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[Music] [Applause] foreign [Music] [Music] [Music] I've been dreaming my dreams often believing but since you brought your love into my life baby [Music] [Applause] thank you hi Kim hi Kevin glad to see you both surprise eggs [Music] it's okay how's everything with your health you're great I'm feeling pretty good about my life um [Music] that's good to hear really really good to hear and Kevin how are you feeling about your marriage well honestly I love Kim and I love our lives together I knew what it was going into it and I proposed with no pressure from her we're in love and I think we have a happy life okay that sounds good but I sense some trepidation there honestly it sounds like you're trying to convince someone that you're happy no I don't need to convince anyone of anything I really am happy I love this woman Kevin maybe you don't realize this but um there's this some slight hesitation you have this but at the end of your statements I'd like to explore that if that's okay yeah Kevin I'd like to explore that as well so Kevin the purpose of these sessions is for you to be able to discuss what's impeding on your marriage if something is bothering you this is an open and a safe space for you to discuss exactly what's going on in your mind and if something is bothering you you should be able to share it with Kim well okay I've tried to share this with Kim before but honestly I don't think she really hears me I listen to you Kevin yeah you listen baby but but you don't really hear me it's like we'll talk so focused on what she wants that sometimes it's like I didn't really say anything and it's getting to the point where it's wearing me out and I'm not sure I want to really keep talking so you do feel comfortable comfortable talking in this setting but she'll accept it while we were here when we get home it's like that discussion never took place and I don't know what else to do I don't know what else to do either James I love this man I really do but honestly we just have one specific problem communicating we just can't seem to get on the same page in it honestly I don't think he even hears me anymore Kim you're you're all I hear honestly sometimes I don't even hear me oh okay let's let's take a couple of breaths here um I have an idea I've been thinking about launching this Couple's Retreat for some of the couples that I'm working with and it's going to be a one day type of a retreat where everyone will be taken out of the regular therapeutic setting that we're all accustomed to and with other couples discussing their difficulties you guys might be able to discuss yours as well see his name if we can't work this out between just us why would he be any different in front of other people stop being so negative Kevin well can we just at least give this Retreat idea a try it's one day and if it doesn't work again it's just one day okay I'll give it a try but if these people that we're retreating with are weird or have some wild issues that I don't want to deal with I'll be out great Kevin I'm glad you're at least willing to give this thing a shot and I think you'll be quite surprised at the results [Music] baby something smells good what's for dinner your favorites little baby back ribs so much baby potatoes and a little baby green salad and for dessert I chopped up some mango and strawberries a little chocolate and some whipped cream and I think you know what I like to do with chocolate and whipped cream right I'm gonna go get ready for it dinner baby girl you know you don't need to be at no retreat right we can just talk everything out and keep it cool between us I mean yes I know what you mean you mean pretend that everything is cool when it's not no that's not what I mean look I just don't think sit around a bunch of old stuffy people all they just want to help us I really want to do this let's just go okay okay but if that's sister of yours she won't listen just stop it it's fine all I'm saying is that if you want to be in a relationship then you need to act like it part of that means you have to want to work on it I do want to work on it Charles I just hate to waste an entire day like this I have so much work to do you know I just made partner in my firm and I had this big case coming up if I am not properly prepared I could lose everything I'm working for him exactly yes I agree that you could lose everything you've worked with but I'm not talking about your job I'm talking about us Jesus Charles we're fine now I'm more worried about my career okay then I'll turn the car around and you can get back to work but work is all you'll have keep driving Charles I am so excited about this retreat yay marriage is hard but it's worth working through the hard Parts I love my husband but I really want him to understand just how important my desire to be a mother is to me I love my wife and I love being married but as I grow older I to make certain that life doesn't get too complicated I just want to ease into the rest of my life with my lovely wife hi the two of you must become in Kevin I'm Dana Mr Irving's assistant yes we are how did you know well I saw the wedding rings and you're the only married couple here today oh plus I do have pictures well I guess the pictures kind of speak for themselves oh and there's also the fact that you're the only couple I haven't met yet because of my schedule when you come into Mr Irving's office so it's a simple process of elimination well welcome to the retreat make yourselves comfortable and we'll get started in just a few minutes she seems nice enough I mean the doc's a good guy I guess the other couples won't be freaks but baby I I don't know why we couldn't just do this on our own just work it out ourselves because Kevin I wanted to try something new something different and couples do group therapy all the time and I'm hoping that maybe us talking through our