If A Man Leaves You!

hey I'm trying to just be on here ten minutes tonight Lord willin trying to talk for ten minutes I was doing my Q&A and a young lady she asked me a question was the last question that I answered and that's the last question on my answer in the Q&A tonight but she asked me she said said Tony I've been married I mean been with a guy not married then with a guy off and on for six years wants to get married but afraid to live together and that's what I believe that's what I read and I was thinking about this earlier I've been meaning to get on here and do a video and just let y'all know and I want to help y'all ladies understand this I think I actually answered this question in a coaching call with one of my women clients female clients at home I was telling her that a man never understand this a man never never a man never leaves a woman that he wants to marry never you never man never leaves a woman he wants to marry if you are the one for that man he will not break up with you he will not and when I say he won't break up with you I mean like because he needs space because he needs time because he is going through something because he is has a new job because he needs to get closer to God because he needs to deal with his his ex or his baby mama because he needs to work on himself a man will never never leave a woman that he sees as a wife ever under any circumstances it would be think about this if you have your dream job are you going to leave your dream job no if you have your dream car are you gonna leave your dream car no a man will never leave a woman that he wants to marry that is his dream woman under any circumstances when a man leaves you it's because he feels you are not the one and he needs time to look around he needs time to weigh his options without having to answer to you that's why he leaves you that is why I met when a man said I need time to work on me that's not true because you could work on you in a relationship and you should always be working on you in a relationship so I'm working on me right now I've been married 12 years I'm still working on me so a man will never leave you to work on his self a man will not leave you to get closer to God he's not gonna leave you to because you could read your Bible two chapters when you wake up in the morning you could read two chapters on your lunch break you could read two chapters at night a man is not leaving you because he's going through something because his mother died because his father died because his grandfather grandmother his best friend got killed a man is not leaving you because somebody and his life died he's not leaving you for that because it's in that moment that he needs you the most it's in that moment that he needs consolation and he needs some shoulder to cry on a man is not leaving you because somebody his life died Amanda's not leaving you because he got a new job a man is not leaving you because he moved to a new state the only time a man leaves you when when it has nothing to do with you cheating on him it's because he does not want you now some of y'all say well well my man love he came back later and we married today that's because when he went into the world the other women he met were unwilling to put up with him and when they wouldn't give him his way he looked back to you and you were still standing still twiddling your thumbs and that's why he came back to you when you're the one for a man he knows it the first time around I've never left my wife I've never left my wife she had to leave me she had to kick me to the curb because I didn't want to grow up in dating and in marriage she left me once in day and she left me once in marriage I've never left my wife because I knew from the day the first day I met her and talked with her that she was a wife and then she could be my wife so but when I tried to change her and this is what you also got to understand it's just because a man feels that you are his wife does not mean that he won't cheat on you does not mean that he won't try to hurt you try to change you try to make you put up with his mess and the reason why I say that is because humans always want the easy route humans especially men always want the easy route so you could be wife material and that man will still try to see if you will excel him yelling at you him cursing at you him lying to you him giving you his word and not keeping his word he will try to test you to see if you will accept that and he tests you small ways by saying I'm a car yet nine I did not call it that's a test by saying I'm gonna come over and see you and not coming by saying hey let's go on a date Friday at 7 p.m. and didn't counseling he'll test you like that to see if he could cheat on you because if you allow him to do all the little stuff y'all let you curse at you give you his word not keep it that's what sets him up to know that he possibly can get away with cheating on you so but man can see you as his wife and still do you dirty be he wants to see if you're going to accept it when you don't accept it and you have to leave him now he realizes that he got to chase you he has to get you back but he has to come correct he realizes that and then that is when he grows when you don't reinforce the behaviors that you don't want so if you don't want to be yelled at you don't want to be cursed at you don't want to be lied to you don't want to be given a word and the word not honored the word not kept you don't want to be cheated on you don't want to be beat on you don't want to be abused in any way socially verbally financially emotionally mentally physically you don't want any form of abuse when he exhibits something that you don't want and you shut it down you call him out he does it again you leave him as if you're never coming back you're not saying we're taking a break you're not saying I'm gonna be back in two weeks you're saying it's around then that is when a man gets his act together not our tenth time 99% of men gonna try you to see what you're going to put up with and when he realizes you won't take no crap if he sees you as his wife he will become the best man on the face of the planet he'll enter into the space that I'm living in he'll come into the grown man zone if he sees you're not gonna put up with anything if anything you put up with that's what he will give you for the rest of your life you said will he grow will he change no he won't the only way a man grows and changes and when a woman won't Excel that behavior that's the only way a man gonna grow and change he's not gonna grow and change on his own if you only sell less than the best Point Blank period and understand this a man who loves you who sees you as a wife will never leave you never listen to what I'm saying write it down put it on a board never spell it out ne ve R never leave you I'm not gonna give you a Rolls Royce I'm not walking away from the Rolls Royce I'm not walking away from a Lamborghini I'm not walking away from a 6-7 figure job if a man see you as his dream woman he's never walking away from you trust me when I tell you this I just told me guys I didn't want to drop that with you god bless you we're tops on

Channel: Tony Gaskins

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Length: 9min 10sec (550 seconds)

Published: Fri Sep 06 2019