People FINALLY Realize Their SO is a MONSTER (r/AskReddit)

our slash has credit what made you realize there was something off about your friend so my best friend's ex-boyfriend walked like he was trying to intimidate people and every time he asked someone a question about someone's opinion hey what do you think of that statue do you like sauerkraut he'd respond to their answer with I had a feeling you were going to say that it seems harmless but it was every single time and if you called him out on it you couldn't possibly have known I was allergic to X he lashed out in anger every time she tried to break up with him he cornered her and wouldn't let her leave the room until she relented and even their couples therapist thought she should leave him for her own safety after two or three sessions he would wait for her shift to end just sitting in his car in the parking lot and if she didn't come out fast enough he'd storm into the building in a fury but if she came out on time he'd just leave he wasn't there to pick her up just to monitor her which he also did through a GPS tracker he put in her car she now has a restraining order and has moved twice he broke into her apartment with a gun while she was deep asleep and just snuggled up behind her with the gun between them as if it was his dick and that was how she woke up there are other things but this is getting long edit because people are naughty curious about other things he did help me move but only to find out where I lived after their breakup he came to my door several times looking for her and when she was generally not here he settled for monitoring my house extreme fitness nut who was obsessed with telling people whether or not he could bench them hint usually not lots of gas lighting don't remember the details insisted on changing her cabs name which didn't stick wouldn't let her not watch TV with him even though there are a hundred things she'd rather do than watch TV at any given time up to and including a pap smear this inspired multiple fights charmed her parents so successfully that they insisted she go to couples therapy to work out their differences which were I don't want to be constantly monitored also your general behaviors creep EVs you have nothing to hide if you're doing nothing wrong ultimately their breakup was supervised by the couple's counselor who had building security waiting in the lobby and her hand on a panic button when you should have that stormed into her work when she quit post recap because he decided they fired her and his plan was apparently to threaten them to get her her job back took her to court to argue against the restraining order judge looked at friends documentation and how she was leaning away from him even on opposite sides of the room and he was making kissy faces at her and granted the order made very public posts on some weightlifting social media thing about what a crazy ex-girlfriend he had and linked her profile in his own profile was best friends with a viewed i'ma lady had been for a few years never any chemistry or anything like that at least on my end he gets out of a long-term relationship starts dating around he'd often introduced me to these ladies as sort of a barometer of whether or not he thought they were a good match one weekend he invited a girl up with our group she's superstand of fish won't smile clearly isn't having a good time I try to talk to her get to know her try to tell her about my friend and how great he is she acts like I'm not there might as well have been the wallpaper a month later I'm on a date and we run into them remember I'm also on a date with a man as they are leaving they come over to say hello she seems equally unhappy to be alive I introduced my dude the three of us chat for a minute while she stands there I jokingly tug at his shirt in a you all dog kind of way she storms out of the restaurant both tubes are confused was not a flirty touch of any kind more like a bro touch anyway next day at work I work with this guy he comes up to me and says hey you can't do stuff like that she's really damaged has jealousy issues doesn't trust men I apologize profusely because I didn't realize I had done thing wrong even asked my date and he was baffled as well this friend had an emergency key to my house in case I ever got locked out he returned it a week later citing something about what if you call it 2:00 a.m. but isn't that the point isn't that what best friends do help each other in times of need flash forward a few months in he refuses to speak to me again we work together won't look me in the eye he slowly gives up other relationships male and female after dating the girl for six months they get engaged now married no idea how it's going or if he's happy I ended up moving and haven't spoken to him since makes me really sad to see people give up who they are for a relationship he constantly made fake social media accounts to try and get her to cheat on him what are people trying to achieve when they do this edit never thought I'd get to say this but obligatory ryp inbox I have no idea I guess they're so paranoid they need to see whether they're so is going to cheat on them or not my best friend never took the bait until she found out and broke up with him my bf found some weird software on her PC and worked out someone installed a key log so she faked a chat with some guy and when her boyfriend at the time turned up with the printouts she dumped his ass I used to be like this therapist called it an abandonment complex chalked it down to crippling insecurity caused by past events particularly related to my mother just disappearing when I was young but then I came to closure when I realized that my mother was just a person free to make her own choices even if they weren't the right ones when I realized that people have the freedom to do whatever the [ __ ] they want I learned that you can't really trust anyone until you respect that fact if that makes any sense at the end of the day you'll always be there for yourself people who do things to hurt you typically don't do it to hurt you they neglect your feelings and behave selfishly but you basically have nothing to do with why they do them there's nothing you can do so just be edit my first gold Wow thank you all for sharing your stories and such