Age Gap Relationships | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

[Music] this is 26 year old model Sara she fell in love with Mason a 54 year old retired child star turned entrepreneur I don't see myself as being in her League you ready to go the couple have been happily together for the last 7 months but they have faced plenty of criticism along the way a lot of people have come out and you know like really you're with that dude like why now it's getting serious will their nearest and dearest accept their love what I hope Mason is like I'm kind of expecting maybe like a character you know hi I'm Sarah I'm 26 years old hi I'm Nathan by the time this airs I'll be 54 you look very pretty you look very adorable thank you there's 28 years difference between the two of us and you know the funny thing is this is the first relationship of my life with a massive anxious crepin see the last time I dated someone 26 is probably when I was 28 the couple might not be considered a natural fit but that hasn't held their romance back when I first met Mason I thought he was the most adorable person on the planet I like older men because they're more mature I just love the way they look like I actually like gray hair and bald guys I don't know I just that's what I'm attracted to Mason and I first communicated through Facebook I thought he was really intelligent I'm not gonna put myself down I think I'm a nice guy I think I'm a fun guy to be with I think I have a lot to offer but the truth the matter is I don't see myself as being in her League so when she expressed interest and actually been in a relationship with me I think I was as shocked as anybody I think the relationship progressed so quickly because we just hit it off right away when you first meet somebody and you end up talking effortlessly no uncomfortable moments of real silence that's kind of unusual and I think that she felt that way as well he said I love you about a week into the relationship she sent it back very quickly there was no real pause and delay she just said I love you too back in the seventies in the eighties I was a really famous child actor but then the career with most young actors you know kind of fizzled out for a while I owned bars of restaurants for 20 years here in New York City retired from not a couple of years ago and I'm kind of been living the life of leisure really ever since I do adult modelling webcam modeling hey guys it's not just like a sexual thing that I like to actually talk to people I could get to know people ask them where they're from and we just start talking about whatever you got ready to cam she really enjoys it and there are times when you know I'll watch her do something and I'll cringe a little bit you know because the whole camping thing was something I was never personally into I don't get jealous no I don't really understand why men feel compelled to do this usually when Sarah is counting others to be watching television quite honestly I know that it's a shown the real showers not the one doing all the outrageous outlandish you know fun things that she does with Mason's background as a child star it wasn't long before Sarah was judged for being with him for all the wrong reasons I've gotten a few reactions when we're out a lot of people have come out and you know like really you're with that dude like why you know is it for the money okay that really upsets me when people say that I'm with him for his money because I can date 20 guys who will give me an allowance you know so I don't need to be with him for his money no that's nice well the dress I think yeah cool you ready to go yeah cool I have been a sugar baby before it can be like fun sometimes getting paid $300 to go to dinner is pretty decent but I just ever since I started talking to me and I just decided that I didn't want that anymore I just feel like I'm happy to be in a relationship with him Sarah's never asked me for a penny never today is a big day for the couple Sarah is introducing Mason to one of her oldest friends I use a mobility scooter because I've had a couple of accidents in my life and I find that as I'm getting a little bit older I'm developing a little bit of arthritic pain so it really is a matter of convenience for us because it's fun and it saves a lot on cabs the careful this will be the first time any of Sarah's friends have met her new partner [Music] so I'm really excited about meeting Victor that'll be fun it's the first time in our relationship that I've met any of her friends well hopefully he'll be here soon Victor has traveled all the way from Boston to meet the couple I've met some of her significant others in the past but I'm really excited to meet this one his sounds very different in yeah well the last time I saw okay I'm really excited about it yeah I really hope that mr. licensed we do hey Doug man good to be yeah it'll may be a man Mason right that's me Victor for the million we had some little friends and then she reached out to me on Facebook just to say hi in something like a front of a class and of course I'm not gonna say no oh yeah and even the night before and then I was supposed to arrive she stopped me a PM on facebook said are you still planning on coming but by the way Victor I swear to you I would like it totally didn't even occur to me that this beautiful young you know exotic gorgeous creature could ever fall for a guy like me [Music] of my attention list and be the best boy that's really sweet of you I mean I think she calls me copy you know old man sometimes I am you know I'm 54 it did it happen we've had a wonderful conversation and it's my stuff you know built to talk to somebody who is also known Sara for things that we a fourth of her life really thought that like it we really see eye to eye on a lot of things it's been really a lot of fun so Sara does actually active around Mason then I've seen her with other others there's a different demeanor about her she's not all before I could see her on the defensive stuff and right now she's relaxing obviously we're lovers but at the same time I think that we're also good friends like I think we really enjoy