Hello, my wonderful friend! Today's video is
on 9 cute things girls say when they like you. This is how to tell a girl likes you fast. Have you ever been in that situation where
there's this really, really cute gal, and you're hoping that she's noticed you too,
that she's interested, that she likes you? And maybe you've even seen videos like this video that are on body language
signs that she likes you, and you're looking for those signs, but you're
really struggling to read that body language. Has that ever happened to you?
That's actually really common. You wanna make sure you're reading
her body language correctly, right? And so it can be a little nervous
to, like, trust yourself on that. This is one of the reasons why knowing what girls
say when they're interested in you is so helpful. You don't have to read her body language so
much, although I still highly recommend it. You can also focus on the things
she says and what they mean. So if you want to become a pro at
knowing that a beautiful woman is interested and that she likes
you, keep watching this video. Every woman is a little bit
different. So when you're the man who can read as many signs as possible, you
are light years ahead of your competition. Before we dive in, make sure you subscribe
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and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy. I'm your go-to source to learn how to find the
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Academy, just go to coachmelannie.com As we get started with this, there are two other
videos I'm also going to mention that are going to help you so so much. If you haven't
yet seen this video on hidden signs that she really does like you, but she's scared
of rejection, you need to watch that one. And this video on 17 juicy secrets about women
that you did not expect. Like, they may or may not give you butterflies. So I will put links to
both of those videos in the description below. So are you ready to know how to tell a girl
likes you fast just by what she says to you? Let's dive in! The first type of thing she'll say is something
like, "I love spending time with you," or, "I always feel so good when I'm around
you," or, "I always love seeing you." Basically, anything that expresses that she enjoys it when you are around and
when she gets to talk to you and see you. This is something that can just slip
very naturally into a conversation. She may not even really realize
that it slipped out of her mouth. However, it's a pretty bold way to show that she
is interested, that she wants to be with you more. There's a reason she feels this way. It's not
something you just randomly say to just anyone. It means that you really want to spend more time with
that person, because you're interested in them. The second thing girls say when they like
you is, "Hey, we should do that sometime." Let's pretend you're talking about
your new favorite restaurant, or a movie you just watched, or one of your
favorite places to go hang out, whatever it is. If she says, "Wow, that's really
cool. We should do that sometime," That is her totally inviting you to ask her out. That is her way of saying, "You know, if you asked
me out to go do that right now, I would say yes." You're not going to say something like that
unless you actually want to spend time with them. If she didn't necessarily want to do
that with you, then she would just go try out the restaurant herself,
or just go to the movie herself. The fact that she's expressing
that she wants to do it with you means that she's interested. She is trying
to make it super easy for you to ask her out. The third thing girls will say
when they like you, a clear way to tell that she likes you, is if she says
something like, "Yeah, I just don't really have anything to do this weekend. I don't
really have any plans. What about you?" Now she may ask, "What about you?" or she may just
mention she doesn't have any plans. Either way, that is, again, her making it very easy for
you to say, "Hey, we should do something." She's letting you know that she's
available to spend time with you and she wants to spend time with you. If she doesn't wanna spend
time with you, she is not going to mention that she has nothing
to do. Like, she's not. She's not going to leave that as a possibility just
to avoid any awkward situations. But if she's purposefully letting
you know, it's for a reason. Okay, I'm gonna let you in on a massive
secret that most people don't know. Are you ready to be one of the
insiders who knows this secret? Women pursue men. It's kind of a common thing where
people talk about men pursuing women. But what most people don't know is that women totally pursue the
man they're interested in. Totally. However, Because she's a woman, because she's feminine, which is the way you
want her to be, right? Because she's feminine, she's going to pursue you in a feminine way. And
she needs you to pursue her in a masculine way. Now one of the ways a woman pursues
a man is she shows her interests and makes it as easy as possible for you to pursue her. She makes it as obvious as she can
and as easy as she can for you to pursue her. That's her way of saying
"I'm interested. Are you?" So when she says something like, "I don't
actually have anything going on this weekend, what about you?" that's her way of saying, "Hey, do you wanna pursue me? Are you interested enough
in me that you want to spend time with me?" And by the way, this actually
brings up a really good question. Have you ever wondered why maybe you see the
signs that a girl's really interested in you, maybe you start to get to know her a little bit
and it's awesome and you think it's going great. And then all of a sudden, it completely
falls apart, and you have no idea why. Maybe she ghosts you, or she just rejects you
or turns you down, or maybe she puts you in the friend zone, and you're like, "What happened?