problems with other couples around might be good you know and and James is not just a coach he's a psychologist and I'm hoping that maybe he can coach us back to the love that made us want to get married in the first place but that's just it baby I I still love you and we both want to stay married I know you love me again but I and honestly if we can't get through those problems then I don't know that I want to stay married [Music] people think I have it all a beautiful car successful career a nice house but things would be a lot better if the man I loved wanted the same things out of life that I want I love my life I enjoy my work and I'm exactly where I want to be I just wish that woman of mine would accept me as I am and not try to change me into what she wants me to be okay how are you great I'm so happy you guys could make it today James and I were just talking about how having the two of you here with a married couple just we were just talking about how the two of you just needed to get away from the city just really focus on each other that's what I've been telling Jen I mean we both work so hard it's not easy to find the time to really get to see each other even when we come to see you I'm really thinking this is going to make a difference thanks for doing this James I'm glad to it's what we're here for please come on in thanks for coming young love is not as easy as people think not today there's so much to think about and worry about when you're young and life is changing love is so sweet and wonderful I just wish it was easy now I'm trying to figure out my place and it would just be a lot easier if being in love was easy hey Melvin hey Michelle a lot of two of you can make it hey I'm glad too James I think this thing could really make a difference I'm saying no he doesn't know what you're saying unless you actually say it hi James hey Dana you know hopefully we can really work through some of our problems today because if not then we just keep trying right James that's a healthy way of looking at it Melvin as long as the two of you are willing to try this thing out you've got a chance come on in guys I work a lot and I love my job but I hope that one day I can fall deeply in love and be happy I'm around love every day but sometimes it's hard to hold it for myself I don't know why I let you talk me into this Charles no we could have just enjoyed a nice weekend together we don't even know what kind of people we're here with talked you into it because we're in trouble Jen you can keep pretending we're not but we got issues woman and the kind of people we're here with how about human and how about your little sister in the show sure they're human but we don't know what they do for a living and Michelle is a kid her and that little Melvin Thug Life guy of hers don't even have a real relationship and with the problems they have I really don't know what we're going to accomplish with them here who cares what the married couple does for a living gin that's the kind of thing that's killing us stop judging people by their jobs and your little sister is not a kid and so is a boyfriend of hers to them their relationship is very real but if you spent less time worrying about them and other people and want to learn about us maybe we wouldn't need this weekend James can I talk to you for a moment yeah sure I got some things off my mind absolutely that's what this Retreat is all about what's going on life is hard sometimes love is harder right and while that may be true that's typically the case when people are worried about the things that don't really matter so the question is what are you worried about that woman of mine she's the most stubborn woman I've ever met she's also the most beautiful creature inside and out and what a guy would make such beautiful love so again what are you worried about what about what she's worried about okay so what is Jen worried about she worries so much about my career that she drowns out on love I love her so much I almost want to be whatever she wants me to be just so that we can get to the happiness We Both Deserve but I know doing that would just make us both unhappy look I want to love her but I want to love her as Charles not some ideal man she has in her head but I've always listened to all the things that she said she's ever wanted and I want her to know that all those things they're right here everything that you've just said you have to say to Jen I know I know okay we're good yeah all right let's go welcome to the retrieves and congratulations to taking your first step to nurturing your relationships relationships it was once said that love isn't hard to find it's hard to hold and what I've discovered is that love is only hard to hold because people bring in all the complications and all the complexities from the outside world into a simple and mutual loving relationship and in turn they yield a complicated relationship and so today we are going to be talking about two main elements of a successful relationship communication and compromise so in this space we are going to ask that everyone be open and be honest with what's going on in your relationship Okay so how's the dating life do you guys still get butterflies in each other's stomach and how's the married life are there still sparkles in your eyes when you guys gaze at each other you know it's hard being married sometimes even though you love each other you want different things yeah and and sometimes you want the same things but but but it's hard to to work through the fear and the miscommunication that happens when when people are just different life like I just still don't feel complete and sometimes I feel like I'm running out of time it's like I just can't catch my breath I got a good man he says that our life is enough for him as it is but I love him so much I just want to give him more up I want to give him another piece of my love that only I can