How to KNOCK DOWN the Wall Between You and Your DREAM! | Ed Mylett

today's really simple you're gonna knock down whatever that rock is that's been between you and your dreams you're gonna keep after you're gonna be relentless you're not gonna give in you're gonna be the person who stays excited until the entire job gets done until that dream is real and you know long-term all these other people they're gonna flinch they're gonna get weak and you won't [Music] welcome back to max out everybody IMed my let I want to welcome you back to the program I'm fired up about today's show because we're getting right into what it takes to win and that is this write this down one more one more see I accepted a long time ago I wasn't the smartest the best-looking the fast enough with the best background the most connections I don't have any of those things what I could control was my work ethic you've heard me speak many times about out working everybody but I think that just feels good when we hear it but most people don't take it seriously if you think that I have a little bit of success in my life I can tell you what I attribute it to yes self-confidence yes mindset visualization goals all the things I talk about all the time listening skills influence energy transfer how to be happier all of that stuff applies when you get to winning for me it's come down to maxing out and what maxing out means is you do one more at least than you think you're capable of so when you're done whatever you're doing whether it's at the gym or phone calls or meetings or in sports one more shot one more throw one more swing of the golf club or the baseball bat the separator is for the winners they do one more I'm addicted to one more and so I want your much we're going forward to be one more what does that look like if we're working out that means when we're in the gym and we say I'm gonna do five sets of ten I'm crazy like I'm a psycho cuz I want to win I want to be somebody I want to separate I want to compete and the way I do that isn't with my giftedness because I wasn't born with a bunch of gifts and I think gifts are crap I think for the most part gifted people struggle in life because things come easy them I like the things haven't come easy for me in my life I like to have natural talents in every area and maybe you like that about you too maybe you've looked at yourself all your life and thought man I don't have that natural beauty or that natural talent or this gift for creativity or intellect or humor I don't have any of those things but what I got is I will outwork you and so at the gym one of the things I focus on they say it's five sets of ten when I'm at ten I go one more BAM 11 if I'm running on the treadmill and it's a 45-minute run I never finish at 45 always go one more minute 46 if I'm at the office and I'm supposed to make 25 phone calls that day when I'm at the end of the day I always do one more if I've got meetings I always do one more my mantra for three decades in business has been one more why because we get out of life when we think we deserve and I'm the kind of guy that I know when you do 45 minutes on the treadmill and I do 46 I deserve to be fitter I know that when I'm lifting weights and I watch you do five sets of 10 in every single time I do one more when it's set of five I do six when it's a set of eight I do nine when it's 45 on the treadmill I do 46 when it's supposed to be 20 phone calls I make 21 when it's supposed to be an eight-hour workday I work nine whatever it is I always do one more and with that does is it makes me eventually think I'm doing things other people aren't willing to do so I should get things other people aren't gonna get and if you go to the root of the things I believe philosophically about winning the people that win the great athletes that I coach when I watch the really gifted golfer and the one who actually wins the gifted golfer they do what they're supposed to do you never know they weren't working on it's not like people don't work hard everybody works hard that's a given now but what's the separator to where you become the maxed out version of you see the gifted golfer they hit their hundred balls because they're supposed to but the not so gifted one that ends up winning they hit a hundred and one or a hundred and ten or a hundred and twenty I watched them on the driving range and they could hear them say one more one more what's the difference between Kobe Bryant and other gifted NBA players when he played or Michael Jordan when they played or right now Kevin Durant people tell me or Steph Curry they're constantly when everyone else is done shooting in the gym they say one more bird was legendary for one more one more the people that would throw the passes to him the ball guys in practice like he always wants more he always wants more the great hitters that I know the Mike trout's an MLB they're gifted but they just take a little more they take that extra batting practice that extra session they're always doing extra that's the separator like you can learn all this stuff you can digest all the tactic is information that I give out but if you're not willing to do one more eventually there's a part of you that says maybe maybe I don't deserve it I'm just doing what everybody else is doing and that's not good enough it's not even good enough to do more than everybody else it's you're maxed out level it's one more of everything and so whether that's a phone call an email a text an appointment one more time you tell your spouse you love them one more time you go in and kiss your children goodnight one more hug of somebody one more phone call one more everything I want your theme to be one more have I said that enough times for you today so what's that really look like an application well the second thing it does freeze you actually do more reps of whatever it is you're doing and when we do more repetitions we get better and when we do more repetitions we're more productive so number one is the psychology part if you're someone who's always doing things other people aren't willing to do you always max out you always go to the next level you convince yourself you deserve to win you can take low self-esteem low identity low confidence and change it over time by building this habitual addiction to doing one more