vacations hiking trips and luxury vacations i proposed to her she said yes i was over the moon she was doing all the planning for the wedding we were talking about our futures together buying a house children and family trips that we were going to take together and all such things like that then it happened one evening after we both get home to our apartment she is a little distant i think i noticed it right away as we were always very affectionate towards each other this would only happen about once a week for the first month after proposal then it was more frequent i would have been none the wiser except that i used to listen to a lot of reddit on youtube so i waited and observed these bouts of ignoring me would only last a couple of hours then she would be right back to normal but after six months wedding in a year she was like this almost every night sex was still great relationship with her parents still great but over thanksgiving at her parents home in lowersville kentucky we lived just north of dc she was stand a fish towards me in front of her mother now her mother was a very observant woman she pulled her daughter aside to talk to her and i could hear them arguing after some heated but muffled words they returned to the rest of the family and carried on like nothing was going on i figured i could ask her about it later and did she was not willing to talk about it and asked me to wait till we were home to discuss it i agreed as i loved her deeply and thought we could work through anything her mother was an older version of her same stunning looks just a few greys in her long thick blonde hair this is important later back home i asked her about it and she was unwilling to discuss it when pressed on it for a week she finally confessed that a guy at her work was trying to get to know her better she wanted to be forthcoming so she showed me her phone and as i looked through it i noticed that all the texts that would have happened during the time she was withdrawing from me were removed there was nothing and to ward in the texts but i did go into her phone settings and turned on her locator on her phone as we shared the same phone plan and i honestly thought it would make me see that she was not doing anything wrong was i wrong that second weekend after thanksgiving she had a company christmas party i had planned on going but came down with food poisoning and had to back out she had a girlfriend pick her from our apartment as they planned on drinking a lot i had a dd for the evening we had planned on going out all night so i told her to have a blast and i would see her in the morning so as i'm puking my guts out and barely able to get off the toilet for more than 30 minutes i grabbed my phone and watched her location first it was a restaurant then the venue of the company party then a bar none of this alarmed me until i saw her phone stop in a downtown hotel at this point i was miserable in more ways than three projectile vomiting out my butt mouth and now soul i finally fell asleep due to sheer exhaustion at 2am at 7am i awoke and saw she was still at the hotel at noon she finally comes home and i'm on the mend she loves me up and i asked her about the previous night without mentioning anything about knowing her locations she talks about the restaurant party the bar but then says she went to her girlfriend's house to crash for the evening first lie for the next three months she has to start working later and later three to four days a week as i start asking her about it she becomes more and more defensive i talked to her mom one evening when fiance didn't come home until late i asked her mom about the thanksgiving conversation and she admitted to me that she thought her daughter might be stepping out of our relationship because of how she read her body language she also said that her daughter was being more and more distant with her in their weekly texting conversations with all this speculation that was going on in my mind i kept it to myself two weeks later at work i ended up getting a new project at my company that was going to require me to fly to the midwest monday through friday for the next five weeks starting in two weeks it came with an increase in salary and as i broke the news to my fiance she was delighted for me i didn't think though that she was excited for the same reasons i was so i went online and ordered four motion activated spy cameras for my apartment i put one in the living room slash entry area one in the kitchen one in our bedroom and one looking down a hallway they were very small and connected to the internet via a hidden network so they couldn't be spotted on the wii fee network i secured the cams with a password and waited on my first week out she had girlfriends over the first two nights and never worked late once the third night a guy came over i was enraged i'm sitting there in my hotel room screaming at the monitor and calling her every name in the book then they went all the way first on the couch then in our bed she bent for ways for him that i didn't know were possible what was the worst was as i'm watching them get it on i call her to see how her day went she hears her phone ringing and holds her hand up for him to stop giving her anal and answers a call i ask why she is breathing heavy and said she was at the gym working out as soon as the call is over she goes right back to doing the dirty when i got home friday evening i ignored her and went right to bed and early saturday got up and went cycling i was so upset that i didn't even realize that i biked over 50 miles from our apartment the furthest i had biked before was 30 miles but that day i went 105.6 miles getting back absolutely exhausted i showered then she and i went out that evening and had fun with our friends and had a lot to drink is it break up sex when the one you're going to break up with is oblivious i was bursting inside heartbreak anger rage feelings of betrayal swirled around in my heart and mind she who used to be so attentive was oblivious to all this it hurt so much because i loved her so much i finally confided in one of our mutual friends and he told me that they all knew about it for months i was finally told they all felt sorry for me but no one again said a damn thing to me which is why they stopped inviting us out with them i hadn't noticed it before but i could look back and see that about three months prior they gradually invited us me less and less so i figured i would try and win her back the next weekend i planned the entire weekend as a complete weekend of spoiling her in every way whined and dined pampering massages rubs and talking to her about future plans and about how much i loved her i knew i was starting to break through when after her fourth glass of wine she started to cry and i could tell the guilt was coming up to the surface i asked her what was