give to I know he wants it at least I hope he does but I know that he's just afraid afraid mostly for me because he really loves me but I need him to understand how much I need him to be in step with me feel like I'm running out of time Kevin help me breathe you know what good point Kevin that's why when one issue is troubling one person it needs to be dealt with right then and right there or it will literally rip couples apart so thanks for bringing that up now who's next well Michelle what's going on with YouTube love birds well we do have a few issues I like what you said about them seeming small because Mel actually thinks that they're small but I think that they're pretty major well do you care to expand on that some more one thing we don't quite see I had an eye on is the way mail dresses and those are good looking guy just sometimes I just wish you would dress a little bit differently what don't have anything to say for yourself Mel I do just not to you but there's an old saying that goes you can't judge a book by its cover what I wear doesn't Define who I am but I can rock the gangster gear but that doesn't make me a gangster a lot of young people dress like this yes young people do it but at some point you're gonna have to learn how to dress like a grown-up I mean do your parents think the way you dress is okay Jen just leave them alone just back up no it's okay I got it baby girl Jen my parents don't give two damns what I wear my father was never around and my mom is always high bouncing from dude to do but I stayed in school and I'm trying to make something of myself you judge me but have you ever thought that there was no one there to teach me I'm doing everything on my own I'm doing what I know and I'm not in jail so get off me great you're not in jail but you dress like you are damn uh oh okay everybody let's let's just take a short break all right and when we get back I've got a really good exercise that'll be able to relieve some of this tension that we're feeling Jen you've got to stop judging people by small things like clothing the young man just said he doesn't know any different how can we condemn him if he doesn't know any better Charles I just don't want him to leave my little sister down the same road my father let his family down my father was a wannabe musician and was rarely home for us when he was home we could hear his music but we can see him couldn't touch him or spend any real time with him my mother was suffering and self-medicating herself to death that is no way to raise a family look there's no guarantee that Mel in the show will end up like your father and mother he's looking for a way out frankly he needs our support not our condemnation it's just something about him that Nikki we need to find a way to get your sister to leave us alone listen I know we gotta deal issues on our own I like Melvin and Michelle they seem like such a cute couple you know what I like them too man you know I I really like the part where the brother said he had to do everything on his own it it made me feel like I wish I could have been there for him kind of like a big brother to help him through some of those tough and confusing times well you know if you had a child of your own you could be there for them too yeah or or maybe um it's not too late for me to be there for this young brother hey man let me holla at you bro no Kevin it's not too late it's never too late to start something or to change something about someone else or about your own life sometimes all you have to do is take the first step [Music] oh all right all right all right simmer down everybody we're getting ready to start our next exercise in the form of positions and this kind of dance is like a relationship both couples moving together in a similar Rhythm and this type of dance is like a relationship which requires cooperation when one person moves the other followers oh people move together in a similar unless you properly coordinate each you may possibly fall yeah all right so go ahead to make some rhythms find your partner and begin to dance [Music] [Music] [Music] but this ain't popular hey hey this ain't popular this ain't popular [Music] just a young man the woman facing the Troubles of the world first time I saw I knew she'd be my girl her eyes had to Sparkle of a diamond that she couldn't have come with better timing Vegeta to my Martin the milk to my Carton on the road to Perfection when everything started but listening to a system made her grow cold-hearted hey but if we supposed to be together I know God will make a way I can say that late at night I don't lay awake and pray she's the love for me that he had planned out and that is time frame will take too long to pan out because when it comes to Passion she's a standout and I just want to fill her fingers in my Palms but not hold my hand out at the end of the day I don't want to be alone what kind of kingdom when a queen beside him at the throne eventually start a family of our own because when I look in the eyes and not a smile I just want to feel like um home wow that was amazing did you write that yourself I did oh wow all right get well guys we're going to start our next exercise so let's go inside oh do they have to play that garbage zone out it's not that loud there's actually a nice track who knew your little sister could sing well I knew it but I just don't think it's that smart of her Thug boyfriend to push her into it like that like she could actually make a career out of it well maybe she could in this rhyme skills we're kind of nice too who knows I went through that mess with my father and I don't want to see my little sister go through that with her Thug of a boyfriend chasing some musician's dream you know he needs to pull up his pants and start thinking about college and a real career Jen Mel is not your father Michelle is not your mother and you are not their mother no Mel is not my father