Uncovering the Truth Behind Domestic Violence and Personality Disorders

hello and welcome to the Cat and Sam show we're here with Dr Dan and Sam Beckinsale I'd like to have Dr Dan why don't you tell us a little bit about yourself and why we're here okay so I'm a licensed psychologist in the state of Texas I've been working with individuals with personality disorders for over the last 20 years and I tend to focus on individuals that fall into the cluster B category that's your anti-social personality disorder narcissistic personality disorder borderline personality disorder and histrionic personalities I have a private practice here in Texas but I I work with folks in particular States all throughout the country we also have an active YouTube channel as well and several books that I've written not only for mental health providers but also for clients as well and the goal of my material is to bring some reality in research based information to not only those that are diagnosed with a personality disorder but also I think think to the population in general because I think that the more we learn about it the more we actually know and understand it the better we're able to manage it deal with it and interact with it and I think that that's where our interests aligned certainly when we talk about you know domestic violence and and other types of issues that we'll talk about today yeah you know it's one of the things that intrigued me is one of your videos talking about the stuff that you do with your clients comparative to other people in the mental health and we won't go into that but because I didn't ask you but I think that that's a really good point that a lot of people are still working in Old ideologies and not trying new things and that's one of the reasons I love being able to ask you to come on and that you've agreed to come on so we'll start off right away with the question do you want to ask a question Sam too I do so one of the areas within domestic violence and and one of the questions I suppose that we ask is do perpetrators know what they're doing do they have just often something like antisocial personality disorder will be mentioned so would you like the domestic violence Community to know about personality disorders and maybe especially around the area of what's of interest for me is it being used as an excuse sometimes for Behavior so if you were able to you know if we were able to sort of have a conversation around that of like you know do they know what they're doing or I think it's very difficult for for people who've experienced domestic abuse to a not look for an excuse for it and say well they don't know what they're doing and they're lovely people and that can be very dangerous in the dynamic in terms of repeat going back but also then them not being held to account for their behavior as well because they may well be you know have a personality disorder so sure and and I think first I think important to break apart whether it's a reason or whether it is an excuse and I think when we talk about excuse then we talk about rationalizations for inappropriate behavior for violence other types of issues there we're talking about a reason then I think you know what we're talking about so are individuals that fall into that personality disorder category so are they at a higher likelihood to engage in partner violence or parental alienation or other types of of issues where where they harm others and I think you know absolutely I think that some certainly are and I think certainly your your individuals along the anti-social Spectrum I think are at a high likelihood to engage in in more violence and I think because they spend more time with their Partners or with individuals that they're in relationships with I think that does increase the likelihood and probability of that violence also they tend to be closer depending on the severity of the anti-social Personality Disorder so that that emotional connection Psychopaths don't really emotionally connect sociopaths do individuals that are just anti-social personality so we're looking at at three different levels so to speak to your most extreme would be your psychopath second to that would be your sociopaths they have some social skills you know usually they're good at talking people into things that's where I think that those individuals that are more sociopathic are more likely to certainly engage in violence and then they can talk their way out of it that way they can say well they get the individual who's the recipient of the violence to then believe that well you're right I shouldn't have done a b and c so that's why you did it whereas really I mean from from my perspective professional and personal I think that there's never a reason to touch someone else if they're not agreeable to it so certainly you know those individuals of course feel like that their immediate needs which come across of course is violence like we're talking about today is they feel like that they are they are just justified in doing that that's where that excuse comes in and then you're anti-social is kind of the low end of of that spectrum that we're talking about your anti-social personality disordered individuals just their rule Breakers a lot of theft a lot of manipulation a lot of recklessness but they don't add that complexity that you see typically in your psychopath your sociopath but if we lump them all together I think that that group is probably the highest likelihood probably second to that would probably be your narcissistic personality disordered individuals and I think that those individuals the reason why they are at a higher likelihood to engage interpersonal violence domestic violence is usually because they incur what's called a narcissistic wound narcissistic wound could be you know they're in a relationship the partner realizes it's there's no growth in the relationship it's not going anywhere the relationship seems to only feed the ego of the narcissist so the partner then decides you know what I think I've done I think you know I'm going to get out but the narcissist sees their partners property now