Man Was Dating, Engaged, and Married at the Same Time (Full Episode) | Paternity Court

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You may be seated. Hello, Your Honor. This is the case of<i> Darensburg v. Wilson.</i> Thank you, Jerome. You're welcome. Good day everyone. DARENSBURG: Good day. Now Mr. Darensburg, you are seeking the results of a paternity test to prove you are not the father of Ms. Wilson's 22-year-old son, Damone, who you say the defendant once told you was another man's child. Now you claim she's buried you in child support debt, and once today's results prove you are not the young man's father you will return to court to sue Ms. Wilson for more than $20,000, for unwarranted child support payments. Now, Ms. Wilson. Yes, Your Honor. You argue that Mr. Darensburg is a womanizing, lying, cheating, poor excuse for a man. Yes, Your Honor. You claim that during your relationship he was married and engaged, I don't know how you do that, to other women. Yes, Your Honor. While having an affair with you. Yes, Your Honor. All right, now Mr. Darensburg, when did you first meet Ms. Wilson? First of all I'd like to say thank you, Judge, for this opportunity. Mm-hmm. And I'd like to also add that you are extremely beautiful. Well, thank you very much. He's lucky. I will not take that as testimony, but I will take it as fact. No, just teasing! Just teasing! Please proceed, how did you all meet? I was dating a friend of Ms. Wilson. I was married but separated. JUDGE LAKE: You said you were married but separated and dating her friend, where did fiance come from? I was separated... WILSON: But not divorced. But not divorced, yet, and I was planning to marry the young lady that Ms. Wilson was friends with. So we went out one night, um... My fiance, again, we had an argument and I went out and I saw Ms. Wilson. We had a conversation, a brief conversation maybe 20 minutes after that we were in a hotel room. Oh! JUDGE LAKE: You work fast. Very. Extremely fast. Okay, so, Ms. Wilson, how did you end up in the bed with him? I was home from break, I was in college, and like he said he had an argument or altercation with his girlfriend at that time. But was it your friend? She was a friend, yeah. And uh, we... had sex, once. And I got pregnant. So obviously, since Mr. Darensburg is here today, he doesn't necessarily believe that he is the father of your son. True. Were you also intimate with anyone else during that time period? Yes, I had a boyfriend at that time who was at college. But you were also intimate with him during that same time frame. Yes. Now, Mr. Darensburg, you have doubts. Well, first of all, we only had sex one time. She was promiscuous, I was promiscuous as well. I didn't find out for two and a half years after she had the kid. JUDGE LAKE: So you never heard from her any more after this? I saw Ms. Wilson at my girlfriends New Year's Eve party. Oh, 'cause you went on back to your girlfriend after that. Of course, I was with my girlfriend the entire time. And had no idea Ms. Wilson was pregnant. When we went to the party, Ms. Wilson, she gave me a nasty look, but I didn't know she was preg... Well, I knew she was pregnant, but not... WILSON: Seriously, you knew or you didn't know? I knew you were pregnant. And you told me you was marrying me also. But I also... No I never told you I was gonna marry you. JUDGE LAKE: Well, when you found out you were pregnant, did you immediately call him and say, "Hey, Mr. Darensburg, I need to tell you something?" No. So when you all got to this party, that his girlfriend, your friend, was giving, on New Year's Eve, you're showing. DARENSBURG: Right. And so you're looking at her, and it doesn't even dawn on you. It doesn't dawn on me, actually I didn't want... That didn't come out, I didn't want my girlfriend to find out that happened. We knew you were keeping the encounter a secret, but the point is, is when you laid eyes on Ms. Wilson, saw her and saw that she was pregnant, you didn't even think, "Oh, wow, that could be my child." No, because I refused to think that. I closed my eyes. JUDGE LAKE: You refused? Yes. Yeah, refused. At that time, that wasn't in the plan, so I had no... I had no idea, she didn't tell me anything, so it was fine. So you did a hear no evil, you just blocked it out. See no evil, smell no evil. Okay, let's fast forward now to when Damone was born. Two and a half years when Denita had the child, one of my fraternity brothers come up to me and asked me, "Hey man, did you see your kid?" I said, "Kid? What kid?" "Denita Wilson." Oh man, no. So my grandfather and I, we drove down to Denita's home... JUDGE LAKE: Okay, so you went to see about it. DARENSBURG: Right, because I mean, hell, kid? And Grandfather and Daddy said, "Nanny, that's your baby." What I've tried to... WILSON: They even helped me with money to help take care of my son. Excuse me. Excused. The deadbeat symbol that I wore, and I never knew that this child was my son. So he's two and a half years old and you drive down with your grandfather. To find out, so she says, "Yes." And when you see the child and you ask Ms. Wilson, "Is this my child?" you tell him yes? Yes. But I asked her also, Judge, "How were you supporting this kid?" Some other guy was supporting this kid. The father of the child. WILSON: The father's name is not on the birth certificate. You told me he was your love child. Was there another man paying child support? No, not for Damone. No. JUDGE LAKE: Okay, so there was never anyone... That's something he made up in his mind, to keep him away. JUDGE LAKE: In denial. And also... Keep him in denial from being the father. Another time I'd come in, seemed like a guy was jumping out the window. Okay, whoever was jumping... JUDGE LAKE: But aren't you saying that this was happening after... This was happening prior to, after... He's