NikkiPhillippi and Husband Dan's FAKE Body Language Betrays Them | Nonverbal Analyst Reacts

hi there idiots welcome back to observe in today's video we're going to be analyzing the non-verbal communication of nikki and dan in regards to their explanation video as to why they put down their dog thousand let's roll the intro [Music] so for those of you who don't know the situation there are some influencers who have a dog named bowser he is a bull terrier which is known as a high maintenance high performance dog they can be extremely sweet and caring puppies if you care for them correctly wow these two influencers needless to say did not do so and through a series of behavioral difficulties that they had with their dog due to their own neglect they ended up putting him down which they claimed they had no choice but to do so they offered this explanation video as to the reasons behind their actions and there are a few things that stick out right away for it not the least of which is the length of the video which is 24 minutes long which is far too long of an explanation now the other issue will become much more prevalent to you as we continue through this in that people feel like something is off and with that in mind many people have asked me to take a look at their nonverbal communication to decipher whether or not they are being genuine are they feeling genuine emotion do they have remorse and are they pulling the wool over anybody's eyes during this i will be analyzing this as unbiasedly as i possibly can though i will let you know in advance i grew up on a farm and i have a very close relationship with animals so this is something that i'm very passionate about so i'm aware of my biases and i'm going to try my best to counteract those during the read and i will give you my opinions separate from the science of nonverbal communication speaking on that science nonverbal communication is on average 70 to 80 percent accurate with some leeway on either side you can push it up to 100 but you can also drop it down to worse than a guess so i hope to be able to hit in that upper side of things along with that due to the nature of these analyses they are meant for education and entertainment purposes only they should never be used in any legal or professional setting that's enough backstory and that's enough of the disclaimers let's go ahead and begin and this very long analysis which by the way i doubt i will make it all the way through because it's very repetitive and needlessly long with a lot of needless details let's go hi guys i feel um awkward just like so do we nikki so do we so i'll go ahead and start talking about some of the backdrop in their clothing because i do this in every single apology video so i'll continue that just for continuity sake fortunately they don't seem to be trying to do any ploy with their backdrop or clothing many people will wear white or sit in a white area to be able to help this feeling of purity and cleanliness prevail throughout the video they don't seem to be doing that so that's good at least they're not manipulating on that part already with nikki's non-verbal communication we're seeing very forced and stilted behavioral patterns she has some odd movements that do not flow naturally that's a red flag right off the bat that she's already doing this however it is something that we have to consider in the timeline of this video many people start off a video feeling more awkward and they become less so as the video goes on so at this point is if this were a clean analysis which i have already watched in this video once so it's not technically a brand new video to me but if it were then this would have to be a red flag but that would be it just keep in mind that she already has some desynchronized nonverbal communication and we'll continue from there opening this video i don't even there is no sherry way to open this video and so we're here today to share with you um what's been going on in our life so she's continuing her weird stilted desynchronized behavioral patterning and what this is is an early indicator of a bad actress she's trying to add an emotion it's not clear as to what emotion quite yet but she's trying to add an emotion to what she's saying she's not doing so well ergo the disjointed and very stilted movements that she's having so this is not a great start to an explanation video because it's showing us that there are elements that are fake but speaking on his side of things he is regularly biting his upper lip it seems to be but as far as the rest of his face it's fairly neutral but on a positive side he doesn't seem to be sad or upset or even concerned it almost looks as if he's just waiting at the dmv to get his driver's license that's also not the expression that you would hope to see on somebody's face who is explaining why they killed their dog but right now it's still too early on in the video to be able to hang anything on that let's continue on now you you already know i mean by the time well no you don't know by the title but you know if you follow us on instagram um and so i'm just going to jump to the point and then we're going to back up and tell you the story something that they're both doing quite intentionally is sitting very small in the frame you can see them kind of sitting like this and their arms are tucked in and their shoulders are lightly hunched and this is to show that they are humble or that they are being vulnerable with you it's this childlike nature that they're trying to display to be able to help you feel sympathetic towards them it's a manipulation tactic he's sitting that way she regularly tries to fall back into that so she's more overtly manipulating you that way he just seems to be resting in that state regardless we've made note of the framing that they have how much space their bodies are taking up and right now it's quite small and it's intentionally so let's keep watching explain um so over the weekend going into