Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on 13
subtle signs she's waiting for you to make a move. This is how to know if she likes you fast.
You're in that situation where you see that gorgeous gal and you really want to get to know
her better. You really want to get her number and you really want to ask her out. But it can
be a little bit intimidating, right? Especially if you've tried to make a move in the past and it
hasn't gone well. You don't want to be rejected, you don't want to make things awkward,
you don't want to be ghosted. Instead, you want her attraction to grow for you and
you want her to want to go out with you, right? Well you are about to learn the signs that
she wants you to make a move. And that makes it a lot less intimidating because you already know
she's interested. We'll also be talking about how to make a move so that it's successful and goes
really really well instead of tanking terribly. Now each of these tips are really important and it
just gets better as you go along. As a matter of fact, maybe the most powerful yet the most simple
sign is actually at the end of the video so make sure you stay tuned to the end. Honestly it's
probably going to surprise you that this sign is so powerful. Before we dive in make sure you
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bell. With that, let's talk about these signs that she's waiting for you to make a move. Now maybe
you've seen this video on where to meet women. Maybe you're starting to get out, maybe you have
a certain gal in mind, and you're wondering if you should make a move. Let me just explain why these
signs are subtle. Because as I mentioned earlier, guys, I will never teach you mind games. They
just don't work. So this isn't about a mind game. This is about body language. Just like you
feel intimidated and nervous and you're afraid of being rejected, she is too. And as hard as it
can be for you to read women's body language, guys, your body language is actually really hard
to read, okay? I'm going to be really honest with you. It can be incredibly difficult to tell if a
guy is interested in you. So she can feel really nervous and really really vulnerable. And so she
may not be quite as obvious but our body language always gives us away. So you're going to find
a lot of body language signs in this list and that's one of the things that makes it subtle.
Not because she's trying to play with your head, but just because it is subtle. Thankfully as
you become aware of the signs they're simple to pick up on and they make the relationship so
much easier for you and for her. So with that, let's start with sign number one. You have her
attention when she's talking to you. If someone doesn't want to talk to you, you can tell through
their body language. They'll kind of be pointed away from you, even if they're facing you but
their body's kind of pointed the other way. This is especially true of her feet. Or if
she gets distracted easy or she's looking for somebody else to talk to or she conveniently
gets her her phone and she starts paying attention to her phone if it goes off or something
then those are signs that she wants to do something else. She wants to be somewhere
else. But if instead, you've got her attention that's for a reason. Everything else going
on around her is not as important as talking to you and paying attention to you. If she
is facing you and giving you her attention that means she's focused on you. That is a sign
that she is interested and that she wants you to make a move. Okay, our next subtle sign she's
waiting for you to make a move is if she mentions, kind of hints, at having free time. Like, "Yeah,
I'm really looking forward to this weekend. I actually don't have any plans. I don't know what
I'm going to do yet." She just left the door wide wide open. For the most part if she didn't want to
do something with you she would have something she was doing, okay? Even if she didn't actually
have something she was doing she would have something to say. But if instead, she leaves that
door wide open it makes it sound like she has plenty of time if someone wants to do something
with her. Yeah, that's a sign that she wants you to make a move. Now something to remember
with this sign and really with all these signs is that it's important that you pursue her.
Making a move, asking her out, getting her number, whatever it is, that is a way you pursue her. If
you haven't yet seen this video and this video on pursuing they're going to help you a lot with
this. I will put links in the description below. Just remember that if she wants you to pursue her,
if she wants you to make a move, and you don't that's rejection to a woman, okay? Women tend to
be far better at reading body language than men. And so she thinks she is being blatantly
obvious that she is interested, okay? And she is to all the other girls, she just assumes
that you know. And if you don't make a move that's rejection and she's probably not going
to put herself out again. She doesn't want to be slapped in the face, so to speak, again.
This is why it's very important to pursue her. Just make sure that you pursue her the right way
or it's going to get really awkward really fast. Okay, the next sign she's waiting
for you to make a move is that she laughs when she's around you a lot. Science
tells us when a woman is attracted to a man she just tends to laugh more when she is around
him. Now this serves several different purposes. It's a way for her to connect with you, it's a
way for her to get your attention, and frankly, she just feels like giddy inside, okay?
She's got those butterflies and she's nervous and it can make her much more giggly. And if you
notice that she laughs with you a lot, laughs at your jokes a lot, that's a very very good sign
that she wants you to make a move. She likes you. Okay, our next sign she wants you to make a
move is that she drops hints of things she enjoys doing. Like, "Oh my goodness, I love Chipotle.
