Worst Blind DATES !!! r/DatingHell

ass credit what do we have today my first and last blind date it's show time I shared this story once in ass credit I've only been on a blind date once a friend of mine had the brilliant idea that I would be simply perfect for a male friend of hers I had been single for a while and since I wasn't having any luck on my own why not get a little boost from a friend important part of the story I made it clear with my friend that the guy she was setting me up with was fine with girls on the darker side of life I've always been weird gothy and nerdy and while I don't exclusively date are the Goths I just wanted to be polite so he wouldn't be shocked to see a girl with a septum ring and an extremely pale complexion she assured me that not only did he like goth girls he liked Lord of the Rings and science fiction books as well I was actually really excited for this date it was agreed that we'd meet for dinner and then go see a movie standard first date fair we met and I thought he was cute and he seemed very nice and polite and I mentally made a note to thank my friend for her matchmaking we got appetizers and discussed boring things and after the appetizer was cleared and we were waiting for the main dish he asked how things were going and I said that I was having a lovely time then he dropped the bombshell he had a very serious expression and said that in order for me to be with him some things had to change I stupidly asked what do you mean well he was ready to tell me what had to happen for me to be with him and be seen with him removal my piercings remove my tattoos I actually had no tattoos at the time stop with the goth look don't worry he was going to take my shopping and he assured me he had excellent taste get a tan grow my hair out and die at a normal color my hair was short and dyed black lose weight I'm 1 point 7 6 meters tall and I weigh 60 kilograms give or take for Americans I'm five foot eight and I weigh 140 pounds no more video games no more D&D no more horror movies I mentioned I only really like horror movies after all that then I would be ready for him to be seen with me and to accept me as a girlfriend he didn't say this in a mocking tone he was quite serious but he was willing to pay for me to be holy made over and then I'd be awesome at this point I probably had a really stupid expression on my face my face felt like it was on fire I almost wanted to cry and I kept opening my mouth to say something but no words would come so I probably looked like a baby bad with a tomato face he was really chuffed with himself and kept telling me how I looked rubbish now but once I got a tan and started dressing and acting like a normal girl man would I be a knockout the waitress came over with dinner and she have me an odd look probably because I looked quite insane and to be honest my head was still spinning I've been picked on and bullied a lot but this was almost worse in a way than when people used to spit on me and throw garbage now this part is a little bad in my haze of rage slash hurt I pushed my plate of paste over to him and unceremoniously dumped it in his lap I grabbed my purse and walked out of the restaurant then I got frightened thinking he might come and beat me up so I hid for a bit and then called a friend to come pick me up I know it's not right to dump food on people and it's not right to waste food but it just happened not gonna lie I went home and spent the evening sobbing the next day my friend who had set up this disaster was curious to know how it went and I told her she was shocked she wasn't angry at me she was furious with this guy and I wasn't angry at her she clearly had no idea it would go so badly to this day I don't know what his deal was maybe he wanted a girlfriend could build from the ground up also since the date I have not changed my style or my appearance I might not be everyone's cup of tea but I'm happy being spooky and nerdy and I don't need to compromise my appearance to find someone to love me plus giving up video games and horror movies is simply not possible good now I can fight better virgins always take it up the ass now that I have your attention this was a date in South Korea where I was teaching EFL the guy was 33 I was 21 he was military special ops investigative team kind of guy we went to a burger bar in a t1 the US military area of town where people occasionally speak English and he told me he was interviewing a suspect that night he double-booked and to just play along okay red-flag won the suspect shows off I guess on a drug charge something I never really figured it out and this guy grabs me by the shoulder and tells the suspect I'm his wife and starts making up stories about how we met it I'm kind of trying to laugh it off because what the hell this is weird suspect finally leaves and he thanks me for playing along and tells me he's paying for dinner because I was a good sport okay cool I then get food poisoning and proceeded to become sick most prodigiously in the restaurant bathroom like the champ by splash water on my face and come out of it looking pale but not terribly worse for wear he asks if I want to go back to his place and like at all I agree because the world is kind of spilling and the subway ride back to my little moldy attic and Ichi dong is Lulu and I'd like a place to sit down he drives me of this big black military Jeep to this really really nice complex overlooking the river penthouse suite ect this place is gorgeous I'm starry-eyed because hi I live in a moldy attic we hang out and talk for a while and I start to feel less ill he tries to make out a little whatever it's fine it's late and I have work in the morning so I make leaving now motions but he offers me his bed to sleep it says he won't try anything weird etc I'm exhausted so I say sure and just stripped down to my bra and panties and crawl it nice bed very comfy I pass out I wake up in the early morning to him spooned against me and something hard pressing into my ass I'm barely half awake and also a virgin which he knows so I'm not exactly sure what's going on here he kind of grinds against me for a while while I try to figure out if he's awake or not and then it happens sha blinding pain in the ass he's trying to ass rape me without a condom or Lube or asking first I'm awake now I leap out of bed and yell something like what the [ __ ] and he goes sorry baby I figured you were used to it in the ass because you were a virgin my expression is something like 0.0 I get dressed stiffly and tell him I'm leaving now he drives me to the subway asking if he did something wrong I manage a year you could say that and flee edit just to clarify I'm not trivializing sexual assault or rape SRS it's happened to me and yeah it took a long time to even realize that was what this guy was doing / trying to do all the same that one I avoided so larae yeah that's the thing that gets me there was a rapist subreddits right awhile ago and a whole lot of the guys who posted said they didn't realize what they'd done until the girl told them they just didn't understand that the girl wasn't giving consent or that because she was incapable of consenting due to being drunk that it was rape this is the kind of situation I point to when people say that increased education about rape is unnecessary because rapists are all psychopaths who would do it anyway I think some of them are just people who have been taught that it's okay to do what they want to other people's bodies and haven't learned about body autonomy not to apologize for them obviously their actions have horrific consequences anyway sorry for the rant crazy story no no rant away I feel like male entitlement to that degree is just an extension sometimes of the hey pretty lady smile for me or hey watcher reading when I clearly want to be left alone they just assume it's fine unless someone is screaming and crying I guess or you know because I was in his bed and a virgin I'd clearly taken it up the ass and also wanted it from him unsafely without crap or Lube I do think a lot of [ __ ] you see I didn't know as a cop-out though and that's not good [Music] let's keep going now the real battle begins let's keep this up [Music]

Channel: CRedditor

Views: 372

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Keywords: bad, bad dates, cringe, dates, dating, datinghell, nightmare, nightmare dates, r/, r/datinghell, reddit, reddit cringe, Worst, Worst blind dates, blind dates, blind date, first dates

Id: LfusDh0iqrE

Length: 10min 10sec (610 seconds)

Published: Fri Sep 06 2019