but he's just like him he's Rough Around the Edges he loves music so much no he loves Michelle right now but eventually music will become his only love just like my father the music became his one true love music became his family you know the only thing he loved even though my father once loved us and music was once something he loved I used to love music so desperately [Music] and take up all of his time away from life my father let her fall so he could catch his dream in music [Music] took away my mother and my father I won't let that happen to Michelle she is my responsibility she's all I got [Music] I won't let the music the music stopped loving me when my father stopped loving me that's stop loving [Music] let them figure life out for themselves if they love each other let them find their own way instead of being so negative why not offer them some encouragement maybe I should spend some time mentoring the Young Brother well if you want to make Melvin some kind of urban renewal project and try to save him well go ahead Malcolm Luther King Garvey Jr X but I'm only interested in saving my sister I want her to grow to be a strong independent black woman and he is just not the kind of guy she should be with okay sister Soldier Winfrey McMillan independent woman of the 90s you may not think he's good enough but your sister obviously does and that man you keep one down could end up being your brother-in-law someday whatever [Music] oh Lord please help me I've been loving that woman you sent me thank you you sent me something good and you know my life is better I was alone in the dark and you sent me light I don't mind the challenge that she came with but the challenge that she's bringing me now fear may be too much I know she has a desire that's new dear to her heart but I'm afraid I'm afraid that if we change we won't be what we need I'm I'm afraid Lord that if we change we won't like what we become and so I'm asking you for strength Lord strength Lord to be the man she needs me to be strength Lord to know the path to guide us and keep us together [Music] and in love [Music] amen all right so now that we have had a chance to explore some of some ulterior elements now let's talk about some key elements of making a successful relationship what are you guys thinking love It's All About Love time I think you have to spend time with that person so that you can know everything about that person and you both should have some of the same things in common you know I'm gonna say love and and agree with my baby but but not just the emotion of love I'm gonna say it's it's cool when she tells me she loves me but more importantly she shows me that's what's real that's what's real I can see that she loves you too Kevin that's your woman and she loves you I miss that well what is it that you missed Charles I really miss being with a woman and and I don't mean just just a female with a soft body I mean a feminine woman who loves me I wish that was what I had well I wish I had a man I wish I had someone to stand up make some commitments and show his love by wanting something more out of life and maybe one day you'll find that maybe one day you'll find everything you need and walk off into the sunset like a TV show meanwhile I'm real but you can't see that you know what this isn't even about me why not everything else is well can you be a little bit more clear about where you're getting at Charles well I think it's pretty clear I love my woman and I know she wants to get married but she's not the woman I fell in love with she's not the woman I need I'm still the same woman Charles no you're not Jen you used to talk to me you used to listen to me you used to show me a love like Kim does for Kevin but now you just want me to be whatever you want me to be but you can't be what I need you to be I don't have time to be all that you need me to be Charles I have a career that is demanding and a little sister to take care of yeah I get that you have a career but you don't get that I'm not a part of your life that has to be managed like your career you treat your little sister the same way and it works for her sometimes it never works for me well Charles let's let's just hold on a second here I understand exactly with where you're going with this but let's address what you're feeling a little bit later let's get back to talking about love in general all right well look I think love is about creating private interactions between the two people in the relationship once other people start interfering it's all bad Amen to that my brother great Point Charles you know nine out of ten times people take relationship advice from family members and relatives who aren't even in relationships themselves now what couples ought to be doing is seeking professional advice and counselors yes which is why it's such a great thing that you're all here today not only is James a relationship coach but as a psychologist he did years of research before opening his own practice thanks Dana now I have seen an increasingly amount of successful relationships from those that I have counseled primarily married couples now out of everything being said here today no one has said anything about communication or compromise these two elements are the keys to a successful relationship if you can communicate with your partner and if you can compromise there is nothing that your relationship cannot overcome well if you ask me the real problem is that some people need to elevate themselves walking around all day in dirty clothes and pretending to pursue a music career it's just not that cute and you know what else ain't cute judging people when you don't know the deal about anything related to those people no I'm not letting it go no I've been letting it go but I'm tired of your bougie ass sister always judging a brother but I have plans for my life I have things I want to do and I shouldn't have to be judged by