Be Ready to Marry | Kingsley Okonkwo

[Music] to this powerful powerful service the global fascinating prayer for single ladies from all over the world i want to welcome everybody from all the countries you are plugged in from and i'm sure the the the five days or six days of fascinating prayer has been very impactful and my faith what i am pastor personally believing god for in this week we spent praying with you is that this will mark a turning point in your journey towards your marital destiny this will mark a turning point in the journey towards your marital destiny you need to understand that um part of our passion me and pastor mildred a part of our passion is to see more and more young people enjoy marriage all right our our dream is not just so that you will marry you know our dream is that you'll be happily married because there are two different things many people are married but they're not happy but our dream for you our prayer for you you know it's not just that you'll be married but you'll be happily married because we um um this period happens to be our anniversary um august 13th was our traditional marriage um september 3rd it's going to be also our wedding anniversary itself so um this season we're just standing in faith with you that you will be able to enter into you know what god has already blessed us with and that will be your own portion in the name of jesus hallelujah all right um we've been praying all week we're rounding up today i'm still going to speak a blessing over you i trust god and i trust the grace of god upon my life listen it's one thing you know for for for for you to see god moving so nothing for you to know that god is moving in your life you know i'm very sure that it's the grace of god i walk in my in my life especially in this area and i'm about to invoke that grace call on that grace and speak it over your life that things will begin to happen as regards your marital destiny this is your season this is your season this year it's not going to pass you by god is going to do a work in your life in the name of jesus all right so i'm going to read for um from the book of genesis genesis chapter 24. i'm going to use that as a guide for the short thing i want to share with you that i'm going to pray with you um we'll make this as fast and as short as possible you know because um you know it's not about the length of time it's about the power of god and we are trusting that you know something is going to happen inside you and something is also going to happen around you that will make your marital destiny change forever in the name of jesus genesis 24 we're looking at the story where they found a wife for isaac i'm just going to use that to pray and to preach you know and and to prophesy over your life hallelujah genesis chapter 24 um i have seven points to run through here you know we're asking are you single are you really single are you really single this is a global fasting prayer for singles for single ladies all over the world so the question is are you really single that's what we're asking you today are you really single genesis 24 verse 12 it says then now remember the story um abraham had called his servant his most senior servant and told him that you have to go and look for a wife for my son isaac hallelujah i'll prophesy over a lady watching me here somebody has made up their mind today to be on the search for you and i declare the name of jesus they will find you in the name of jesus they will find you in this season you the wrong people will not find you i mean i mean i mean the people that have that that have bad intentions will not find you time wasters will not find you it is the anointed covenant person that will find you so the bible said um abraham had met is his most senior servant and told him that look go and find a wife for my servant isaac and in verse 12 that's the first point verse 12 says then he prayed then he prayed then he prayed come on sister shout with me say i pray come and say it again say i pray listen to me child of god there is power in prayer i wish ladies today can learn that there's power in prayer the bible said then he prayed this guy did not start the journey until he prayed this guy took time to pray before he took time to sleep many ladies today want to slay they don't want to pray listen to me child of god it doesn't matter the amount of makeup you have it doesn't matter the color of the blouse you have on it doesn't matter the color of the sketch you have on it doesn't matter the color of the shoes you have on if you have not prayed they are not ready to sleep hallelujah the bible said then he prayed glory to god the man prayed you don't start the journey of marriage without prayer you don't start the journey of looking for a life partner without prayer because your life partner determines your destiny you you i mean i mean marriage is not just like my wife will always say marriage is not a reward it's an assignment so you don't start this journey of looking for who to marry without prayer all young ladies of today don't know how to pray young ladies after they don't know how to pray i tell you i'm not kidding you i've been a pastor for a while i've cancered ladies if there's anything i see missing in the young ladies of today it is their heart to pray they don't pray anymore they don't pray anymore they just want to slay they don't want to pray but listen to me your slave might not get you the right man but your prayer will get you the right man hallelujah i said your prayer will always get you pray you never go wrong with prayer the bible said then he prayed hallelujah this guy knew that the the the parents of this journey is not something i can just go with motivational speaking the importance of this journey is not something i'll just go with make up for