I totally saw signs she was interested." Have you ever been in that situation? You're left confused and hurting
when that happens, right? There are two main reasons why this happens.
And if you want to be successful in love, it is critical that you know what they are
and how to avoid these things from happening. Most men don't know this, and that's
what makes them feel hopeless in love. So the first reason why this happens
is that the man does not pursue her. One of a woman's basic needs in
a relationship is to be pursued. You have basic needs in a relationship, right?
That's totally normal. Everyone has those needs. And one of the needs that a
woman has is to be pursued. That's what makes her feel safe.
That's what makes her see you as sexy. She just does. That's what makes her see you as
masculine and attractive and confident and the kind of man she wants by her side forever. That's
the kind of man she wants to shower with kisses. She needs you to pursue her. However, if a man does not pursue her,
it's like a slap in the face. That's outright rejection because
she's expressing her interest, she's showing you that she's interested,
again, pursuing you in that feminine way. And when you don't act on
it and you don't pursue her, ouch. She's embarrassed. She's hurt. She's
crushed. And she moves on. She's done. The second reason why this could happen is that something happens when you approach
or when you are interacting with her that makes her feel unsafe or feel
like the relationship wouldn't work. And when that happens, she doesn't wanna waste
your time, she doesn't wanna waste her time, and so she'll just stop it from going any
further, whether it be the friend zone or ghosting or whatever it is, she's
trying to save you both anymore pain. It's actually a lot more
common than most people think that she feels uncomfortable or doesn't
feel like the relationship will go anywhere because the interaction isn't working.
And so it causes her to just pull away. This is why I help you master pursuing a woman
and melting her heart quickly in my Academy. If you want long-term success in love with
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make sure you watch that masterclass. That's a whole lot better than
watching that attraction just die, right? So save yourself
some heartache and watch it. The next thing girls will say when they like
you is something along the lines of, "Wow, how are you still single? Like, you're amazing!"
That's not something you just randomly say. There is an exception to this, and that
is if she's already in a relationship. Some people get a little confused about
why she would say something like that. It's actually very common when people are
completely happy in their relationship, but they're trying to compliment you. They're trying
to encourage you and help boost your confidence. So if she's already in a relationship
and she's saying something like that, it's not weird or necessarily inappropriate
or anything, but don't read too far into it. However, if she is single, that is another really blunt and bold way
for her to be like, "Wow, I have thought about you in terms of how you would be as a
boyfriend or a husband, and I'm impressed." When you think about it, that's a really big deal.
If she's hinting or being flirty about you being a great person to be in a relationship
with, it means she's thought about it. This is honestly the perfect
time to pursue her. Just, again, make sure you know how to pursue effectively
and really make her feel safe with you. That's something I will talk a little
bit more about in that free masterclass, so do make sure you watch it. The next thing a girl will say when she likes
you, when she thinks you're cute, is something along the lines of, "Wow, you're really funny!"
