r/EntitledParents - Entitled mother CRUSHED this bus driver

[Music] what's up guys welcome to Zack I'm your host daily dose of Reddit and today's parent is our slash entitled subreddit this story's called my mom thinks my sister is entitled to my grandparents will so this is a generally long story dating back about eight or nine years ago from the beginning until now I'll throw in a bit of context here to help you understand the situation a little bit better my grandparents on my father's side of the family are really well-off in wealth they practically owned all of the lands within a small city environment that was inherited for my grandfather's father before him and split between himself and his two siblings they do business and renting out the land to companies farmers and homeowners from my understanding this has brought my grandfather's life worth up to roughly about 2.8 billion dollars within his lifespan before he passed away my grandparents encouraged a lifestyle where we need to make our own way within the world but they are willing to help out with certain expenses such as school funds rent homeownership and sometimes even smaller things like vet bills shopping etc now we can get on to the story so about roughly nine years ago my sister had graduated from high school and had earned a two-year scholarship to her dream college but she couldn't afford much more than that and wouldn't be able to buy everything she needed for those two years our grandparents had graciously decided to help her out with the funding they paid for her dorm room her transportation fees her books her food tickets and everything else she would need for the four years or so that she attended even granting her extra money for anything else she might want to do on the sidelines or anything she might need for school this included monthly paychecks for gas and extra food so my mom gave her our old car my grandparents paid for everything else she'd need and she was off for her college experience throughout her four or so years of college my sister changed her major three times failed to graduate because of constantly changing your classes and spent a good majority of her money on partying and hauling her friends around taking everyone out to expensive restaurants and eating out often there was a time during her years attending college where my grandparents had overpaid they forgot they had paid for the year's dorms and classes already and sent in a double payment where the school decided to refundable ere it came from or who it belonged to she just decided to waste the extra $12,000 that she got back on partying and eating out more often than she had before because more money right this greatly upset our grandparents because she had stolen their money without even bothering to ask them about it to begin with as she was supposed to return it to them this was the first mistake she had made with them by the end of her last year she was supposed to graduate still had a ceremony but didn't graduate any specific class or job choice everyone decided to join together to help her celebrate her time and effort in school we're talking around maybe 20 people who flew in from all across the country to join her this included great aunts great uncles cousins our aunt our dad and stepmom stepmoms grand crotch goblins and finally our grandparents themselves it's likely although not specifically known of that our grandparents had paid for everyone else's travel expenses including plane tickets hotel rooms and more our grandpa was in very poor health at that time already he never travelled because it was hard on him strapped to an oxygen tank and wheelchair bound at the time for them it had been roughly a nine-hour drive to her college which was located high up in the mountains which only made it harder for our granddad to be there so everyone had gathered from far and wide to help celebrate her achievements and congratulate her personally but mice stur was in a pissy mood from the very beginning and conveniently decided to have a mental breakdown which was basically her just throwing a tantrum and she basically in short words decided to just say screw it she blew everyone else off and avoided them like the plague she talked to our dad and our stepmom and that was it she refused to talk to our grandparents and ignored everyone else who had shown up before leaving the campus I spent time with our grandparents and our other relatives in her stead because holy hell that was rude even I hate her for that and then I left with our mom to help her finish packing up her dorm room so she can move back down to the city which by the way she didn't help us she just sat there huffing and being pissy the entire time we hauled everything out to her car so we finished and got a phone call from our grandma nanny who said that we all needed to meet up with them in xx place because they had all gathered together at the hotel they were staying at to throw her a very expensive party to celebrate with her but my sister decided to ignore them and went to visit dad instead at his hotel shortly before making a straight drive back down into the city this was her second mistake which greatly pissed off our grandparents and relatives she didn't give a damn so a few years past my sister never really cared nor tried to keep contact with our grandparents save for the one time she approached them to show off her boyfriend and nanny had torn into her about how disrespectful and rude she had been to which my mother defended my sister and lied about the money she stole and said it had been her own and eventually in October of 2017 our grandfather started ailing beyond a point of returning his body was starting to fail and he was getting ready to pass on we had to force my sister to join us to visit him one last time before he passed he had passed away on the 17th he deliberately we believe cuts his oxygen supply off in himself go after all their family and friends had gone to say goodbye for the last time so now