mary kay he knew that this journey was too important i have to pray hallelujah the bible said then he prayed he said lord god of my master abraham make me successful i prophesy over your life all the ladies plugged in from all over the world your own marital destiny will be successful trust me marriage is one of the best blessings god has given to mankind it's one of the best things you can do to do to yourself is to marry right trust me people have money and are depressed people i mean people have houses and are depressed but when you marry right the bible said even if you live in a house where it's a small house where you eat herbs that if there's love in that house it's better than a big house where there's nothing in it i mean whatever there's no love it's better than and have a mansion where there's no love listen to me who you married determines your destiny who you married time is how happy your rest of your life will be i prophesy you will not miss it in the name of jesus enough of just the slain it's time to pray the bible said dan he prayed he said let the lord of my master abraham make me successful today and show kindness to my master abraham this guy prayed before he started the journey that was the secret to his success we live in a world today where people attack prayer listen to me you see you can't go the way they are going you that you're a covenant child of god you know that you know accept except the lord builds the house the labor in vain that build it except the lord watches over my city the watchmen are awake in vain he said it is in vain you wake up earlier it is in vain you you labor and eat the bread of sorrow he's in bread he's in vain you you sleep late he said he said he said but he give it his beloved blessings even when they sleep you see when you're a person of prayer you have already activated the process of blessing so that even when you look like you are sleeping things are working in your favor i prophesy over your life even when it looks like you're not stressing yourself the angels of god will begin to walk in your favor listen that man that has not seen you wherever he is right now god is going to wake him up wherever he is right now god is going to open his eyes god will open his eyes god will wake him if god needs to put him on a plane for you god will put him on the plane he will begin to move towards your direction and you listen to what i'm saying thought of god you know we're gonna move towards your direction god will put him on a prayer god will give him the visa god i mean i mean if he has never been on social media because of you he will come wherever he needs to find you he's gonna find you because when you pray god begins to move hallelujah you will see now that i met this guy prayed the bible said something he said immediately he prayed rebecca appeared oh somebody needs to hear what i'm saying he said the moment this guy prayed he had not finished praying i'll show you that as we go on he had not finished praying but rebecca appeared i prophesy to somebody watching here just as we're about to finish the prayer we've been doing this week that man will appear i don't know his name but that man will appear today i release rebecca's anointing upon your life beyond time and long term i break the power of delay over you your your marriage will not be delayed anymore in the name of jesus rebecca anointed upon you the the story said i'm going to read to you he said the moment he is in fact the man testified he said he had not even finished praying that's what he said i'll show you he said he had not even finished praying before rebecca appeared sister you will appear i said you will appear i say you will appear in the right place you will appeared around the right spot you will appear on the right time in the name of jesus he said he appeared hallelujah then he prayed if ladies can learn how to pray everything will be on time oh young girls are not spiritual anymore it's not like before it's not like how i knew it oh those days girls used to pray girls used to love god but today girls just love men they don't love god listen if you chase god the way you're chasing men you will have a man that chases god oh somebody didn't hear what i said i said if you chase god the way you're chasing man by now god i've given you a man that's chasing god and that's what you need you're the man of god any man that knows god you're the man that fears god you're the man that loves god but you don't get a man that loves god by chasing man you get a man that love god by you loving god that's where it starts from you can't marry beyond your level you can be you can't be a woman that doesn't fear god and i pray for a man that fears god two cannot walk together and say to be agreed it doesn't work like that god is not your errand boy listen you when you chase god you see that's where you will find men that chase god is when you are chasing god that you will find other men that chase god but if you are busy chasing men you will always be disappointed i wish more ladies can chase god i wish more ladies can chase god the way the chest man if they can chase god the way they chase man by now they will have men and they will have godly men and that let your heart pant after god let your heart pursue after god that's where it starts from sister it's about chasing god it's about pursuing god it's about hungering and thirsting after god why would you be crying i've seen some ladies cry and i said why are you crying he said i have no man hey but you have god hey but you have the son of man jesus christ hey you have a man already you should not be crying if you have a real relationship with god if you have a real relationship with god there's no need to be depressed i get what i'm saying if you have the holy spirit there's no need to