the weekend on friday we had to put bowser to sleep um man it's so off so she's still having a lot of trouble figuring out what she's trying to force on her face right now it's very blank and she's still very jolted over here i want to make note that as soon as she says something about putting bowser to sleep he goes and scratches his nose area here right there in the corner and that could be seen as a blocking gesture a mouth blocking gesture or a distancing gesture and that to where you're bringing something between you and who or what is perceiving you it could be considered that there's also the chance that it's just itchy and he needs to scratch his nose regardless we've made note of that so let's keep track of it it pops up again and we see a pattern then we can understand that it has meaning right now it's too early on to say awkward saying the words i feel like i don't even know how to quite say it and you know dan is with me because bowser was this is odd nonverbal communication as well because dan is with me which is obvious to everybody who's watching perhaps maybe if somebody can't see the screen then maybe that's good to be able to have but then she also puts her arm behind his back as if to be like hey i'm here with you or i'm supporting you and this can be seen as a dominant gesture whoever puts their arm around the other is seen as the dominant one unless there are circumstances that can allow for other opportunities in that area but in normal situations the person who puts the arm around is the person who's taking care of or is consoling or something along those lines regardless it's the dominant or upper personality type this pops up again for her later on in this video we'll talk about it more later i mean he was our dog but he was dan's dog um and this was not a decision we came to lightly you know when dan and i were first talking so when she says lightly there's a very obvious tonal spike in her nonverbal communication her pitch goes up her volume goes up and the strain on her vocal cords also increases and that is a big red flag for me my question is why would you say lightly like that why would you emphasize it so heavily it's almost as if they might be compensating there perhaps it was more lightly considered than what they're saying it's too early on in the analysis to be able to say but it is a red flag and it's something that i need to keep track of as the video continues because it might be readdressed or more information might come out that gives a reason for that spike regardless there is a spike about this and just how this was all going to unfold and just having conversations around it one of the things that we said or i said was i was like people aren't people aren't going to get it like people are going to be upset and dan's response was oh that was a bird dan's response was nobody's going to be as upset as i'm upset or as upset as i am um okay so not speaking of the whole upset thing which who cares but you can notice that she hears a bird you can hear it as well on the audio and immediately her attention is directed towards that which means that she's very concerned about how this video is going to be perceived both auditory and visually how is this video going to be perceived and this theme comes up again and again throughout this entire explanation and it's more concerning to her than the actual content itself you'll see that later on but it's already rearing its head this early on to be able to shift away from a very heavy topic so quickly as if to say oh there's a bird it shows where a person's mindset is at now don't get me wrong for people who have a difficult time focusing or are easily distracted by things i would be one of those something like a bird could pop up and tweet and you could do exactly as she did so there's that possibility that's not the case with her but it is a possibility so just so you know if you're talking to somebody and they randomly flit off to the side and notice some other small detail that doesn't necessarily mean that they're not caring you have to consider the context and the person themselves their baseline if their baseline is very active and easily distracted then don't hold too much weight to it but if they have the ability to focus and then they get distracted then you have to start asking questions i hope that makes sense and so that's yeah that's the position that we're we're in today so i feel like i don't want to say hi i feel like i'm just like talking yeah well i mean we've had so i get the feeling that dan didn't want to do this video at all and she felt the need to do this video which is why he sat there looking fairly bored the entire time fairly unemotive the only tell that we're seeing is he regularly is biting his upper lip which could be seen as a nervous gesture and it's commonly done out of nerves speaking on her she does this weird touch her nose to his shoulder here and she does it again later on and it's a very strange gesture all in all and it comes in rather rapidly it doesn't have like an onset you don't see anything build up to this point she'll just be sitting there and then just be like time to touch nose and then just go and touch her nose and it's this weird stilted jolted nonverbal communication that's a red flag because for those of you who do not know emotions have an onset and an offset with a certain peak period in the middle and it lasts only a few seconds so if you see a prolonged expression that's lasting more than that few seconds it's about three to five seconds on average if you see something that lasts longer than that then it's a red flag and if you see something that just starts there's no onset to it it's just there's nothing and then there's everything then that can also be a red flag for a forced or fake emotion so when we see that sort of behavior from her we're already seeing more and more red flags of possible forced emotion let's continue bowser for almost a decade and he's