No sex in 2 years… that’s a red flag! || STEVE HARVEY

[Applause] my longtime friend my girls - not late that she's installed a new movie the perfect guy comes out today this movie looks great now joining us are two women who aren't so sure that their men are perfect so we're gonna help them decide if some of their questionable behavior could be considered a red flag please welcome Abby and Eunice tell us about your relationship okay so I've been seeing this guy long distance we talked through texts and through social media because he's a marine outside of state so he started acting a little bit different recently after I asked him about his ex-girlfriend and why her profile pic is of them as a couple when I asked him that he said she's just crazy you know I don't talk to her anymore so I'm just wondering cuz I'm starting to have my doubts is that a red flag of her posting pictures of them as a couple yeah I don't think so I mean are you exclusive with him have you made that agreement no not yet so then you don't have you don't go on her social media okay once you have that conversation and you make that decision to be exclusive then you can ask those questions but now you should be seeing other people as well III believe in dating yeah I believe in dating not necessarily sleeping with people but I believe in dating because in cakes yeah because it's it takes time to get to know a person how old is this guy he's 20 about to be 22 okay first of all no guy is sitting at the house by his self me and don't do me time yeah when you meet a guy know that he's involved with someone know that don't say well he's not seeing anyone what what guy is not seeing anyone yes what guy does that when do we go I'm just not gonna see anybody I just got to get myself to death so so not you don't have an exclusivity with him don't expect it if it gets any more serious then you had to get a commitment and then if it isn't exclusivity didn't you have every right but I think she's 100% right so I don't think it's a red all right let's go to unis unis what has you questioning things well I've been dating the most amazing man for the past two years he goes above and beyond for me and my kids my kids in my mom adore him which is very important to me he's very old fashioned which I love he opens every door for me he always holds my hand he won't let me pay for anything he's very cuddly you know we have passionate kisses hello and goodbye but he never spends the night and [Laughter] two years two years he's never spent the night in two years no no sex Oh have you have you ever addressed this yes I have and What did he say um he just feels a relationship shouldn't be based on sex you build more of a bond when you get to know each other first but it's been two years right does this bother you or D are you fine getting but after we talked about it I'm fine I mean he's so amazing it's worth waiting for whenever you feel you think it's never gonna happen I mean my swear it sounds like he's an amazing man and I that's very hard to come by he takes care of you and your kids and he's a gentleman and he's consistent those are all really amazing things but do you want to live your life as a beautiful sexy woman with a man who doesn't make love to you I mean are you willing to give that up for all of those other qualities it's fine if you are but you have to really kind of I think you're gonna have to at this point come to terms that with the fact that it's not gonna happen two years no sex who is sleeping with [Applause] Mary no he's not married he lives about 30 minutes from my house he's never been married and has no kids oh sure he's not okay why is he at doing the parade but sweetheart Oh real Sanaa has a point you have to go to him and say this is what I need I don't just stand with what I need this is what I want what I know for sure is that time flies and so my whole thing is you decide what you want and if it's not what you want then make a move the pain will be you know what the pain is but you get over it because this is your life I think women do this a lot we put things in the future like it's going to happen one day but the behavior is the proof a man votes with their actions not their words so for two years all right going I like that a man vote to the best beautiful lady I would check into it get what you want out to deal I think both of you for being honest you deserve to get what you want though and you're gonna get it but you get it when you demand it thank you very much Eunice [Applause] you

Channel: Steve TV Show

Views: 3,905,140

Keywords: Steve, Harvey, funny, humor, comedy, tv, steve harvey, steve harvey daytime, steve harvey show, Dating (TV Genre), Advice (Media Genre), Relationship Counseling (TV Subject), Sanaa Lathan (Award Winner), The Perfect Guy, Sex (Quotation Subject), Family (Quotation Subject), Social Media (Website Category)

Id: ybZ7MypGn8E

Length: 6min 4sec (364 seconds)

Published: Fri Sep 11 2015