Insulting Others - Nouman Ali Khan

a prophet sallallahu alayhi wasalam had many companions and many of them are very famous and some of them not so fea famous a young man by the name of Fabio in place who actually had a hearing disorder he could only hear from one side of his ear he used to insist that he sits right next to the messenger salallahu alayhi wa sallam so his good ear is on the side of the Prophet excellent so you can hear him as a matter of fact Rasul Allah so I seldom used to make extra accommodations for him to sit right next to him and before I even tell you the subject of my hood but that's actually a very interesting indication of how rasool ullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam would put in the first row people that have any kind of handicap and you usually think of people that have a handicap you put them in some other side space or some other place some special accommodation this person is sitting next to rasul allah salallahu alayhi wasalam in any case the story is actually somewhat interesting he was late one time he was late to come to the hot spot that the messenger was giving ala he thought was sedan so he kept pushing people to come to the front and when he's coming to the front he sees this one Sahabi who doesn't know is basically a no-name companion not famous guy so he tells him move rudely now this the person who has the handicap is now being rude he's saying move and so the Sahabi refuses to move and he says to him why don't you move who are you who do you think you are when and if no one so he's a college me fool and this is my name it's interesting that when he mentioned his name you know you'd mention your name in Arabic you mentioned who you're the son of that's how you're identified so he mentioned enough food on a bin full and I'm the so-and-so's son he goes oh that one even Falana oh your mom is this woman right now these people their parents are not Muslim right because they just became Muslim so their parents are not Muslims and if there are non-muslims they have history they have different kinds of lives so this is this guy's mother this sahabis mother she used to have a reputation in the in some shady circles and the guy the one who was moving him remembered that that she's married to that man so he mentioned her father his father he said oh I know your father but I also know your mother and he said it like that and this is a idea the idea was to humiliate him to embarrass him to remind him of what his mother used to be like and this is happening in the front row as the result slides I was sitting there so also Syme stops the whole blood and he points to that man and he says mother I look around you what do you see he asks the Sahabi who insulted the other side what do you see and he says relate on us word when up y'all what now I see black I see white I see red in other words I see all these different people of different ethnicities different colors different races I see all of them and then the asylum says of belukha and Allah he at conk on the best of you with Allah are the people that have the most aha in other words or suicide Salim crushed this idea of being able to make fun of someone I'm not saying anything bro I'm just saying that's your mom right you're just going to do that much but also sides of them stop them in his tracks put it to an end there's ways to insult people sometimes you can insult someone very directly you can curse them out sometimes it's indirect sometimes you don't even have to use words to insult someone and as a matter of fact the most common way of demeaning someone putting someone down is not even to use words to make a face you can make assert you could look at people a certain way and they can know that you're not welcome or they think of you as inferior you know so now our dean of course it tells us what to say and what not to say but that's not enough that's just not enough because sometimes people can actually use good words and still insult you there's a way to call someone brother and then we say move brother brother you could say the word brother in a kind way and you could say the same word brother in a demeaning condescending way just because you're using the right word doesn't mean you have the right attitude you guys know those of you that are parents know that all too well when your children say Salam to you there's different ways of things about there's a way that shows respect in this virus on uh-huh you what did you see is it why it goes around you did say it but that's not how you say Salaam you after Juma has done you're trying to get to your shoes you're just trying to push people out the way so you can get to your shoes because you know you have an emergency meeting people's lives are depending on you so your shoes are very important so you're pushing people around and this brother that you push kindly says to you Salam or aleikum tonight goes on and you said something nice may peace be upon you but there's no peace on your face there's no peace in the elbow you just threw at it but you're saying something that you don't need because I should do

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Length: 5min 22sec (322 seconds)

Published: Thu Jul 23 2015