we can we can differentiate that from your anti-social Spectrum individual who then ultimately their partner is in property their partner is more of what can I get out of you so if you want to leave I mean you know as long as I get everything I want I don't care but the narcissist their ego their sense of self becomes wrapped up with that individual even though they treat them poorly and they treat them as though they're only an object to reinforce their own sense of self and ego and self-esteem that if you lose that person that hits them at their core which is typically full of self-doubt fear inferiority guilt rejection rejection fears in some cases so that's where a lot of times the the violence comes from interestingly research was done probably about 15 20 years ago and they looked at the different personality disorders and what they found that the narcissist is actually most likely to commit murder even more than the anti social personality disorder but if you look at it through the lens of what I just described which is that the loss of that partner or the individual that incurs that narcissistic wound whether it's a partner it could be a therapist it could be a boss whoever it may be whoever incurs that narcissistic Moon they have to then be eradicated and it's not always murder you know where which is an extreme act but it can sometimes be like a financial it can be uh social now a lot with social media you really see these personality disorders coming out on the internet in in my last research base book I talked about how these different personality disorders manifest online and when we talk about domestic violence I wonder if if you've looked at or reviewed just how that the social media component which is very much as I see it it's not physical violence but it's certainly mental emotional psychological violence I think towards others and your narcissistic Spectrum individuals that are real high like to engage well that's that's interesting so in the UK in terms of the law that's online and media abuse is absolutely being seen front and center in with coercive and control and behavior and abuse over here we call it domestic abuse to include the physical violence as well as the non-direct physical violence but certainly there is a general understanding here as well as even though we don't use the word violence domestic violence it is all violence I mean so many people even say terrorism but the Social Media stuff and they I suppose it's an extension isn't it of the isolation and the destruction of the society around their target and online and social media is actually just a really easy and accessible way to do that now isn't it absolutely absolutely what's the main review book that you were just saying you're online the research oh yeah well I have visual so the anti-social narcissistic borderline personality store and it it is a research Facebook so I like to tell folks that but there there is a section on there that does talk about those online behaviors and I I think a lot of times many Mental Health Providers they don't they're not asking about online behaviors and we're missing a huge component of of our life and you know I've been doing this for 20 years when I started I mean there was there was no social media but I you know I always try to get a sense of my clients or people that I'm working with or doing consultations or assessments with what is their online Behavior what are they what are they doing what kind of connections do they make and particularly for individuals that are 25 years and under we have to be seeing what they're doing online because and I think that this can directly relate to to a lot of domestic violence certainly parental alienation other other types of stress as well which is because there's a degree of social awkwardness I think with those and I'm not saying all of course right but we see this this preponderance of social awkwardness and this tense of hesitancy to get into physical relationships and physical relationship doesn't mean intimate or sexual what it means is that we're in the same room together we're in the same coffee shop together and we're having a discussion and an interaction and what what you find is that there's such a low frustration tolerance and a tendency to dismiss other individuals that don't agree with a hundred percent of how I see the world that's low frustration tolerance that's low tolerance of someone else having a different perspective what that means is we're all in our bubbles so if we're in bubbles and we don't tolerate other people's behavior then we're getting into temperament what is our temperament how much of that difference do we tolerate and could that end up in physical violence could that end up in other types of particularly egregious behaviors absolutely and I think impaired empathy and there's even a new type of empathy which is called online empathy and very few people seem to have online empathy well it's interesting because they can hide behind a computer and they can act like anything they want to act like and and they can leave anytime they want I think you know your research is but on I I'm wondering about the Blends when we blend personality disorders where they bleed into other personalities so they don't necessarily and I'm not talking about diagnosis so but I'm talking about in the general public when we're looking at somebody and they're bleeding with the different when you look up on what is it called the dsms when it shows you the different personalities it's just like I mean that's used as a diagnostic tool for you for the mental health department or the mental health people it's not for really for the public yeah a lot of people that are looking at oh yeah no yeah yeah a lot of self-diagnosis lie yeah I just think it's hard because you you get a lot of people doing a lot of things and saying a lot of things that aren't based in anything other than somebody said opinion right yeah opinion is the new science yeah yeah I think that's a really good point to make and I like that you're driving that I just know that some of those personality disorders blend