being around each other I don't worry about what people think I'm really like happy to be replacing so I'm happy to do it her [Music] the age difference is 30 years between us exactly but we seem to love everything that's the same I realized that maybe I do want to have a child it's complicated are you going to cause a pregnancy mmm that's the stretch [Music] so yeah so I had a mild fender bender traffic crash and the funny thing was is I I don't know I think I have a thing for a man in uniform I was totally thinking oh my gosh I wonder if the officer is gonna be really cute and Larry he popped out of the car and I was like oh well he's cute but like he's a little too old for man we just had to keep in contact for the police report and I just felt really it started out with a bunch of calls sent in text and we got really close really fast there was no stopping it once it happened there was no stopping in it and boom what here we are you got stuck with me I know mm-hmm yeah but I'm glad I'm happy now I have to jump in oh gosh that's cool that's like a life advice though just jump in and do it just do it you look at me and you look at her and you realize there's the age gap and that thought process didn't even really register initially it was oh wow no no for everything the snowball II get to the point where we're sitting here now having been married for a couple of years yeah yeah no I'm I've won the lottery the age difference scared me and I was terrified of what everybody else would think and now it doesn't matter people still look people stare at us sometimes people make comments it doesn't really bother us now but it did so my family was the hardest to tell just because I was afraid of what they would think I did eventually tell them all concerns that that I possibly had where the difference in the ages what's going to happen with financial stability going down the road who's who's going to be taken care of who there's a difference between someone at 20 and 50 which is where their current age gap is in their twenties and fifties compared to being married and then all of a sudden it's 50s and 80s and that is a little concerning because you're in a different place in your life you know you're gonna be more of a caregiver when you're kind of in a prime zone possibly I was very concerned about them her not having children and perhaps being alone plus he's older than us that would have were all gone so my brother Jimmy he took it the hardest with Larry and I being a couple and it really upset me because I was expecting him to take it totally different like I just thought that he would accept it and understand she did not sell me the age gap so it was a bit of a shock for me walking into the house when see a 50 year old dude with your sister who's 24 like what is going on right now didn't like him at all at first said it was just definitely weird but I saw my friends would constantly like yo your sisters like so beautiful what is she doing with someone so much older than her does he have money he's not rich and he's older men like at least get a Bill Gates or something so I can get a bow out of this I need something there was none of that however it turns out he is a great guy it seemed to me like they like the same things I had no troubles of that and just glad to tell you managed to get together so I have a youtube channel and actually for the first year I did not mention Larry at all I kept it all Harry Potter related and beauty related I didn't want anybody to know just because the world is it's kind of judging usually I'm surrounded by Harry Potter and merchandise and I'll just get ready and I'm looking at it and talking about it and [Music] my husband is the fixer-upper and the Builder not to me so I didn't bring him up in my videos at all and people got really curious about us and when I did finally bring him up people were so supportive are you nervous and my number one most requested video for literally the last hour and obviously as you can tell we do have an age difference and I had so many lovely supportive comments which made me so happy because I don't want to hide Larry hello everybody and welcome back to my channel today's video is going to be a Harry Potter haul Larry has had a vasectomy actually he had it almost around the year that I was born which is kind of funny and before we got married I completely knew that he couldn't have children and I was okay with it we had talked about it Larry didn't really want to have children he was retiring and I was okay with that and then about a month before we got married I went into panic mode thinking this is what I'm supposed to do I'm getting married now I'm supposed to have a family in the urologist that we're going to see his name is dr. Stein right he specializes in reversals so he's not just a urologist he specializes in the reversals and the vasectomies we're meeting him basically to see if the reversal is even an option for us feeling a little nervous about the appointment I'm excited to hear what they're gonna say but I'm nervous for the outcome you had one child with a prior partner yes you had a vasectomy after that one 25 years ago now you've been together for a long time seven years yeah and why did you wait so long right before we got married I was okay with not having children I always say if you knew that this was going to work and that but that you were going to give birth to a 14 year old would you still want to do it as a 14 year old that's scary [Music] are you going to have a sperm in your semen I think you probably are are you going to cause a pregnancy hmm that's the stretch in other words over the 25 years despite that nodule has there been anything else going on they're here for a baby so you're evaluating couple you're not just evaluating one male she has a pretty high likelihood of getting pregnant by virtue of her youth with artificial insemination using donor sperm maybe even if he got sperm back if his semen quality wasn't as great as it might have been before his vasectomy she has a better chance than would a 37 year old partner and that Larry's in pretty good health otherwise so