wrong but she would choke up every time she tried to speak i then told her that if she did something in her past or was having some kind of conflict in her mind that she needed to speak to me about that i was more than willing to talk with her about it and if forgiveness was needed then i was more than willing to forgive and move on the only words that came out of her mouth in her was how much she loved me it actually hurt to hear that from her as i now had four separate videos of her and the other guy in our apartment getting it on over the next eight weeks of traveling to the midwest the trips lasted for what would be 10 weeks i recorded over 41 hours of her having sex with what i found out was her coworker she never worked late once while i was gone i tried every weekend to be extra retentive and each week she got more and more distant after watching this for eight weeks i was done so i devised a 12-step getaway plan gather evidence get her out of the way in order to execute my plan i scheduled a two-week exclusive getaway trip for us at an all-inclusive resort barbados she was ecstatic then a week before the trip i claimed i had to back out and told her to take a friend i knew it was over when she showed no disappointment that i couldn't go she scheduled coworker to go with her terminate our apartment lease it would expire three days into her trip and i was the sole signature on the lease find a job in another town the company i had been assisting in the midwest had offered me a job at with a slight increase in salary find a new place to live i got an apartment in the above said location when she is gone perform the following six take her to the airport go back home and pack all her things same day saturday seven get a new phone number slash phone slash mail cancel all social media monday eight separate us completely in regard to finances withdrawal monies from our joint accounts and then close them i put all her money in an envelope and packed it in her things monday nine have the movers pack all my things up and ship it west monday 10 take all her things to her mother's house 600 miles away all my fiance belongings fit into the back and bed of my f-250 crew cab tuesday through saturday 11 give her mother the evidence 12. start my new life i didn't want to do anything that was illegal so i made sure that nothing of hers was missing it was so hard to pack all her stuff nice and neatly away i never cried so hard in my life i have read so many times on reddit about so saying they will never do it again when caught but they don't stop my hope was that she would genuinely confess so we could forgive and move on she never did twice she came really close but her secret was too hard for her to reveal tuesday morning i left our apartment north of dc for the last time it took 10 hours to get to her mom's house what happened when i got there i was not prepared for i arrived at her mom's house around eight in the evening i figured she would be surprised to see me since i was coming down unannounced since they lived in a gated community i had to buzz her house from the front gate so she was waiting for me outside when i drove up i could tell that she had been crying when i walked up to see her i asked her what was wrong and she hugged me bowling that she thought her husband was cheating on her with a much younger skinnier and prettier woman dumbfounded i just held her for what was probably 10 minutes she soaked my right shoulder with her tears and snot when she finally composed herself i asked if we could go in a talk we went in and i asked where her husband was and she indicated that he said he was going fishing with his buddies at a remote cabin an hour away then she said he hates fishing she gave me all the indications that she had picked up on and apparently it had been going on for about a year so doing a little bit of research we found a credit card hold charge for a five-star hotel that was only 20 minutes away on-call later confirmed her husband was in fact there for a four night stage eating with his mistress two peas in a pod i said what she responded two peas in a pod i said again your husband is cheating on you and your daughter is cheating on me that's why i came here to drop her stuff off and move to xxx i showed her the evidence in a binder on screen captures i had made after looking at the first three or four pages she looked at me dumbfounded we both hugged and cried for a good 30 minutes at that point she said stop crying and looked at me and said well tonight there is nothing we can do about it except for you and i to knock out these three bottles of moscato and [ __ ] in every room of the house she grabbed two wine glasses and a bottle of moscato wine and walked out to their private pool deck saying are you coming out here or are you going to get [ __ ] revenge now i won't go into much detail because i don't want to get blue balls but that night and for the next three days we [ __ ] non-stop i put myself in every hole her beautiful body could offer i must have see asterisk asterisk a median or on her 25 plus times in that period after those days were over we passionately said goodbye and i drove to my new destination she kept me informed as to everything that happened when now xvmk got back the day fiance got back was epic i cancelled my phone the morning of the day she got back so when the plane landed and she called for a ride it indicated the phone was disconnected she apparently hit her lover take her home he dropped her off and left when she came to the door a strange couple new tenants answered the door and she freaked out i can't tell you how many times she tried to call me because again the number was no longer valid she went to her girlfriends to stay for a time as coworker was already married when she called her mom in a panic her mom told her that i had come down and dropped off all her things and mentioned that all her monies were down there as well 600 miles away her mom didn't tell her that she had f asterisk asterisk ked me more in three days than fiance and i had in the last six months but she did tell her that she knew that she was cheating on me and i said i had found a new job place to stay a new career far away from her and all the friends we had and that her mother was separating from her father due to infidelity apparently she cried for days and took a week off of work but alas she found comfort in the arms of her married lover her mom never let her know where i was at i had completely cut off that part of my life the only link i had to that old life was fiance's mom and she has kept our secret to this day fiance was ghosted the most dead [Music] thanks for watching don't forget to like subscribe and comment if you enjoyed the video

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Length: 16min 21sec (981 seconds)

Published: Sun Sep 06 2020