uh okay so let's talk about his nonverbal communication he's smiling a fair bit it's not reaching his eyes so this could be a nervous or polite smile but it's also inappropriate in the context that's given not many people would want to be smiling about how they killed their dog but it could be like i said based off of nerves or politeness or perception management where he wants to appear a certain way to people could be those things i still feel it's inappropriate speaking on her body language you could see that she was trying to play off this subdued humble vulnerable look the child-like look that she's been trying to do this whole time but then she turns it off to take her sip of whatever drink this is and you can see her checking the frame she regularly checks off to the side which regularly there's a monitor to be able to see where the framing is in fact i have one there and there so that i can as well so if you see youtubers regularly referencing or any on-screen talent referencing a single spot over and over and over again like that it's likely where their monitor is so you could see her checking that which is another tick on that i care about how this is perceived more than the content itself that i talked about earlier but then watch her face after she finishes drinking and how she tries to shift back into whatever fake emotion she was working with for those of you who know him or have been around and we're back into it he's an angel but you know he likes to get rowdy all right so dan says that he bowser is an angel and if you look off to the side at her during that time she flashes a little bit of contempt or disgust or a combination thereof which likely means that she didn't feel that way and this could be heavily encouraged by her so he had the dog beforehand he had bowser beforehand and then they got together and now he's having to put down bowser that little flash of possible disgust or contempt when he's mentioning bowser being an angel is fairly telling in this situation that's part of the reason why i liked him you know one of the things that i liked about him but so he does another big scratching gesture here it's in the sameish area so maybe he has a very itchy nose or facial region there we can't say but it is still centered around bowser so this is two times that it's centered around bowser and some of the possible negative connotations around that in that he's speaking now of how much he did like bowser because they've put him down at this point she has another contempt smile during this time as well which could still be in regards to bowser it has been synced up twice now with times that he's mentioned the dog that she has shown contempt or disgust it's not good news know for many many years for most of his life he was he an extremely dangerous animal outside the walls of my house so so i'm gonna go ahead and talk a little bit just briefly about taking care of animals and taking care of them appropriately so he's saying that early early on bowser was prone to roughhousing it's the way that he would like to phrase it which means that early on bowser had a lot of energy and was not able to use that energy well and was not trained to be able to manage that energy well so it came out in the form of roughhousing and so early on dan knew about that tendency for bowser i'm hoping that perhaps dan did a tiny shred of research before he purchased bowser bull terrier a very active and high power high maintenance and high energy dog i would hope he did some research i doubt he did judging by the rest of his life so in this situation he's talking about how bowser early on started having possible behavioral difficulties and dan chalked it up to rough housing and thought it was fun and then now time is continuing on and he said that bowser outside of his walls of his house was a very dangerous animal that's not true bowser is a normal dog who needs specific care and training to be able to be the best dog that he can and the very dangerous out of the house side of things is dan's fault that's dan's ineptitude of being a dog owner or a dog parent he failed bowser that's that difficulty there bowser is not an aggressive dog dan did not train him how to behave well how to behave in regards to other animals in regards to other people so it comes across as aggressive he was definitely an outside animal that i had to keep inside so we have some verbal stammering and stuttering here where that halted flow of speech is coming in that's psychological processing from dan dan also starts doing a self-soothing gesture on his leg you can hear it and see it down at the bottom of the screen where he's rubbing or scratching his leg in regards to this tilting his head and that is showing that he's very uncomfortable with this specific segment but he himself just acknowledged that bowser is an outdoors dog and he had to keep him inside and in their narrative they're still trying to chalk it up to bowser was badly behaved and that's why they needed to keep him inside where in reality the actual response would be bowser is an outdoor dog we could not give him the life he deserved so we were able to re-home him to somebody who could that should have been their very very first move as soon as they realized that they could not take care of this dog but no they were stupid and they kept the dog in its own living hell to be able to put a dog that's supposed to be high energy and constantly moving and has a purpose these were hunting dogs they have a purpose they want to do things and you have to be able to allow them to do those things for them to be happy they took all of that away from bowser and kept him inside so he couldn't release that energy and they didn't they refused to train him well so now he has too much energy that's built up and he hasn't been taught or shown how to behave well around other animals so it's coming out in aggression this is all an exclusively poor dog parenting on their part nothing to