he's a pretty good candidate whether he wants to take on the challenge of a child when he's 57 only he can determine whether that's something that he wants to be part of his later years we're looking at a $6,000 procedure with a recovery but even then if he can't connect it it still is not going to guarantee the point he was trying to get at it still will not guarantee that the sperm is going to actively flow through Brett so you're looking at a six thousand dollar cost with potential loss the procedure not being effective curses I guess using a sperm donor which is $2,000 and it is going to work so he had brought up Tulare that the other options would be if it's not worth it to do the vasectomy the other options would be to use a sperm donor or to adopt it wouldn't your child there's something I need to research I just don't have all the answers I would have questions but I would I would need to research that before we we want any further yeah which is understandable a diss felt fresh when we go out in public I used to get so nervous about holding his hand in public or kissing him in public or doing anything in public so when they see us touching holding hands just something as simple as that it creates a problem which used to scare me a lot now it doesn't I'm used to it we went to Home Depot to buy boxes to move things oh yeah and we got to the checkout line and the cashier said oh it's so nice dad's helping you get boxes so you can move your things to college honestly I was 25 and she thought I was in high school graduating and dad's helping me pack up for college and I was like yeah I waited 50 years for Mindy I don't know how long the ride is going to last for for lack of better but it was worth the wait at the end of the day you have to do what's best for you you have to follow your feelings I think a lot of people don't understand that Paige got relationships can be genuine I love you the majority seem to assume that there's got to be something else going on you love somebody because you love them I'm dawn Wolper age 69 and I'm Stefanie Wolper and I'm 24 hold the door for you we've been together for just over four years married since August and there's 45 years between us 45 good years yeah were they good years I don't know why wasn't there it's red you weren't Guinness good ol Guinness cheers Missy shirt baby this is like ya know Mac family reunion mm-hmm before I met Don I was living on my own I kept getting a job quitting jobs finally I settled on a job at a pub and I met you dawn used to come in when he was off work every day pretty much every day and had beers and relax and whatever Stephanie appeared one day when I was there like most of the guys probably all guy new gal today hmm so we started getting curious and talking and flirting and different things like that and it just kind of steadily progressed me sad over here we were on the dance floor like we were everywhere we partied down for 2:30 in the morning and then he stayed at my house then we got in a cab and went to her house I was surprised I personally don't have a problem with it but I do see people giving them looks I'm so the best thing for me it's the sex it's been crazy crazy too AM 5:00 a.m. middle of the afternoon before dinner after dinner in the middle of dinner up on the rooftop on the rooftop on the balcony on the floor wherever right it doesn't last two seconds he knows what he's doing it's always different we've done a lot of different stuff [Music] that one's cute these two are my favorite he proposed to me we tried for a baby three weeks later I had a positive test there's Lachlan pulling my hair out now in 2019 he just turned one at the end of January he's amazing he's literally the best thing in the whole world build you a playhouse a treehouse I have one boy from previous marriage he would now be 24 roughly yeah he actually went to school with Stephanie we were laying in bed one day just in the middle of that afternoon talking dawn tells me this story and I was like wait what's his name and he repeats it I was like oh my god like I know him you're sowing souls dad like I went to school with this kid she knew my son before she knew me which is a little strange you guys look so much alike [Music] dawn and Lachlan have an amazing connection and amazing relationship and watching him be a father is so beautiful the shoe likes the socks the cat drinks the milk being my age I'm not worried about being around later I mean obviously would like to but you know mother nature plays a role in it and I'm just gonna take it as far as I can after that I guess he can push me around in my wheelchair we're trying to make him as smart as we can he might support us financially Louis Alberta Saskatchewan Manitoba Quebec that's the big Newfoundland Labrador I take a lot of pictures and Lachlan is gonna know that his dad loved him and be proud of him [Music] so now what all right so I think you're gonna you want to test-drive it ah I guess yeah well everyone thinks I'm a gold digger where is the gold yeah let's go find it where's the goal we're looking for the gold give me the gold Dave so we're selling our dodge and the guy sent us a deposit to show that he's serious last night actually people insult me more than they insult dawn because I'm the gold digger I'm the one with daddy issues I'm the one who can't support myself I need a man to save me I prefer leather but cloth is fine I'm not snobby I've never worried about my age ever no it's just a number keep living the same anyway so I feel like they had a man I feel like I have a stable relationship I have somebody that I can trust you gonna keep her yeah long as the mind is active the body will keep following it you can't help who you fall in love with this is 24 year old Julia she fell in love with 61 year old Eileen I used to think that most older women wouldn't be that interested in our sex life but I guess I was wrong but in a society that's quick to judge not everyone has been accepting of their 37 year age gap people can go leave nasty messages yeah but what matters the most is the support of the ones we love so now the couple are travelling across