her and even worse I shouldn't have to be judged by her through you well what do me yes through you we don't even have real problems Michelle we have your sister's problems we were cool until she started getting your ear talking about the way I dress and where my life is going we were fine until she started talking all this crap about me and she doesn't even know me little boy what it's a young man you have no business no if he were almost an adult he would be on his way to college and into a real career not wearing some Thug uniform and pretending to be a rapper you know he'll probably end up wearing some silly uniform and getting dirty for a living you mean like me no no that's not what I meant and I missed I know what you meant and you need to deal with it be honest that's why we're here you don't like what I do which means you don't like you don't like who I am you love me but but you don't really like me do you Jen you know I'm not dealing with this now now now wait a minute Jen this is actually a very healthy exchange going on here Charles has been trying to get this off of his chest for a very long time and I'm going to go ahead and disclose that you've been wanting to do the same so please don't leave now there are several issues on the table and I'd like for them to play out Charles what do you mean exactly that Jen doesn't like you sure I'm the cable guy that's how we met I came to install our cable we started talking and the next thing you know we started dating but things can't go too far because I embarrass her I'm not embarrassed of you Charles I love you I know you love me and Lord knows I love you too but you can't deal with the fact that you're a successful attorney and I'm just the Cable Guy we never talk about my job and you never take me around your friends it's getting real old and it's got to stop what we're through all right since we're being honest and dealing with it let me ask you this don't you want something more out of life don't you want a career that you can be proud of at your family and friends can be proud of sure and I have that my family and friends are very proud it's just you with the problem you want to date the cable guy but you don't want to walk around in your world with the cable guy you're damn right I work hard to get to where I am and how well do you think it would go over with the partners of the firm if they knew that I was in love with the Cable Guy honestly you should ask Michael Weissman your senior partner what ask him about your cable guy they'll tell you all about me because his brother is my company's newest investor yes my company we install cable all over the city but you wouldn't know that because you're too busy judging me at face value why didn't you tell me why would I we talk about your job we talk about your goals when it comes to me and what I do you're just not that interested all I hear from you is how I should try and better myself because you don't think I'm good enough but I think I'm good enough and if you don't then maybe I should find somebody else who does I've had it Jen I do think you're good enough I love the way you love me I don't take you around my friends and colleagues because I don't want them to judge you that'll hurt me too much I am so sorry I didn't pay attention to what you do but I don't want to lose you if they don't like what you do then to hell with them because I like what you do me to your man I believe in those College pamphlets around the house I don't need them I'm not just the Cable Guy I own the cable installation company with a new investor we've been able to expand the satellite installation and bring cable into planned communities and I just landed a contract for two more cities hello bro it's a judgmental silliness that's got me and my girl all twisted Twisted is a good word choice what does that mean Michelle don't do this not here not like this I was wrong to turn don't do what well since we all being honest and you talked about things being Twisted let's deal with the real reason we're in trouble Melvin is actually Jen I think Michelle should air out her feelings the two of them need to speak eventually so wait whatever this is even you know well Michelle and I have had some discussions but what's important is that the two of you speak now that's what this group is all about Michelle go ahead Melvin you know I respect you as a rapper and I think you have talent and I will stand by you I just need you to figure out your lifestyle my lifestyle what because I want to rap and that's not my lifestyle look that's how I keep my head straight and keep my time occupied so when the streets call I don't answer look I know where I'm going baby I got a backup plan too so I don't do crimes and I don't ask you or anybody else for anything so I shouldn't be just for how I do things it's not what I'm talking about then what are you talking about look you and I we weren't seeing each other a while back and I thought you were seeing someone else so I followed you what the [ __ ] just listen I followed you to the airport and I saw you hug and kiss a guy I was on the cheek but Melvin I read his lips and he said that he loved you Melvin this isn't funny Melvin are you gay no I'm not gay and I'm angry as hell that you would think that about me and not even highlight me on it okay then what was that whole thing about it was about that man telling me that he loves me and I love him too feel me Melvin no I don't feel you what are you talking about he's my brother I've told you about him before he lives in Japan so you never met him he was in town for the weekend and I took him to the airport for my mom's you and I have beef at the time so I never told you about it gay and go somewhere with that Melvin so sorry it's just that all my girlfriends they was talking about black men being on the down low in your skinny jeans being so it's just sad that you would talk to your