be depressed he's a comforter glory to god glory to god hallelujah so so so let's chase god let's let's sisters listen genuinely build your spiritual lives genuinely build your spiritual life i break that spirit of literature i break that spirit of coldness i break that lukewarmness in the name of jesus all your goals are about getting a man listen you need some of your relationship go should be a relationship with god if somebody get what i'm saying i said your relationship goals should be a relationship with god when you have a relationship with god yeah you'll find a relationship with man the bible says jesus found favor with god and with men it is your favor with god that gives you favor with men that's how to do it jesus found favor with god and with men i believe but basically they found favor with god and then he found favor with man glory to god i wish you can chase god i wish you can chase god i still spoke to somebody some days ago single mom she said she said oh you know you know all the lists she has given god you know it hasn't come i said god is not your iran boy god is not your dhl god is not your fedex you don't just place an order god is not a waiter he's not a chauffeur you don't just place an order and he brings it it's a relationship with god you see because your mind is already alive god is not creating a man for you today the man is really alive however you need to walk with god to get your order you need to also meet the criteria you need to meet the requirements for the order you have made because just like the way you have placed order you see somebody to have placed order you place order for iman demand to have placed other for a woman the other has to match you please stand order for a spiritual man through a man all these spiritual men want spiritual women but you didn't qualify oh somebody didn't hear what i said hey are you gonna pray you placed order in your order number one on the list was the god-fearing man all the god-fearing men they are festive on their own list is not fearing women but you don't qualify you don't qualify so you see why the other is not working because it's not magic god is not a magician it's not your own boy as you place other he will now walk on you to also qualify for that order hallelujah let's see hebrews chapter 10 from verse 35. he says here so do not throw away your confidence somebody getting that say so do not throw away your confidence it will be richly rewarded so do not throw away your cove i tell it all the time you see this issue of trusting god for who to marry and person coming is a matter of faith versus fear it's a matter of faith versus fear it's a matter of faith versus fear it's a matter of faith versus fear and you don't have faith just because you want to have faith you have faith because you have a relationship with god you have faith because you actually focus on god you have faith because you actually read the story the word of god the bible says faith commits by hearing and hearing by the word of god so you you you don't wish to have faith you actually eat to have faith you don't wish to have faith you eat to have it's like the way you don't wish to grow tall you eat to grow if you don't eat it doesn't matter how much you wish to be taught if you but if you eat even if you're sleeping you will grow so you have to eat whatever it's a cast another way do not try away your confidence it will be richly rewarded i'm reading an iv version he said you need to persevere so that when you have done the will of god you will receive what he has promised what he has promised he said for his just a little while glory to god i i sent this scripture to one of my daughters i was jokingly saying you know lord she knows the man is coming but she needs tracking number you know what tracking number is the number you used to track your order hallelujah i gave a description the description is your tracking order you can use yours can you scriptures or promises god has given you a tracking order every time you know how close the man is you can check those scriptures you must have a relationship with the word of god because of it i've heard my wife's story you must have his relationship with the word of god he says for just a little while he who is coming will come and he will not delay he said and my and but my righteous one will will will be like faith but my righteous my righteous one will live by faith and i will take no pleasure in the one who shrinks back who compromises he says but we do not belong to those who shrink back come on somebody he said we don't belong to those who compromise who shrink back those who go back to that ex those who go back to that toxic relationship glory to god we're not like those who shrink back and are destroyed but to those who have faith and are saved glory to god say those who have faith and are saved hallelujah so the first thing is to develop your spiritual life this guy prayed sister do you know god and listen the benefit of developing your spiritual life is not just to get a husband it's also keep the husband it's also keep your children it's also keep the marriage because trust me the devil hates marriages the devil doesn't like you the devil is against your destiny the devil hates marriages because he knows that all homes all families or societies are built from good marriages i get what i'm saying that's why he hates marriages so develop your spiritual life it's not just about getting married it's also about staying married and also about raising good godly children i liked when somebody said it you might have come out of a bad marriage but make sure a bad marriage doesn't come out of you i get what i'm saying you might have come out of a bad marriage but make sure a bad marriage doesn't come out of you change the story change the story