trying to say that I was a whore. I didn't say that. When he indicated that you and he, both had... JUDGE LAKE: Colorful pasts. Promiscuous relationships. JUDGE LAKE: Sexually... Yes, colorful. You didn't deny that, so I just took that to mean okay. I'm okay with that, but he... What you're trying to get at is because of that... You continue to doubt. That's my doubt. Whether or not this young man was your son. That's right. Because you felt like there's a chance that someone else could be his dad. So what I want to now get to is how did you end up starting to pay child support? Well, she apparently, was receiving an aid to families with dependent children, and because of that they're taking money from me, to repay back the state in which we live. But you were identified during that time as the father. Apparently so, I went to Georgia, I left. Did you know it was coming out of your check? It wasn't until I received a large... I received a settlement. A pre settlement from a company... JUDGE LAKE: Okay. And the state had taken it. Taken the entire amount. They gave it to me. So when this big amount was taken from you, that was the time when you said, "Okay, wait a minute." Heart attack time. Every time I said child support you quit, so that made you go into arrears. You don't know why quit my job. It doesn't matter why, you still had arrears to pay and you did not pay them. Most of the times I had my own catering business. Okay, so why didn't you pay your taxes? Because I didn't think... Let's get some order. Let's get some order! Ladies and gentlemen, let's get some order. I wanna hear from Damone. Mr. Wilson, please step up. JUDGE LAKE: Thank you for joining us today. Now, as a child growing up, you're 22 now, right? That's right. As a child growing up, was it your understanding that he was your dad, were you made aware? Yeah, I mean, I can remember when I was... I was young, very young. I remember, he used to drive a Mercedes. JUDGE LAKE: Mm-mmm. And I went over for Christmas, I forgot where he was living, but he brought us to his house and we used to see all the nice Christmas lights on other people's house and that was the last weekend I remember me spending with him. So couple of years go by, I'm about seven, my mother I think was incarcerated at that time, I'm not sure. But my grandmother had custody of me. He popped up and he told me, "Son, you need a haircut. "I'm gonna come back and get you to get a haircut." That was a Friday he told me. Saturday morning my grandmother got me up, she told me your going with your daddy, she fed me breakfast, packed my clothes, send me to the front of the door. Hours go by, night falls. He ain't come. JUDGE LAKE: You're sitting at the door. Sitting at the door. I'm sorry that happened. So the next day, Sunday comes, and he probably had something to do, 'cause he was busy. I always used to tell him, bad as it were, I never bashed him like I could have. She never told me, he's a deadbeat, he's not your dad. Nothing bad. She never done it, like, "He's working," that's what she always used to tell us. That's all I say, "Your dad is at work." So Sunday comes, I'm standing in front of the same door, waiting. And he never comes, so I realize myself, tomorrow's a Monday I gotta go to school, so he's not coming. That was the last time I saw him until about six or seven months ago. And you say you cursed him without using the language, Mr. Wilson, What happened six or seven months ago? That's when he says that I cursed him out, I kicked his car. I could admit, I did curse him out because... JUDGE LAKE: Well, I might have too, if I was still waiting at the door with my bag. Waiting on my haircut. I understand that. So Mr. Darensburg, surely you understood. I understand that, surely, right now I'm standing here... But I didn't show no frustration with him when I first went. I was happy to see him. So I walk up to the car to show him I'm a grown man now. So you were still coming up to speak to him. Yeah, I'm like, "What's up, man, what's up?" "Who is you?" But wait a minute, Mr. Darensburg, you said, "Who are you?" I didn't know the kid, that's what I'm telling... I did not know. JUDGE LAKE: You didn't recognize... I did not recognize this kid. DARENSBURG: I did not recognize this kid. Now, don't tell me... I'm not finished. You did confirm that you told that child you were coming back to give him a haircut and you never came back. Can I explain that? Yes that's what I need you to explain. Not only did I offer to give him a haircut, I went out and I purchased some outfits for them. JUDGE LAKE: Uh-huh. Still not knowing that he's my child. I went to the store, I purchased the clothes and I bought a pair of Stride Rite shoes. We never got them. Wait a minute I'll explain to you why you didn't get them. When I went in the house, I gave her the receipt, her grandmother. My mother. DARENSBURG: Her mother. I gave her the receipt. She said, "But where are the receipts for the shoes?" I said, "Well, on the JCPenney receipt." "Oh well, no, I usually go to Stride Rite and get the shoes." Well, I said, "My money says JCPenney." Now, if you don't remember this, I said, "Well Denita told me he wasn't my kid anyway." Never. And I left there. JUDGE LAKE: I hope he doesn't remember that. I hope not also. I hope he doesn't remember that. But, it's... JUDGE LAKE: So you got into an argument of sorts with Ms. Wilson's mom over the clothes. Over the clothes that I had purchased. And you ended up taking it out of there. I had taken it back... And I had children, I have other children. And I moved on. Can I say something? JUDGE LAKE: Yes. And I just want to hear, before you move on, Mr. Wilson, so... That was the clothes, so that started the haircut issue? Well, I didn't go back. I was insulted. I didn't go back. We never had Dean in. My kids... JUDGE LAKE: And