10 Ways to Make Him Weak for You (Make Him Crazy About You)

hey what's up ladies so today I'm going to show you guys 10 ways to make a guy weak for you now what I've talked about weekly I'm not talking about [ __ ] deflating his whole sense of self to the point that he's left with a rubble of who we used to be not talking about that I'm not talking about [ __ ] utter destruction I'm talking about more to make him emotionally weak for you to the point that he has to react when he hears from you to the point that his heart pumps 20 years from you to the point that he can't he can't be normal around you alright so that's what we want to get to the point that's the pantheon of what it is to be attractive when when you load you make a guy weak for you when you make when you in a way when he gives he gives everything to you and he's willing to do almost anything for you I mean that's pretty much where he's like yo like I can't do nothing unless she's around alright and that's why I'm going to show you guys how to do with a few simple tactics and again this is 100% I don't recommend using these because they're little manipulative but they work they work okay so does it start it now for those who don't know I'm actually a dating coach for men and that's why I'm presenting you these things because I I don't come from a perspective of teaching women you know so this is not what I do I mother Chan is my main job where I get most my income so let you know that in addition to that I also do one-on-one coaching and if you interested in contact and you just go to my for traction org and I do want to want coaching of course it's for fee you know it's not for you right that's how these videos alone for that reason right you know who I'm talking to so let's get started um the first tactic that you could definitely use and it's a very good introduction is to faint weakness its fainting weakness the reason why I think a weakness is so important is because it is when you faint weakness people will lower their guard people won't come at you at full force people will leave themselves vulnerable for counter-attacks so when you faint weakness with a guy was guys gonna say yo I got this girl you know look her she's texting me back look at her she's she commented my status she's all more Duke you know fainting weakness is acting is playing to your femininity it's saying I cannot resist you your I want you to be mine what tends to happen is that when you play the little girl that loves the guy and then you back off the guys gonna think that he had control and now he doesn't it's one thing not having control and losing control you don't feel what you gain it's one thing feeling the control enjoying the control of how having an emotional control over a woman and then being taken away it kind of like living you didn't mind not living but because you're alive you mind being that same thing you see but the only way for you to do that so give them a little introduction as to how it feels like to be to have someone infatuated with them and the natural human tendency is to take people for granted so as a result you feel like yeah I have her so you know what let me just go to our house and have text very because I really have her now you break that [ __ ] pattern through showing some vulnerability well I mean through fainting weakness and then backing off and make your mask himself wait a minute I thought I had her and now I don't very similar attack this is very good to use another one is being inconsistent number two being inconsistent um this means that they won't they won't know what to expect don't be reliable be contradicting what I mean by being inconsistent is when you inconsistent people can't figure you out when you're inconsistent you frustrate people when you're inconsistent people are always trying to understand you you see and that's where you want to get because when you were attracted to someone you are you have some element of fear you have an element of fear because you don't know if you can offend them you don't want to lose your validation it's valuable to you you're walking on eggshells so by being consistent with a man you don't give you don't you don't make him relax you don't make him like say yeah have it now you know you make him unique even think like what the [ __ ] is up with her does she like me you see so for one second you could be you're on time you're texting on time and and you could assist and you know and you're showing a lot of attraction and then the next second you're totally different the next second you're ignoring these text messages the next second you're cancelling dates the next second you're angry at home criticize at home then say you're happy complimenting home it's that a consistency that makes some that that makes me say what's gonna happen tomorrow now if you provide some form of pleasure emotional pleasure through some of the taxes I'm going to be using a physical pleasure he'll stick around trust me he'll he'll he'll he'll barrel through a lot of this [ __ ] but the thing is is that his justification to stick around is what does the thing he's gonna justify himself and say you know what she's she's dead so you know what oh I'll try to bear with her I'll try to understand I want to know what the hell's wrong with her you see and so by playing but being that it assessing he makes him want to figure you out and so you're ready in his head I mean that's what you want to do your first one you first want to create its space in his in his head to create an infatuation and the way to do that is to being weak and make him think you like them being ecosystem making him think you're [ __ ] crazy right and the other one is being I'm by insinuation okay that these are the other words you could do this but in my mind you this techniques tactics are preparing the other emote the other mental and emotional playground so you can infiltrate it and making week capsule that's what we will first planting the fundamentals so the other way is through sin uation again to get in his head and once you get in his head I'm gonna show you how to manipulate once you're inside his head because it's a certain