r/EntitledPeople - Mom Wants MY $1.3 MILLION INHERITANCE From My Father! [She's Was a Single Mom]

hello my wonderful wonderful friends happy saturday to everybody and welcome back to our slash entitled people where people seem to think the world revolves around them guys in this episode there's gonna be two stories the first story was emailed to me by a subscriber and she shares a story about how her entitled mother comes out of the woodwork to demand her inheritance of over a million dollars a million dollars yikes the second story is about another mom who happens to be a horrendous budgeter and constantly thinks her children should bail her out of money mistakes as well my friends please buckle up because you're about to go on a wild wild ride i hope you stay for the stories today and do hit that subscribe button for future entitled people stories let's dive in this first story is titled my mother demands my million dollar inheritance says that i owe her for raising me as a single mother when i was really young my parents divorced it wasn't pretty they fought often usually over money eventually they separated and my dad moved out and after a while my dad moved out of the country back to hong kong where he was born and raised to help out with a family business this left my mom to raise myself on her own for over 10 years she was bitter over the splits but did her best to keep food on the table she worked multiple jobs and made sure that i was never wanting in regards to food shelter and clothing however because of this bitterness i think my mom felt that she always needed more that she was so hard working that she deserved more i could see that she became envious of some of her friends who were better off especially the ones with bigger houses nicer cars and more luxurious lifestyle whenever one of them put their kids in some kind of lesson like dancer music i was also enrolled not long after it got to the point where whatever money she made she would spend on material goods for herself for that little bit of happiness rather than making sure our necessities were covered more on this later as a kid i didn't understand but as an adult i can kind of see where the good intent was initially and then her inner demons just took over her life anyways with my mom working lots it also meant that she wasn't home most of the time the extra jobs took a toll on her and affected our relationship we were constantly fighting and arguing most of the time it was over nothing just silly petty things that a teenager would get mad at therefore our bond was never that strong it was strained and trickled into my adulthood i didn't talk to her often after i moved out nor did she try to reach out to me we went on years without seeing each other mostly talk through texting and sometimes called the only time she called me up is because she wanted something like to borrow money or if i could buy something for her and most of the time i obliged because well she's my mother with my father i wasn't very close with him either because he was halfway around the world and i could only see him once every two or three years and i talked to him on the phone or exchanged emails once in a while but he kind of tried things in my life took a turn for the worst when i was in my mid-20s my father had suddenly passed away from a heart attack and i had traveled to hong kong for his funeral it was bittersweet having to say goodbye but i won't bore you with those details while i was there i did see a lot of childhood aunties and uncles that i hadn't seen in many years i was gone for maybe a week before i flew back home after a while i was contacted by my dad's lawyer and was told that he had left me a large sum of money and some family valuables in his will there was a whole bunch of legal details and things that needed to be done especially since i'm not a hong kong citizen and it took a very very long time to figure this out but that's not what this story is about when it happened i called my mom and told her about my father's passing she was good about it didn't make any snarky comments or anything like i thought she would she didn't come with me to the funeral either as she was a full-time caretaker for my grandfather who was bedridden and we couldn't find someone to help at the time not too long after my return from the funeral she called me up again to see how it went and how i was holding up it started as a nice conversation but it wasn't too long into the phone call before i found out what my mom was up to please keep in mind that i'm speaking to my mom in our native language so this is a rough translation of it all she said i was talking to auntie debbie and she heard from your auntie nikki that your dad had left you something after he passed away reluctantly i answered and said yeah something like that she replied well that's good because he wasn't really there to take care of you when you were younger so it's only right that he tries to take care of you now and there's the snide comment sure mom i said and she asked what did he leave you just some stuff i was trying to steer the conversation elsewhere but my mom wouldn't have it and she pushed like what i sighed and i regret this so much but i gave in and said he just left me some money mom don't worry about it what do you mean don't worry about it how much did he leave you one dollar ten dollars a hundred dollars she kept nagging and i lied and said it's like ten thousand dollars nothing too big but it was substantially more my mom then said to me why are you lying to me auntie debbie said it was over a million dollars i kind of felt my gut not up at this and started to fear where this was heading my dad had left me with a little more than 1.3 million dollars but i didn't want to tell her and i said mom why are you so concerned with this because after everything your dad put me through that money should be going to me what what are you what are you talking about i was shocked because i knew my mom was selfish but i didn't think she'd be that selfish she went on and on about how my dad put her through hell left her with a house and a big mortgage and how she had to work so many jobs to make ends meet she never asked him for child support which was true but she periodically asked him to pay for things like dance lessons braces eyeglasses and more and from the start from what i can remember he did pay for all those things but as time went on the financial support wasn't there as much so my mom though it was her own choice had to fork out more money for my lessons she then started talking about how because of my dad she was now in the poor situation she was in she eventually had to remortgage my childhood home but she couldn't keep up the payments so the house ended up getting foreclosed my mom then started renting had her car rebowed utilities were cut and creditors used to call the house so much to the point where i was afraid to answer the phone anyways my mom was going on and on about how she deserved better after having given so much sacrifice of her life she said so when you get that money you can send it to me okay she said that to me as if it was decided i don't