Steve Harvey On Living With A Partner Before Marriage

two out of three new marriages are preceded by living together but according to a recent study couples who live together before marriage are 50% more likely to get divorced Wow is it smart to live together before marriage I think it is smart I don't know I don't know about that percentage I don't know who they were Poland what I think it is smart my husband and I lived together when we were engaged okay and we learned a lot about each other in that year so that is not a big deal that should never be a deal breaker and I actually think we learned a lot about each other and it was it was it made getting married and coming home after the honeymoon it felt like really comfortable for me no you shouldn't get you should know no I'm always with someone for a long time and living with them and thinking that it would grow into something that were we're gonna finally get married and it didn't happen after six years of being with somebody oh but you weren't already engaged though know we were gonna be engaged but it never never happened so I'm waiting when I when I should have just let his butt go because my husband was waiting somewhere around there sitting there waiting for someone who is not ready after two years I think that should be it I think what a mistake you made you didn't have a date set I had a lot of dates set in your mind yeah no I said it um I want at after a year and a half I want to be engaged I want to get married aged and then you move in to go see I was already in there so don't do it and when you are cohabitating with somebody you are essentially playing the role of a wife for free like why should he have an effort to make you his wife when you cook in when you go in when you just dropping it like a shot whatever he wanted hot see guess why I get married you know I agree I live with the person before I married him before that was a mistake I didn't live with Marjorie before and I'm I'm on my third marriage and I didn't live with my original wife before I would recommend not living together yeah what I've learned now even though I've lived together I won't let my daughter's oh and they have come in the house with these wonderful ideas two of my daughters are married one of them is engaged but you're not you're not getting this milk free without purchasing the cow that's old you're not getting it now it can work for people I just wouldn't let my daughters do it because I'm I put the onus the burden of proof on the guy who came and asked me for my daughter's hand because all of them have asked me and I gave away three girls let me tell you this the saying that I've taught all of my daughters you have to let a man see what he can get but you have to make him imagine what he can have I'm gonna let you see what you can get I'm gonna show you some things but I'm gonna make you imagine what it's like to have it at all times to belong to you that's when you lock a man in because if he want to have it then he got to do something else and all women have that right to do that women don't understand the power that you actually have you control this entire situation you just don't know you do you stop giving yourself away you are the prize the man is not surprised he's not if you like that video there's more where that came from don't forget to subscribe and scroll down and hit that little bail while you're added to to get notified every new video

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Length: 3min 51sec (231 seconds)

Published: Mon Apr 09 2018