Ask Women These 6 Questions (She'll Be Impressed)

hi everyone welcome back to my channel if you're new here I'm Courtney Ryan and today we're going to be talking about the best questions to ask women and the reason why I decided to make this video is because I get a lot of questions from you guys about the best questions to ask women questions that will help you connect with her better or how to keep a conversation going with a woman specifically like on a first date or a scenario like that and while I don't want you guys to be rehearsing your conversations beforehand it can help to know some questions to ask just so you feel a little bit more at ease going into the situation your conversation should be genuine and the questions that you ask her should come from a place of genuine curiosity so please keep this in mind throughout the video so the six questions that I would recommend asking ultimately I think these six questions will help you connect with her and see if there's compatibility there for a second day while also learning more about her without the interaction feeling like a boring interview take what you need and leave what you don't but I hope this video gives you a little confidence boost for your next date or your interactions question number one is what does a typical day a look like for you and I think this is a really great alternative to just asking her what she does for work specifically because then that only gives her the ability to answer you know one little thing about work but you don't get to figure out what she does in the morning before work or what she does after work or how she spends her free time or down time so I think asking what does a typical day look like for you helps you get a little bit of insight into what this girl is like framing the question this way helps broaden the way that she's able to answer it and ultimately just reveals a lot more about her she might talk about her routine her career what she does in her spare time again giving you another way to connect with her number two is what are you most passionate about at the moment so this is a great thing to ask instead of maybe what are your hobbies I think a lot of people hear the word Hobby and they freeze up a little bit because they aren't sure what necessarily is considered a hobby what you might consider a hobby I might not and vice versa so I think passions can be far more than just a hobby so I think this is a really great way to frame the question if you want to know who person is a great way to do that is to find out what they love it could be her current job it could be a hobby or interest something she likes to do in her free time our current goal of hers there are so many different directions this question could go but regardless it gives her a platform and a place to talk about something that she really loves and she's interested in which does a couple things for you too one it makes her feel special and comfortable Everyone likes to talk about themselves and what they're really interested in this is something that I've referred to in past videos as her Golden Nugget which is basically something that makes a person light up when they talk about it it's the thing that they could just talk about for hours and hours or go on and on about it and it really allows them to kind of crack the shell and open up a little bit more because they're talking about something that they're familiar with and they really enjoy and number two it helps you learn more about her this is a very easy question to ask because you could ask her this after she mentions what she does for a living or something she's working on or she's been really busy lately kind of dig in there and figure out what it is she's been doing number three is what is your favorite thing about where you you grew up this could be a great follow-up question after asking her where she grew up or a great way to kind of start that conversation in general here you can learn a little bit more about her past and her childhood if you happen to be from the same place this is a really great way to connect and you know find similarities there but if she's from somewhere else this gives you a ton of questions to ask and this conversation could lead into one about travel maybe which leads me into my next Point here number four which is have you traveled much or do you want to this is great to ask instead of asking her what her recent travels have been because maybe she hasn't been anywhere lately and doesn't really have an answer for you talking about travel can be a really great way to connect if you guys have been to the same places or again the second part of the question here asking her where she would like to go if she has any aspirations to visit certain countries or cities or whatever it is you could easily connect with her on that if that's something that you guys have in common number five is what is your favorite way to spend your weekends this can help you get a gauge on if your lifestyle is align and again as I mentioned earlier with the what does a typical day look like for you help kind of paint a picture on how she likes to spend her free time it can tell you a lot about her character or her values is she social or is she more of a homebody if she goes out clubbing every single weekend with her girlfriends and you're at home with your dog reading a book the lifestyles might not align there maybe she mentioned she likes to spend some time reading during the weekend you could then talk about your favorite books if she tells you she likes to binge Netflix and relax you could talk about a show you've seen lately or ask her what her favorite shows are and that could be an entire conversation about movies and TV shows and things like that if she says she likes to go to a workout class you could talk to some that you've been to or about Fitness in general the point I'm trying to make here is that this can lead you into many different topics and common interests if there are any and also see if you're at a similar place in life and looking for the same things like I mentioned if she's going to the club every weekend drinking partying with her girlfriends and that's not you at all and you're a homebody and you like to hang out with your dog or hang out with your family or read a book during the weekends well that's assigned to you that maybe you are a little bit different so again asking questions like this really helps you see if you guys are compatible and if your Lifestyles will align and my last question here number six is what is something you want to learn or wish that you were better at and I really like this question because cause I think a lot of the time we get into the habit of asking people oh what are you good at what are your skills and asking this on a first date can kind of make them feel like it's an interview or like they need to brag about themselves or sell themselves to you which can sometimes result in someone not being honest or just freezing up because maybe they're humble and don't want to brag asking a question like this can allow a level of emotional maturity and self-awareness to be shown by discussing what we wish we were better at or what we could improve about ourselves and depending on her answer this could also show a desire to learn and a learner mentality which I think is a really great trait to find in a partner you might even realize that you both share common interests or want to learn the same thing and that could be a really great you know segue into a different conversation or a second date so to wrap this video up I think all of these questions do a great job at allowing you to learn a lot more about her figure out if you guys are compatible or if your Lifestyles will align and they'll also help you connect with her on a deeper level all of these are core topics that are very easy to dig deeper into once you get them started when we can connect with someone it makes us feel closer to them and more comfortable which is obviously ideal if you're in a scenario like a first date so again don't fire these questions at her like she's in an interrogation room where you're in an interview but just knowing these questions to ask and having these in your back pocket can be a really great way to feel more at ease and at peace in a situation if you're someone who struggles with keeping a conversation going or flowing so guys if you liked this video or found it helpful be sure to give it a thumbs up and subscribe to my channel to be in the loop for when I release new content if you haven't already be sure to follow me over on Instagram at Courtney Christine Ryan I love connecting with all of you guys over on there as well also let me know down in the comments what are some questions you'd like to ask on a first date or as a man watching what are some questions that you like to be asked or topics you found to be really great to discuss on a first date would love to hear your stories down below and help some other guys out in the comments as always thank you all so much for watching and I will see you all next time foreign

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Length: 7min 19sec (439 seconds)

Published: Fri Dec 02 2022