Hello, my wonderful friend! In today's video, you're going to discover 5 kissing
tips you didn't know you needed. I'm going to be sharing some how to kiss
a girl secrets and honestly, so much more. These are 5 things I can almost
guarantee you did not know about kissing. Let's be real. Kissing is
fun, right? It's very, very enjoyable. However, it can feel a little
intimidating or scary as well. You want that kiss to be magical. You
want it to just, like, send shivers down her spine and give her butterflies
and make her wants to kiss you again. You want the kiss to be
magical and memorable, right? Something you may not know about kissing is
that girls like it too. Like, they really do. She wants that kiss to be magical as well. So get ready for some kissing tips
that are unexpected and powerful. If you want a magical kiss,
these are things you must know. And the most powerful tip I'll be sharing
with you at the end of this video. So make sure you stay with me until the end. Before we dive in, make sure you
subscribe and ring that notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a
Christian dating coach for men and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy. I'm your go-to source to learn
how to find the love of your life, make her fall crazy in love with you, so that
you can spend your life with her by your side. And the best part is, no mind games,
no tricks because they don't work. So make sure you subscribe and ring that
notification bell, give me a big thumbs up, and if you'd like to learn more about working with
me in my Academy, just go to coachmelannie.com. So, are you ready for these powerful kissing tips? It's easy for it to feel overwhelming
and super complicated, but the truth is a really good kiss is pretty simple. And these tips I'm about to
share with you are crazy simple. As a matter of fact, I'm going to
be demonstrating a good kiss for you right now. [laughter] Okay, I'm just
kidding. I'm actually not going to do that. That would feel so awkward,
so we're not going to do that. But instead, let's just get
to these crazy awesome tips. Tip number one is always, always
share a kiss. Never steal a kiss. The way you approach a kiss really
matters. Like, really matters. Your mindset and intention when you kiss her directly affects whether she enjoys
the kiss or really regrets the kiss. And always you want her to enjoy it, right?
You want it to be magical and amazing. You don't want to be too aggressive, especially early on. You know, don't
devour her face, okay? Just don't do it. You don't want to rush her and make her feel
like she has to kiss you before she's ready. A lot has been said in songs or movies about stealing a kiss.
But the truth is it doesn't work that way. You don't steal a kiss. You share a
kiss. That's what makes it magical. Anytime you're just focused on yourself and
what you want, it's going to be unfulfilling. But when you focus on the two of you sharing this
moment, sharing how you feel about each other, that's what makes it magical. It may sound small, but mindset is the biggest part of anything you'll
ever do, especially in relationships. While we're on this topic of kissing, there are two other videos I'm also going to
mention that are going to help you so much. Make sure you watch this video on 13 places
that women want to be touched, and this video on how to flirt with women, where I give you some
specific things to say to just melt her heart. I'll put video- I'll put links to both
of those in the description below. Kissing tip number two is
do not kiss her too soon. That truth is, yes, women like
kissing too. It's a fun thing, and it's certainly something
that should be enjoyed. However, if she's a classy woman, if she's a
loyal woman, if she's a woman who's looking for long-term love, someone to wake
up next to for the rest of her life, she treats kisses with respect because
they deserve that kind of respect. I know there's a ton of pressure put on you to kiss her within a certain
amount of time or she'll get bored. Yeah, that's not true of a classy
woman, okay? I'm just going to say it. A kiss means something to a loyal, good,
tender woman. And so she doesn't want to rush that. She wants it to
mean something to the two of you. This is especially true of a Christian
woman who's trying to stay morally clean. This is not something that's talked
about enough. It really should be. The last thing she wants us to rush the physical
side of things, even if it's totally appropriate, and then have it complicate things down the road. She wants to respect you and
she wants you to respect her. And if you're trying to kiss her too soon,
that's actually a huge red flag for her. So if you're struggling to attract
high-quality, classy, good, loyal women, this can be a lot of the reason why. Okay, I'm about to let you in on a secret. Are you paying close attention? What a lot of people don't know is