hallelujah you can change the story by doing it right so developing your spiritual life it doesn't end with you just catching a man like you caught a fish you know it also continues with you stay in that marriage because you need godliness to survive in marriage glory to god he prayed second thing i have to move quickly second thing genesis chapter 10 from chapter 24 from verse 10. second thing is positioning that i want to share about i spent so much time on prayers i'm going to rush the remain if you don't mind he said then i'm ready for verse 10. the servant left taking with him 10 of his master's camels loaded with all kinds of good things hallelujah from this from his master he set out from it from aram whatever and make his way to town of now he had the cameras kneeled down near the well taken near the well outside the town it was toward the evening at the time when women go out to draw water take notes of that is a time when women go out to draw water you must position yourself sister there is always a wealth the world is a meeting point the world is a center of interest the world is where men meet women the world is where women meet men the world is a center of attraction the center of interest you must always go to the well you can sit in your house every day you must go to the world sister you must show up you must show up men can't marry you if they can't see you men can't marry you if they can't see you into position yourself and i'm not talking about nakedness because that's what some girls think no i mean you be beware they can see you make yourself to be seen and known you can keep hiding go to the world the well is where people meet to marry the world is where people get to know each other rebreak they found rebecca the world that's where they met rebecca and moses met his wife at the world i mean jesus met a woman that had five husbands at the well where did you think she met her five husbands at the where that's where she met jesus and i'm sure she assumed jesus was gonna marry your husband number six that woman had five husbands she was a pro she has results only fools doubt proof she has results if she could find five husbands when you have not found one you better go to the world where's the world anywhere that people can meet you can't be in a city and you don't have a church attend church attend church i know that nowadays there's a lot of online church even if you are doing anything online be active always comment when they say praise the lord type hallelujah type emoji with your two hands up participate anywhere you are i mean online the same thing i'm not talking about dating sites i don't i'm not a big fan of the team size but i'm talking about interaction on if you follow some pages that are very healthy pages make comments interact engage write write intelligent things let people see you i just did a video several mistakes single make singles make online do you know there are many singles that their profile pages on private are you serious are you joking are you wasting our prayer or what we are looking for people to see you you are still hiding in private what's private i did a full video on it on youtube it's either it's might have been posted now you posted later several mistakes single make online private number one of it is i see many single girls put their page on private why they say i don't want stalkers i don't want someone so i don't want a snoopers listen you are paying more attention to the person you are trying to avoid instead of the person you are trying to attract oh you didn't hear what i said i said you don't pay attention to the person you're trying to avoid pay attention to the person you're trying to attract huh position how well are you positioned go out on dates go and watch movies pursue any of your interests what do you like like books join book clubs you like sports join sports clubs you like walking out join gym you know join gyms do something you know do go where people can meet you position yourself and interact in your office greet people if you're single and you're passing greet everybody so if you are too unapproachable you are too serious you just frown your face and walk as if you guys you are your soldier smile greet people sit down with people ask questions say what are you drinking what is that thing what is that book even if you're interested in the book but you like the person talk you must not mind the person but engage let people know you're approachable not that i just face your front so if you like me he will he he'll come he doesn't even know you exist they say man look on the outward so he needs to see you he needs to even see you he's to notice you hallelujah positioning rebecca positioned herself rebecca positioned herself if you see verse 11 okay he said he they went to the to the to the evening the women go out to draw water verse 12 says then he prayed lord god of master make me successful today and all that verse 13 see i'm standing beside the spring he said the daughters of the town's people are coming out to draw water so it was a time and a place where girls used to come so guys knew that if we're looking for a girl that's the place to come i don't know what where and what is the place that people meet in your town but be available there i'm not talking about you know dirty things i mean real good um meeting number three have to rush now genesis chapter 24 let's look at verse 14. number three verse 14. it says may it be he said that when i say to a young woman please let down your jar that i may drink then i may have a drink and and she says drink see what the guy was saying i said lord let it be that whenever i see a young woman and i tell her hey please i want to drink let the woman say drink and i'll water your caramels too let the woman say you drink and i also