like arguing especially with her so it took everything in me to say this mom i get that you went through a lot when you and dad split up but that was a long time ago and it's over i'm not gonna be giving you all this money i could hear how offended she was when she said why not because dad left the money to me no one else i can maybe help you with a few things but that's it she scoffed scoffed and said are you kidding me after everything i've done for you you're gonna be so disrespectful to me i already told auntie that you were gonna send me at least half of it i raised you so you owe me there it is that one line that my mom like to bring up every so often and the biggest reason why our relationship was so strained you owe me i told her no mom i don't owe you anything i appreciate the fact that you raised me on your own and you did a great job of it but i'm an adult now and you are too you can't keep blaming dad for everything bad that happened in your life and you can't keep coming to me for handouts my voice was shaking and i could hear the blood beat in my ears preparing me for the next wave of shouting and shouted she did my mom snapped and went on and on about how ungrateful i was about the sacrifices she made for me how she had a line of men asking to date her but she never dated any of them and how people felt so sorry for her that her husband ditched her and her child and how as an adult her child won't even try to help her out she brought up things she did for me when i was younger brought up the old fights we had and how i was not being a good daughter after that i told her i'm not having this conversation with her that i'll wait until she's calm and can act like a freaking adult then i hung up on her obviously that didn't go well because she started spamming my phone phone call after phone call but i ignored them all eventually i shut off my phone and went to take a nap because i was mentally exhausted from her the only thing that stopped her from showing up at my doorstep was because she lived on the other side of the country and she didn't have the funds to suddenly hop on a plane it's upsetting but i came to accept that my mom will never be the person i hope she would be i didn't talk to her for a couple of weeks but when i finally did she was trying so hard to get on my good side trying to be as nice as possible but it was fake kindness my mom never saw scent of that inheritance every so often the same argument would come up about how she's owed money from my dad and how i owe her my life we've never come to an agreement and i stayed firm on my decision to not give her anything i did hire some 24 7 care for my grandfather so that someone more capable can be there in case there's an emergency it's so unfortunate that the only reason op's mom came in contact with her was to demand that inheritance so i have a question for you guys if you suddenly came into an inheritance of over a million dollars how do you think your family would treat you do you have any entitled family members that would demand you share or think they're owed something like op's mother please leave your comments below because i'd love to know this next story is titled mom begs for money despite buying new house and car a little backstory my mom who's on social security disability insurance has a very hard time budgeting she's in the top tier almost 2 800 a month last year she decided to sell my grandparents house in oregon to move back to the seattle area she got the house by having my grandmother with dementia change the will and cut out her two siblings my uncle and aunt and after my grandmother passed the house and all the savings and belongings went to my mom so she sells the house and instead of buying a reasonable home she buys herself and her three cats a 4 000 square foot home in a gated community there was literally no money left over from the sale and acquisition of the new home i even had to help by paying for a moving van and helpers before this she had a settlement from a slip and fall lawsuit of roughly fifty thousand dollars which she instantly rolls into a brand new 2018 toyota highlander she then backs into a tree and busts the tail light on it and decides that she needs a brand new 2019 fully loaded highlander she trades in her 2018 with 5 000 miles on it and takes out a 35 000 car loan so here is like 80 000 of car at this point excellent she's constantly begging my bro sis and i for money and thinks we should all bail her out of certain situations that she gets herself into my brother's 38 i'm 36 my sister is 27 and we're all trying to establish ourselves in our lives careers and financial security well she brought up money the other day when she came up to our apartment to visit the grandkids saying she didn't have enough money to pick up her prescriptions i told her i could spare her 15 for gas money but that was all i explained that we're a family of four living on one income and we have a tight budget a reminder that she's had plenty of opportunity to save or spend her money more wisely so she takes the 15 and goes i get a call the next day of her crying saying that the way i brought up her poor money choices was terribly upsetting pretty much making me to be out the villain and her the victim this self-victimizing routine is her go-to it's exhausting because i've done so much for her i put my life on hold for 5 years after college to be her full-time caretaker since she fell and needed a hip replacement and then got hooked on opiates i couldn't hold down a job or any healthy relationships because i was constantly being called back home to take her to doctor's appointments etc she thinks she's entitled to us always bailing her out of situations i could literally write a novel in all the ways i've helped her i feel like this post is a novella anyways screw her for trying to make me to be out the bad guy because i don't give her money to get extra prescriptions to fuel her addiction and screw her for even putting it out there and begging my family for money when she has so much and lastly screw her for never respecting my boundaries when i need to preserve my well-being after her sob story phone call i was so upset and it took me a few hours to get my head on straight opie in my humble opinion you and your siblings have your own families to take care of i'm in a similar situation where my mom's pretty much bleeding her and my father's retirement savings because she's constantly spending on unnecessary things and then she calls us asking for money i don't want to share too much information because i know sometimes she checks up on this channel and i don't want an ass whooping but she knows how i feel i love you mama guys and that wraps up another episode of our slash entitled people if you missed the last episode op's parents disown him because they think they're entitled to grandchildren imagine that your parents disown you because you don't want to have kids that is unreal guys if you haven't listened to it go check it out and i'll see you guys in the next one

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Length: 14min 44sec (884 seconds)

Published: Sat Sep 05 2020