Man Goes On Vacation And Returns To A Pregnant Girlfriend (Full Episode) | Paternity Court

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Please be seated. Hello, Your Honor. This is the case of<i> Matlock v. Monroe.</i> Thank you, Jerome. You're welcome. Good day, everyone. JUDGE LAKE: Mr. Matlock. Yes, ma'am. You say that a few years back, you were suddenly called away on family business. Yes, Your Honor. While absent, you claimed the defendant, Ms. Monroe, invited her former lover to move into your family home. Yes, Your Honor. That's correct. JUDGE LAKE: Upon your return, you say you forgave her and resumed your sexual relationship. Yes, Your Honor. But then, she dropped the bombshell that she was pregnant and you might not be the father of her child. Exactly. Exactly. JUDGE LAKE: Ms. Monroe. Yes. You admit that you have serious doubts about the paternity of your child. As well, you argue that when Mr. Matlock left, on family business, he stopped answering your phone calls and texts for an entire month. Yes, Your Honor. That's not correct. In your defense, you say you believed he was never coming back again. Yes, Your Honor. All right, Mr. Matlock, explain to me how you got into this relationship and why you have doubts about being the father of Ms. Monroe's child. Well, Your Honor, back in 2006 when me and Ms. Monroe first got together, she knew I was back and forth from Fort Smith to Fairview 'cause I have a son down in that area. Back in '07, I was down there for a week. No. You said you were... No, it was a week. No, you said you were gonna be gone a weekend and you were gone a month. It was a week. You're lying. You were gone a month. Anyway, Your Honor. You were gone a month. When I was gone for a week... No, you were gone a month. A week? She moved her ex into our home. In a week? In one week, Your Honor. At what point do you find out that she's moved another man into the house? From her. Yeah, I told you. At least I was honest. JUDGE LAKE: Ms. Monroe... At least I was honest. JUDGE LAKE: Ms. Monroe, I want to hear from you. You weren't honest about the baby. Yes, I am. So, you... He's gone now? Yes. JUDGE LAKE: For about how long? He was... He originally told me he'd be gone for a weekend. She's lying, Your Honor. She is telling a bold-faced lie, Your Honor. MONROE: Anyway... She knew she was... I'm listening to her story... I'm listening to her story. You don't just move a man in within one week unless you have plans to do that. She probably was doin' it from the beginning. Ms. Monroe, continue. Anyway, he told me he was gonna be gone for a weekend. So after the weekend, of course, being the girlfriend, you're gonna care about somebody's well-being, wonder where they are if they're not calling you, if you have no contact with them. So, of course, yes, I did call him. And then he never answered my calls. And this went on for a whole month. What number you call? (AUDIENCE LAUGHS) So, Mr. Matlock, were you getting phone calls from Ms. Monroe and not answering? No, Your Honor, I wasn't. I would talk to her when I called her, but I don't feel like, when I'm spending time with my son, I should have to drop spending time with my son to call her. No, you should still have to talk to me. If I'm your girlfriend, you should care! If she's jealous about... She's got jealousy issues, thinking I'm sleeping with every woman on the block. If you gave me a reason, then I wouldn't have jealousy issues. Let's get some order, let's get some order. Ms. Monroe, when he went out of town, did he voluntarily call you at all while he was gone? No. Lies. JUDGE LAKE: Not one call? Maybe... Maybe two or three times, like, the whole time he was gone. Okay, so, two or three times, you did speak to him? MONROE: Yes. But when you called him, he didn't return your calls. He would not answer my calls. Okay. So, at some point, he has not answered your call on several occasions... Yes. ...so you say to yourself, "He must not be coming back." Yes. "So I'm gonna move somebody into the house." Who'd you move in? One of my exes. JUDGE LAKE: One of your exes. Now, you didn't decide just to date him, you decided to actually move him right on in. All the way in. He doesn't live here. He came from out of town. What kind of woman does that? All right, and so I assume there was a sexual relationship going on at this time as well? Yes. Now, soon after you moved in your ex, Mr. Matlock, you returned home? She put her ex out. We talked on the phone about the situation. Because I wanted you, I didn't want him. I have feelings for her. I been knowing her since we was young, since 12, 13. So I still, I felt something about her. So we worked out the whole situation. We talked about it, we