it was just nany and I swear every time I visited her which was often after he first had passed she was going off about my sister stealing from them and being disrespectful and how mom was trying to cover for her and I knew I mean it wasn't anything new to me my mom would always defend my sisters every action good or bad but I did eventually try to gently tell her to let it go that it wasn't worth clinging on to because it would only stress her out and make her unhappy and miserable if she did she didn't want to let it go and I doubt it was over the money in general I believe it was more because of her disrespectful attitude and coldness toward them granddaddy had a will written out that granted all of us even my sister at first roughly one hundred fifty to two hundred eighty thousand dollars in a trust fund that we would continue to grow over the years but wouldn't be accessible to us until after Nani died and well I guess three years later she still hasn't been able to let that incident go because we just got a letter in the mail from the lawyer about a week ago saying that Nani removed my sister from the will I don't blame her for it my sister is a real piece of work she's money hungry spoiled just bad in general she's our mom's little angel so she gets away with everything and never thinks or cares about anything she does my mom got so angry about that letter though that she actually threatened to sue my grandma for moving my sister off of the will she went as far as to call my grandmother to complain about it but chickened out of going off on her because nany is just one of those people you don't want to piss off she instead demanded that I share my portion of the will with my sister and I told her no she's an idiot my sister deserve this and I'll never see it as anything other why's she only ever visited for money she never bothered to speak to them otherwise either whether they accepted her warmly or not didn't matter she was extremely rude and never felt any remorse for her actions towards them or anyone else in the family I don't blame her for removing my sister as of now it's her money and her right to remove my sister if she feels necessary to do so my mom is an idiot for wanting to take her into court over it my mom has never seen a problem with how disrespectful and rude my sister had been and continues to be and that's exactly why she was removed my grandma says granddaddy did it before he passed whether that's true or not I doubted honestly but in any case I don't blame her my sister is like our parents greedy money-hungry and selfish people edit I'll be turning off notifications and stop responding to responses because it's absolutely wrecking my phone's battery ha I just wanted to clear a few things up here first as I've seen them often in responses I'm not gonna try to voice that my mom is not at all considered a part of the family she has no part in the will so she can't give my sister crap no I don't live a lavish lifestyle just because my grandparents are wealthy they still believe in hard work and my grandma doesn't throw money around just for anything she'll help pay for schooling sometimes small things like rent if we get an apartment but aside from this we have to work for everything we own this money is in a trust fund that nobody can access until she dies and even then it's linked meaning it affects all of our accounts if someone withdraws to encourage us to continue working and making our own way in life we can withdraw money but we have to pay it back like a loan and it diminishes the amount that will continue to pay back into our account as the years go on this was done purposely because they didn't want us to be freeloaders who never worked a day in our lives it was an encouragement to live for ourselves and make our own world yes I will talk to my grandma about the one dollar thing I'm sure she knows what she's doing already she's a smart one yeah Opie's sister really needs to get away from her family and just try to live on her own and spend a lot of time on introspection because honestly in her case you can't honestly blame her too much because your first instinct is to call out that sort of behavior but honestly she probably literally does not know better I know this because I've acted similarly without even realizing it because if you're never called out on this stuff who's gonna tell you that it's wrong its reasons like this why you really got to sit down and analyze how you treat people and just your behavior in general because you'll find out a lot about yourself and it allows you to become the sort of person you want to be getting mad at someone like that really isn't helping anything because it's just gonna further enforce it because their first instinct is to defend themselves it's a really bad cycle II get it this one's called a mother made my school bus driver cry and murdered her spirit / special presence my mom just reminded me of this I don't remember every detail because I was like five or six when this went down but I do remember how bummed kids were after okay so when I was like five or six 1997 I rode the bus to and from school our bus driver was an older lady named Marge I only remember her name because of pee-wee's big adventure and she was a super nice lady she didn't have kids so I think she thought of kids on her route as her makeshift grandkids she got to know most of the kids on that road routinely and would give gifts on birthdays and special presents to some kids not all on Christmas or Hanukkah now we all knew about the special presents the older kids had told the younger kids and it seemed like a general rule that some kids got small wrapped gifts like the size of an iPhone box nothing big and the rest of us got candy canes I don't remember exactly what year this event and I think it was maybe in the first grade because I was very aware of the special gifts and I know I had gotten a Barbie doll from her on my birthday which landed just before school let out for summer break