what makes a kiss the most magical is knowing that you're kissing someone who
loves you, someone who loves the real you. That's what makes it the most
enjoyable and exciting and magical; when you have two people who love each other and
genuinely respect each other and share a kiss. And that actually brings up a
really interesting question. How do you find and create
that kind of deep relationship? Can you imagine how wonderful it would
feel to look into her stunning eyes and know that she loves you with her whole heart,
that she loves the real you and always will? That would be the best
feeling in the world, right? Dating can feel tough and exhausting. It's terrible to get your hopes
up only to have them crushed. And it's devastating when you
share a special moment with someone only to have it completely fall apart around you. Nothing is worse than sharing a special
moment with a woman thinking she truly cares about you and then watching it
completely fall apart. It's devastating. So let me assure you that the kind of
love you want and you're dreaming of, it's real, and you can have it. As a matter of fact, I help
people get this every day. I created Attracting Lasting Love Academy to guide you through the life-changing
strategies that allow you to find the feminine, gentle, tender, loyal woman of your dreams
and make her fall madly in love with you. If you want to wake up every morning next
to the soft, tender love of your life, knowing she loves you completely, then these
life-changing strategies are what you need. To discover how you can have a lifetime of those
soft, beautiful kisses from the woman who adores you, and to learn more about my Academy,
make sure you watch my free masterclass. Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. I'll put a link in the description
below and a link in the pinned comment. If you want those kisses to last a
lifetime, your love to last a lifetime, you need to be in on these secrets,
so make sure you give it a watch. Now my next kissing tip goes along with the previous one. This tip is to
notice how soon she tries to kiss you. If you've been here for a while, you've
heard me talk about toxic or fake women. As a matter of fact, if you
haven't seen this video yet, and you have no idea what I'm talking
about, watch it. Like, do yourself a favor, save yourself some heartache and watch it.
I will put a link in the description below. If you're sick of fake and empty
relationships that just leave you feeling completely defeated and exhausted,
yeah, you need to watch that video. Something most people don't know is
that toxic women will use physical touch to make your head spin, to
control and manipulate you. Toxic women know that if she can
distract you by giving you that high all the time, that you won't notice
how sick and fake and toxic she really is. So one of the biggest things
narcissists (toxic people) will do is they will rush that physical
side of the relationship. Honestly, it's an insane red flag. As a coach, I can't tell you how many
men come to me completely shattered and heartbroken because they thought a woman
cared for them who honestly just didn't. So it's truly in your best
interest to not kiss her too soon. If a woman enjoys spending time with you
without kissing you - for a while, I mean, obviously, at some point there should
be kissing - but at least for a while, if she cares enough about you to want to
spend time with you without all of that, that's a really good sign that it's
you she cares about, not just kissing. Because the sad reality is there
are many women who just want a list of guys they have kissed. It's pathetic, but true. You want that feminine, tender woman who cares
about you so much that she wants to kiss you. Okay, my next tip for how to kiss a girl, my next
kissing tip, is to make your kisses memorable. Now this is something I do go into more detail with you after you complete my Academy.
However, let's briefly go over it here. I know many of you here have
already joined me there, so after you complete the Academy, make
sure you do reference that special video. Most women want a kiss to
be romantic and memorable. This is especially true of your first
kiss. This is something she wants to, like, tell your grandkids about. Like,
this is kind of a big deal to her. You don't want to overdo this or overthink
this, but you do want to make it special. One way to do this is to
avoid some of the cliches. For instance, waiting until you
get to the door. It's so cliche, it's kind of painful. And
that's why you want to avoid it. "Oh, shoot. He brought me home. We're
walking up to my door. Should I let him kiss me? I don't know if he's going to
kiss me. Does he want to kiss me? Should I stand here? Should I go in my house?