worked it out, I eventually moved back in the house, picking up a sexual relationship with her again. JUDGE LAKE: All right. Everything was going good for about a month and a half, I get a phone call from my sister, "What's up?" "May pregnant." You ain't who you pretending to be. Whoa! "What you mean, May pregnant? I just talked to her on the phone." MONROE: I told you that. You didn't tell me that. You told me that after I talked to my sister and you told my sister that you were pregnant. Anyway, after I found out that she was pregnant, I get back, we sit down, we have a discussion. I asked her point blank, "Am I the father of the child? "Who the baby daddy?" MONROE: And I was honest. She looked at me and said... I was honest. "You're not the father." Real talk, can't make it up. That's what she said, "You are not the father." So, I'm not taking care of somebody else's baby. And you tell me that that baby is not my baby. JUDGE LAKE: So, once you heard that... Out. I cashed my cut and I was gone. Deuces. MATLOCK: Yes, ma'am. Okay. Yes, ma'am. That's not my exact... Shh. You didn't say that? Ugh. You didn't say, "You are not the father?" No, I didn't. Were you listening? You said, "You are not the father." This is what I said. We was together... Why would I just pack up and leave? I take care of mine. I'm not no deadbeat. MONROE: We was together 18 months. I'm not gonna be like, "Hey, hey, hey. This is my baby and I'm leavin' now." In that 18 months, we didn't ever use protection. Okay. You assumed he may not be the father based upon the fact it had been 18 months and you hadn't gotten pregnant? Yes. And within that little amount of time, I got pregnant. But is the truth that you really didn't know who the child's father was? MATLOCK: Exactly. It actually... When I had my 5-year-old, she looked just like my other one. So I assumed that she wasn't his, because her and my other child looked exactly alike. She's a pretty little girl. I'm not saying she's not pretty, but at the same time... MONROE: It's a beautiful little girl. ...I don't think it's my baby. MONROE: Well, I don't care what you think. So you don't think the child looks like you? You don't feel any attachment? Man, that could be Jerome's baby. You talking about this Jerome? That Jerome. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) Jerome! JEROME: No, it's not mine. MONROE: She looks a little dark to be his baby. MATLOCK: That man right there. You better not mess with Jerome. It could be his baby. JUDGE LAKE: So, the point is, is that you have doubt. Do you know for certain, or you're just doubtful? Once you say, "You are not the father," to a man, that baby ain't mine no more. I didn't hear from her. I didn't hear from her. <i> When the baby was born,</i> At what point did she then claim that you might be the father? December 31st, '08. Me and her sister are friends. Okay. So I call her sister, every New Year's, "Happy New Year's, what's up?" First thing out of her sister's mouth was, "What's up is you need to check on your daughter." I didn't even know she had a girl. As a matter of fact, when the baby was born, another man was in the hospital room with her, when the baby was born. MONROE: Where was you? At home. I was back in town, taking care of my son, doing what a father supposed to be. Working, taking care of my business. That's what I was doing. (BOTH SHOUTING INDISTINCTLY) In the beginning, I would have been there for you. You don't know. Had you said, "Hey, it's not your baby, but it's a possibility," We could have worked on it and probably still together. I told your sister that. No, I told your sister that. You said, out of your mouth, you said, "You are not the father." Did you not say, "You are not the father"? I told your sister. Mr. Matlock, in your statement to the court, you are paying child support for Ms. Monroe's daughter. Yes, ma'am. And to top that off, on Facebook... You're paying because you sent me information. ...the other father in question, inboxed me, so I called him and said, "What's up?" He was like, "What's up? I heard you might be the father now." I said, "Yeah, I thought you was the father." And he said, "Well, let me tell you something else." She was messing with this old, big ass dude from Fayetteville at the time." You are such a liar. I never messed with that dude. So, I was like, well, if she said, you're the father and then... Why is who I mess with so important? It ain't. It ain't important to me. I ain't the one... I ain't the one who don't know who the father of my child is. I know who the father of my son is. Me. My first son's mother knows who she was laying down with. She was only laying down with one man the whole time. Can you say the same? I need to understand how you started paying child support. Okay. 