anyway this happened just before Christmas break Marge had already given special presents to the kids she always gave them too it was after school we were being dropped off at the bus stop it was raining really hard and I was already in a grumpy mood because the wind blew my umbrella inside out Marge pulled up at the sidewalk reminded us to put on our jackets and hoods which causes her to take a few seconds to open the door that's when this crazy entitled mother starts wrapping her knuckles on the door like really hard marge pulled that lever that opens the door and even before it could open all the way this entitled mother shoves the door open and stomps in and according to my mom shouts why do you give presents to four kids and not my kids I honestly don't remember what this woman had said I remember her yelling and all of us are silent and watching my mom hears Marge say excuse me this entitled mother begins on a tirade of calling Marge a predator and accusing her of nepotism which made her look extremely uncomfortable as my mom said she looked like she was shocked in an odd way the entitled mother then says are you touching these kids is that it you're a monster she's a goddamn stirrer that's when someone's father gets in and Yanks that crazy woman off I remember seeing her vanish like a magic trick and then looking at Marge who was crying my sweet old bus driver was openly weeping and sobbing it was sad and uncomfortable because at my age I didn't know what to do and I barely talked so I didn't know what to say or if I should say anything to March Marge allowed us to get off I kept my head down as I passed her feeling this icky achy feeling in my chest outside the entitled mother was yelling that it wasn't fair that only for families riders that Marge knew almost personally got gifts for Christmas and her two kids only got a stupid freaking candy cane I do remember that part I remember thinking lady we all got candy canes so what my mom walked me home and just as we turned the corner a cop car came up the street his lights weren't on he just kind of crept by if that makes sense my mom had shaken her head and said can you believe that crazy woman is she sick in the head the next week last week at school we had a sub driver we had him until February March returned and she seemed to have lost her chip earnest like she didn't come off as open and sweet like before she stopped giving gifts altogether and she didn't get involve or ask us about our home lives or our families anymore either she was my bus driver until I moved three years later I wonder if she's still alive that entitled mom didn't show up after that one time I don't think I ever met her kids or knew who they were even but yeah that crazy woman kind of murdered my bus drivers spirit sorry wasilla edit okay so me and my mom figured out this happened when I was six 1998 and in first grade they said it may seem irrelevant but I was really trying to remember how old I was and what was going on in my life last time I saw Marge was in 2001 I hope she's still alive somewhere out there and is still as nice as I remember her being bus drivers have the potential to be some really really cool people I remember back when I lived in Colorado I had a bus driver her name was Miss Nancy she was so sweet like anytime I'd see her anywhere I'd always ran up to her and give her a hug because she was like my school grandma kind of she was so sweet so nice and just so you know the school is really small so the buses dropped off each kid individually at their houses so every year just before Christmas she would ask us to you know pose for a picture outside the bus so she could take a picture from her seat and then on the last day until break she gives us all custom handmade Christmas ornaments with our picture on them and it's always so nice and like it's just she was so sweet so for that Karen to just come up out of nowhere and freaking just kill her spirit like they said that's just horrible man how many kids lost a much-needed friend there alright last up is called entitled mother during a cyclone so today there was a cyclone in the Arabian Sea this was the first time we got a cyclone in years so people weren't sure how to deal with it so our society decided to close the electricity for a few hours due to the cyclone the whole society was given two days prior notice on the day of the cyclone I went to the society office to get a parcel there I saw our entitled mother talking more like shouting to the guards why did you close electricity because a cyclone is coming and a power surge can happen is that my fault my son needs electricity so we could do his homework sorry but this is out of my hands you can talk to the director though fine hope he won't be as useless as you she then talks on the phone for 15 minutes with a lot of cussing and all after the call he told me I can have electricity I need to confirm the director tells guard to only turn on her electricity finally someone who has sense she leaves the office with a smug look on her face she goes up to her home and the guard turns on her house is electricity after the cyclone ended I found that there was a huge power surge in the surge ended up frying all her homes plugged in appliances and her son's laptop got fried making him lose all the work garma zabi male dog I guess who this belongs in malicious compliance that is some good stuff so I don't have the most knowledge or any knowledge regarding power grids and all that jazz so by having everyone's electricity turned off and hers on did that make the power surge so much worse than it would have been because I know that electricity is a lot like water and a pipe sort of so by closing off all these openings you're increasing water pressure to whatever is left open is that ours with electricity don't forget to Like subscribe and hit that Bell to never miss an episode [Music]

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Length: 20min 1sec (1201 seconds)

Published: Wed Jun 10 2020