together and it's hard to decipher well where that's coming and then I think you know to to bring that to perspective with what we're talking about today is that I think that what happens is because of of this generalized opinion which is then presumed to be fact because so many people may share or have partial or parts of that opinion so I think what happens is you have abusive Partners who not only you know are gaslighting you know the recipient of Thebes and the reason why I'm not using the word victim is because sometimes when I talk to individuals they don't like that term so so I'm just trying trying to find a suitable term that you I think that's a good term I mean Sam found one this weekend or the last week that was Victor yes is is somebody else she's a mixture of so over here it said the victim Survivor um or victim Survivor hyphenated so she called herself a Victor this combination of them both I quite like but you know it's somebody else you know lies but you know it's all biases but certainly from a police point of view isn't it it's the we could talk about that all the time oh sure oh sure absolutely absolutely I just want to make sure you know that I'm saying consistent with the term that you guys like but ultimately so what what happens is that I think that you have the abusive the the abuser who then got as I was mentioning who who gaslights you know the the recipient and they get indoctrinated to it so human beings are are adapted so if if you look at it and I'm I'm not a smoker but I think smoking is is a great example of a bad relationship which is is that you know it first starts and you cough a little bit you know I mean your body doesn't want the smoke it's no it's bad but if you keep forcing it your body is going to adapt to it even something that isn't unhealthy even something that increases the probability that it will end itself right with cancer whatever may come out of it but so relationships are the same way and sometimes you know a lot of those early patterns they come out of certainly family relationships they come out of friendships they come out of a lot of different patterns that we learn very early and like with with my clients we're always working on what are those internalized patterns of what we perceive to be acceptability and what is unacceptable and it's interesting and I'm in no way saying that individuals who are Victors are saying oh well yeah this is a great relationship I know I'm getting hit or abused or you know physical emotional sexual abuse I'm in no way saying that just to clarify but what I am saying is that there is a part of us that that says this fits our pattern and it's interesting to see how how that happens because a lot of times and this is my perspective and be interesting to know if if both of you have have seen this as well is that you see individuals that go from abusive relationship to abusive relationship to abusive relationship and that serial uh relationship pattern from my perspective in working with someone is because it goes to that attachment that attachment pattern and it goes to that internalized pattern of understanding of what relationships are and the best way that I describe it with with my clients is Christmas morning and Christmas morning is when we're talking about like identifying Partners learning different partner traits or partner interests is that we go downstairs right or maybe wherever your Christmas stuff is and then you go there right and you've got these beautiful packages right one is silver one is blue and one is is red so you go over to the silver one and you tear it open and you're super excited to see it and lo and behold it is a any toy you want right we'll just say Cabbage Patch doll right why not right so you open if it's a Cabbage Patch dolls this Cabbage Patch doll okay so then you're like oh this is really great I can't wait to see what's in the next one you go over to the blue one you tear open that and when you tear it up it's the same Cabbage Patch doll and then you go to the red one and you tear it up well I got two Cabbage Patch dolls that that's weird let's see what's in this one and you tear it open tear it open tear it open and it is another Cabbage Patch doll that is the pattern because the outside looks different right the outside but there are components that we hone in on there are things that we connect to sometimes they're overt and sometimes they are covert and I think that working with with my clients that certainly do have Tendencies of getting into very violent relationships we have to go to those patterns and you know I'm a a client I had years and years ago and you know we were working on her her partner patterns and and her representations of others and connecting to others and things like that so then she she met this this other guy and you know she she left the abusive guy and she went with this other guy and he was very attentive to her he when they he took her places like nice restaurants things like that I think they went to Paris or Italy or something like that you know I was like wow what a new trip it sounds really cool what's that red flag sometimes people are just nice but but what happened was that is that she she came back and she said oh I broke up with him and I was like why why is that he seems so nice she goes well she's like you know I would needle him if you know what I what I mean by that so it's kind of like you know poking people poking people and she said and he would just take it and she said he he's a coward and I said well she's like there's there's nothing there and I said well what because she had a long string of Serial relationships and I said well where where are you now thinking oh maybe she's single this is great nope she went right back to the abusive boyfriend and I said well you went you went back to him what what drove you back she said it's the passion it's the passion that drove me back and that really like as her psychologist I mean you know of course you know we we had to bring that to the Forefront and say you know we have to Define what passion is we have to Define what what that connection is but