'Cause he sent me papers with all his information to put him on child support so he could get it. Yes. Yes, shut up. We were supposed to get a DNA test. Because she didn't want to get the DNA test done. It's been three or four years. And she didn't ever want to know who the father of this child was. So, let's get it done. She put me on child support. They sent me... I tried to call you from the hospital. You didn't do a good job. I called them, filled out the papers they wanted me to send so I can file to get a paternity test. You ain't call nothing. Yes, I did. I didn't get no reply back. Next thing I got, I got served with papers saying I missed my court date and I was the father by default. I have evidence to prove that, Your Honor. The bottom line is when that court date came up, Mr. Matlock, you're saying you never got notice of when your court date was. No, ma'am. So you didn't show. You weren't there. I was at work. By default... I'm the father. You were determined to be the father. I am the father by default. And you have some paperwork? Jerome, can you get the paperwork Mr. Matlock says he has. I've established now you're paying child support in the amount of $360 a month. Yeah. Exactly. For a child you still don't know it's yours or not. How is this affecting your life? It ruined my marriage. How so? When my wife found out that they were taking child support out for a baby that I didn't know was mine or not... She should mind her own business. We got into it. She was mad. She had no reason to be mad in the first place, because the baby came before me and her were even together. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. She was mad about that. We get into it, so I basically tell her, "I got into a situation. I don't want to be with you no more. "If you're going to be mad over this, "let's just end it right now before it gets too far "and we have to spend some real money to end this." My son's mother's mad because she gets more money than my son's mother, which my son, his name is on the birth certificate. Signed it. That's my blood. She's mad because she gets more money, so I'm going back to court over that. I've been to jail for child support, because my son's mother got mad and said I wasn't paying child support. When I was paying child support, because I sent the picture of the baby to her when I first found out that I might have another baby. So she got mad, she wants to raise my child support. Me and my girl just broke up a couple weeks ago 'cause she's tired of putting up with this drama dealing with this. This is taking out from my home. I work 85-90 hours, every two weeks. On a good check, I might hit 300. I got evidence to prove that, also, Your Honor. Here is one of my check stubs. Jerome, can you hand me that? Stop making babies! On a bad check... MONROE: So use protection. You got more babies than I got! And... And? I think you got way more than I got. Mr. Matlock, you're working triple shifts... I'm killing myself. Killing myself. ...trying to make sure you're paying child support. Trying to find a second job right now. Not only to pay child support. But make sure Christmas, birthdays, school time, my son has what he needs. Ms. Monroe... Ms. Monroe... It's all about your son. If this is my baby, I'm gonna take care of... MONROE: Yes, I receive it. JUDGE LAKE: So you're receiving support? But you still don't know if he's in fact the father of your child. Correct. You don't really know. There's a 50/50 chance. On top of that, nobody in my family likes, or believes, that she's, that that baby's mine. Nobody. Nobody. JUDGE LAKE: All right, I want to hear from... (BOTH ARGUING) Uh, let's get some order. Even her cousin don't believe it. Mr. Matlock I'd like to go to your witness. Mrs. Matlock, please stand. State your name for the court. Nirvanna Matlock. Okay, what do you have to add to this? First of all, my mama, my sisters, my brothers, none of us, none of my family, care about her. Okay? And, if the baby was his, when I tried to go see the little girl, on a Sunday, she's supposed to brought the little girl to see me, and she text me out the blue and was like, "Uh, well, she's not here." I supposed to went to the little girl's birthday party. But I live in a whole different town. You dig what I'm sayin'? You live 45 minutes away... It's a whole different town. You dig what I'm sayin'? I have a job. I work. Every day. I do too, I'm a mother. I work. And so, why is this, Mrs. Matlock... So, I work. Out the goodness of your heart said, "I'm gonna try to establish a relationship "just in case?" Because, I feel like, if he's paying child support for the baby, dig what I'm sayin'? Right. It's his. Not sayin' it is his, but once a man start paying child support, you should jump in and be like, "Okay". 