Hello my wonderful friend! Today's
video is on signs she likes you. This is how women pursue men. Have you ever felt like
you have to do all the pursuing, like it's always the man's job to pursue? What most men don't
realize is women totally pursue, like totally, it just looks different from what most men
think it should look like. And the guys who can tell that she's pursuing, those are the guys who
get their dream girl, instead of struggling and being really confused. So you want to be one of
the guys who understands what it looks like when a woman pursues, right? So make sure you watch
to the end of this video because each of these things that I'm going to share with you are super
super important. So pay close attention. Now before we dive into the signs she likes you and
how to know if she's pursuing you, if this is your first time watching one of my videos, welcome! My
name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men. I teach you how to stop wasting your time and
energy on bad relationships by learning the skills that get you your dream girl and your dream
relationship. The best part is as a certified coach I do not teach you mind games. I teach you
science based facts. So make sure you subscribe, ring the notification bell, and give me a big
thumbs up. Okay, signs she likes you how women pursue men. The very first thing you need to
understand and we all kind of understand it but we don't realize it, women are feminine. Makes
sense, right? Men are masculine. That is why we are attracted to each other. So what this means
is if you try to take away her femininity or if you try to give away your masculinity that's going
to ruin the attraction. That's going to cause an unbalanced relationship. You instead want a happy
relationship, a healthy relationship, right? You certainly want her to stay feminine and you want
to keep your masculinity, right? This is why women are going to pursue you differently than how you
pursue her. You are going to pursue her in a very masculine way, and that's what women need, okay?
That's how God created women. Women need to be pursued by a man. That's what makes us attracted
to you, that's what makes her feel safe, that's what makes her see you as a man. She needs that.
But if you expect her to pursue you the same way you would pursue her you're going to be frustrated
because she's not going to do it. As a matter of fact research shows that if a woman pursues a man
that way, in the same way you would pursue her, she doesn't feel safe, she doesn't feel feminine,
she has to sacrifice her femininity to do that. She takes on masculine traits to try and feel
safe and pretty soon it's just it's not a good situation. She's not attracted to you the same
way. So this is why the way a woman pursues you is going to be different. Making sense so
far? So some of the things we talk about may sound a little funny to you at first and it's
simply because this is how in a feminine way she pursues you. If she's doing these things
these are signs that she likes you. So let's get started with the first sign that she likes
you, first way she pursues, and that is through her body language. If you've been following me for
a while now you guys know I teach you guys about body language all the time. And the reason why is
it is insanely powerful. What body language is, is when we feel something you can see it in
our bodies. You can tell if somebody's angry, if they're happy, if they're cold, if they're
hangry. Sometimes you can tell just by looking at what they're doing with their bodies. The best
part is, is we don't really know we're doing it, right? This means you can know how she feels
about you without her even knowing that you know. That's pretty cool, right? If she's interested in
you, you are going to see it in her body language. Now sometimes she's not even necessarily trying to
hide it. That is often how she'll pursue you. For instance, one of the most common body language
signs a woman will send to you is if she makes eye contact with you a lot and smiles. This is
especially true if she, you know, catches your eye and looks down. That is one of the biggest signs
that she's like, "hey, you should come talk to me. Hey, you're like really cute." That is one of
the best signals a woman can send that she thinks you're attractive. That is her way of trying
to pursue you. What pursuing usually looks like from a woman's perspective is being very
very inviting, letting you know, "hey, come talk to me. Hey, you should ask me out. Hey,
I enjoy spending time with you." She's going to be very very inviting. If you have not yet seen
this video on body language signs of attraction you need to check it out. I will put a link in
the description below. As you study this body language you're at first you might be like, "I've
never seen a woman do that ever." But as you start paying attention you'll pick it up and you'll be
like, "oh my goodness, she's showing signs that she likes me." That's pretty cool, isn't it? Okay
the next sign she likes you and how she pursues you is when she's very engaged and very invested
whenever she talks to you. So if you notice she gets really excited when she talks to you, that
she looks forward to seeing you, maybe she even looks for you at places where she could expect to
see you, if you notice that she's really invested and she's asking you questions and trying to get
to know you better that is how she pursues. Again, as a woman, she's pursuing by being very inviting,
letting you know she enjoys talking to you, she wants to spend time with you. And so if you
notice that she seems really excited and really encouraging about talking to her and spending time
with her, yeah, that's like, that's huge. Okay, at this point you might be thinking, "great,
I'm starting to understand how women pursue. But what next?" Have you ever wondered that? Like
what do you do next? What do you do if you see she's interested in you? Because you don't want
to mess it up, right? If you saw this video you know that there are some very very easy mistakes
that cause the attraction to die and you don't want that. Instead, you want to increase that
attraction, right? You want to make attracting her really simple really automatic and really
powerful, right? Well in order to do that what you need is a game plan. That is how you make sure
that it doesn't go terribly wrong but instead you really attract her. I'm going to teach you about
that game plan in my free masterclass. There's a link in the description below. I will also put
a link in the pinned comment. If you want to set yourself up for success do yourself a favor right
now and watch that free masterclass. Seriously, click the link down below. I'll see you over
there. It's like a party, it'll be awesome. Check it out. Okay, the next sign she likes you and
an additional way that she's going to pursue you is if she suggests that you do things together or
if she talks about doing things together with you. This is one of the most bold signs a woman can
send. "Hey, we should do that sometime." That is basically her saying, "dude, ask me out, please!