I could go there anytime. Like it's my favorite place to go." No, this is not sponsored,I just
happen to love Chipotle so it came to my mind. But you get the gist. If she, "Oh my goodness, I
love that movie. I would love to see it again." "Oh my goodness, I love to go do that. I would
love to do that again soon." Those are ways for her to leave the door wide open for you to say,
"Hey, let's go do that."That's what she's hoping you will say. She wants to help you make the date
as enjoyable as possible. And dropping those hints helps you know what she would enjoy doing and
what would be fun for you to do together. Okay, our next sign is if she fixes her jewelry and her
clothes when she's around you. This is especially true if she sees you like walk in the room or if
she sees you looking at her and then she starts making sure her jewelry is okay, making sure her
clothes are looking nice and everything. It's because she wants you to think she's attractive.
She wants you to notice her. Now real fast before we get to the next sign we need to talk about
the elephant in the room for a minute, guys. Why is it so scary to make a move? Because the
truth is, the whole point of these signs is for you to make a move, right? It's for you to get
to know her better. The reason this or any other part of dating and relationships can be scary is
because you don't know what you're doing. It's kind of like when you first start learning how
to drive a car. Most of us are terrified,, right? And if you're not terrified you are as soon as
you realize you have no idea what you are doing. However, once you go through the training, once
you understand what to do, it's not scary anymore, right? Why is it not scary anymore? It's because
you've become confident because you actually know what you are doing. The way to become good at
making a move, good at asking her out, good at attracting women is simply to just learn how.
Nothing is more terrifying than the unknown. This is why the men who go through my program and apply
these amazing skills, this is why their confidence just skyrockets. This is why this becomes simple
instead of terrifying and paralyzing. And it's all because they understand how to do it. Understand
that women think differently than you do. This is a little bit hard to shift your focus
to how a woman sees things, but let me see if I can explain. She is very aware of the fact that
you're a man and she's a woman. She's very aware of the fact that you're big and strong. And that's
one of the things she likes about you. However, it can be a little bit scary too. As a matter
of fact, it can be really scary especially in today's world. And so if something happens that
makes her feel awkward or a nervous, if you're just winging it, if you have no idea what you're
doing, that's going to push her away because it freaks her out. Now to you it's not going to
feel awkward. To you it's not going to feel scary in any way. But that's because you're not a
woman. This is whyI literally have tons of emails and tons of DMs and tons of comments every single
day from men asking, "Melannie, why did she ghost me? Melannie, why did she just stop talking to
me? Melannie, why did we go on two dates and now she won't talk to me?" And I'm like, "Okay, what
happened? Tell me about it." And I'm like, "Yeah, I know exactly what happened." You cannot wing it.
You need to make sure you know what you're doing. This is why dating and relationship skills are
critical if you want the girl of your dreams. And that's really what you deserve.
This is what I teach in my program, How To Get A Girlfriend. To learn more about that
make sure you go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. I will put a link in the description below and a
link in the pinned comment. This is where you can watch my free masterclass that's going to teach
you more about my program, teach you more about what I teach, and why it works. So if you are
tired of being rejected and ghosted and tired of it being a struggle to get your dream relationship
you need to know these things. So make sure again you go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. That,
my friend, is how you set yourself up for success instead of failure. So make sure you check
out the link in the description below. Okay, our next subtle sign she's waiting for
you to make a move is if she fixes her hair when she is around you. Again, this is very
similar to fixing her clothes and her jewelry. If you notice that she fixes her hair, makes sure
her hair looks good it's because she wants you to notice it looks good, okay? She wants to look
attractive for you. And she's not going to do that unless she wants you to make a move. Our next sign
is that she touches you. When we're attracted to people we touch them. Makes sense, right? Now
sometimes this is a little bit more obvious, other times it's much more subtle. For instance,
she may brush up against you when she walks past you, she may touch your arm when she's talking
to you, she may stand really close to you, she might sit close enough that you touch, she
might playfully push you, she might give you a hug when she sees you. These are all ways for her to
touch you in a way that doesn't look creepy or super desperate. Now again something to remember
with this sign and really all of the signs is that each woman is a bit different. So if you
do not see all of these signs, that's okay. Some women are more bold, some women are more
shy, some women don't know you as well, so this is one of the reasons why it's good to be aware
of so many signs. I'm actually thinking about making another video with additional body language
type signs, subtle signs that she is interested in you and that she likes you. Would you like another
video on that? If you would, please let me know in the comments by commenting "signs she likes you."
This helps me so so much so again if you want more videos like this one, if you're enjoying this
video, make sure you comment "signs she likes you" to let me know. Okay, our next sign she's waiting
for you to make a move is if she flirts with you. We usually flirt with people for a reason, right?
