What do you look for in a woman?

hmm it's tough interesting question can it can we clarify the question a little bit more well I look for in a woman so mmm that's tough I look for someone cute someone who I can have fun with someone who shares somewhat the same interests I do and someone who [Music] I'm kind of introverted I like talking to people that much someone I can be lazy with that's what I like yeah what do I look for did we just talk about this you know I look for honesty and somebody who has a sense of like what they really actually care about like what they're really out for in life and someone who will follow through on their dreams that's what I look for no I'm pretty simple I like a just a simple woman that's over minded and not high-maintenance so I do the answer is because I've asked myself this question before and I usually the body draws me in right like it appeals and then I come to another person and then the body just kind of doesn't become as important anymore but the actual person inside so yeah that's just that's how it is that's how I got made so I know that's why I knew who was gonna marry she just unconditionally accept him right like understanding just brave and discipline you know like just like a great example of love that I hadn't felt since like my grandmother and you know it's just like that kind of level of love that you feel from that for that person yeah and I just I got that she has to be funny looks are good yeah but you really have to like connect with them and like be a friend with them and like what my girlfriend is we were friends before we were friends for six months before we became boyfriend and girlfriend so it's all about the connection I guess we do anything specific that happened then and not really I mean it was the same it was the title of being boyfriend and girlfriend but like we still acted the same and we're still the same so we're just friends that was raised around a lot of women so I usually tend to go to someone that's a little more independent kind of a strong woman I would say and someone that's I guess a little more not so submissive type because that's how I was raised really around women that are pretty strong so that's kind of that kind of tend to go for is those kind of more that independent woman I guess I just thought she was cool because most girls I was afraid to talk to but she was cool to talk to you and I choose pretty she was awesome like I liked her she I don't know I just liked her features and stuff but the main thing was she was awesome to talk to and but me and her weren't going to get married but because she didn't want to be with someone she had already been with someone who that she was playing on getting married and she asked me like she didn't to keep dating if I wasn't willing to be commit to her like to to be married and then I actually got saved like about a day or two later and I really feel like the Lord was telling me to marry her and it was it was really I just choose just an awesome person I just loved her I it's a hard question for me to answer like exactly what I find woman because she was really my first girlfriend so I wasn't really like looking too much like like her height or her her skin color or anything I just I just wanted someone who was like my friend and it'd be cool to spend the rest of our life together and so uh yeah so we got married yeah obviously like the go to mainstream answer is what's on the inside personality all that stuff but attraction wise I think I look at her eyebrows and her teeth like those two are on point it's a winner for the most part and then have actually a good person nice to people you know that's what I look for what do I look for yeah companionship complicity or liability and love honesty I think creativity intelligence and a Democrat for me so the most important is respect the way she treats other people yeah she has to love my family if she doesn't laugh I like my family's game over honestly oil tea is a big one I mean I want somebody that's gonna be as loyal as I am to them you know and that you know there's there's so many ideas on monogamy and polyamory and stuff like that they're out there and I don't know it's just it's one of those things where I I just kind of prefer a one-on-one type of relationship for me it matters it also helps you know with you know being a divorced dad with a single kid and stuff like that you know I think that it's important for him to only see one person and to see me happy as well so like that's yeah for me it's brains all day I like seeing like how smart she is because then I can have a conversation with them and then they could keep my interest for a long period of time the big things I guess for myself is finding someone that is actually interested in helping others and wanting to make a difference whether that be going and volunteering with the charity or just finding something that they're passionate about that will actually make a difference and help others what I look for in a woman is that she knows who she is and what's greater than her in this life I choose for just love each other simplicity I would say are there any deal-breakers for you ah cleanliness orientation I have some issues you know that's it yeah that's it I have this adventurous personality so I like an adventurous girl that I can say my jokes and she'll laugh at my jokes and and someone that I don't know it can would like to stay with me for the rest of my life intelligence and love and open-mindedness are the absolute biggest turn-on for me I have my own philosophy about that more than what I'm looking to now and a woman is what I can offer a woman so because many times we said oh I'm looking this and begin that but I work in key and I offer as a person so for me more important to what I'm looking for in a woman is what can I offer to a woman when looking for a significant other I don't really look at all because I think it doesn't matter who you're with it's just like a lot of compromise and working together to make a relationship work and no one wants to compromise myself included so that's why you can be more happy if you just stay by yourself what's up guys my name is Raya and I'm the owner of this channel I'm also the person behind the camera and I thought I'd take a minute to thank all the subscribers I gained so far and maybe ask new years to hit the subscribe button if you liked this episode or if you're a fan of my channel in general I mean a lot thank you

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Length: 8min 18sec (498 seconds)

Published: Tue May 29 2018