'Cause I'll take care of my niece. So then why hadn't you come and seen her? JUDGE LAKE: So you felt like once it was determined... Well, Lord, I tried. When I came down there, I came down there and I tried to see the little girl. I did, I tried to see the little girl. But he should try. I did. I did try to see the little girl. He should try. Thank you so much, I've established that you've tried to see the child. And we've established that, Mrs. Monroe is clear, that there still is a 50/50 chance, you may be seated, thank you so much. Okay. Mr. Matlock, you submitted dates... Yes. ...as it relates to the conception of this child. Yes, Your Honor. Let's take a look at that. So, what we see, the dates that you were intimate with the defendant, was the last week in August, that we see here in green. Correct. And you claim that her ex was intimate with her during the beginning of August. Yeah, weeks before me. Which is indicated in yellow. And that's the month of conception. It could've been longer than that she was sleepin' with him. You a liar. I was sleepin' with you all them other months. JUDGE LAKE: Either way... You don't move nobody in within a week. It wasn't a week, it was a month. It's easy to see, through your visual, that this, could be, either way. Either of you could be the father. Yes, Your Honor. But, we also have Mrs. Monroe agreeing to that, am I correct? You are correct. So, the only way we gonna get the answer is... (MUSTAFA ARGUING) To get the results. Yes, Your Honor. That's what we here for. That's what we here for. Are you ready? Jerome, do you have the envelope? I wanna know. Jerome, do you have the envelope? MATLOCK: I wanna know. These results were prepared by DNA Diagnostics in the case of<i> Matlock v. Monroe.</i> When it comes to five-year-old Kenya Monroe, Mr. Matlock, the wait is over, you are not the father. (AUDIENCE CHEERING) I knew it! I knew it! Go find your baby's daddy. Put somebody else on child support. I want my money back. I want my money back. I told you I wasn't the father of that child. MATLOCK: Knew it from the beginning. Trifling. NIRVANNA: Oh, my gosh. MATLOCK: Knew it. I knew it. NIRVANNA: Mmm. Ooh, Lord. JUDGE LAKE: Jerome, would you go check on Mrs. Monroe... NIRVANNA: Lord. ...and see if we can escort her back in the courtroom? I want all my money back. All my money back. I paid too much. I worked way too hard. My son could have had that money. She knew that from the beginning, otherwise she wouldn't have said it. I knew it. I knew it. (STUTTERING) I feel sorry for the baby. MONROE: Well, I'm sorry, I'll give you your money back. MATLOCK: That's what I need. You know, I know you feel as if this money's been goin' out the window, you been payin' for a child that's not yours, that you could have been payin' that money to your son, and I understand why you feel that way. But, when you do look at this little girl, at least you can say, that you have provided for a young child that is in a position none of us would want to be in. Yes, ma'am. All right, now you gonna have to go back to your home state, and petition that court, but I am here to tell you right now, there is no guarantees you're gonna receive that money back. The child support, at least will stop though, right? MONROE: Yes. I'll stop it, I'm not gonna make you pay for it if she's not yours. The issue is, moving forward, you all have had a long-standing friendship, even outside of a sexual relationship. You been knowin' each other since middle school, am I correct? Yeah, since before puberty. Yeah. Now, Mrs. Monroe, from where I'm seated, I don't feel like you've given Mr. Matlock the type of apology that, I think, that will really help him be able to move on. And maybe at some point you can bring yourself to doing that. Because two people that have been through what you all have been through, that potentially could have created this beautiful little girl, I think it's important that we understand that now that the truth is on the table, you all need to at least learn how to be civil. Are we clear? Yes. Yes, Your Honor. I wish you all the best of luck. Court is adjourned. I wanted him to be the father, because... (SOBBING) He's more responsible. I'm sorry that I put you through all this. I know you hurt. It's all right. We handled it. We still good. Okay. We still good. Come on. I'm just happy we came on<i> Paternity Court</i> to get it settled.
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Length: 18min 39sec (1119 seconds)
Published: Mon Sep 30 2019
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