The more you let go, the more you receive (my 3 Secrets)

the more you can let go is the more you can receive and this is such a paradox because for a long time i would resist what i actually wanted i would try i would set intentions i'd put things and realize i put them on a pedestal without even knowing it and i'd create all this resistance and i would literally block abundance success things from really taking off because of this energy and it's funny because even as over these last three to five years as i become more successful the thing that i've noticed is actually the more i let go the more i do receive and it has to do with understanding letting go of the outcome letting go of attachment attachment to things happening a certain way attachment to people attachment to the outcome of um abundance whatever you want in this video i want to show you three secrets that have completely transformed my life around letting go that have allowed me to create the life of my dreams easier than i could have even imagined it welcome back to another video my name is aaron and i help people expand their consciousness now in this video i'm going to be sharing with you the three biggest secrets that have completely transformed my life when it comes to letting go and how paradoxically the degree to which you let go is the degree to which you receive now this scale right here that you can see this looks you can see the levels of consciousness i've shared it in many videos but this has a little bit different interpretation of it and you'll see at the bottom we have shame we have guilt we have desire pride all the way up to courage courage well pride is at the top you'll notice that at the very bottom levels we have inaction and up until about fear and then desire anger and pride is hyperactivity now when we are in these levels of consciousness and we are feeling these emotions and you can just know if you're feeling fearful if you're feeling fearful anxiety then you know you're at the level of fear if you're feeling angry at something someone did to you then you're at the level of anger and the part of this that's important to understand is that when we are at these different levels of consciousness we then have a certain way we go about manifesting or creating our dream life now at the very bottom levels were an inaction before i even got on youtube what i was doing was sitting around and i wasn't taking any action i was feeling fearful of what other people thought i was feeling uh kind of like sitting in the emotions of what i felt growing up and i was like working through those emotions still and i didn't really do much but then i realized i really wanted it and the funny thing is in that level of hyperactivity that you see right there when you really want something you really lack something you create resistance around it and then you'll see above that then you have happiness and productivity that is the level of courage to acceptance reasoning is the intellect of the mind this is a flow state that you get into and when you're in this state you are in a big flow state without stress the bottom levels might have a little bit stress but let me point your attention towards the top enlightenment peace joy and love this is synchronicity this is allowing the universe to work with you now you'll notice that at the bottom levels it's very dense energy and you'll find that there's almost a belief in a lack of ego in a way it's almost like the ego feels so disempowered that there's almost a lack of that structure and then in the middle is where the ego starts to be built the ego starts to realize hey i am confident i have courage i can do these things and that's happiness and productivity but then there sometimes there's an over-identification with the ego but then what you'll see is at the top you let go of the ego again and the goal and the key to letting go is understanding that attachment is what keeps us in lower vibrational emotions and when we let go of attachment that's the key to us raising our vibration now if we want our reality to become more magical than ever before it's simply about letting go letting go of reasoning letting go of reasoning means meaning the meaning we gave the things of our past will keep us and maybe anger guilt shame fear when we let go of the meaning or change the meaning we then become free now one of the first things i want to share with you with this is understanding that towards the top you'll see at the top you'll see productivity synchronicity and extraordinary outcomes that happens the more you can trust the universe and you can literally just let go and release there's a whole book that dr david hawkins has it is called letting go i've been rereading it recently it's an amazing book and basically there's a letting go technique and the technique is so simple it's almost too simple you're like what's the technique i don't get it as the motion comes up as you feel you allow those emotions and those energies to be there you don't you don't try to change it you don't try to control it you just feel it and then you just let it go how do you let it go you just make the choice to let it go sometimes it's hard for us to make the choice to let something go because there's an insidious payoff that we're not even aware of we may say okay i'll let go of the anger of my what happened in my past but what we don't realize is we actually get a sense of significance it means that the things that happen in the past happen for a reason and it was wrong for it to happen and we get a sense of significance that we're not aware that we get and any time we are attached to something and it's hard for us to let go it's because we believe that the payoff to keeping and holding on to it is greater than what we will get if we let go so the key to this is realizing that if we can just let go by making the choice we then raise our frequency now for me anytime i try to control things in my life i'm trying to manifest for maybe the middle levels or the bottom levels i'm like this is how it has to happen this person's going to show up at this time this thing's going to happen over here and as i have all these rules i create all this resistance and then it's like it's almost like because that's inside of me that resistance it's then being reflected on the outside but what i've realized how to do recently is how to let go more how to let go so when there's something i really want first off wanting means i lack it if you want it it means you don't have it instead of wanting you set intentions and you know you're good either way also a lot of times when we're attracted and we're attached to the outcome we're attached to the outcome because we're afraid that we're