It makes sense. And so if she is flirting with you that is her way of, again, trying to invite you
to make a move. If you haven't yet seen this video on signs she's flirting with you make sure
you give it a watch. I'll put a link to that in the description below as well. Our next sign
she wants you to make a move is if she finds ways to talk to you. If she goes out of her way to
talk to you, if maybe she texts you occasionally, tries to keep the conversation going, tries to
start a conversation, maybe she walks by and tries to talk to you when she walks by, if she's
looking for ways to contact you, to talk to you, it's for a reason. And it's one way she leaves the
door wide open so you can make a move, so you can ask her out, so you can flirt with her. Ultimately
it's her way of inviting you to pursue her. Okay, our next sign is if she plays with her jewelry. We
already talked about how she'll fix her jewelry, make sure it looks good. Well, she may also
play with it. This is actually one of the crazy, crazy body language signs that is very
very effective. So if you notice she plays with her jewelry a lot that's a really
good sign that she's interested and she thinks you're cute and she wants you to notice she's cute
too. Our next sign is that she sits close to you. Again, this kind of comes back to touch. If we are
attracted to someone we want to be close to them. And if you notice she tends to sit close to you,
maybe she'll even lean in a little bit when she's talking to you, that can be a really really good
sign that she's interested, that she likes you, and that she's waiting for you to make a move.
Okay, our next sign is kind of a funny one. I've mentioned it in a couple of other videos and you
guys always ask questions about it so I'm adding it here as well. If she points her feet towards
you it is a sign that she's interested in you. Where our minds are, our feet will point,
okay? So kind of like I was telling you earlier if she's talking to someone but she's interested
in something else, she's thinking about something else, her feet will be pointed wherever it is
she's thinking about. For instance, if you see two people talking and one person's foot is pointed
towards the door, it means they want to get out of that conversation and they want to leave and
go through that door. So the same is true with interest. She could be talking to someone else
but her feet be pointing towards you. She could be sitting down across the room from you but her feet
be pointing towards you. And those are all signs that she's interested. She wants you to make a
move because she's attracted to you. She's already noticed you. Now if you are talking to her and
her feet are pointing at you that is a crazy crazy good sign. Now sometimes people get a little
confused and they're like, "Okay, but what if both feet aren't pointing at me?" Well the most
important foot is going to be her dominant foot, okay? That's the foot we usually kind of lead
with. And it's very similar to our dominant hand, so for most people that's going to be their right
foot. So don't panic if her left foot is pointing a different direction. As long as her right foot
is pointing at you you're probably good. It kind of is a funny sign, but it's actually crazy
effective. Pay attention to your own feet and start noticing when your feet are pointing where
you want to go. Okay, this may be the single most powerful body language sign. It is certainly one
of the most used, if not the most used. And this is one that women totally think you understand. So
if you do not understand this one it's like a slap in the face to her, okay? So pay close attention.
If she looks at you, smiles, and looks away when you look at her. That is huge. The looking
away, especially if she looks down and away, that's huge. That is her way of saying, "Oh, hey,
hi." "Oh, hey, you should come over here." "Oh, hey, you're really cute." That is what she's
saying, okay? Now if you ignore that too many times, if you see that too many times and you do
not make a move, "Okay, he doesn't like me. Okay, I just embarrassed myself. He probably thinksI
look really ugly. Okay, I'm not gonna smile at him anymore." That's what goes through her head.
So pay very very close attention to that sign. Don't disregard it. It's okay to make sure
you're seeing that sign, because sometimes your eyes just meet, right? Your eyes just meet
across the room and you look away and whatever. So it's okay to try a couple of times, but if
you've seen it two to three times in a night that's a really good sign and she probably
won't send them too many more times if you don't at least try to make a move.
This is again why you need to make sure you know what you're going to do. You need to
know how to walk over to her, how to ask her out, what to say, what your body language should be,
how to make sure you ask her out in a way that makes her feel comfortable. All of these things,
they become your game plan. And when you have a game plan you're not afraid because you just go,
"Oh, yeah. Okay, so I do that." Oh, yeah. So I do that." And then instead of being petrified and
awkward and freaked out, instead, you're confident and you're masculine and you attract her like
you would not believe because nothing is more attractive to a woman than confidence. This is
why I teach these skills in my program. So again, when you are ready to just know how to make a
move simply and easily and avoid being ghosted and avoid being rejected and avoid things being
awkward make sure you check out that program. You can learn more about it by watching my free
masterclass at coachmelannie.com/masterclass. This is for the men who are tired of being single
and just want to fast track it. You don't want to make any more mistakes. You just want to get
results. So again, there's link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. Thank
you so much for watching my amazing friend! If you learned something new and enjoyed what you saw
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