this obsession of one more all the greats do one more and all the average don't it's not that the average don't work hard it's not that the average that's your company they don't it's up they don't work hard they probably work pretty hard but do they always do extra do they always do one more do they always do ten more if they need to do they always get after it the other part of it number two is you just get better because of the reps you're just doing more of something you get better you get you get stronger you you become a better phone caller when you make one more phone call every day you become a better communicator when you do one more meeting every single day you get better at coordination in your sport or at the gym by just doing more reps yes you get better so that's the second layer but the third one is you stack the odds in your favor see for me I want the odds that I'm going to win to increase the larger numbers we play in life in every area more is always better people tell you more isn't always better and almost everything more is better just so you know and almost everything people who tell you more isn't better and most things are lazy and they try to justify their own weakness don't let people who are justifying their own weakness convince you that you working hard you doing more isn't the pathway to your success people say well you got to work smarter not harder that's a lie because everybody who wins works smarter the separators who works harder and by the way we become smarter through working harder all the new revelations all the breakthroughs all the new discoveries always come when you're doing one more always come through more repetitions you find new ways new strategies new words new keys by higher repetitions so even if you believe working smarter is more important you will become smarter by doing more so if you work 300 days a year let's just say 300 days a year that's 300 more phone calls every single year over five years that's 1500 more contacts 1500 more contacts just think about that just for a second over 30 years that's 9,000 more contacts what are the odds the person who makes 9000 more contacts or even 300 more a year gonna win you give me to average people to walk in a room same ability same skills same backgrounds same product one of them makes 300 more contacts here the other one who's gonna win we know how about over five years one of them makes 1500 more contacts over five years who's gonna win over a lifetime thirty years of work one makes 9000 more contacts who's gonna win you stack the odds in your favor never mind the person who's made the 9000 more contacts is better they've got more reps they've got more confidence they believe they deserve to win they just have 9,000 more opportunities how about a golfer one of them makes 300 more swings a year a year and that's just one more swing a day right and over a year over five years 15 under more 9000 over lifetime who's more likely to win so you pick anything you want you begin to stack the odds in your favor how about at the gym if every day you went one more minute in your cardio so it's supposed to be 45 you do 46 do you know what that starts to do to you you start knowing you're different you start knowing you obliterate standards you start knowing you can break through when you break through an artificial barrier like 45 minutes you do one more it sets a catalyst for your entire day it's it's a syntax it sets a mindset for the rest of your life never mind the fact that if you do 300 more minutes which is 9,000 more over your lifetime who's gonna be more fit so you begin to stack these things and your entire life changes this is what I like to call compound pounding most people underestimate what time can do when backed up with massive activity right as I'm speaking to I'm looking out at the ocean right now and there's a massive rock formation and you can see the rivets and the rocks and what caused those rivets in the what rocks was compound pounding of the ocean hitting that rock over and over and over again over and over compound pounding against that rock and over time that ocean breaks the rock down over time where you can see the breakdown in a rock that water does hitting it think about that over time not one time when the water hits it not two times not five times when you add up years and years and years of that water hitting the rock it breaks it down and that's like getting through to your dream you have to be like that water hitting the rock I'm staring at right now that over time that compound pounding breaks down the barriers breaks down the obstacles breaks down anything in your way of getting to your dream so I'm sold out on all the strategies and tactics that I teach you but what I believe in completely is the power of compound pounding and here's the crazy thing about most people they will give up on their dream before the compounding has been allowed to kick in so they'll work at it and they'll work at it and the work out and they don't see the breakthrough but what they don't understand is that rock was getting ready to break if you just keep pounding against it but because most people don't see the evidence see if you watch that water hit that rock over one day you're gonna see no difference two days no difference five days no difference maybe even a year there's no difference maybe even five years but you have the compound pounding of every wave hitting that rock over and over again there's an inevitability to the breakdown of the rock that's true of your goals and dreams as well there's an inevitability to success it's not a matter of if it's a matter of when when we adopt one more when we adopt compound pounding do you know the kind of confidence you begin to have when you just accept in your life that I am going to be relentless I'm always gonna do extra and you accept the fact that all things break down over time all the barriers will go away all the obstacles will go away everything in your way will go away if you keep after it over an extended period of time most people overestimate what they can do in a year they do they set up goals for a year and they overestimate where they're gonna get to and they dramatically underestimate what they can do in a decade and the reason for that is most people don't understand the