it's going under underneath what that is and her sense of value too that and all of those combine we could talk about about just her case forever but what I can tell you is after several years of of working together though we were able to change that pattern we were able to get her to see relationships different and no one touches her without permission and she is a just an incredibly powerful person and I think he wasn't before because she's very much a Victor as you described but she Embraces her sense of self and her choices so it's it was a mess just and that is absolutely fantastic that she's she's come through that to the other side and what I find interesting because there's a lot of victim blaming so it's like how did you let that happen and and about people who go back time and again but that sort of first time it happened so for instance with me it's because I was concentrating on the physical violence I I believed a lot of the myths around domestic abuse and violence so I ended up on this sort of hamster wheel you know it was psychological emotional Financial all of those other abuses and violences but it took me a long time to get out because it was like once I'd started on the journey because there was never that fist if it had been that fist you know his pants would have been on fire had been out so quick so it's that getting caught in up in in that and for me once is enough frankly but the questioning that we do of ourselves and quite often victims are Victors or the targets of themselves accused of all and it is very much an accusation in this Dynamic of having personality disorders or being mentally unstable and very often borderline personality disorder when they're actually quite there's a trauma you know is it PTSD is it borderline is it her fault is it has she where is her role and what's interesting is one of the other things that we've been told is don't ever go to couples counseling together because that then reinforces the dynamic that somebody is abusing you creating a mental and emotional disturbance in you and an understandable one at that but then you are labeled with a disorder that and it somehow all becomes your your fault so I'd just be interested in you what you think from that yeah definitely definitely and I think you know you mentioned something interesting don't go to couples therapy together then I would always say how are you doing couple things that's just my because yeah but except believe it or not many Mental Health Providers say they're doing couples therapy without the couple in the room so you have one person one of the individuals who's in the relationship in the room and one of the things you know when I work with individuals that are partners of individuals along the narcissistic Spectrum nurses personality I always say well I can only work with the person in the room and I think you know it's so important but there are many individuals out there who are saying well I mean well we're doing couples therapy but only he or she is showing up well then that's not couples therapy and I think that you do have to change that Dynamic and Sam everything you you just said I mean absolutely I'm right in line with that because I think a lot of individuals feel that they're in relationships that they'll put up with a lot of psychological emotional Financial abuse well it's not like he hits me yeah I mean I think that you know as a psychologist you know you can put that in a particular framework but as a person I mean it hurts I mean because a lot of times it goes to that Christmas morning and I mean no way saying that it's that individual's fault or anything I don't really believe in fault I think that that's a big waste of time and I think that blaming people is a big waste of time at least in my field because I think it's about okay it's identifying the issues that are present and how do we change that my job is to give my clients what they want right which is usually no one has ever come in and said can you make my relationship worse can you make my personality worse no one's ever said that not yet right but I think you know it falls into this mutual respect so I mean that's the the commonality that I've been told and I believed it to be true is I can't go in and have couples counseling with somebody who doesn't have mutual respect for me I think somebody that is very educated and very intuitive as to what we are bringing to the table a lot of counselors won't even take people in that have those kinds of personalities disorders into couples counseling because they don't even want to get into the middle of that junk and so I was always told you work on yourself and then they work on themselves and then if you can come back together in a different form then that's okay and that's what I've always said because I think it's dangerous for people to go into and then the counselor gets conned because they don't have enough thought process or understanding of abuse or domestic violence sure absolutely I think that a lot of people maybe they read online and like oh you know my partner's a narcissist or you know my partner has borderline personality disorder or you know whatever it may be and you brought up borderline personality disorder and you know the research actually doesn't show that individuals with BPD are a higher likelihood to perpetrate domestic violence and and I know that that's probably one of the beliefs you know out there as well what a video that I released today talked about intimacy and BPD and I had to make sure that I added in infidelity in the video because I know that I knew that that was going to be a question because the research doesn't show that individuals with BPD at a higher likelihood to cheat on their partner but I think that where some of the complexity comes from and the misunderstanding of a lot of these disorders is not only Hollywood and social media and all that but that has bled into just like we talked about a moment ago is that opinion becomes the new science so for BPD one of the things that I work to destigmatize it sort of the understanding of BPD is only the upper three percent that's