not going to get that which we want which means we don't believe in it but if we're good either way we know that their opportunity will come we're not we're not hanging on the idea of this one thing happening so the first secret that i have for you is the more you let go is the more you trust the universe the more you let go of the reasoning the intellect the more you let go of those emotions realizing that they served you to get where you are now what you then begin to do is you can then begin to give things up to the universe trust and see what happens i've had this happen where there was a house in vegas for example that i was looking at back in january when i came back from my three months of travel and there were like only six houses on the market that were in the price range that i wanted and i was like i don't really like any of these houses but i simply i said you know what i started i went to see one house and then the owners were like really um really anal like they they wanted to meet me versus just having me come see the house they wanted to like meet me and ask me questions and they were they were confused as to why i would want uh that kind of house when i'm just it's just me and i was like man i feel like i'm being interviewed like i got to really explain myself to these people and they were just super anal and i could feel that resistance from them and it unattracted me to it but then i was trying to control and i realized wait if i just give this up and allow the universe to bring something to me that's even easier so what i did is i let go and guess what happened the perfect house came like two days later and letting go into my life in every single moment when i realize i'm holding on when i let go it's like magic it's like things just happen so realize that the more you raise your vibration the more synchronicity the less your ego needs to do things your job is not to be attached to the outcome your job is to get into alignment how do you get into alignment do what you're passionate about follow your passion and release resistance with a simple meditation practice we'll talk a little bit more about that later like observing your thoughts every day that's releasing resistance that's been huge for me i remember when i first got on youtube i would sit there and i knew that reality is simply a reflection of my inner reality the outer reality is the reflection of my inner reality the more i would like check my stats on youtube my analytics like every hours like if you're a youtuber you know like it's something that people go through when they're growing a channel or something like that looking at the stats i was looking at the stats checking it like every couple hours and i realized that i was butchering up the vibration because i was putting out that oh is it oh it's a little bit peak oh it goes up it goes down and i was like because i was paying attention to it and feeling this resistance on the inside i knew that that was going into the manifestation of it when things have really taken off on the youtube channel you want to know when that was when i just completely let go and i was focused more on having fun on the passion not on the results let go and allow the universe to do things for you realize that the the the universe can only bring things to you in the ways you will allow it to and if you're not allowing it to because you're trying to control then you're limiting the number of ways the universe can bring something into you say you want the universe to bring you love but you're like okay this is how it's gonna happen i'm gonna go to the yoga studio at exactly four o'clock no 3 55. there's a class at 4. i'm going to stand in the back corner i'm going to wait there's something someone that comes in i'm going to talk to them and it's going to happen this way and it's going to be this lifelong connection that this happens from there and you march to the yoga class and it doesn't happen then you get to a state to where you're frustrated that didn't happen and then somebody comes up to you and says something you just kind of blow them off because you're in that state not realizing that that person could have been the person you see but what happens is we siphon off all these different levels we're like oh it's gonna happen at a coffee shop or something like that and that's what happens you're like oh this one job that i want i'm gonna go it's gonna happen like this and then somebody else calls you like a week later offered you a job but you don't you're so focused on this other one that didn't happen that you don't even you're not even able to hear it see all outer reality is is a reflection of the inner reality and the degree to which you let go is the degree to which you can receive that's the key now the second thing this has been huge for me this has to do with wantingness and human relationship dynamics wanting this and human race i just like to say it like that relationship dynamics people feel and are responding to you based on the energy you put enough so for example this is a thing though if you want somebody else to compliment your shirt and you get this shirt and you're wearing it you're like so many people are gonna compliment this shirt and you're walking around all prideful compliment on my shirt what you're gonna find is because you want them to compliment on your shirt they ain't gonna wanna do it do you wanna know why because they're gonna feel from you that you want something from them nobody wants to be manipulated or controlled they're going to intuitively literally respond because you're attached to the outcome and because you're attached to how they're responding to you they're going to feel subconsciously restricted they're not going to know this consciously they're just going to feel like hmm something's going to feel just a tad bit off but if you just completely let go and you feel you realize you've filled up your own cup you don't need them to compliment on your shirt it's going to be crazy because everyone's going to do it that's just how it works so if you're in a relationship with someone and you want them to talk to you a certain way that you want them to do something for you and you have this expectation and you're attached to the outcome they will subconsciously resist you because nobody wants to be controlled it's an energetic dynamic thing i can't even explain it but this has been such a huge epiphany for me really recently that i wanted to share in a video what i've learned how to do is how to fill up my own cup put the attention back on me what do i want i'm already whole and complete i don't need anyone to act any other way nobody needs to compliment my shirt but do you guys like this shirt just