power of compound pounding so I want you to accept today that you're gonna be relentless that you're gonna keep coming that you're like a dripping faucet you're like those waves hitting the rock other people are gonna get slowed down other people going to take a break other people are gonna flinch other people are gonna cool it other people gonna believe they've made it or maybe some people believe they can't make it but you're gonna be relentless you're gonna be repetitious you may not be the fastest you may not be the smartest you may not be the strongest you may not be the most beautiful you may not have the most articulate thoughts and ideas in the world but what you got is compound pounding what you got is one more and when they get weak you just keep competent when they flinch you blow their doors off that's how you win in life as you keep getting after it and keep getting after it until the job gets done you show me somebody who can succeed so a lot of people excited for a day they could be excited for a month some people can be excited for a year or two or three years but the winners they stay excited as long as it takes to get the job done they keep after it until the job gets done they never stop they're always after it and that's where their strength comes from that's where their confidence comes from is knowing their capacity to keep coming at you and that all your competition is gonna get weak they're gonna get tired they're gonna surrender they're gonna give in they're gonna think they made it they're gonna take a break they're gonna and you just keep coming it's just nature just like the nature of the ocean against that rock it's just nature that you run down your dream that you knock down your dream I want you to implement all the things that I teach on max out all the tactics all the strategy but more than anything I want you to buy into the fact of an inevitability of you winning that it's inevitable that it might not be a year or two years or three years but you're gonna stay excited and you're gonna keep doing one more until the job gets done today's message is very simple you can win you should win and you will win I want you to feel this you will win if you just keep coming you keep getting after it you keep doing one more you can control this you can't control all the exterior things in your life people's attitudes how they treat you who cancels on you who changes their mind who hates on you who lets you down but you can control this you can always go 46 instead of 45 you can always go 11 instead of 10 you could always make the next phone call always do one more meeting always do one more always always always and I promise you you will knock down that rock that's in between you and your dream and make them come true today's really simple you're gonna knock down whatever that rock is that's been between you and your dreams you're gonna keep after you're gonna be relentless you're not gonna give in you're gonna be the person who stays excited until the entire job gets done until that dream is real and you know long-term all these other people they're gonna flinch they're gonna get weak and you won't you've adopted a maxout mindset I want to remind you today to stay connected with me I want you to win hope you can feel it today I want to break it down to its most simple form which is that you use nature to your advantage you use the force of you the force of effort the force of sustained effort over an extended period of time to wear out to the obstacles in front of you in your dream I want you to feel the confidence that comes with it I'm telling you look at me listen to me you're gonna do this you're gonna win if and it's a big if if you'll just adopt it it'll be written everywhere one more one more max out everywhere you can put it it's inevitable it's not if anymore it's just when and I want to remind you that and another reminder is the two-minute drill I'm trying to stay so connected with you I want to know what you're going through I wonder what your issues are your thoughts your your hopes your aspirations your dreams so that I can help you with the right material the right tactics the right inspiration so every day on Instagram we run the max out two-minute drill and it's very simple here's what winners get by the way the winners of the max out two-minute drill win coaching calls with me with my guest tickets to see me speak copies of my book max out gear there's some going forward now in a few weeks that are riding on my jet with me doing their coaching call live on my jet there's so many great things that you can win and there's three ways to win that prize when I make a post in my main feed on Instagram you just make a comment within the first two minutes and not just hashtag max out make a comment in the first two minutes we pick a winner every day who just makes a comment in the first two minutes and we usually extend it to about five minutes number to make a comment on other people's comments so after you've left your comment comment on a few other people's comments I'm gonna begin to reward people who connect and collaborate because I want you doing that with each other in the community so make a comment on someone else's comment and third if you missed the first two to five minutes that's not a problem just make a comment every day on every post I make it at the end of the week we pick winners who just make a comment every day regardless of whether it's a two minutes or four hours or eight hours afterwards doesn't matter what time it is so there's three ways to win want to encourage you to participate in the max out two-minute drill share and subscribe to today's program I hope it gave you hope I hope it gave you certainty and hope it gives you a very simple recipe to dominate god bless you and max outt hey guys thanks for sticking around if you'd like more click the videos right here they're exactly what you need to see next and if you're new here hit subscribe and become a part of the max outt community and tell me what you think about the videos in the comments below I read all of them every week and I select winners and get all kinds of prizes gear coaching calls with me make a comment

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Length: 17min 23sec (1043 seconds)

Published: Tue May 21 2019