way to do it so it's insinuation is a subtle attack at his insecurity not for example you could touch me here right and I won't hurt you like that right in my hair right but let's say that this is scar there it's scar right because it's a scar I don't have to go like that to hurt you don't have to do it just accidentally graze over any what's gonna happen oh [ __ ] [ __ ] what the [ __ ] this is scar right here what the [ __ ] what are you doing what he touching that so a scarf where a man is insecurity something that's sleeping down that here oppresses through his desire to be masculine so insinuation is is insinuating to him that he likes the masculinity that is required to attract you insinuation would make the man feel insecure and as a result if done right will make we have him chasing for your validation so how is it done first of all I made a video on that on Amazon you can see the link is called the power situation then for but the second thing you insinuate through being subtle for example saying that he if he's a masculine guy saying that you love guys who are who are not mad for example if he's black tall and black right and you say I love guys like you know the Caprio they just look so sexy anyways in changing topic I talk about this all the time but for those who don't know about this I'm doing it for them so you talk about someone you find attractive and he knows he doesn't look like that guy and then you change the topic wise it's important you don't elaborate on it you don't say you wanted a wife I'm Leonardo DiCaprio attractive you don't do that because why me looks too [ __ ] obvious all right if you wanted to deceive your enemy you first be subtle the way that you do it is talking about something that you know he's gonna purpose II took my what the [ __ ] it's kind like somebody saying your name you'll listen because your input but but in this case you're not saying his name you're hinting at an insecurity and then you change the topic you don't even give him time to ask you to library you're even give him time to help him understand what you meant and that's the point because as the state finishes and then you create some space you show traction and they need some space which I'm going to show you later on you make him think what are they wrong I saw he's gonna be like wait a minute she said she's not gonna really point to with the fact that you say you like it or not a Caprio when he's black but he's gonna feel like oh [ __ ] I don't think she likes me like I don't think she likes me and then the space makes him like oh [ __ ] I think I lost her see that's what you want to do now he feels it desire to get your validation and that's how you open up the emotional space to to to to make him weak for you because now he's like a [ __ ] eater like what the [ __ ] I thought she liked me and because he feels insecure and doesn't know how to fix it he's gonna somehow come to you that's how that works in this and you could do this in other ways insinuate that you like guys that are masculine insinuate that you like guys who are organized if he's not organized and say I love guys who are I love guys who have a clean place is so [ __ ] hot anyways change topic while you're in a place I while you're his room is [ __ ] dirty he'll notice you know um the fourth way to get it making weakest compliments don't just compliment him give him a compliment that's based on actual yes a weakness that you stirred up a weakness that you intentionally brought up on the surface you see I'm [ __ ] anxious to hear man [ __ ] if it's something specific and something that he's worked for you don't be afraid his ego and he'll love you for it so for example let's say that he and again I talk about it a lot for the sake of the conversation let's let's go let's do all these fundamentals let's say that he is a basketball player right he's a very good basketball player [ __ ] dunks on people right let's say he's LeBron James right and people known for what for dunking on [ __ ] right but then let's say that he's also want to be a businessman now what do you think he'll what complement do you think he's gonna like more businessman compliment or the basketball compliment businessman compliment because basketball players athletes are thought to be stupid thought to be and so that's insecure that every happy house and so complimenting him on an area that he is already insecure about or there's a stigma around it is gonna make you my okay and thank you and if you make it specific to him actually make it specific actually like a very specific problem it's gonna say is ego and if you make it something that nobody has noticed and you could if you actually look for it he's gonna like you for it no um let me see um the other one is some comparisons compared to other men and you'll see how he'll become more possessors of of you it'll make him jealous and it increases his perception of you and makes you more attractive in his eyes now mind you attraction is not based on reality it's based on perception is it's all based on perception because we all had this this veil of call our mind you know we see the world through a squinted gaze of a fog of emotions so when you compare them to other guys you stir up a feeling of security all right and mind you emotions blur our reality which in this case if you make you me secure and you become a source of validation through complimenting home and also make them insecure compared to other guys is going to make you feel insecure and he'll try to possess you now from the perspective of possess you from a competitive way which is not just watching you because you're beautiful wanting you because other guys want you wanting you because you see other guys wanting her and you possessor it's kind of like being having the trophy you like to choke that because it's a trophy but because people other people didn't get the trophy so when you compare him to when you could talk about other guys oh man he's so cute or blah blah talk about other guys he's gonna learn the [ __ ] I'm not cute I'm cute too right see and that's what you want it's not that you were home to like who's a [ __ ] or who's the [ __ ] now you want to say I'm cute too like don't forget about me I'm here right you know you want to feel that right because it's gonna make him crave you validation and once again when you make them crave that's when you suddenly like that's when you attack you see you prepare the ground and then attack around um so this is one you could do remember it's all about perception it's all about perception is not even about reality you see it's not even about reality it's not in business is not about in mimetics it's called the the thing it's memetics it's not about the actual facts is more about the perception of the facts that's what really matters you see um okay so the other one nothing that's number six maybe I'm complement become the one who sets the barriers don't make it easy on the guy make seeing you a little bit more difficult become the one that sets the babies and you have greater power you can create the barriers to either let me show you how to get what I mean by creating barriers first creating the barrier is saying no or saying whoa going a little bit too fast or saying don't call me baby like you creating the barriers and so simply creating barriers puts you in a place of power I mean think about that right I mean if somebody tells you what to do and you're like oh my bad you feel the difference in that you feel that so but in you if you feel like you lose your control set the barriers tell them no now I'm not going about [ __ ] rape i'ma talk about that because if that's a case and no design very that's a [ __ ] validation I always say you have the confidence you have the you have your pick we had the permission to be confident but you need permission to escalate basically person on such a subject so set the barriers for example um friends only home sale okay I like you it was this was fun but I don't think we should just be friends alright friends on the home but at the same time I say oh my god I cannot resist you but how that I don't got any friends we just can do nothing that's a barrier right another one is the pre-emptive breakup breaking up one home like saying oh you know what like I don't think we should see each other's I don't think is working out I'm not happy said in the barrier um another one is like for example like when you know training in the thunderstorm tell them hey I'm alone come over hang up intentionally ask him to hang out during difficult times when you make him sacrifice himself and you can you're creating that barrier so it's like damn I want that [ __ ] or whatever you want I want the relationship well I want the personality nobody ever says that right then I'm like damn girl look at that personality walking but to have that personality nobody ever says that but when you create those barriers you make it harder home and if you make your auto home you make them work for you and people value more what they work for as opposed to things that they don't work for so intentionally having your friends over when he comes over I'm making him be the one the strategizes as to how he's gonna is gonna get your friends to leave you say intentionally make him intentionally I can say like intentionally tell them that you can't hang out that day you see and and intention to tell him that you only hang out during the day that he's busy something like that but the whole point is that when you make it hard at home by setting those barriers and said in those hoops you gonna make him jump and he's getting he's gonna justify himself he's like damn I'm doing all of this for you girl what the [ __ ] and that justification makes him like you more you see because whenever you invest in someone to effort emotional physical financial you in a way you justify your worth to him you say to himself you know what like she's must be worth if I'm doing this for her you say yeah and that's it how did alright so number seven when things aren't yeah make him feel desperate and scared by cue in space but the space creates doubt and fear and enhances your image doubt and fear enhances the enemy's perception when someone fears you some fears you I'm not you and doubts you from a place of not doubting you I don't trust you for doubting you of I don't think you like me as much as I do it enhances your perception because fear enhances what the enemy when you're afraid of something what happens you exaggerate its ability you see them as more than they really are that's why fear doesn't perceive reality and people live in fear and that's why they see trouble everywhere but that's not the case but someone he sees you as yet when he sees you as a cannon says when you when you create space he's gonna fear whether or not he likes you like whom you see and by creating space you made him think to him you you make him think about you he's gonna start fantasizing about you and the little pleasure that you provided through spending time with home validating home providing physical pleasure he's going to think about those times and he's gonna want it more he's gonna think about what happened he's like man what would happen if they had that one more time he's gonna become he's gonna start to idealize you but in order for that to happen you had to first do these things that I taught you by which is showing a lot of attraction backing off Killian doubt insinuating comparing to other guys and then creating space space to think about you space to wonder Spacey feelings cured see and that's what you got to do I'm in addition to that creating space also doesn't really reveal who you really are like he may know you but because you're creating space he may save himself he forgets how you really are and because you're also unpredictable you sometimes you act differently doesn't know what to expect I don't know whether you lost interest or whether he's just you just acting crazy he's gonna easily he's gonna give you but the benefit of the doubt because he likes you because you provide on validation that most women don't give if you come from a pound compliment him on something that he's weak about I and also the space makes him respect to you because he hasn't figured you have figured you out once people understand