or she'll compliment you on your sense of humor. It's kind of funny how this works. Women
are most attracted to men who they think have a great sense of humor,
who they think are funny. And when she's attracted to you, she thinks
you're even more funny than maybe you actually are. So it's kind of an interesting
cycle, kind of a snowball effect. So if she lets you know that she
really enjoys your sense of humor, that can be a fabulous sign
of some strong attraction. That leads us right into the next thing a woman
will do. And it's not so much something she will say, but it is something that comes
out of her mouth. So it kind of works. And that is that she will giggle
a lot and/or laugh nervously. This is honestly a massive
sign. It's one of the most common signs that a girl is attracted
to you and interested in you. Now, a question I get asked a lot about pretty much everything I teach is, "Does this
work with older women as well?" So say 50+. And the truth is, yeah, everything I teach because
it's based on science applies no matter her age. Yes, there are going to be a
few differences. For instance, there are women in that age range who are
going to giggle, they just are. Some others may just be a little bit more subtle
about it and so they may laugh nervously. But yes, this is definitely something women
do who are a little bit older as well. Okay, this next thing women will say
when they like you is kind of fun. This one is something along
the lines of, "Holy cow, you're going to be the best husband,"
or the best boyfriend or whatever it is. Again, if she's thinking what you
would be like in a relationship, that's a huge sign. That's not really
something you just do with any random person. Again, the exception would be if
she's already in a relationship, she's just trying to compliment
you. Don't misunderstand that. But if she's not in a relationship, if
she's single and she's, "Oh my goodness, you'd make the best husband," maybe she'll
even add to that, "How are you still single?" Yeah, that's a really, really good sign that she's interested and she thinks you're cute
and she wants you to think she's cute too. It's also a wonderful sign that maybe she's
without even realizing it trying to get you to think about her in that light too. "Hmm, what
would it be like if we were in a relationship?" She's thinking about the two of you and obviously
hoping that you're thinking about the two of you. Before we get to our next things
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not, I would really appreciate it, so thank you. Okay, the next thing girls will say when
they like you is she will talk in "we" a lot. As in, in the conversation,
she will talk about "we" and "us." Whenever she's doing that, it's like a sign she's
thinking along the terms of "couple." And she probably will have no idea she's even doing this.
It'll just slip naturally into the conversation. So pay attention when you're talking to her
and see if she says "we" a lot, or "us." And the next thing a girl will say when she likes you is she will ask you a
ton of questions. Like, a ton of questions. If someone just asks you a couple
of questions, that's really just being polite. Or maybe they happen to be
interested in the thing you're talking about. However, if she asks you a lot of
questions, that's a huge sign of interest. This is especially true of introvert
women. They love deep conversations. Now, when we're interested in someone, we're
interested in learning more about them. One, there are a couple of reasons for this. One,
we get to talk to them more. That's a lot of fun. Two, it also helps us really get to know
them and know who they are as a person. So this is a very, very common thing
girls do when they're interested in you, is they'll ask you a lot of questions. So here's the big question. What do you do next? When you see these signs that she likes you,
that she's interested, what do you do next? Remember, the last thing
you want to do is reject her and hurt her by not pursuing.
That's a need that women have. However, you also don't want to pursue
the incorrect and ineffective way. Which to be perfectly honest is the way 99.9% of
people teach you how to pursue. It doesn't work. It messes up relationships so bad. You want
to create more attraction rather than killing it. These secret strategies are things I
help you master quickly in my Academy, so that you can have long-term
success with an adorable, sweet, stunning woman and make her fall
deeply in love with the real you. If you are sick of being confused and
just ready for the answers upfront, that's where you need to go. To learn more about this,
how to make her feel safe, what your next steps are,
watch that free masterclass. Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. I'll put a link in the description
below and a link in the pinned comment. Real fast, let's recap all the
things girls say when they like you. Number one, something along the lines of, "I love spending time with you. I love seeing
you. I always feel so good when I'm around you." If she's expressing how she feels when she's
around you in a positive way, that's huge. Number two, "We should do that sometime."
That is her making it as easy as she can for you to ask her out. "Yeah, let's do it." Number three, "I don't really have anything
to do this weekend. What about you?" If she's letting you know that her weekend is free, it's
because she's hoping you get to spend it together. Number four, "How are you still
single?" This is her way of expressing that you totally have what people want in a
relationship. You would be an amazing partner. And so naturally those are traits she's
looking for in a relationship and in a partner. Number five, she tells you you're funny. A good
sense of humor is very attractive to women. Like, very attractive. And if she likes yours,
that's a good sign that you're attractive to her. Number six, she laughs and/or giggles nervously.
A huge thing women do when they're around someone they think is attractive. One,
because they think you're funny. And two, they're nervous. Makes sense, right? Number seven is, "You're going to be a great
husband," or a great boyfriend or whatever it is. If she's expressing that, again,
you have those desirable traits, that's huge. I mean, think about it. Number eight, she says "we" a lot. This,
again, shows that she's in that mindset of thinking in terms of a couple, the
two of you, you and her. That's big. And number nine, she asks a
lot of questions. This is a good way for her to get to know you
better, to spend more time with you, hopefully you'll notice her, and it
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