the extreme form so if someone says oh ibpd you imagine they're all Cutters and they're all you know physically aggressive and you know that they're melting down at any moment they don't get exactly what they need or think that they want or that and you know becomes so confusing and I think that that upper three percent is certainly at a higher likelihood to victimize their Partners but they also victimize themselves and so on and so forth so and so forth but that means we've got 97 of individuals who follow along that spectrum that don't have that high of a likelihood and interestingly when I teach other Mental Health Providers about BPD I like to say you know you probably have someone who has BPD in your life and then right in that 50 percent you know the meaty part of that of that normal curve right and you know they're probably fun to hang out with they're interesting to hang out with you know when they encounter stress tends to be overwhelming you know it's hard for them to put themselves back together sometimes you know they need a little patience or a higher likelihood for addictions drugs you know sex addiction you know alcohol you know of gambling other types of issues like that and maybe they get wrapped up in that that's at 50 we go to that top three percent those are the ones that are stalking you that you know that are smashing your windows that are coming at you with weapons or bats or you know things like that a lot with law enforcement I think is certainly pulled in to those those instances that's the upper three percent of your just just to clarify that upper three percent that you're talking about is in the personality disorder line or in just borderline personality disorder no well so I was talking specifically about BPD I think narcissism has just become massively misunderstood and the term has become colloquial a lot like you know psychopath right I mean a psychopath to me if you ever hear me identify someone as a psychopath that means that they clinically identify it as a psychopath right uh like with my students I tell my students you know part of getting into this field means that the luxury of the colloquial use of our clinical terms is gone you can't say oh like someone who is very moody you can't say man man they're borderline or they're bipolar You've Lost That right in my opinion you'll never hear me say anything like that colloquially because the people that I talk to they're going to be like oh well he knows so he said no no no no I don't you got to be really careful yeah you can't blur that right oh yeah but yeah all the time oh yeah and I think that when we talk about narcissism and violence towards others you know partner violence domestic violence I think that that isn't your your upper three percent I think that it's probably a little higher that's probably your more extreme maybe even high moderate because we're talking about that spectrum that severity Spectrum I think they're much higher likelihood again and I think for your anti-social depending on the complexity of the issue which is the pathology how much or the degree of antisocial traits are present things like that they are abusive because of their low frustration tolerance and that they don't really care they don't really connect so much to others but also you're taking what I want and if you take what I want I'm gonna fight you to get it back and I'm gonna kill you to get it back well that's okay I'm okay with that you know yeah so it's very different and you mentioned earlier you know when we step outside the DSM when we step outside and into more of the general population those that may not fit into that category you know it's real murky I worked with a lot of people that just have personality disorder traits the full disorders are actually very rare and those traits are much easier to treat but again depending on which traits you're talking about a higher likelihood of taking advantage of others manipulating others you know harming others things things I find it absolutely fascinating what you've just said about BPD because so many victims of abuse are accused of you know that meltdown that this extreme reaction to the abuse are then labeled and often diagnosed BPD and it's just like and labeled and abused almost look she's the abuser she's the or he or she but you know they are the one that's the issue because look how badly they behave look how uncontrolled they are in their emotions and stuff look how overwhelmed they are by life but it's because of the experience they've had that's created that you take the experience away and they tend to not be like that anymore so either that's a a miracle cure for borderline personality or that wasn't what was wrong with them in the first place it's more likely PTSD or whatever other yeah you guys have complex PTSD over there and there's so much overlap between complex PTSD and BPD really oh yeah only because we're now we're just talking about sort of prevalence when we talk about complex PTSD and we talk about BPD with complex PTSD you're talking about an internalization of the abuse that you are then saying because I encountered this abuse I am broken whereas your individual with BPD says well I'm broken they don't necessarily associate it to the abusive instance or the trauma it's not always abuse it's there's various types of trauma but with the trauma so that's one of those distinguishers but I think that you know you can go all the way back with what you were saying if you go all the way back to you know Harlow's monkeys right you know he he did the the attachment research with monkeys and you had the cloth mother monkeying you had the wire Miler and you know the cloth mother when you frightened the rhesus monkey and you you would poke you know this is in the 50s so they were able to poke and and hurt the monkeys rather disgustingly but they did it and you would see that the rhesus monkey would run to the cloth mother her interestingly when the wire mother you know when you would poke that rhesus monkey he became violent became aggressive it had almost like almost like panic attacks Panic like Behavior very