Why Did You Cheat? Couple Confronts Each Other On Infidelity | Iris

I couldn't even talk to you let alone look at you right after did you not realize think it was wrong to like the next morning when you woke up with this girl obviously yeah I was like shaking that day cuz it kind of made me realize like clearly I'm not good enough [Music] we met off of the dating app hinge we met up at my friend's apartment in the city for a little pregame and he started dancing called uh all the 90s pop hits I was like damn this girl's fit amazing when she was going out thanks really nice nice dress heels yes I felt a little short because I was in those I know I powered off in you a little bit better you looks good when I first walked in yeah I think you're in like a Vineyard Vines of course looking all preppy always at the word pink on the first day of course right you would the nice I felt Thanks oh the first thing it was on like a Friday night going out then the second date was Saturday night oh no we both like to go out I know I think I was like you're going on again you're like yeah it's like I'll see you things like 25x didn't even take me on a date though you're like let's go out seemed like a fun girl so I thought that'd be a little better that's true oh we had fun we did I remember you got like wasted I feel like you're already my girlfriend like the first time when did we become a couple I feel like we really don't like talked about it yeah I wasn't like anything official just kind of I think like one start spending so much time together so it's kind of yeah it's just like one day you call me your girlfriend and I was like oh okay you never really asked me come on I think you knew yeah we just like got to that point where we spend all our time to get there exactly I think we fell in love pretty fast yeah started moving pretty quickly so for sure I think it just like flow like it just happened yeah just like everything else well like you know that one bump in our road we had about four months in I mean like I'll get hit on sometimes when I'm out but I won't ever do anything but one time I got really really up with my friends at a club and I was just started talking to a girl and I didn't obviously it's no excuse but at that point I don't know I wasn't I wasn't in my head enough to say no and I was just lugar I just met I never knew her before there's nothing else after it and then ya went back to her apartment and the next night is when you saw the text between me in there I just like had a feeling and you were kind of like acting a little weird and you weren't texting me so much so I was like I'm just gonna look at your phone and obviously you know like I'm not the type of person like I give you your space and like I'm not like a snoop or anything I just knew like I had to look and then once I saw those messages that like the girl was like oh I had a great time with you and stuff I was like I'm setting something and like you have to understand that hurt so bad seeing that so then once you woke up I mean you saw like I was hysterical I was I didn't know what to do and then I don't think you saw it coming that I would find out about that I didn't I was contemplating like telling you Lee right away but I didn't I'm real like I really don't think you ever would have liked did you even bad about it obviously yeah I mean I didn't remember the night that happened but when I woke up I just started running through my head that we would not be together you did but I mean I tried I tried to make it work with you Oh like obviously we didn't talk for a little while but after that I tried w had to do everything I can to make it all feel yeah I mean I was kind of scared losing you after all this just because I didn't know if like you wanted to get with other girls and if I was just like good enough for you if you're hurting definitely you're definitely good enough perfect for me just that when you were in responding to me in the beginning even once we started to get back like just knowing that I could have been the one to up the relationship over something that could have easily been stopped like yeah it was hurting me a lot but obviously I broke down and cried when when we started talking about it just yeah I just don't want to lose you I mean I started talking to you after a few days just because like I realized like you're such an amazing guy and like I couldn't imagine myself of anyone else and it's hard you know after like we spent so much time together I just couldn't imagine even just like letting you go and never speaking to you again so like I figured maybe I'd give him another chance like I think everyone deserves a second chance to try so I I reached out to you and it was like hard but it's like I really didn't want to but at the same time I did and like during that time not talking to you I wanted to like reach out and talk to you every second and I until I called myself back if I wanted I just wanted to be like how it was I'm glad you're glad you reach back out but have you felt like it's been like normal lately is that like does it really feel that much different yeah I feel like if anything we've been like better I think you have like definitely improved but there's just like I don't know there's some moments when I just like it takes me back to that time and they're like you know my heart like starts racing and stuff and like I don't know what's happening I mean like obviously it's still like goes through my head sometimes and just like that feeling is probably like the worst feeling in the world as your heart stops like I just like want to cry sometimes just thinking about it cuz just like imagining you was someone else it's like the worst feeling in the world and like I don't know just like thinking about that it still hurts me and I have like I've cried several nights just because of what happened I'm sorry I I know if I had to I know a book obviously you're amazing girl you would never do it but if I had to imagine you with someone I'd be crushed also so sorry I had to put you through that but again I promise you it never happened again reasserts something or anything like more that I can do you think that or is it just so I honestly just think it's gonna like take a little bit of time for me to see that you could like still go out without me and like be fine like even if I have to like text your friends to like make sure you're okay just so I know you're not lying okay I don't want you to have to resort to texting my friends I know I mean like when I like picture with another girl I just think like it I'm not good enough and it makes me feel insecure like am I not pretty enough do I not do enough for you like there's a million thoughts that go through my mind and like I'm always thinking there's probably better girls out there that he's gonna be into and clearly I'm not good enough I don't have to think that way like I tell you all the time like you and me are perfect were made for each other you do I mean you go above and beyond to do anything for me I mean like I still feel like you know after a year or so like a lot of people start to get like bored in the relationship I feel like I still like where I feel like we're still in like the honeymoon stage like there's still the same excitement that's when we first met because you know you can never you're my type who's that good night time I know I hope I don't know what that other girl looked like so I don't know and you even make me feel good which I really do appreciate recently I'm never trying like the least I can do I'm just I'll try to work on it try to forget and you make me so happy and I love you and I couldn't imagine being with anyone else so I knew I had to give you another chance and you know like I see so much in you like we just like push each other and I don't know I feel like we just make each other better people no I mean yeah I mean you and me are like we're pretty much the same person when you're the girl you're the girl version of me I'm the guy version of you like our personalities are literally identical we're both crazy social outgoing people and who knows like what's gonna happen but I just like want to be with you forever yeah I mean I'm I'm the same way like I don't I don't like to set anything up in the future cause I'll just take life as it goes but I mean for right now I'm gonna do everything I can to try and prove to you that you know I love you only you and oh I just want I just want this to work still love you I still love you too

Channel: Iris

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Length: 10min 7sec (607 seconds)

Published: Fri Nov 30 2018