give water to your cameras too let her be the one you have chosen for your servant say by this i will know that you have shown kindness to my master verse 18. see verse 18 guys he said drink my lord this was what the woman said okay if 17 says dost um seven hurry to meet him please give me a little water from your jar was it indominus i said drink my lord she said and quickly lowered the jar to her hands and gave him drink he said verse 19. after she had given this man drink she said i will draw water for your camels 10 camels and we all know up the cameras drink a lot of water you should thank you say um i'll give i would draw water for your cameras too say until they have had enough to drink he said so she quickly emptied her jar into the truck i ran back please notice she emptied the one she was carrying back into the truck for the cameras and she ran she didn't walk she ran back to the well this was a woman a world does this you know he's not pumping machine is well she ran back to the way and drew more water and drew enough for all his camels 10 without saying a word the man watched her closely hey there are people always watching you he said the man without saying the word watched her closely all the nonsense you post there are people watching it all the nonsense comments you make there are people watching it all the way you dress they are people watching it he said she watched without saying a word he said i need and learn whether or not the lord had made his journey successful he said when the cameras had finished drinking the man took out another so basically this lady had character see if you are going to make it if you want to find the right kind of person in his character this girl was number one respectful saw that old man she said drink no that man was not an eligible bachelor he was not an eligible bachelor but he said drink he had character not a legible bachelor but he said drink oh some girls are only kind to eligible bachelors some girls are only nice to eligible bachelors if you don't have a car they want sound if you're not well dressed the ones are you hey some of these guys trekking will be rich tomorrow so these guys that don't if you see my picture it's all about he's been on my page because this anniversary if you see my picture how i look before i go married and i look now it's not the same but this girl wasn't moved by this was an old man this man was not a little bachelor but and she wasn't planning to marry this man she was just kind some girls are only kind to people to think they could marry no she was kind to him and respectful she was also generous she said you drink and i will get for your cameras she was generous oh some girls are so stingy so strange a man must give you everything a man must give you everything second my boyfriend will buy things for me you you forbid to give you two can give she was generous then she was hard-working they said she ran back and fetched for 10 camels she was hungry i knew i couldn't marry a lazy woman i hate laziness i can't marry a lazy woman all these would have been hannah can't lift a finger i can't i can't even like you how much more marry you guys need to support us they need to help us so they're looking for hard-working women she was very homely and accommodating she took care of the comments and the other servants so if you didn't know they wrote it there that they were other servants so it was not only that someone that came he came with entourage she took care of everybody he was very homely hallelujah she was very m considerate she was very considerate hallelujah of everybody that was there she was very sacrificial she poured her own her own water she had fetched for herself she poured it for the camels to grant fetch on that one you know good character oh that's me would have envy mv you are envion rapida getting my envelope would have relationship never envy people i mean there's so much hate in our world today so much hate so many young people are working with it they hate people for no reason because they look like they're enjoying their lives look you can never attract what you don't appreciate anything you despise to never come near you be happy for people remove envy and hatred and bitterness and unforgiveness if your ex or somebody in the past have broken your heart you need to forgive that person and move or not because they deserve it because you deserve a better life you deserve a better opportunity hallelujah this girl had character she was respectful and said that man was watching without saying a word there are people always watching you how is your behavior high is your character hallelujah what is your character like uh hallelujah you have to work on your character like when somebody says are you the person are you the person the person you are praying for is also praying for are you the person the person you are praying for is also praying for in other words what is your character rebecca had a great character she had a great character she was respectful generous hard-working homely accommodating considerate sacrificing you know today there are many people that are that are too selfish self-obsessed i've had all kinds of things oh i can't marry if he doesn't propose he doesn't need that it doesn't jump up it doesn't lie down when you talk like that it shows you don't understand our mind is not about just you do is it the do you love the person or is the ring you love stay focused what's your character like are you rude do you have sharp mouth what are people saying about you that you are ignoring what are people complaining about you constantly i understand one person can just be hater but if more than one person perhaps in a matter of two or three witnesses every word is established if two three four people are saying the same thing your parents