HOW TO KEEP YOUR MAN DESIRING YOU FOR ETERNITY

ladies and gentlemen father alex forgot his toxic back in mexico city i swear to god man my mom always told me that you're gonna forget your girlfriend one day at the airport you know it's like how the hell do i forget to bring it how does a toxic coach forgot to bring this tox steak how is that possible that's an oxymoron ladies and gentlemen all right man it doesn't work the same alex i'm happy cause now you can stop [ __ ] poking us all right ladies um so today we're going to talk about how to keep a man desiring you okay and look um if this is one of those videos that it's kind of like it's not what you expect okay um desire um you see desire is never about com about possessing you completely desire is more about the imagination because as soon as you have what you desire it is absolutely and on the on and on make it unmitigated part of human nature to take it for granted that's just how it is and in the beginning of meeting somebody they will have peak desire for you and maybe as as the years go by you have periodic peaks and valleys but it's never going to stay at peak okay um another thing is that the ones that desire you the most for the most part will never have you like that that's the uh that's the that's the paradox behind this is that there are guys out there that want you more than your man but the only reason why they desire you is because they cannot have you okay so that's the second thing um by the way um we're having a seminar in new york city this september we're having a meet and greet on friday and not this friday but you know click on the description when that is on friday and then a seminar or three hour seminar on saturday the meet and greet is gonna be like one hour or so um but you know for free loaders but um the next day's gonna be a full-on seminar and it's pretty much gonna be about my book the chase where i teach you guys how to make guys chase is pretty much fundamentals of attraction so i will check it out or else i'm closing the channel okay go go there on closing it um and this video was sponsored by some of our loyal and the lord and father not the lord and the lord means a lawyer patreon supporters as you can see here for 25 hours a month you can ask me a question that i'll make a video about it and i have other bonuses in there that you can see like a book club or like a separate youtube channel where i post videos there that i don't post on youtube um i'll even draw you i gotta send some drawings out today actually but yeah go check it out where i'm closing the channel don't piss me off um so yeah man so that's the first second thing is that the guys that like you the guys that desire you the most will never like when they would never be with you and as a result you'll always be in their imagination desire is most is mostly in the imagination why because desire is dopamine desire is the anticipation of something good right it's not it's not about liking it it's about desiring it so we could talk about what you could do to create desire in a god but generally speaking the most desire you have is with a guy who's not with you now your brain is programmed to get excited about the unexpected and that's why when you don't like the guy that likes you bad because you're more unpredictable you'll you'll say i won't hang out with you tonight but then when tyrone doesn't hit you up that night you're like [ __ ] this [ __ ] man i gotta call bob the builder you hit up bob bob was like hey barbie right that's how i sound like a [ __ ] that's how like a dweeb sounds like my mind hey girl right and he'll be there for you but what happened you just gave him a dope a a dose of dopamine he wasn't expecting you you hit him up he gets excited right and you do it so infrequently that every time you do it it's still it still boosts it still gives him a spike of dopamine so because of that he's always gonna be in that state of like oh oh he's gonna hit she can't hit me up she can hit me up always thinking of you and maybe you guys can even relate to this maybe you guys are in that situation where you don't know when he hits you up and when he hits you up and feels so excited it's not that you love him or like him it's just that you're addicted to it and if you if you actually get with him over time you might actually start seeing right through him and you may not even like him as much right so that's one of those things now you gotta understand there are two types of realities that people live okay there's one extra personal characteristics of the things in the extra personal space to get them requires time effort and in many cases planning anything that's outside of your reach is extra personal and that involves dopamine anything that's outside of your reach that you have to plan out involves dopamine the next part is parapersonal contrast anything in the per personal space which can be experienced here and now holding this seeing my girlfriend which is here right now right see my um you know hanging out with my girlfriend touching her all that kind of stuff right appreciating her that's pretty personal but the thing is is that as soon as you get as soon as something goes from extra personal distance to personal close the dopamine will begin to fall down and what will go up is oxytocin which is the neural