I was not expecting this when I came home I'm kind of teary now so this is probably a pretty lamb a thing to say but I'm very glad that you all like my comment and I really hope it helps he started attending my college at 26 which isn't strange at all but he insisted on living in the dorms for three years it's not like we're a college town with expensive / far away / shitty off-campus housing he just liked the ego boost of being around kids 8 plus years younger than him my friend was 19 when they started dating another thing was that he was a full time stand-up comedian with his own YouTube channel he mostly did open mic events at bars but couldn't stand watching other people on stage perform if it wasn't him he would sit and seed when my friend told him she didn't want to leave when watching other people perform the creepiest moment was undoubtedly when my friend asked me if my boyfriend ever watched bestiality porn taken aback I said [ __ ] no and told her that'd be a major deal-breaker for me if he did she said Oh bf told me that every guy watches it thankfully they broke up last week and I couldn't be more proud or happy for her a bit of background this was a good friend of us in previous rumors at this point he'd moved out about a year and a half prior and we'd only had Internet contact with him since it was a meet-up of old friends when we went to visit home this was the first time we wife and I met his newest girlfriend after his previous long-term relationship ended she wasn't so bad kind of giggling and goofy for him since he's a bit more serious but fine they seemed happy we were out for dinner and her and my wife go off to the bathroom I thought this was odd since my wife is kind of a tomboy and doesn't do the whole girls go to the bathroom to do their mchupe and gossip thing but I find out later friends so invited her to ask her a few questions about our friend well after about 20 minutes went by I realized they weren't back yet we were both tipsy and engaged in conversation and time got away this was a small gathering of a few couples and one of hte other girls goes to check on them come to find out friends so basically had my wife cornered in the bathroom crying in her face and demanding to know why our friend had a secret crush on my wife and why he wouldn't admit it to her after getting the recap from my wife she said she had no clue if the girl was going to attack her or molest her since a few times she was apparently completely against her to the wall apparently it was a mixture of my wife wanting to calm her down and also a little afraid since she was half this girl's size and legitimately couldn't get past her that caused the long drawn-out issue luckily the person going to check on them snap the girl out of it and if used the situation very bizarre we've seen her one time since not exactly on purpose and she acts like the whole thing didn't happen she apparently has no history of mental illness but I have no clue beyond that long story best friend was adopted as a kid adoptive parents killed in a car accident when he was 11 he was in the backseat he survived became even better mates same schools in college he decided he was gonna marry this girl I was happy for him but I had never met her as I lit out of the country at the time so wedding is in six months I fly down to see family and end up going with my the girlfriend and some friends and we all meet up at a local restaurant meet his fiancee she seems nice and welcoming she flirts subtly with me nothing major but talks about my appearance quite a bit in front of her fiance I think nothing much of it later in the evening I go to the bathroom I end up walking to a cubicle and as I enter she jumps in front of me and closes the door with me inside I ask her what she's doing her responses anything I want I immediately push her out sit down and in shock have no idea what I'm supposed to do I go back to the table I'm quiet I realize that I should tell or say something to him I pull him outside and tell him what happened he is - in shock ruins the whole evening and next day I flew back to my hometown with my girlfriend to see my family we don't speak for months until the wedding I'm his best man whole family was ostomy bride hated me we don't speak anymore but I know what happened and friends support my decision to tell him he claims she says it was all a misunderstanding due to being drunk I know what I saw I know what happened I know what she was trying to do I feel bad because I have probably lost a friend but my conscience is clear good luck Philip oh boy he showed abusive and manipulating behavior from day one but it was fine because she loved him and she could change him a year later he had cheated at least once and was constantly threatening to kill himself if she left him it was fine though because really he loved her but didn't know how to express it yet - and he controlled her fassl confirmed and he decided who she could and couldn't talk to it was romantic though because he just really cared about her year three and he cheated at least four times and he'd also pretended to kill himself and break up with her multiple times each after one of which she tried to kill herself we had a whole intervention thing while she was in the hospital and she agreed to leave him two weeks later they were back together he spent $800 on my birthday gift how could he not love me oh yeah and I can't talk to you anymore squeaker pop because he says i sholde she's still with him the first time we met her was at a bar my bf and I arrived early so we found a Scrabble board on the game shelf and started playing when my friend and his so got there literally before even introducing herself the so looked at our Scrabble board and said wow that's a lot small words are you guys stupid my bf and I were so stunned that we kinda just ignored the comment was she joking anyway she unsurprisingly turned out to be a psychotic ultra [ __ ] he sounds like a [ __ ] casual - any real Scrabble player knows it's not about the length of the word it's all about getting he across and down with that cue on a triple letter me and my cousin grew up together like brothers I immediately knew his new girlfriend didn't like me from the looks she would give me or how blunt she was when I tried to engage her in