are saying the same thing your siblings are saying the same thing everybody around you saying you are stingy you are you are wicked you are you are you are rude you are proud then you need to watch your character this girl was humble she knelt down and fetched water for camels she's humble hallelujah character the bible said we should not be wearing entertaining strangers that one day by so doing but will entertain angels unknowingly your angel is the person sent to you so one day you will entertain him or sometimes my voice brother you will entertain the brothers how well he was treated you know i mentioned your name so behave well to everybody have good character to everybody next point verse 15 let's reverse 15 verse 15 here it says before he had finished praying he said rebecca came out with a jar on her shoulder hallelujah somebody get what i'm saying he said before he had finished praying rebecca came out with a jar on her shoulder that means she was sensitive in the spirit she was sensitive right just went before he had finished praying she was at the right place at the right time i prophesied that same grace over your life you'll be at the right place at the right time in the name of jesus look at when you are the right place and the right time it doesn't matter what you are wearing it doesn't matter if you made your hair that day it doesn't have you if you don't but if you have makeup on that day it fits you in the roof in the right place at the right time isaac will see you hallelujah is somebody getting what i'm saying i've shared the story many times the first time i met my wife you know um in terms of relationship wise it was dark we were in front of our house there was no light there were a few of our classmates and she she had she wasn't well dressed that day she was doing her father's jalapeno you know she her hair she's just losing them her braid so you know women know what i'm talking about when you just listen to your brain don't hide this her hair was not done but i heard her speak she was at the right place i was at right place i heard her speak and i knew i liked this girl this girl is smart somebody get what i'm saying on if you're on the right place the right time nothing will be to your disadvantage if your car breaks down you'll be at the right place at the right time somebody get what i'm saying if if you came late somewhere you'll be if you can everything work together for your good be sensitive in the house in the spirit it's positioning it's been right on time see god is not dhl god is not fedex you know you don't just place another and go and sleep he needs to walk with you that's why you must have a relationship with him it's not just about he's not a waiter you just place an other say go and get my lunch no when you pray he begins to walk with you because he needs to order your steps the bible said the steps of the righteous are ordered of the lord he needs to order your steps right into that place where you meet that man i get what i'm saying somebody will just just bring her where you are somebody will just bring him i mean his friend will bring him to your office and he will see you i mean things will fall in place i pray for you that things will begin to fall in place and say all things walk together for the good but guess what for the good of them that love god you see the problem many people don't have a relationship with god they are just praying and shouting and screaming at god every day god has heard you he just needs me for you to hear him did you hear what i said i said god has had you it remains for you to hear god he has helped you but do you hear him are your steps ordered look i prayed for a wife for a long time i even did hustling i i positioned people in churches to be finding wife for me you see but one day god just stared in my heart to do reunion for my set reunion to help her so i just started mobilizing my friends but i didn't know there was wife there you see you move sensitive god is not god doesn't bless selfishness all this your prayer that i sent around me myself and i god bless me give me give me me me me most times god needs to find purpose inside what you want that's how abraham was blessed abraham didn't get isaac just for isaac god wanted somebody to bat the next generation abrahams who wanted the son so they exchanged same thing with um hannah she wanted a child god wanted the prophet so they agreed so it's not about you you you you hallelujah be sensitive god can say join that department start serving in that place go and do this thing go and pray for that person go and preach to that person go and buy coffee go and buy drinks sit down in this place eat meatballs i don't like just eat one bye be listening god has heard you but can you hear him hallelujah next point verse 15 and 16 5 and 16 in particular he said the woman talking about rebecca was very beautiful and they said a virgin she was very beautiful a virgin no man had ever slept with her when the bible reinforces something two times they're just saying hear what they are putting your ear because a veteran is clear but they continue to say a no man had ever slept with her she went down to the spring and filled her jar and came up again silva's sitting next to us he says and the servant hurried to meet her and said please give me a little water so said she was a virgin and no man had ever slept with her in other words she was doing the right thing she was somebody that lived right today there are too many things that girls do oh too many things too many things either they are running one racket here they are running on the racket here if you see how she was introduced they said she's the she's the she she's this daughter of so and so that's of swan so until no man had ever slept with her see her testimony there are many