girlfriends and not to me don't blame her and everyone knows that more man than ever are on the town actually Jen everybody doesn't know homosexuality accounts for only 15 of the entire population and quite frankly the black community can't contain them all well what about AIDS and like when well we can talk about that but not right now but I do recommend that you go home and do some additional research because there's more than one way of Contracting HIV you know a person doesn't have to have a certain look or lifestyle to have HIV and a man doesn't have to be gay to have HIV it's not a gay disease why are you jumping jumping in I'm just saying you would be surprised at the people who have HIV and how they got it it's not like this is kind of personal and you sound like you need to close your mouth hold on I think I know where you're going here with this are you comfortable with putting this out there I am if Kevin is okay with it you know I'm I'm okay with whatever you're okay with baby well the point that I was making is that it's not about a gay lifestyle it's not just a gay disease for example my ex-boyfriend used to do drugs and shared needles contracted HIV and gave it to me I am so sorry girl thanks but it's not a death sentence anymore you know people can live long and healthy lives with it now I was lucky enough to find a good man who loves me in spite of it so I'm able to live and love hey baby welcome to my humble of bow I've been wanting to cook dinner for you and now here we are all right well you know you didn't have to ask me twice to come over for a home-cooked meal you know clean it makes a man want to marry a woman well I do consider myself a marrying kind of woman well since we've been together I'm Gonna Leave You the same way really well baby you just made my day you know the other day when we were making love you told me that you loved me I don't know I thought it was just in the Heat of the Moment oh that was In the Heat of my heart you know I never thought that I would want to marry a woman or or even feel this way but you've changed all that unless you were telling me you loved me in the In the Heat of the Moment I just no no no impulse is there I truly love you then we should start looking for rings okay wow uh yeah but before we do that um I think we need to have a serious conversation okay talk to me beautiful well Kevin you know I've been with other men before you come on baby this is big Kev I know you had a life before me I had a life before you and I don't care about any of that I I want to focus on our future not our past right right but what happened in my past affects my present kill I don't care okay but you should care I care just listen okay baby I'm all ears um okay well you know the other day when we were making love you said that you wanted us to get tested for STDs so that we could have unprotected sex well I think that we should get tested together but part of what will come up I already know Kim just just tell me I I am telling you Kevin just stop talking [Music] thanks for sharing sharing putting that out there really does benefit the Next Generation for people like Melvin and Michelle so thanks for sharing that was deep you a bad lady I really respect you Kim I knew it wasn't gay disease plus you'd have to be having sex without to be an issue anyway Melvin wait a minute so you two are not having sex no we're not having sex I've never had sex that's why all your negative statements about making your sister pregnant with your sim we know what we're doing and we're waiting to do up not the only ones waiting hold on here Kim we'll get back to you in just a second you are showing me a different side ma'am you may be good enough for my sister now if we can just work on getting you to college or maybe you could stop making assumptions you don't know look I got a 3.5 GPA and I already got a full scholarship to school what are you tell me because maybe it's none of your business Jen listen we've already got enough issues going on between the two of us without having to tell you everything plus you had enough people to tell everything already well Melvin I think your statement is valid but I think Michelle has learned a very valuable lesson we've talked about this before are you willing to talk more to Mel and less to other people this whole yes listen now I am so sorry to have ever thought anything like that about you you just talk to me I feel like if we keep it more hearted with each other we can work through anything and I'm here today so I should tell you that I'm going nowhere now why aren't you leaving me wait a minute I thought you were going to stay with her no matter what I'm not leaving her like that my scholarship is to a school out of state I was gonna stay around here but I think it's best that I get out of the city well why can't Michelle go with you for once we see eye to eye on something I've been asking her the same thing for a while now Michelle [Music] Ben look you and I we just started having this real Sister Sister relationship I want that I need that I don't want to leave you I am your sister I love you going away to college oh it's such a great experience I did it and I grew so much you know I can only imagine how much better it would have been if Charles get with me okay I'll think about it okay wow I guess this whole communication thing actually helps now couples we've been going for quite some time now so let's go ahead and take a small bathroom phone call uh food break all right let's reconvene in about 15 minutes right Jennifer what are you doing nothing so what are you doing I need you to install some cable Charles they just went in there together well maybe neither one of them could wait come on Kevin don't be so naive you know what they're doing there no I don't and neither do you stop making silly assumptions uh hey you guys okay in there okay I was just thundering because you know others