this is a whole nother topic but when people understand what you weigh well eat what you like and what you don't like what you reward and what you punish that's when you [ __ ] control them okay but in this case creating this space it makes him feel like he doesn't and fully understand you which is it he doesn't know your boundaries so he's like oh man like I don't know I don't know how to deal with this girl like should I text her should I should I hit her up like that's what guys feel and that you feel that the same way with a guy when you create space he's not gonna know what why you making that space if he if you don't give him too much of you he's not going to he's now going to basic assumptions as to why you're not hitting him up why you creating that space he's not going to created he's not going to base it on real effect but it's gonna he's gonna be so has insecurities on his fears and mind you being whenever it is based on that usually think the worst case scenario so he's gonna think oh I lost her and because he feels like you lost it suddenly your value is enhanced you're more attractive in his eyes and I don't want you and we got those either way from and then like a status or like your photo he's back cuz you'll take anything you'll look for any form of validation because he's looking for the truth is looking for something to believe in okay the other one is turning here mom and then backing off turn him on and make him desire you and then back off and watch him chase um so for example let's say you guys aren't better right and you tell them by the way you know you you escalate you kiss him and he feels like he's about to have sex and then you suddenly stop what this co-op let's go get something to eat no no no let's quasi get something to eat the scope of Samba tweet you tell them that the reason why this works is simple is because he's already horny his dick is already hard right he's weak he wants you're ready he's already in a frame of thought and because you're dangling pleasure he's gonna she's gonna chase you it's kind of like it when you promise a kid a surprise when you promise a kid a reward he's gonna obey you people's people's willpower lowers whenever they desire something whenever they're in the state of desire see dangle what he wants in front of them through first turning him on tornado mom and then say nope you can't get the cookie or unless you do this and when you guys outside he's gonna feel the desire to have you but then you set the barrier I know papi I don't think so it's crazy um but the other one is Eisley home mama um isolate him for example isolate him in terms of different ways from his thoughts and worry i slain from thoughts and words everyone has where everyone has weaknesses everyone has things that they're afraid of all right so when you isolate him from his thoughts and worries it means that he's worried he's wailing when he's out with you he relaxes you see like you validate how you make him feel but you make him feel strong and that mental isolation from its problems is going to enhance your perception you seem so when you Dan go the pleasure that's always going to think about and then you create space and that's all you can think about Jean you see provide pleasure and he'll follow you like I said getting them in your world and your comfort zone makes them weak so inviting him out to your house inviting and hang out with your friends these will put them in places where he doesn't know and that'll make them like off like like I want her validation because you'll find you as the comfort zone you see if it does offensively shy um create an enemy out of his parents also like create an enemy out of the world um for example like if you want to isolate someone create an enemy like they'll become isolated you know like if they see the world as an enemy don't [ __ ] run away from the world so for example tell them hidden enemy saying look um you have a goal go for that goal and I hope you out see that's the enemy identify what he wants and help him achieve that goal identify something that he lacks and hope him fulfill it that's the enemy so you isolate him because he will rely on you to help you on there you see and so you become a source of validation another one the last one is G's home when you know she can't get you for example if you he if he knows he's in my anak California when you're in the East Coast Skype without send them fake pictures of you sending pictures are provocative telling what you want to do when you get home you know and tell him oh my god I cannot wait to do this with you think talk to him about the future talk about the things you're gonna do but then he's gonna realize that oh [ __ ] this can't really happen because she's far away and then create space and then come back suddenly and then then they and then show more pictures turn them on turn them on turn them on and then back off again what's really gonna work here is not the fact that you showing him the picture it's the fact that he cannot go through the through the screen and touch you that's the thing it's the teasing part you see it and so when you tease him excite him and validate him create that create that barrier space where he can't have you so you just teasing him you making his imagination work he's gonna start thinking about Julie's gonna become obsessed with you and so when you have them in that obsessive realm where you want you right you don't even fully you don't fully satisfy them but you give them a little taste and you back off I'm gonna make it obsessed with you it's pretty crazy but that works I'm telling you and that's how that's how you make a guy obsessed with you and you make a week all right um so that's next if you focus let me see um for those who want one-on-one coaching let me know okay um I may make more videos today and also I am going to be I think I'd say yeah I think that's it let me see if I have anything else in mind um yeah that's it um anyways Ali for my for action 2.0 don't forget to comment subscribe and have a good day

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Length: 23min 21sec (1401 seconds)

Published: Sun Feb 26 2017