ladies here praying for a husband but you already in one illicit relationship you are a side chick to somebody you are a side piece to somebody and you are praying for your husband he said god won't give you enough his good children you to think it think i'm now you're a side piece but you are praying that oh lord give me a good husband god too will look for somebody that doesn't hear a word because there is no way he will line up his godly children whom i marry you now that would be bad you should think up does it make sense to you reason um you know you you you are somebody's child chick you are some assaulting now in hotel for somebody then you're praying so god give one of your best children if you are god will you answer that prayer they said she was a virgin and no man had ever slept with her she had the righteous testimony she was doing the right things are you really single if are you are already dating somebody's husband first of all not that god not that god willing to answer your prayer that's one secondly the causes that are coming behind you are too much go one line man come and chuck his head inside no man had ever slept with her you are in relationships you know they are not going anywhere friends with benefits you are just sleeping with somebody you are not going anywhere you are servicing each other nah no man had ever slept with her she was doing the right things you can't be collecting money from somebody that is not is he your boss he's giving money you collect why no man had ever slept with her she wasn't even anybody's girlfriend all this relationship that you are doing without purity without honor for god yes you are in a relationship are you supposed to be are you supposed to be living together are you supposed to be sleeping together you are laying a foundation that will harm your marriage because when the bible says when the bible said marriage is honorable oil and the bed on the fire he's talking about foundational issues he said when you lay the foundation of of sexual immorality it has a way of continuing with you inside the marriage most couples that deal with adultery have the background of fornication most couples that deal with adultery have a background of fornication it's there guys she was doing the right thing and let me try and round up for 16 again they say she was beautiful that was the first thing they said about her in verse 16 that she was beautiful listen guys men judge on the outward that's what the book bible says in first somewhere the main judge on the outward i think first amendment 16 men judge on the outward but god judges the heart it's only god that sees the heart the rest of us will judge on the outside if you're a beautiful girl you need to look beautiful put your hair on make good hairstyles know this hairstyle that fits you wear the right kind of dresses not every dress that is raining that you should wear wear the one that fits your body style still look beautiful learn how to do makeup learn how to dress well store all kinds of clothes that will fit you look beautiful don't be too spiritual that you don't have time to look good men judge on the outward she was beautiful if you need to join the gym join the gym if you need to learn how to put your makeup right learn how to put it right but look beautiful look beautiful to get somebody to clothe you to work with you in terms of how you dress it's okay to do that look beautiful and lastly i have to round up here mandy bosok number seven is from verse 22. he said when the camels had finished drinking the man took out a gold nose ring weighing a becker and two gold bracelets weighing 10 shekels then he asked whose daughter are you hey please tell me is there room in your father's house for us to spend the night she answered him i am the daughter of between whose daughter are you whose daughter are you some of you need to know your identity whose daughter are you she ah he asks her whose daughter you shouldn't say i don't know whatever you call me i'll be home to follow your photos no she said i'm so so pressing his daughter she knew who she was whose daughter are you the way you are behaving doesn't look like a daughter of god you don't look like a child of god whose daughter are you now you're dressing doesn't look like you know whose daughter you are must you smoke and drink like them you use daughter are you she answered i'm the daughter of better saying she added we have plenty of straw and father as well as room for you to spend the night then the man bowed down and worshipped the lord saying praise be to god who has answered our prayers and all that all that john the verse 28 the young woman ran and told her mother's household about these things hey did you see that she ran and told her mo see she understood relationship protocol that's what number seven is she understood relationship procedures and protocol many of you vinegars the way you date and follow men as if you are nobody's child he draws me to your side he just spits and you follow you agree you have to ask you say yes so you are somebody's daughter if he wants to talk to you he should be ready to talk to your pastor should be ready to talk to your mentor he should show you his mentor because we we when we know where you are coming from we know how you behave where we know where you're coming from we know where you're going to whose daughter are you [Music] you've been listening to me for years you are subscribed to all my youtube channel everything follow me on instagram mr facebook gram everything but you are not you know you don't have the identity of what we are teaching whose daughter said young woman ran and told her mother's household these things now rebecca had a brother named laban and he hurried out to meet the man and as soon as he had seen the nose ring and all