conversation a few months down the line and I try and arrange a meal with my cousin asked him to bring his girlfriend along so we can break the ice everything was arranged I showed up at the restaurant and they didn't I was stood up they are now married and have two kids I wasn't invited to his stag night or his wedding I was and still am gutted I met my wife and invited him to my stag do he was all paid up and I couldn't wait to see him again it was the thing I was looking forward to the most he didn't show again gutted he and his wife showed up to my wedding and acted as if there was no problem it was quite strange but I didn't care as it was great to just spend some time with the man I had considered my brother we kind of kept in contact via text but never met up even though I tried to arrange it a few times then my son was born I was desperate for them to meet each other and bent over backwards to meet up I agreed to meet at a play area so his daughters could tag along and go play and he got to meet my son who is named after his brother who passed away i sat there for an hour before he messaged me to say he wasn't coming as a final attempt to salvage some kind of relationship I invited his family to my son's christening I got a message an hour after we had finished to say he wasn't going to make it as his wife had arranged to do something that was four years ago and I haven't heard seen or spoke to him sentence still makes me sad but as long as he is happy then that is all that matters edit just to expand a little I have tried to contact him many many times via text phone faster book message but I haven't had a response I don't believe he is happy but I don't know enough about his relationship to pass comment he has cut me off and there is nothing I can do to change that I just hope that one day we do get a chance to sit and talk it through just so he knows I don't hold anything against him or her if he wants me to be part of his life then great if he doesn't then at least he knows I still love him this is actually really heartbreaking I feel for you man you deserve better but I'm glad it seems you're trying to keep a positive view of it when he started trying to pick fights with me in order to separate me from my chasm we were in our mid-teens he looked 17 or 18 very clean-cut and Jiki in a boy band sort of way you know the sensitive one with the glasses he was well mannered respectful to our moms that he seemed predatory to me I didn't have the best people around me growing up so I learned to recognize potential threats early and this guy set off all my danger bells just small things like watching too closely to see how people reacted to him and the way his smile never reached his eyes I wasn't rude but I didn't fawn over him either once he realized that I wasn't charmed by him he started avoiding me telling her he didn't feel comfortable around me and she'd have to see him alone he tried bullying me anytime he saw me while still bragging to me that he was a protector and her white knight found out a few months later that he was actually in his mid-twenties and had a record for stalking and of the sorting underage girls too bad we didn't know this before he gave her herpes when he installed some kind of app on my best friend's computer so that he could control the mouse with his phone I think this was two months after I met him six months into their relationship I thought that was real [ __ ] but here it's only a joke why do you think it's weird Gann won into about a year later he asked her to sign in to faster book two backroads see it faster book was working for her later that day she came over worried and asked me if he cold saved her password even if she told chrome to not save it we kind of bounced ideas around that no I don't think so I mean unless he put a keylogger on his computer but that would be messed up and sure enough that's exactly what he did no devil favorites after breaking up he also tried to pose as me on kake so he could talk to her he used the username that was like gana Levin into so it was easily mistaken the whole relationship was a [ __ ] mess when my husband and I were helping the move and he would only speak to our arms and my husband I had an idea of how to move some stuff up the stairs and the guide just blew me off so I told my husband to casually mention the same damn idea and poof it was an awesome idea so we had to try it right then and there this always put her down and she would just take it in the end he broke up with her because he felt she wasn't thin / pretty enough for him then would get mad at her for trying to move on and tried to sabotage every relationship she tried to have I ended up ending the friendship because I couldn't stand listening to her complain about how he was treating her and she would keep going back you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped she was super friendly but I'd catch her looking at me out of the corner of my eye with not a nasty expression exactly but not a friendly one either sort of wary I'm also a girl she'd also casually say odd little details when talking about her life that made it seem like she had a pretty skewed idea of relationships and gender roles she went to an all-girls boarding school and even though she was 24 she was the first of all of her friends to ever have a boyfriend like saying it's ridiculous to expect a woman to change a lightbulb on her own haha or making out that some things were a big deal in relationships when they're really not as if she'd got all her knowledge from non comms just really tiny things that wouldn't be significant on their own but added all together it really set me on edge she ended up going full-on psycho and not letting him see any of his friends or do any of the things he enjoyed for two whole years because she was basically jealous of every single other woman in the world even his male friends girlfriends it took his brother to come round and have good long chat for him to realize she was a control freak who was ruining his life it was a timely escape to since she was starting to talk about babies that's actually kind of sad sounds like she grew up super sheltered so the only romantic advice she ever got was from movies and television not surprising she had a [ __ ] up view of relationships