chemical that allows you to experience and enjoy the here and now that's why when you smoke weed your your dopamine goes down here and now chemicals goes up and now you feel lazy because dopamine has gone down but the chemicals that allows you to appreciate what's in front of you watching tv talking to your friends listening to new music is up so that's why some people feel um that's why some people feel amazing when they smoke weed so understand this to make a guy desire you got to keep that distance um so if you're in a relationship with a guy you have to find a way to put a little bit of that distance in there um you have to because you got to understand he loves you but his he has he also has a mammalian um brain and that brain will get used to whatever is in front of you now you you may not keep them desiring you all the time but to love you is different to love you is something more achievable desire completely 100 of the time it's just your ego you get what i'm trying that's just your ego to love you is something that is manageable and realistic now let's just talk about how to keep them desiring you you got to have some turmoil you got to have some ups and downs it pretty much becomes toxic right so because it's not natural to keep desiring a woman all the time like i'm sorry i don't think it's natural the brain is not designed that way to desire something and to keep releasing dopamine at the same rate that's the that's the mind of an addict it just doesn't work that way so what you got to do is learn to maintain a little bit of mystery use your head plan out things give them give them some random little surprises yes it takes planning yes it takes thinking that's why most people don't do it right so from time to time don't text him back on time as long as this is the key though there has to be trust between you guys i'm sorry you guys have to trust each other because if you do this and there's no trust he might think you're cheating like that's the kind of trust i want i don't want to kind of trust where we're like oh this bridge is going to do this [ __ ] now no i want the kind of trust where he says okay i know she's not banging her personal trainer so what the [ __ ] is going on like that kind of stuff i don't want him because as soon as he starts thinking about you're banging jamal the running back and [ __ ] or bob or [ __ ] jake the quarterback he's gonna it's not gonna work in your favor he's not going to react with desire he's going to be actively compete with um and with jealousy let's fill the rate with rage that is not what we're asking for because that [ __ ] he could break up with you or hurt you what we're asking for is him thinking is she losing interest that's oh that's the only thought that we want right like what is she up to right not the who she with not that [ __ ] because if you if you guys are in that position i'm sorry you guys will not last long and it's better enough to cut your losses while you could now okay so that's one thing right um so just keep them that this keep them distant if you guys live together work all day and come home right um if you guys are a long distance relationship that's fine there's already enough distance you don't need to do much when you're long distance all you need to do is not chase like seriously all you need to do is give them space and that's it there there's no you need to do a backflip spinning ruling none of that [ __ ] right now other than yeah you guys see that father alex is glitching ladies and gentlemen what's going on here let's see let's take off the camera oh [ __ ] he's i'm glitching right now all you need to do is not chase just keep him distant from you again if he lives with you you got to do things outside of your house you got to put him in a sexually competitive state because if you live with him he's never going to see the presence of other guys smiling at you all a guy needs to do is see a [ __ ] smile at you so that he could so that he can have some desire remember even as a child the way that you want the way that that makes you want to toy more is if you see little [ __ ] timmy try to play with your goddamn toy okay you're like yo [ __ ] timmy timmy ain't [ __ ] with my [ __ ] give my [ __ ] back right so it's kind of like the way to make a guy desire you more is just to see the presence of other guys smiling at you don't have to be slinging their dicks around you they don't have to be wiggling again all they got to do is just see you smile at them and see them smile at you he'd be like why is he having so much fun with that guy with a shirt that says personal trainer right why is he why is she hanging around with that guy that looks like he plays for the nfl right alex do you have this black and white fantasy in your mind of your girl [ __ ] a black guy i am the black guy melissa sorry about that sorry about that um so as you guys can see that's how you keep that desire another thing that you can do is the way is what i always teach right is the way that you text from time to time you text you this is the pattern that i always teach take two or three oh by the way one more thing is that if you have girlfriends and stuff like that do things without him like literally to do things without him and let him know you're going to go have fun with your girlfriend because studies show