the world to seek the acceptance of Julia's mother my mum is a few years younger than Eileen after you know deal with it my name is Julian Zell I'm 24 I was born in Sao Paulo Brazil but I live in London and on my youtube work hi sweeties welcome back to the channel hi my cuties hi girls I thought a lot of different things about my life or even about fashion literally everything I'm interested in we have a very very lovely day when 24 year old Julia lets 61 year old Eileen it wasn't long before sparks flew I'm so happy to introduce you to my beautiful beautiful girlfriend my name is Eileen DePriest I'm 61 I work in social media and for politics but with such a large age gap the couple's relationship has been met with harsh judgment people can get leave nasty messages yeah sugar mama mommy issues are you a pedophile she just wants a young body to lick who wouldn't rather than let the trolls get the better of them Julia and Eileen are standing strong in the face of their unconventional relationship I'm not her mother I'm in love I'm her girlfriend number partner tobago Gerda Julia and Eileen are now preparing to fly to Brazil to meet Julia's mother for the very first time my mom is 53 I guess some people think it's a bit weird that my mom is a few years younger than Eileen Brittany after a while win romance the couple decided to take their relationship to the next level and Julia moved in with Eileen where is she on the other side of the bed oh this is the bedroom pretty much similar to how it was before I moved to here apart from the shelves because we needed more space because quite small flat and I have to have a lot of shoes we have so many things in common the only thing they are different are our ages and our probably fashion styles I think we get hate comments mostly because of our age difference but also because we are gay and are unfortunately still a lot of homophobic people out there in misogyny 1 2 3 we do get that saying a lot about mommy and grandmothers you know and we get the gram gram grams oh yeah well you know and get that a lot I kind of understand that this person's frame of reference is very narrow and I feel sorry for them but it does make me upset a little bit there are people who think our age gap relationships are for money and that really annoys me a little bit because we we pay everything equally will not let any haters stop us because yeah we just love each other yeah it Julie doesn't make me feel insecure but I make myself feel insecure but you know I wonder sometimes do people wonder you know why she's with me and you know and they can't possibly know the answer to that because they don't know I gained weight over the years and Julia is is quite a beautiful woman and but you know I delight in her beauty I just feel slightly self-conscious if that makes more sense look at her in the suitcase oh are you coming to Brazil with us one thing I know for sure is that you guys are Beach loving people and the women we're barely there bathing suits I know that because I have to you know deal with it because I'm will be wearing a barely-there bathing suit I'll be wearing a one-piece but that's okay when I look wonderful I'll thank you darling you're so cute I'm so excited about going to Brazil I'm really really thrilled and I was a little afraid to be honest I know I know if I told you that but it was a little you know it's a little afraid I'm sure I'll have some moments you know where I'll be a little nervous today guess where we go with their suitcases packed it's finally time for the couple to make that 12 hour journey to face their most important judge to date Julia's mother [Music] you fickle moon tercios a mic on the stock Walden dinero por toda Julis alsyne and I have been DoCoMo peso deferred entering the Queen's in the tower respect achiever being around jeana now we're just gonna get out chases and then we're gonna beat my mom [Music] [Music] [Music] - crying [Music] aiyoo Nimr mom like meeting new generations of each other [Music] [Applause] [Music] the only machine Africa Julia for seated monomer atomizer alia my spare minute of lemon a goose a moving to turquoise see Eileen tacos to mother quit day yeah yeah like stunned Felice premiering part my mom just met her and she absolutely adores her everybody's very supportive and they know the Eiling makes me so happy so that's all that matters and that's what they want they just want my happiness with such enthusiasm we destroy your mom and Eileen become good friends yes I adore her mother and I knew that I would she's very Buddhist as wonderful Street I seem to casually at least how much police is sequester properly stop being nice I used to think that most older women wouldn't be very sexually active or wouldn't be that interested in our sex life but I guess I was wrong we don't have any problems with that Julie and I have an extraordinarily good sex life I mean I've never been with anybody as exciting as her and fun as hell I know things have moved quite fast with us but you know sometimes that's just the way it is this just feels right we're together because we love each other as Julia very beautifully said once we couldn't not be together you know sometimes we do worry about the future but Eileen most likely won't live as long as me and and it just sorry it just really breaks my heart to think that we can't grow together but I love you so much and I want to be with you for as long as we can that's beautiful that's the first time we've Julie's ever been able to really say it I mean we've talked about it of course but it's a very hard thing to talk about you know I mean I thought long and hard should I not get in this relationship should I do I have a responsibility to turn around say no because there is such a big age difference or just one just grabbed love it really doesn't matter to me even in the future when you get older if we cannot be that couple there's always like going out and traveling I don't care as long as I'm with you I really love you [Music]

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Id: jc9I0w8hwXM

Length: 37min 34sec (2254 seconds)

Published: Sat Jul 20 2019