the bracelets on his sister's arms and had head rebecca tell what they said another he went to meet the man standing by the cameras i said come you you are blessed of the lord and all that thing vast 31. say come you are blessed of the lord and why are you standing out here i have prepared a place another basically they understood relationship procedure they didn't just say you follow him yes procedure come and meet our family come and meet our spiritual family who church do you attend they also ask him well if you look right down the guy also introduced himself the family was coming from when you marry you see the reason why we check out your family both biological and spiritual is to know what you are capable of if there are mad people physically in your family you can be mad if not you're not really mad that's what we're saying if you come from a spiritual background where they are rebellious they beat their wife they divorced their wife they killed you you we know you can do it we'll be watching you but the guy called me doesn't have church doesn't have anybody he's just i i say i'm a self-made man i'm a man of myself i don't submit authority i don't feel authority i don't pay tight i don't free i do and you want to follow him whose daughter are you is that how you were brought up spiritually who's totally that's procedural no aimless dating where are we going we can either be friends or we are planning to marry not we're just dating let's see how it goes you you don't know whose daughter you are can you tell the presence that we're just seeing how it goes you are who when you go finish come back not me are you seeing how it goes they are testing you and checking you out testing you [Laughter] whose daughter understand proper relationship procedures you should have read all my books by now seven questions wise women ask hey to say many of them everywhere eat those things so that you know the kind of person you are praying for hallelujah and then let your faith be up it's a game of faith versus fear many people are so obsessed with the fear that the right man will never come instead of building their faith that the right man will come it's a game of faith and fear he said that you are so obsessed you know some people in your mind you are praying no that i want a husband but in your mind you are so obsessed with how difficult it is you have already studied the statistics and the odds against you that i'm 38 i'm 36 even the people that are young have not seen us there are 13 billion men and these 18 billion women they are never they won't even go around they are murdered some of them are mad so the man what are you studying what concerns you what concerns you with the men in prison the men that are mad what's your own business in that is you and god that has an agreement it's a matter of is a battle of faith versus fear that's what's going on in your mind i've seen single mother's marriage there's a video i put on my instagram my igtv can check it out of an elderly woman that's still married elderly woman no grandmother what kind of woman that she got married she a husband her only husband died but god still led her to marry again and marry create a pastor seven even a christian they passed if that old man can be marrying you younger you will marry in the name of jesus i break that mental [Music] stronghold holding you down you need to tell yourself i mean don't even entertain the slightest thought that you won't mind i don't care how old you are it's never too late for you in the name of jesus and that's why we're standing here today standing here today as a servant of god and i break the yoke of delay over your life in the name of jesus monte bratis this so six days of waiting on the lord will not be in vain i decree the heavens over you are up you will find favor with god and with man in the name of jesus light will shine in every area of darkness any bondage any any any organized and demonic activity against you i decree it is broken in the name of jesus i cut off every strength from your past holding you down every cord every rope from your past trying to hold you down i break it in the name of jesus every negative mindset we are rested in jesus name we declare a divine intervention in your situation with the clear divine intervention even in your mind you will start to dream and see things positively in the name of jesus you win the battle of the mind the bible says god is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that you ask or imagine many people ask for 5 minutes 10 minutes then they imagine for 20 hours that they can't get a husband and they're wondering why it's not happening your imagination is negative if you can line up your spiritual and body there's nothing god can do for you if you can line up your spiritual body what do i mean by that your spirit asks your mind think in life what you have asked then your body take practical steps for what you have asked make sure the three parts of you are in line nothing will stand before nothing will be able to stop you from getting married to the man of your dreams not just any man to the man of your dreams and make sure you remove all those mental blockades that the man must be six feet six foot six relax if he's five foot six marry him is he caring is he godly is he hard working does he have all the dark qualities you're carrying tape about six six six or nothing calm down be realistic hallelujah you are blessed you are blessed in the name i'm excited for you i know this will make a new beginning in the name of jesus a new beginning i will i i wait to receive your testimony in the mighty name of jesus god bless you god bless you god bless you we'll see you again as we go in jesus name amen and amen

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Published: Sat Aug 29 2020