Should I slam the door in his face?" [laughter] She doesn't know what to do. And
so it just makes both of you feel a ton of pressure. And that's not what you want. It can't
really be magical if there's too much pressure. This makes the kiss feel calculated rather
than spontaneous and romantic and magical. Before we get to the most powerful kissing
tip, I have a quick question for you. Are you enjoying this video, and would
you like more videos like this one? I think this is the only video I've
posted on YouTube about kissing. So should I make more? If I should,
comment "kissing" to let me know. And okay, I just have to say a huge thank you!
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who you are, and I cannot thank you enough. Okay, are you ready for a powerful kissing
tip? Here it comes. It's coming in fast. Make sure when you kiss her it
means that you care about her. This really goes along with our first tip, but it's so important it really
needs its own time to shine. When someone is kissing you because they
care about you, it is automatically magical. So many people overthink specific kissing
strategies and they massively obsess over being super sexy. And the truth is
that's a waste of time, okay? It's just really is. You're obsessing over
something you don't need to obsess over. At the end of the day, it's
not about being super sexy. It's about being loved. Everyone wants to feel like they matter. Everyone
wants to feel loved. We want to be cared about. When you kiss her because
you honestly care about her, that love is felt and she tingles
all over as she swoons in your arms. Your intention really does
make all the difference. So let me make sure I have this right. Your whole goal is to find and captivate
a gentle, feminine, loyal woman, and make her fall deeply in love with you, so
she wants to spend her whole life with you. Is that correct? Is that what you're looking for? Why does it seem so hard to find that kind of gal? And how do you keep that spark alive,
so she's smitten by you forever? These are questions you'll find the
answers to in my new free masterclass. If you're sick of relationships that go nowhere
and you're ready to wake up to her soft touch every morning for the rest of your life, you
need to learn the secrets I share with you there. So go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. I will also put a link in the description
below and a link in the pinned comment. Don't keep yourself from the love of
your life anymore. Watch it today. Real fast, let's sum up what you've
learned about how to kiss a girl correctly. Number one, always share a kiss, never steal a kiss. Your mindset and intentions
going into the kiss really, really matter. Number two, do not kiss her too soon.
That pushes classy women away and really only helps you attract toxic women. So you
really, really need to not kiss her too soon. Kissing tip number three, pay
attention to how quickly or how soon she kisses you. This is a huge
red flag of a toxic woman. Number four, make your kiss,
especially your first kiss, memorable and magical. Avoid
cliches. They just make it awkward. And number five, make sure your kiss means that you care about her.
There's nothing more spectacular and exciting and memorable and magical than kissing someone
who you honestly adore and who adores you too. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing
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idea how incredibly awkward it feels to make thumbnails for a video about kissing? It feels
really weird. [laughter] If you saw my stories on Instagram yesterday, you
probably heard me say that. No, it feels really awkward and weird. [laughter] It's one of the weirdest things
I've ever done for YouTube. All right, here we go. [laughter] I'm serious
though. You're like, "I don't know what to do." [laughter] It's fine. Okay, ready?
Okay, I've stalled long enough. Here we go. Hello, my wonderful friend!
Today- Ah, I hit my mic. Shoot. -and these tips are crazy simple. Now I will be- I'm trying to decide if I
should use a joke or if it's too cheesy. I'm going to try it, and if you want
to cut it out, you can cut it out. -and these tips I'm about to share with
you are crazy simple. As a matter of fact, I'm going to be demonstrating a good kiss for
you right now. [laughter] Okay, I'm just kidding. I'm actually not going to do that. That would
feel so awkward, so we're not going to do that. But instead, let's just get to
these crazy awesome tips. [laughter] Can you imagine? That would be so awkward. I know
people do it, but I'm not going to. So, it's cool. [laughter] Oh, I'm having too much fun today. [singing a note] There's something
in my eyeball. Oh, oh, oh, oh. Oh, I almost forgot, but I can't forget our rock
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If this is your first time watching to the end of the video, we have a special word that
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