you never were thinking to yourself, "This child may think that I'm actually coming back for this haircut." Regardless of the argument about the clothes. I never told... I don't think I told him, I told his grandmother that they needed a haircut. JUDGE LAKE: Yes, and she told him! You told me, I remember you putting your big hands on top of my head, "Son, you need a haircut." "I'll come back and get you tomorrow and get you a haircut." I hope that he can see as a man, cipher through this, and see if he went through the same situation, Madam, there's no way. I could attest to heaven... WILSON: His entire family acknowledges him, except him. Well, my entire family is told. His dad, his deceased grandfather. His step-mother. Everybody acknowledged me. That's what made me curse him out. JUDGE LAKE: So, what happened, when you say you cursed him out, without using the language, Mr. Wilson, what happened? Well, when I walked up to the truck, I'm like, "What's up man?" He slammed on my truck. He igged me. No, I didn't. Before I slammed on the truck. I hit his truck after I cursed him out. That was after, because I was angry, the way he handled... Because he said, "Who are you?" Yeah, he's like, "Who are you?" So, I step back, I'm like, "You don't know who I am?" He celled be everything but... "Well, your mama told me..." That's what he told me, "But your mama told me you're not from me" I'm like, "Well, you ain't trying to find out if I was from you or not." No. That was my first and only time... JUDGE LAKE: Wait, wait, wait. Let's get some order. Let's get some order. Let's get some order! Hold on one second, because, what it sounds like to me, is there's so much miscommunication going on! People are not fully explaining their intention, and it's getting lost and then the next thing you know, the person feels like this person is trying to diss them. And now, you've got a young man... I mean, as he tells this story, of saying, "I'm mad at my father, he never came to take me for a haircut, "but I'm a grown man now, I just want to come out and say hello," and when he steps up to your car, when the first thing out your mouth though, "Who are you?" That broke my heart today. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) DARENSBURG: I have kids. I have a daughter who's 15, who's graduating from high school will be a freshman in college at the age of 15. I have a daughter who's 25 years old. What are you getting at? DARENSBURG: What I'm getting at is that when he come up to my truck... I'm a streetrunner. When he come up to my truck, slams on my truck that way... I'm surprised he's calm now. He has a very bad attitude. JUDGE LAKE: But Mr. Darensburg! Mr. Darensburg! No, no, no, no, no. I've got to stop you. Because we can break this down real fast. All the rest of your kids? You showed up for the haircut. WILSON: Thank you, thank you. JUDGE LAKE: You came back! (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) Thank you. "Daddy's gonna pick you up at this time." And you came back and you did for them. I did not know this kid was my kid. Period. Can I say something one time? Okay. We've acknowledged why you have the doubt. And Ms. Wilson herself has said openly, that she didn't let you know from the beginning that this could potentially be your child. There is a lot of miscommunication, a lot of lack of communication, and the only way we really are gonna get to the bottom of this, and see how we go from here, is to hear the results. Are we ready? (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) Are we ready? Jerome do you have the envelope? These results were prepared by DNA Diagnostics. In the case of<i> Darensburg v. Wilson...</i> When it comes to Damone C. Wilson, Mr. Darensburg, you... ...are his father. I can say one thing. Can I just say one thing? I wasn't mad 'cause he didn't come get me for my haircut, I'm mad because, look how long it took you to come back after. I'm a grown man I got a son, my son's going on four, and that's what made him get mad at me because I told him, "I'm gonna be a better father than you ever was." (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) So, he got mad. Mr. Darensburg, what do you want to say? Well, first of all, I wanna sincerely apologize to you. I wanna do what I can for you. I don't need you to do nothin' for me. I understand that. I understand that, but... I'll just let you be in my son's life. (APPLAUSE) That it. I'll be a bigger person and let you in my son's life. He don't know you, he never saw you. And I would just like to shake hands with you, hug you and let you know that I love you. (AUDIENCE CHEERING) We're gonna take care of this. All right? We're gonna take care of this. We're gonna take care of this. He's... If he's not doing that, he's gonna be shuffling some pots and pans... Start in the catering business. JUDGE LAKE: What? Now that's father and son good-talk right there! Look, let me say this before we close because these are the kind of endings that this court loves to see. You come in with miscommunication. And through testimony and airing out your differences, you begin to communicate. What's most important is that family, at the end of the day is all we have. That's exactly. That no matter what has happened in the past, we can go forward. Court is adjourned. (BANGING GAVEL) He's a handsome boy, and, and quite smart, I mean he was able to take care of himself 22 years. So, I gotta give him kudos for that. And I'm dying to see the grandson. I think that everything turned out great. And I have a father now, so... Yeah, everything's everything. It's closure on some issues. It's closure. There's closure. We're gonna be all right.
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Length: 18min 41sec (1121 seconds)
Published: Thu Oct 03 2019
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