Singles, Develop Yourself before Marriage!

the Bible tells us in the book of Proverbs up to 24 proverbs 24 verse 3 to 5 proverbs up to 24 verse 3 down to verse 5 he said every house is built by wisdom and he said it is established by understanding and it is filled with treasures by reason of knowledge I'd like you to understand that your home will only be glorious to the degree of your development your development you must develop yourself in proverbs chapter 14 and verse 1 and proverbs upper 14 and verse 1 the Bible shows us something here that I'd like to read to us proverbs 14 verse 1 is that every wise woman build a house but the foolish pluck at it down with her hands in other words it is wisdom that you take to build a house up that's why you must develop yourself it is wisdom that you take to build a house up when is man or woman it is wisdom that you take every house is built by wisdom and every wise woman is the one that builds up a house so without developing yourself you will break down your home without knowing you see many people whose homes cotta and they look like innocent bystanders they say what happened I can't believe he just left I can't believe she just left like that because when you lack wisdom you will just watch thing you will be breaking it down not knowing that you are I meant someone once something happened choosing courtship and the manager said look I'm not doing again now by the time I asked her what happened she said one of her friends advised her that before you marry a man you have to see him angry and this is a type that is very reserved so she kept winding in my wine in my wine him just to spark him and in order not to explode he said look I'm not interested this is not a begin that no he didn't mean it so I'm not interested that's not the kind of vision I have for my family aya Graham said but you see she has gotten advice to be winding the man and find him you have to seem to the highest point because he can't surprise you develop you stupid things develop yourself exercises after 10 verse 15 the Bible says the lip of the foolish weary at every one of them because it knows not how to go down to the city in other words you see your lip ball can be in vain when it is not in wisdom your labor can be vain when it is not in wisdom so you want to have an effective family you need to develop yourself the quarry member that you add the two you are the stone that will build a house amen so you need to develop yourself develop yourself extensively in order to be useful as a pillar within that family God will help our understanding in the name of Jesus Christ your head goes server you've heard the testimony of God 7 it was also shared in a first teaching how that he got the several striking revelations upon which peaceful marriage is built now without that insight you can imagine that the home would have been two modules these are not true the home would have been on that pressure but because he sat down to develop himself the culture said that the home must be tense in fact the council lawyer went to meet is easy you can you can be in the same house without stepping on each other's toes I mean if we came from a house where you are not alone from house we are not alone you live with the double degrees of yard I'm never you have to step here to this money did you have to step here to assume there are some analogies also make or tourists it means that I use did you have no foundation you can live in the same houses here and no step each other's toes whose a zoo who says now all of this comes to self there are some people who are just taking about man of advices say you see marriage just get ready for fight but they have not developed them said now let me tell you something that happened to me maybe to help you now I had a teaching I had a teacher once and this wise self development is so important I had a teacher once from first corinthians of the self I'll look for the vest now and I will give you the vest hallelujah show me I must develop myself now first 28 1st Corinthians 7 verse 28 it's a but if thou marry thou has not sinned first of all that all registers causing problems and if a virgin marry she had not sinned nevertheless soldier have trouble in the flesh when I saw that first of all the person who was preaching read it from the Bible so when I saw it I was afraid the God is promising you have trouble so why was somebody with trouble s go into marriage looking for trouble but what does the last eight men see say but I spare you now until I want to read it - it that's why you have to develop yourself I don't know if no people will put on enough ideas a you incomplete revelations inside you it's a bot ice P I you so it means very clearly that you can escape the trouble that people have in the flesh but you must develop yourself you must go in search of it God will help our understanding I said God will help understanding I said God will help our understanding so must understand that if you want to if you want to escape what or does a feeling you marry then you must develop yourself without self development you will face the troubles that I in the flesh amen you will face the troubles that are in the flesh so there is a need for self development to do that number one read read the Bible says concerning that christeson barrier I said they were more honorable than build as he said because they searched the scriptures to see whether those things that poor thought we're so so read read in Daniel chapter 9 verse 2 the Bible says I Daniel understood by books you must be redone you must be a reader must be a reader some of the very interesting happened when I was getting might now I was already part of this short before I got mine but when I was to get married the pastor who was to handle the marriage proceedings I said so sir what do you want me to do you say the face is going read soon about books