that one of the best ways to create more sperm as a guy like one of the best way to reload is to make sure your girl is somewhere else i'm not even kidding the further you are from him the longer you are away from him the more his dick will create sperm this [ __ ] and you wonder why it's because evolutionary speaking the reason behind it the theory is that when you're away he doesn't know if you bang somebody so he'll say okay she came back there must be some come inside of her so let me make sure i produce enough [ __ ] so that all of my troops could just take out the enemy troops you get what i'm saying it's that's like the most simple that is a an oversimplified way of explaining that if a guy likes you and you're away he's gonna just want to [ __ ] you but one of the reasons is because evolutionarily most likely you must have been banging somebody else that's like the reason for it apparently and it kind of makes a lot of sense to me to be honest with you why so and that's the secret is that space produces that kind of sexual desire and that's why i say long distance relationships you don't need to do much like if you ask me you don't need to do much the distance is already there the distance creates enough pain to make him like you more like if it doesn't create enough pain to like you more it just means it's just not there like it's just that simple you guys get what i'm saying um so that's one thing and the texting pattern that i say um you have to create that texting pattern the three the the two hours and then three and then and then um the two hours and then the three by twenty what i'm what that means is the first text of the day you take two or three hours to respond like i always say after that you go back and forth to him three times taking five between five to twenty minutes in between responses right and what that does is that it creates that kind of uncertainty make sure when you're with them you don't have your phone around you um make sure that from time to time you break that pattern once out of every three once out of every two or three no like once out of 20 of the times you just break it in other words you just literally reverse it that means you start taking him on top that means when he texts you the first time you respond fast and then the second time you respond in 20 minutes and then the third time you respond in one hour you find you find a day where you just break that pattern because if you keep texting that way it's going to be able to see you you want to go cold you want to pull away in different areas not just in one area um it could be that it could be that you don't let them touch you for like a whole day as a game you literally say baby you can't touch this merchandise baby yeah baby you can't touch the merchandise well you know well if you don't let me touch it i'm gonna tell your man you're with me oh tyrone just comes out of nowhere threatening [ __ ] man calm the [ __ ] down dude that's toxic don't you think that is very toxic on tyrone careful he'll tell on you don't trust him right um um you switch it around right it could be that you're cold in terms of in terms of um of of letting him touch you and you let him know it's a game right it could be that you're code in terms of you cancel the date it could be that you may be code or you don't want to talk it could be that you're code that that in terms of you're not you're busy all day that you want to switch it up and not keep it static because then he's gonna break she's gonna see right through you and that's how you create that kind of space to create desire um like i said it's impossible to keep him desiring you 100 forever that is impossible but you could you could make it you could increase the likelihood that things will go better right this will work better with a guy that you're just having sex with with a guy that's just a [ __ ] buddy this is just easier with them but in terms of like a legit relationship nah man desire with wayne it's like guys say show me one show me a 10 and i'll find you show me a 10 right and i'll find you a guy who's tired of [ __ ] her like like like everyone gets tired of each other eventually and that's why you got to give them space but again when this desire goes away what comes up is oxytocin it's it's your appreciation of you and and you know what what's crazy is that this is why some women let their man have sex with other women because they understand that that like some women understand you know like it it's just how it is man you know i would i didn't make people i didn't program them i just explained them and this is one of those realities that you think i would like to tell you guys this that that that desire would just go away eventually like i don't want to tell you guys this it this doesn't it doesn't go with my business it doesn't help me to make more money but what the [ __ ] you want me to do i can't lie to you guys all right man i hope you guys enjoyed this video see you guys in my seminar attend or else you guys know exactly what that means um [Music] follow me on on instagram check out my course to support it if you need one-on-one coaching go to mindfulattraction.org okay i'll see you all right ladies so finally i have released my second course 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Published: Fri Aug 27 2021