Tanika Ray | Steve Harvey Straight Talk Relationships

[Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] everybody welcome back it's now time for today's panel of fierce women today okay here's a top new data shows that younger couples are approaching relationships very differently than the baby boomer generation who married young divorced and remarried according to an analysis done by the University of Maryland the u.s. divorce rate has dropped 18 percent between 2008 and 2016 some researchers point to Millennials being a tad of pickier when it comes to picking a partner why do you think the divorce rate has dropped because we are we know too much information about marriage and how ugly divorce can be we've seen too many television shows look I've been engaged two-and-a-half times and both times I ran because when you get engaged you're like who forever-ever well I've been married twice and engaged once two and a half times married and I was so young to get married I didn't know enough like if I was older yeah I would have women picked the same person 20 plus years my practice I give a lot of advice and counsel to folks who are getting married enough to agreements to talk about that and one of the reasons this divorce rate is dropping is because young people are waiting until they finish their education when they get good jobs they understand that it ain't no romance without some finance this is the case is it less marriages now because there are more people just living together living together than it is marry once you get see that's a bit disheartening no like my youngest daughter when she got engaged this guy plays sports out the country and he goes I want her to come live with me I said okay that's not gonna happen it's no mr. Harvey we've talked about it no you talked about it with her for free no you're not taking my daughter overseas and y'all not married what we talking about we we're not doing that because if something happens to another point we women now have our own jobs we have our own money back in the day we needed it find a husband in order to have a roof over our head there's a quote on sexy city that I love so much she said relationships started to take a dive when women came out the cave and they said oh I could do that and that's super real yeah to me we might we've had this conversation disagree because it is you can say you can say I'm a woman I don't need a man that's not entirely true I want a man no survival or comfort she wants a man she don't need a man I have a house over my head have a nice car have a great family a tribe to help me great care of my baby I'm just saying the neat part is taken away because every we do need somebody everybody 20-some years what are you something is he needs me back it enriches your life it enriches me you don't need a man okay what you're not understanding is I'm dating in Los Angeles California I haven't met a guy that I need yet I might get cool but I'm good over Leeza you wish you these false and these dudes you know that's why with Millennials I like that they're not getting divorced so quickly and that they're waiting till they have their acts together but I have two daughters too Steven I don't want my daughters to wait so late you don't miss out on their opportunities like college is a good place to meet a man you know school is a good place to meet a man so I don't want them to wait okay wait okay let me ask you yes is question I wanna ask you if you found the perfect guy would you then need him yeah I mean perfect for me yes yeah hundred million yes yes because the city like a puzzle that's what I'm sad he enriches your life in there you haven't met the right no until I do I don't need that man complete losers does that mean I want to be with them you definitely don't need because that's the old saying go you can do bad all by you so we okay with that I agree with you 100% you do not need just any man yeah but you do need the right one to come along thank you you what you need you need to meet your soul mate you have no control over when we're gonna meet our soul mate until then I'm good good we'll be back don't go away [Music] [Applause] fed up frustrated how much of your life is wasted waiting for customer service you deserve better news four's better get the care of working every day to recover your money every call every email answered when you need help better get back arrow only on news for New York you're still out there chasing what matters at Aetna we're committed to taking care of the whole youth with Medicare Advantage plans have offer health coaching and fitness memberships plus hospital medical and prescription drug coverage in one simple plan put zero dollar monthly plan premiums Aetna 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posting a man or woman crush on social media disrespectful no it's I think there's a lot of people like I'm my man crush is Jon Hamm is Jon Hamm gonna like Know Who I am no problem you're doing celebrities but I think celebrity okay if I have a boyfriend I want I want to have it out there as like my man crush it's just for fine what if your man post someone in his office like a co-worker well then that's different that's beer to get back yeah yeah me and you're like flirty or you're at a bar you're flirting that's all you're that's a whole different entity here's the thing if you're in a relationship and a Instagram post is gonna get you into a fight you have to grow up and get out of that relation your jealousy is not gonna stop somebody from cheating on but to me it goes John Cena knows disrespect because have you ever posted a man crush Monday Idris Elba who you to Michael B Jordan they aren't all celebrities but yes you're doing I never have but Jon Hamm is my dude I'm done women crush Wednesday but I do think there's anything wrong with doing a man if you're not cheating you're not cheap but your husband say if my husband's not on so sure I'm ask you all the question how do you define being loyal on social means define each it's every couple defines it different from having an open relationship we have sex with multiple people that's for some people okay - not posting someone else on your section you're in a committed relationship you have boundaries and enjoy - about are you gonna talk about the top reasons people get divorced they don't have that open e on occasion and cheating to you is different than cheating to me right because I'm a big Associated post and you're like I saw that man you posted to start a fight with yo man over you post what you're posted if you're posting a girl from your office and saying oh she's hot yeah that's different really receipts I just found out that the women crush Wednesday was supposed to be about a celebrity cuz I always post my wife cause my daughter calls me and she goes down it's women crush Wednesday my women crush win - Niqo me and my wife female would be bad I'm 61 distant god is chick for me my wife has really elevated me and taught me how to be because I look at I don't know [Applause] this is real talk do we women is it imperative that we teach our men most men need some upgrading you can find a really good man but he just need a couple of tweaks and if he will listen to you like my wife remember the suits I used to wear started slowly tapering my suits tapering my ties everything fine a man is somewhat you know evenly yoke because a lot of women are out there trying to save me that's what I'm trying and you can't raise an adult you raise kids right so the man to me has to bring something to the table you want to wrap you up automatically mommy's right inner jurors but we definitely have to get together yeah you know can't say so you all have been and I'm a flat I'll say that my favorite panel [Applause] you got to meet an unlikely group of people that I want them to put a knee into bullying in their town we'll be right back [Applause] [Music]

Channel: Tanika Ray

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Length: 14min 33sec (873 seconds)

Published: Fri Feb 01 2019