kidding nobody needs to my cup is full now ironically because of that people may say things comment below i'm just kidding but that's the idea so if you wonder why you know so many people ask me and because you're early on youtube i made videos like on how to attract someone back and all that stuff and the answer is to let go you want to know why because when you're thinking about someone all the time they can feel that energy and what you're doing is you're resist they're literally just responding to you based on the energy you're putting onto them and it's literally suffocating them energetically even if you don't see them the best thing you can do is to fill up your own that's it just fill it up fill up your cup and then realize that you don't need anything else to be happy it's all within you okay the third thing is what i call the pillars the vibrational pillars it's so simple okay you ready it's like a triangle passion okay this is like the key to you raising your vibration and if you have these pillars in place you're gonna be able to let go easier than ever because these this is all your responsibility is here we go you guys ready for the triangle at the top passion purpose really this is also kind of like meaning passion and purpose are you doing what you're passionate about if you're doing what you're passionate about it's self-sustaining it doesn't feel like hard work you're enjoying it you're enjoying the moment even if it takes a little bit longer process it's all good it's your passion you don't know what that is set the intention start reading books start following it see where it leads you doesn't need to be some overarching passion of your whole entire life you figure it out as you go secondly in the bottom corner neutrality that's where you learn how to observe your thoughts spend literally five minutes a day in the morning and then i observing your thoughts i stare at a candle flame because it keeps my eyes on one spot and my eyes don't wander my mind don't wander even when i look into this camera when i'm looking at the lens it's a fl i get into a flow state very easily because i'm focused on one spot and i was like hey guys so here we go new stimulation my mind can't focus but this gives me focus so in the morning i wake up i start a candle flame and what i do is i just simply observe my thoughts i don't try to control them they're just thoughts here's the biggest thing that makes a difference when you can observe your thoughts and realize you are not your thoughts that's where the power is is not in identifying with the thoughts that's observation because then you separate yourself from identity of those thoughts then you start to become free you'll start to feel high all the time and all you got to do is stare at a freaking candle flame and observe your thoughts for five or ten minutes in the morning five or ten minutes at night then you won't be in reaction mode you'll be able just to go and talk to other people and if they say something that triggers you you're right they're able to observe it realize it's not you you don't have to internalize it so neutrality is a way of letting go of resistance and then the other pillar is understanding your environment high vibe tribe these this pillar system right here is the key to me being in high vibration it's passion neutrality tribe high-vibe tribe even if you don't have a high-vibe tribe around you right now there are online tribes there's people commenting below that would be amazing people in your high-vibe tribe and not only that but you can also tailor your environment when i first went through a spiritual awakening i read books from people that i wanted to be in my high vibe tribe i read personal development books spiritual books books environment think of like your mental environment and your physical environment the people you're around are osmosisly um rubbing off on you and sometimes it can be a little bit fearful but if you let go of people that are bringing you down you will make room for somebody else to come in and if you guys haven't seen it yet as well there is something called a 21 day razor vibration challenge which is something that will help you to raise your vibration to a whole new you 21 days to a new high vibrational you there's a high vibe tribe that you get lifetime access to it's one of the most engaged communities that i've ever seen and you can join below or go to what is it razervibrationchallenge.com but you can also click the link below you can check that out so the more you let go is the more you allow the universe to bring things to you you the life is really about getting in alignment with the divine there's a level at the bottom to where it's about becoming aware and building the ego structure and realizing our own power and in the middle levels of consciousness it's about really learning how far we can take that and then it's about letting it go and letting the divine bring it to you but how do you do that you get an alignment you do what you're passionate about you literally begin to trust the universe and if you're in fear you're saying that you don't trust the universe if you're in anxiety you're saying you don't trust the universe and you can trust the universe by making a choice by slowly but surely giving it up and realizing hey i'm gonna let go of this and see what happens the letting go technique is so simple feel the emotion don't try to control it if it keeps coming up that's okay it just means there's more to let go and just make the choice to let it go just let it go just release and then you're in a high-vibe state and you're attracting things easier than ever ever it's going to completely be a game changer for you but i used to work hard i used to focus on all these things to be successful and the more i've let go is the more i've allowed in it's a crazy paradox but it's a higher level way of going about it and any of you can do it by just letting go so anyways i hope you guys enjoyed this video like this video if you liked it share it to help other people understand how to raise their vibration there's also a no bs guide to raising your vibration that came out recently that people have been really liking i'm gonna put that below you can watch that video for the no bs guide not about picking up crystals it's not about i love those things are cool but this is something you can also share with friends and family the no bs guide because it doesn't make you look so weird when people like that they like just be able to share something anyways i'll talk to you guys later peace much love and namaste

Channel: Aaron Doughty

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Length: 18min 23sec (1103 seconds)

Published: Mon Nov 02 2020