Women Play Never Have I Ever: First Date

have you had fun today this is a great bait this is our first date okay we're gonna play never have I ever first state edition mm-hmm so how did dates like what's the date first Spencer food I haven't been on a first date in four and a half years so uh I went on a couple of websites I'd like a month ago cuz I became single and I was like better go on a date I've only been on three first dates actually I went on a first date at a karaoke bar we talked for a while it was like fun to have the karaoke in the background if you look did karaoke well one of the first dates I had recently I mean it wasn't like horrendously bad but this guy was like obviously looking for like a super serious girlfriend so what you look for in a relationship so the best part of the rescuers and you're so comfortable in each other you just watch TV all the time together and snuggle I'm like I don't want talk about snuggling on my first day I get to know someone he was like no we have to be comfortable with each other I'm like seems like farting in front of your girlfriends basically is what you're saying never have I ever kiss on a first date if you're like feeling it yeah should either ask her like gopher I've been the kissing machine many times the three dates that I went on I never kissed that person but I mean I rang them all at a club on a date at night oh god they have to come to me first I think each time the person was surprised that I like didn't I feel like I go on dates with people that I need more time before I kiss someone I didn't like Beyonce I went in for the kiss we pulled away in his face was just and I was like oh he doesn't really like me oh yeah I music not that into it and so we parted ways and I was like I'm never seeing him again the dude but like I had the date with it was bad he wouldn't have kissed me without any kind of like signal that I would want to and that was like gross it's good to try and like figure out if they want it first never have I ever gone home with someone first date I get so nervous that I'm gonna be judged as like a harlot if I go home with someone yeah that's that thought in my mind of like I don't want to seem like a slot which I hate and that is what is drilled into you growing up as a woman dad I'm sorry but once I like lost my virginity I was just like I'm gonna and so I did not care I want to see what the sexual chemistry is like it's weird because everyone I went on a date with I never went on a second date with them again also an invite I'm in a current situation where this paid off so first time sex for the new partners so awkward and like it's never great and so I'd rather know them a little bit more before I go into that world because it could just end up in disaster never have I ever faced an emergency to leave early on a first date boring yeah I just suffer through say so hard to tell someone that like them she's the greatest time ever even though I'm dying inside I would try so hard to make it go well I do this in my everyday life even when my roommate leaves the apartment I tell her like text me if you need me to save you I once ended up on a date that like was drinks and it turned into like another bar and I didn't like him and it turned into like a nightclub when can I leave and I don't know why I didn't just leave and then of course didn't understand I eventually told him I didn't like him which is my fault because those Kiffin giving the wrong signals the best time I used like oh well I'm like I'm silly like I should have have diarrhea cuz I know so I'm gonna be a second date I live in my poopoo shoes bubble baths never have I ever backed out at the last minute because I looked at that pictures and decided I wouldn't think of it I don't think that I have I don't think I have I don't think I talk to anybody whose pictures and profile I'm like not thank you so I love tinder and I love flirting with people and just like getting matches because it reminds me that I am that hot because every person I've ever met they look like they photos I would sit there and like analyze each one for like 15 minutes of us will take what I want to talk to this person do I find them attractive could I see a future like so I never ended up in a situation where I wasn't in some way at least like somewhat physically attracted to them it's been more like I showed up to a date like sometimes people will take a good picture then you get to date oh people are very good texting and writing and not so good in real life but you can have an amazing conversation on text with someone and then you meet them and they're like potatoes nice quite honestly if you'd six three so I need a good pranks going never have I ever ended a date early because I wasn't having a good time I didn't make like a crazy excuse but he made me so tired its poorest oh man I could really use my bed right now but come on kiss me I don't waste my time in any situation I'm not having fun if I'm not feeling it if it's not good I use my diary excuse and I'm out I only have one life to live and I'm not gonna spend it with someone who's not making me feel good maybe I have oh it was the karaoke date he stayed there and literally as I was walking out the door he was like getting ready to do his next karaoke song so I was like he's still on his date with himself it's just me this is me thing he's with his people he's like likely if you're not feeling it the other person most of the time cuz I never have I ever felt scared I'm scared on the first date I think I have a pretty good like screening process and I get really good reads on people so I have never put myself in a position where I was around someone who I had any kind of question about I don't think I've ended up with a person who has made me feel scared but I have always taken a precaution which sucks that we even have to do but I would text my friend who lived in New York and be like I'm going on a first date with some stranger this is the address we're going to if I don't text you in like three hours or something I'm dead so or it's going really well what are the other because I love Louie Louie folks I love doing it's like I knew that the end of the day if it came down to it I could probably beat their ass so choice you could beat my ass anytime never have I ever gone on the first date just to get free meal I don't care that much about that I would want to sleep or in conversation whatever I'm living in a way I got a pay rent but broke right now but can someone take me out to like get some sushi no yeah I meet that man sushi if ever I went on a date I would say well I'll be paying for half of it so we're not going to I don't know if I want to do this but then you're like wow you just paid rent and you don't get paid for another two weeks yeah yeah let's go on the date was the food a good incentive sure out of three dates one of those dates they weren't just good way to get it done quickly is to go to have like just a drink somewhere and you can't even really taste the food because you're concentrating so much on how well you're eating it without throwing it down you and not only have a person and try to talk well you're having a mouthful yeah you're either enjoying new food or a new person nah yes never have I ever gotten into an argument on the first day there were two things that stuck out to me and I can't remember which one we like argued about he didn't even like really care when we got to talking about it but we had like a little back and forth when I was like so why did you answer that way I think one I'm from Boston I can get in an argument with anyone so to you know kind of get a little higher I get a little excited what I get an argument three there are multiple kinds of arguments you can get into the first day I'm gonna call it like a fight it was just like we had a discussion about it because we disagreed I'm going to argue in that like the fun flirty way which I mean I'm also a Haitian woman so I love to argue you know I had a customer ID to correct in a row okay well never have I ever talked about having kids on the first date I haven't but the personal amount of date we've has why do you really do it today who was just like super into relationship I'm gonna void an attachment so that's not my vibe it takes a lot I feel like a discussion kids is something you want to get into when you're like about to do something serious I just don't need that information on a birthday that's terrifying to me I'm a current phone anyway and so like over the word kid at me I will try to run away and then not something nice I'm gonna throw my kid with some routine Nick person I met on the birthday nope never have I ever talked about my ex on the first day there's a reason why I'm single Melissa I'm not didn't do this with the Kurt I'm sure not in like a let me tell you about my anyway but more it's probably just like come up naturally like oh yeah like I went on a date with somebody who like did this or whatever it was I was in a relationship with somebody who's like this I have only because the boyfriends that I've had in the past I've been with for a very long time so they've like taken up a significant part of my life yeah you're not supposed to do that huh it's not cute and I learned that lesson real quick I've really held it in though because I had broken up with my ex on like a Friday morning by Friday night I had scheduled another date this person isn't gonna know that I just went through a breakup is perfect that's crazy all right miss for years okay I'm just trying to get through it yeah I think that on a first date it's a most important to be yourself don't put yourself in any situation in which you're uncomfortable and don't be ready to like leave they accept you for who you are you throw them in the trash they deserve you it's not the other way around your time is valuable and it doesn't deserve to be spent with somebody that you don't get along with you're never gonna see them again it's best to be honest to that person like hey you're gonna be a great friend and if you don't even like them as a friend so you got diarrhea communication is key if that communication is not flowing neither with love [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause]

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Id: Ah-iblGynvE

Length: 10min 15sec (615 seconds)

Published: Thu Aug 29 2019