I've read them before but I have to read again marriage and life has no respect for title you can be a troubled past oh and you see I you could have been preaching and doing everything I'm doing and then I was sitting out there amen and then people in the church is hitting sometimes I see the wishes on Tina's bass fired Amalia but you know they're not to not do suffer that kind of trouble you have to read and develop yourself now imagine if I came with the mentality of what a person said and I never read it I would have entered into marriage looking for trouble in the flesh I said Lord this is the tongue that you spoke about because of the abundance of Revelation that has been now it on has been given me in the flesh I gurram say because I didn't sit down to read you see you can escape many things if you read the an something of attitude is not true I didn't say hit of other boy is not true read there are some advices your mother give you this you see my daughter sit down men are we can't sit down and read any dissent I would advise people just come and give your mana of advice you see men are from where is it from us women are from you can never understand each other you can't just just just be believing God that you will make it out blameless but people have no sat down to research from scriptures what does God see I know what your father says I know what your mother says but what does God see when I saw eyes out of that revelation I told my we can't fight and you know I took it for that I said we can argue we have to argue before a fight I said we can't argue it is out of that because I didn't see where Godsey okay you argue boys you don't fight it's not bad so you we read you set to down and read grid Jesus said search the scriptures so sit down born is said to develop yourself personally that home that you have been dreaming about that glorious home that has a man and a woman who is the man in it that man read you become him yeah people who are dreaming about you know homes that they are not involved in is my home be so peaceful you know you know you just be strolling and going and going who is the man you who says who is the man who is the woman okay now become them that's the way to have it shout hallelujah so there is necessity to read and develop yourself you understand the same n-number tooth way of developing yourself is free you must pray the Bible talks about exercising your cell phone to godliness and one of the ways you do that is to pray in Luke chapter 18 verse one is a men ought always to pray and not to faint so you develop yourself on the old Tao prayer why because when you are praying you are changing Luke chapter 9 verse 28 he said as Jesus was praying the fashion of his countenance was altered looked up to 9 verse 29 so the fashion of his countenance was altered so when you are praying you are changing you are changing you must be given to prayer that is part of your self development I'll tell you a secret because his family seminar and I was not a lord as in church when I met my wife she said something to me they really challenged me at that time very sincerely my spiritual life was not very hot and she now give me so I just acts on one day in one conversation so how do you you know how do you pray I see to me you know she sees you she starts to deal with 30 minutes of pray in tongues I didn't see anything but the word what came to my mind so I okay so immediately I gotta grind knew that if I get into the home without prayer I'm in trouble I Graham say that was part of what helped preparation so you don't you can't develop yourself without it I agree I'm saying you can't develop yourself without prayer because in prayer you change why do you change you hear more from God so you become more like God I agree I'm saying you hear more from God so you become more like God the more time you spend in prayer the more you hear from God so you end up becoming more like him so all of a sudden you find out that you are changing you are changing why because you are in the place where you are communing with him and you know where you having conversation you speak he speaks hallelujah you speak and he speaks and the more developed you are you know the Bible says that as many as are led by the Spirit of God they are the sons of God so the more you are hearing from God the more you are developing and becoming more matured hallelujah the more you are developing and becoming more Machon so from ghost what we can tell very clearly that if you want to develop yourself you have the responsibility to pray the responsibility the one to pray you have the responsibility to pray so you must develop that discipline it is part of shaping yourself it is part of developing yourself you'll be picking what God is saying Clara you be seeing things in your life change but more importantly you'll be seeing yourself begin to change hallelujah and you have heard before you think about the perfect husband thing about the perfect wife you have to become the perfect spouse for you to be selected by them draw forth you have to become the perfect spouse to become to be selected by them shout hallelujah there are people when they describe the person who they are expecting someone tough one so glorious but they don't match the person hello I want him to be so passionate for God I want him to love prayer but you don't match the person so when you meet there will be friction so if you want to become you want to see a glorious home as gonna so then they'll be given to prayer because that is part of your development if you understand I say loudly man so you develop yourself by reading you also develop yourself by prayer and by reading we're talking about reading the Bible and reading anointed books reading anointed books reading anointed books God will have understanding

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Published: Sun Aug 24 2014