are waiting almost done so I'm just a stone cable that's what I do see that that was crazy just go in and handle your business woman no no people can care well I care oh can't stop it thank you all right let's go ahead and get settled down everybody let's get comfortable now Kim I believe there was something you wanted to say specifically to Kevin there sure is I hear the youngsters talking about not having sex and well I can relate so so we're just going to put everything out there in front of everybody Julie Kevin yes we are we agree that in the group setting to be open and to be honest that way it benefits and it supports everybody whatever all right Kim go ahead oh I'm not a virgin like Michelle I just feel like one you know what I've got feelings too and what I'm feeling right now is pressure a lot of it listen I love our life together baby but what I don't love is all the baby talk it's it's baby Edition and and baby that and baby is turning me off okay why is having children a problem couples with HIV can have healthy babies with the proper medical attention it's not the HIV sir age her sister waited until well into her 40s to have a child that kid has so many health concerns it's not even funny if that's what we're facing I don't want to do it that's what you're concerned about Kevin I'm not even that damn old you're not even that damn young either I mean wait no I'm not no we're we're no baby look I'm I'm not judging you as a person I'm I'm not that young either I just I don't like the idea of having a child so late in life that would be the interruption of everything and I don't want to do it Kevin I just wish you had told me that this was your concern even before the HIV I took great care of myself I took care of my body I haven't even been with that many men I know those things about you baby okay just listen I know you know those things but what you don't know is anything about my sister I mean you know she she drank a lot she she had a lot of boyfriends and there were some other things I don't even want to talk about but she had a lot of abortions portions yes Kevin that's why she had so much trouble with this pregnancy you know even her doctor said that this was going to be a high risk pregnancy because of everything that she had been doing to her body none of that applies to me my doctor has given us the green light you know he he says that he'll work with us and that we'd be more than likely to have a perfectly healthy child I didn't know those things about your sister all you had to do was ask I get it Kevin I just you didn't want me anymore oh baby please you're all I want and I miss being intimate with you I can't keep taking cold showers so you two will have sex again right now I just need to make sure somebody here having sex I like to know too so Kevin will you come with me to the doctor and just ask any questions that you have look baby I'm I'm scared too but I want both of us to be comfortable great this was absolutely great now Kevin I believe that you had some sort of a disclosure that you wanted to put out there are you still wanting to do that now well you know what I I thought it was a good idea but I I don't know now I I don't want to dampen the Moon well Kevin actually I don't believe you're going to be dampening the mood at all actually that's this is why we are here to be open and to be honest so let's just go ahead and put it out there you have right about now I feel like there's nothing we can't get through so go ahead Eddie you know when we first came here thought that we didn't know anybody but I recognized somewhat how did you know okay I I know Jan you know Jen how do you know Jen what in the hell is wrong with you why would you tell anybody we went an entire day without anyone knowing you just had to get up your chest I'm not freaking out I just shut his mouth Kevin you had better speak quickly this situation is sounding very messy you know this has hold on here everybody everyone just relax if we just let the man talk we need to be able to put it everything out and open and he could put it everything in proper perspective Kevin go ahead well I I really don't think this is a good idea but since I started you know when we first got married marriage then when you start talking about the child God that made things so so hard and and you know we weren't even talking for a while oh that I remember that Kevin but then we worked through all of our problems and our marriage has been very good up until recently yeah because you would stop talking about it until recently then when you started talking about it again I just it was just so hard so what you slept with this bimbo listen I I was out of town on a business trip I was in a hotel lobby I was having drinks and that's where I met you it was just small talk at first and then something sparked off hmm so you're just gonna go around sparking things off everybody it was not a single man didn't you see this ring on its finger at that time in my care did you ever care and and you did you ever care yes I cared then and I care now Kim I was confused and and I was worried that our marriage was in trouble and even though I was worried about our marriage I was also afraid and that fear made me want to be sure that I wanted to be married so I thought that that if I had an affair that it would mean that I didn't want to be married so Jen and I had a few drinks and we danced and then she came up to my hotel room with me baby we went up there to have sex yes and yes I kissed her but when I looked at her all I saw was you and I couldn't go through with it and we just we talked and we talked about you baby told her how much I loved you and and how much I wanted to save my marriage and and stay with you for the rest of my life Kim I didn't I didn't cheat then I haven't since and I never will it was a moment of weakness and it showed me it showed me how much I it showed me how