very generalized obviously you know they don't have the same frontal lobe that we do and you see that so it's always painful to hear that somebody in an abusive relationship or abusive circumstance they are then getting diagnosed with a disorder while they're in that relationship I mean you know it's like you know I see people all the time that are diagnosed with bipolar disorder while they're high on you know methamphetamine and I'm like yeah that's not the disorder that means you act bipolar when you're on meth don't do meth and let's see what happens well we can do it again we'd love to have you on all the time so Dan I could talk to you all night I'm sure we could it's absolutely fantastic to see but please please please why me over to you yeah absolutely and we'll fly you over again absolutely but please please would you come back on again and can we carry on because I've just enjoyed this so much and we hope that you have to and that everybody watching it yeah enjoys it there's all sorts of things I'm going to go and look at now and I'm definitely going to get your book as well yeah I was going to say Sammy's going to get your book and we're going to devour it and then we'll talk thank you thank you and then we'll bring you back on the big issues is actually a lot of folks in in England and UK my book on complex borderline personality disorder we talk about you know PTSD complex PTSD and BPD and that is and I don't want to say it's a problem or issue because I don't want to overstep then I can only say from my experience in working with individuals having contact with individuals that live in the UK have said there's so much confusion about BPD and complex PTSD and PTSD and that's why you know in in writing that particular chapter I really wanted to write to those those who are outside the US not that U.S doesn't have their own set of of confusion and issues with those diagnoses but but but it seems to be I don't want to say more prevalent but maybe it's just brought up to me more often the folks will write me from that part of the world and say you know so I have a psychologist who says this and this but it doesn't seem to make sense when you talk about this and this and there's so much confusion even though there's so much diagnostic confusion in it to begin with but I think when you talk about violence and recipients of violence and Victors of violence I think that it always kind of hurts my heart a little bit to think that somebody's in this abusive relationship and they're trying to get out and it's it's so much it always brings me back to the rhesus monkeys you know and and you know we we Outlaw that behavior you know Pharisees monkeys but we don't blame the monkey for it right but here we blame the victim for it and yeah exactly exactly wow and you know that's why I'm so glad you've been you've been willing to come on is because it it is you know it's a big problem I'm going to end it with this and Sam Sam will have her bet but did you have any little thought about the 2B commercial and how there was 15 seconds of all this violence that was happening in the domestic violence are you not aware I am not aware I don't I don't I don't know yeah me neither but there was a Super Bowl commercial to be had the sportscasters on and then it it kind of clicked down as if somebody was using the remote and there was a girl that wrote in Reddit about how her husband or her boyfriend called her all kinds of names and punched a hole in the wall and then when she went home her parents told her she went home to get away from him and they said oh it was just a commercial you had people throwing drinks on wait staff at bars and stuff I'll send you the link oh my God my point of me for bringing it up it was just that 15 seconds of it being violent and then it went back to normal no I know but what I'm saying it's like a little window in domestic violence it's that you know something happens and it's big and then it's like nobody wants to talk about it oh absolutely absolutely and then you know it goes back to what we were discussing earlier about that low frustration tolerance you know that social awkwardness and then also this expectations of relationships right you know that your perfect relationship you never argue you never have sexual problems everybody shows up on time everybody it's like that's not the world we live in but that becomes the comparison and for a lot of my clients that they're like yeah but we argue yeah everybody argues you know yeah I mean you know my wife who's she's a psychologist as well and you know we argue I mean you know we've learned to tame it you know like we'll argue maybe a maybe a minute maybe two you know but then we wrap it up we've been together for 22 years we kind of understand our ins and out you can imagine through psychology I can imagine yeah yeah yeah but absolutely I mean I think that we're also going against this comparison image and idea that is so unrealistic and you know relationships are like plants you know you know water you don't feel you don't talk to it it will pair and that brings back the online stuff that you were talking about as well honestly you're an absolute joy to talk to and I think I second the the information that you've given a will go off and find even more but I think people will It'll be such a relief for an awful lot of people to know that they're not alone that's why we do this talk and share so thank you so much Dr Stan please thank you for saying that I will I would absolutely love to that would be wonderful and thank you both I will tell you both that the work you're doing is something that I think is is very very important and it's something that even you know when I started school I worked with kids in a domestic violence shelter and I remember every single one of those kids faces and they were all Victors they were and yeah so thank you so much for saying it means a lot and it's part of the passion of what I do and the importance I think of of what I do thank you thank you

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Length: 36min 39sec (2199 seconds)

Published: Wed May 24 2023