and what is normal I had a room at like this after college she was 22 over 23 but grew up in a super conservative Christian household like we don't celebrate Christmas because this day should be spent in prayer and apology for what we did to the Lord's precious baby son crazy Christian conservative only child split with her family in college but never learned about relationships or sex or gender roles in a healthy way at home everything she knew about mainstream relationships / gender culture came out of Cosmo The Bachelor and the like it was simultaneously fascinating horrifying and deeply sad it took me a while to even understand what was happening I'm a woman and had never met women who seriously thought like that she did slowly start to grow out of it with time but she's getting married to her college ex-boyfriend from her Cosmo days and I worry she super-sweet if naive he's a conservative manchild who is a gender traditionalist where it benefits him that is woman needs to make her man dinner every night et Cie but not where it requires work or effort from him that being the breadwinner acting as the umbrella that protects the family and/or offers spiritual leadership he doesn't want her to talk to her friends when they are having relationship issues etc I worry when my best friend and his so started in an LDR I didn't think much of it but when she would repeatedly make fun of my him to her friends on Twitter I brought it up she repeatedly cheated on him and acted like they weren't serious at all told my friend again because he was head over heels they finally broke up because of a fight over something and relative to the things I brought up to my friend then they got back together and my friend used the stuff I told him to make a stipulation that if she wants anything to do with him she has to be serious for whatever reason she stick with it she started pulling him away from me gradually quick flashback when his ex gave birth to his two sons I dropped everything was laid to work because of one of them and spent as much time as I could with him when I heard my daughter I invited my best friend not once not twice but three times to meet her he couldn't be bothered to come to the hospital not because of work but because he needed to be on the phone with his girlfriend I burned that bridge so quickly now they are engaged with a kid of their own he moved to Florida for her and is an alcoholic now good riddance to both of them sounds like he burned that bridge I met them as an already married couple and everything seemed fine until she went into labor at my house it was her second child so she knew it was early labor and decided to rest on our couch while we hung out we were going to watch her older child when she went to the hospital anyway and our house is 30 minutes closer to the hospital so it made sense for the three of them to hang around our house until go time that's when my husband and I started noticing her husband strange behavior he was a very charming guy and a very good father to his son but he started making fun of his wife during contractions he would roll his eyes and tell her to shut up if she even made the slightest he joked that she was a [ __ ] and was overreacting the whole situation got so awkward that my husband insisted he go home to get their hospital bags just to give the poor woman a break from her crappy husband a few months after the birth of her second child he hit his wife with his car while she physically tried to block him from leaving during an argument he disappeared for days and didn't come home until she proved to him that she hadn't gone to the hospital or contacted the police thus began systematic abuse that continued for two more years and she hid from me like an expert he would hurt her and then threatened to withhold money for groceries if she said anything to anyone I knew he was a dick and I knew she often needed me to pick her up to get food from food pantries because he was bad with money but I had no idea he was hurting her she finally left him after he threw her through a window while she was eight months pregnant with their third child he had a full-on toddler level temper tantrum twice at a group game night once because during a trivia question he couldn't remember the planets in the solar system then in the same night he got pissy playing you know threw his cards down and stormed out we all kind of looked at each other and it's our friend that was when we knew he was off my friends and I were all in our mid-twenties and he was over 30 so it was definitely not acceptable behavior a couple weeks later was my friend's birthday so we all went out for the night and ended up at our neighborhood bar he threw another temper tantrum I think it was over scoring four darts or something he coolly ridiculous stormed out and field away in his car leaving us with no ride home this was pre Yuba slash lyft and none of us wanted to spend the money on a taxi so we sobered up on the two-mile walk back to my friend's house thankfully she broke up with him not long after she is now with a wonderful guy who not only knows the planets of the solar system but also treats our a lot better he tried to fill me up at her birthday party I tried to tell her that she took his side we are no longer friends same my childhood best friend introduced me to her bf they hug he makes her I wanna lick your [ __ ] sign the finger V with the tongue waving threw it over her shoulder I told her about it and she got mad at me they ended up breaking up because he was cheating when will these people learn WTF I tried the arguments I have nothing to gain by telling you this he however does have something to gain by lying to you didn't matter this was even after she had caught him cheating when they first started dating and had caught him in creepy situations like having her call him by the same nicknames an ex gave him giving her the same clothes he had given to an ex - where she found pictures of the X in the same hoody he asked her to wear for him thank you so much for watching the entire video I would be so grateful if you could like this video and subscribe to the channel new videos every day

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Id: L8ljqPLzj1E

Length: 27min 38sec (1658 seconds)

Published: Thu Feb 13 2020