much I want to stay with you and stay married please I'm glad you didn't sleep with her Kevin but why didn't you just tell me after that weekend look when I came back we made up we talked about everything we even talked about how it wasn't the right time to to have the conversation about the child and even with everything we've been going through recently Kimberly I can't really I know you don't want to hear from me right now I think you're the luckiest woman in this room to have a man love you through all you've been through and I know that Charles loves me love you through all you've been through is truly amazing girl it was just a kiss that was two minutes and then he spent hours talking about you Batman loves your entire existence thank you Genie don't thank me thank her for forgiving you because we both know she will everyone in here can see how much the two of you walk into and I'm inspired because I want what you two have so I intend to get money in right here to forgive me for something that happened before I met him look at you Jen you came in here earlier today with a huge chip on your shoulder and now you have hope in your heart I'm proud of you and I'm proud of you too as well now Kim you will forgive Kevin won't you ultimately I'm sure that I will he needs to work on some things we need to work on some things I'm not going anywhere great work everyone now let's go ahead and wrap it up downstairs all right everybody great work great work today I believe we've all set a very strong foundation on love today coach coach so three down and one to go who wants to go what do you mean what that means is that all of us have seen the way you and Dana interact and there is definitely something there well I I can admit that Dana and I do share somewhat of a chemistry but to pursue something like that might just be a little just too hard too hard why doing exactly what you're asking us to do communicating no not that it's what is it seems like you guys dance well together seems like you get us what's the problem well it's just the differences between us and it's just can't enter into something like that too lightly it's difficult what do you mean because you're older than her no no no no it's truly got medication for that no no no no no it's it's not her age it's it's her race the whole black white thing that's all well I thought most black men like white women who cares if she's white if you like so you do like her don't all right okay hold on everybody look I don't have anything against white people okay I just know how difficult it is for people in interracial relationships to even fit into this society and equally important I know it's not easy for biracial children as well so I just don't think that anyone should enter into a relationship like that not easy but what about love what if you love that person more than anything yes What About Love um shouldn't love be able to conquer any obstacle Dana how long have you been standing there long enough James if everyone here can see the kind of chemistry we have in just one short day why should we keep denying it I'm gonna go out on a limb here and tell you that I think you're the perfect man for me and that I would like to explore with you to see what we can become Dana and that means that we have to focus on each other as individuals for example I don't care that you're nearly 10 years older than I am and because I have feelings for you I don't care about any other difference either I know you have feelings for me too James look me in my eyes and tell me that you don't James look at me Dana wait you're right I am drawn to you and I have been for a very long time and you're right the differences that people have between them shouldn't be allowed to overcome the clear chemistry that they I'm drawn to you Dana I have for a very long time and I I think it's time that I stop fighting it see where this goes [Music] um oh can you uh get the door while I regain my composure yeah I'm gonna get gonna get the door oh hi uh may I help you hi oh you must be James Irving I'll be picking up Dana later I just want to let him know my cell phone died and I need to give it a number where I'm staying since I don't have the number here can you give it to her for me absolutely Mr uh Ron Ron McBride oh that's uh it's pretty funny what's funny it might just be a coincidence but it's not like you guys are related or anything you guys have the same last name well it's not that much of a coincidence and I guess you could see a river lady oh yeah I'm a father are you all right sir oh Dana hey Daddy sorry to barge in my cell phone died and I need to give you the number where I'm staying so you can call me when you're finished right right is this guy okay yeah he's okay at least he will be thanks Daddy okay got a whole lot of shopping planned for so don't be late I won't I'll call you shortly we should be wrapping up in a little while thanks Daddy and sister cat has his tongue can you tell your boss he's welcome to come for dinner tonight nice meeting you James uh yeah likewise Daniel why did you tell me tell you what that you should want to be with me for me and not throw away our potential I heard the question when I came in the room and if I had to convince you that it was okay to be with a woman you thought was white I would rather pass Dana you have to understand I understand completely I do I'm the product of an interracial relationship and instead of running from it we do have two people who can give us some insight well I'm just glad we made peace before I met your father right look Dana I've been avoiding this for quite some time and I think right now it's quite unavoidable I love you and I have for a very long time I love you too and I've been falling in love with you every day and I'm just glad we can embrace it and see where it can go foreign foreign foreign [Music]

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