Please, I told you what we could do together. Like please, ask me out and let's go do that
together." That is basically what she's saying. So if she suggests that you do things together,
that is huge. She's left the door wide open for you to pursue her. She's basically said, "hey,
it is safe for you to pursue me." That is the the best way to explain how a woman pursues,
is she makes it as easy as possible for you to pursue her. Why is she doing that? Because she's
interested in you and she wants to be even more interested in you. And so she wants you to pursue
her which is going to raise the attraction level even higher. Is this making sense? I'm actually
really curious, is it a surprise to you to learn that women pursue? I want to hear from you in
the comments if it is. I'm legitimately curious. So please, if this surprised you or anything
you've learned in this video has surprised you comment and let me know about it. You can even
just comment "surprised" and I'll know what you're talking about. Okay, the next sign that she
likes you and a big way that women pursue is that she flirts with you. Unless she's toxic and just
wants attention, women don't flirt unless there's a reason behind it. If she is intentionally
flirting it's because she's interested, it's because she wants your attention, and she wants
you to notice her and think that she's attractive. I'm actually thinking about doing a video on
flirting and signs that she's flirting with you. Is that something you would be interested
in? Should I make that video, should I not? If you think I should, if that's something you
would enjoy, signs she's flirting with you, just comment "flirt" in the comments below to let
me know. I love hearing from you guys. It helps me so much as I prepare new material. So if you
want that video be sure to comment "flirt" down below and let me know. Okay, another sign that she
likes you is when she tries to get your attention. This is another huge way that women pursue. Some
examples of how she might do this is she might brush up against you when she walks past you. She
can be doing that without even knowing she's doing it. She's just thinking about you so it ends up
happening. Or she might um always stand next to you whenever she can. Even if you're in a group
of friends she always tries to stand next to you. She may, like I mentioned earlier, she may try
to catch eye contact with you and then look away. She might laugh a little bit more loudly
when you're around to get your attention. There are simple things that she can be doing to get
your attention because she thinks you're cute, she wants you to notice her so bad. Another
example is if she does nice things for you or if she remembers special occasions.
If she's trying to get your attention it's for a reason. It's not just because she gets
a kick out of it. Unless she's toxic but again we're not talking about those women. Okay, let's
sum up what you have learned so far about signs that she likes you and ways that women pursue you.
The first one is through her body language. If she's sending signals that she's interested, even
if she doesn't know she's sending those signals, then she's sending signals she's interested
and it's because she wants you to notice her, she wants you to pursue her, she likes you. The
second thing is if she is engaged and invested and interested when you're talking and interacting.
If she is encouraging, talking, and talking more, that's huge. Another sign that she likes you is
if she talks about doing things together. She may even suggest that you do things together. That
is huge. That is basically her saying, "ask me out right now." Another sign that she likes you is
when she flirts with you. If you notice that she flirts with you consistently that is huge.
That is like huge huge. That is definitely one of the main ways that a girl pursues you.
And another sign that she likes you is when she tries to get your attention. You don't just try
to get somebody's attention for no good reason, unless you're just weird. So make sure
she's not weird, which is a pretty good, you know, general rule. But if you notice
that she's trying to get your attention that is a huge sign that she likes you and she's
trying in her own way to pursue you. Thank you so much for watching, my amazing friend! If you
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