do with bowser it's very frustrating well bowser was attacked when he was a puppy and we never really talked about that very much that that was like a that was a big okay so she says bowser was attacked when he was a puppy he does a grimace and he does more self-soothing gestures on his legs out of the frame there those are nerves and that's a pain expression that he does there very briefly a grimace is usually centered around pain or discomfort at the very least and so that's a big question why is that tell showing up there but also here's another thing just speaking on their complete inability to be responsible why on earth would you not take your puppy who has recently been attacked by another dog into specialized training and therapeutic processes to help that dog readjust to being around other dogs why would you not do that in what world do you think that's okay perhaps perhaps maybe he was fine like the dog attacked and bowser was shaken for a little bit but he was overall okay it's not the case with this they're about to tell you how bowser from that attack went off on a different tangent and they refused to do anything about it they just kept them and kept going about their life however they wanted to and just what did they just think that he would be cool and fine despite seeing that he wasn't like i don't understand that level of selfishness and ignorance is pretty astounding to me also there is footage of them teasing their dogs and using their dogs to tease the other dog and all of these very very terrible pet practices that they do regularly [Laughter] i have so little respect for these two and this is one of those instances that now they let their own ignorance go for too long and they ended up killing an animal needlessly because of their stupidity it's very unacceptable that was my opinion right now non-verbally we're all caught up let's go big turning point in bowser's personality so prior the attack bowser could go to dog parks bowser was just calmer in general and then after the attack it just triggered something in him and he was attacked by another bull terrier actually my parents old bull terrier um but it's it's it's something that can happen with the breed and so ever since then things really took a turn well i mean i don't need to get there's been multiple instances um but it's fun to see her do her whole shift around again that she's trying to talk in a very vulnerable way but as soon as she goes to take her cup of coffee which why on god's name are you drinking coffee throughout this video just put the cup down for a bit take a chill on drinking your coffee but you can see that she blanks checks to make sure that everything is okay and screen over there and then she tries to shift right back into oh i'm this very childlike vulnerable humble person which she is showing again and again and again that she's not let's continue um you know we've could have we could have put bowser down uh a really really long time ago i'm going to speak on his words what the appropriate thing is is we could have re-homed bowser a very very long time ago and gotten into somebody who cared about him and who knew how to be with him that's the appropriate words not this not we could have killed him a long time ago and now let's speak about her nonverbals because she's doing nonverbal displays while he's talking and her nonverbal displays are still very desynchronized and very stilted she's looking down regularly which could be seen as shame or sadness that breaking of eye contact you can also see via the overall tenseness of her face it's very relaxed which is also common in sadness but then she also has a sigh in there which is disjointed it's not really in relation to anything that's being said it's supposed to be in relation to what he's saying but it is disjointed from that so that's why it sounds forced and it comes across as fake because it's not genuine if she had genuinely felt the emotion that would invoke a sigh of exasperation or grief or disappointment or any of those emotions they would have happened as he's saying it because she feels the emotion he's speaking of and it happens and flows very naturally and synchronized instead she has a forced sigh forced sadness or disappointment or what have you in that emotional group while he's speaking of something that is absolutely fundamentally wrong fascinating uh and several times and i've just been putting the day off because you don't want to make that decision that's the thing yeah you don't want me i don't frankly care what they wanted in this and we've already established that she's faking all the emotional displays that she's giving us so far and still they put off putting him down it should never have been a consideration for them as soon as something went badly very early on like early on puppy stages as soon as he saw roughhousing should have been training and if that didn't work should have been re-homed that should have been the flow of things it should never have gotten to this point to where they could even consider putting him down but at the very early signs training and if that did not work if they weren't willing to put out the effort to train and take care of their dog they should have re-homed him to somebody who would but they didn't let's watch their nonverbal communication see what happens that decision yes he's he's uh seriously injured a couple different dogs including zoe this is a pretty big gesture this one here so it could be because he is fixing his mustache maybe it's itchy or uncomfortable or it's just a habit of his during a nervous period it could be any of those things i do find it interesting that he's mentioning some pretty problematic instances in bowser's timeline and he's doing another blocking gesture across his face which is in essence distancing or putting a barrier between him and whoever is perceiving him in this case the camera it's happened now it's four times earlier on it was scratches around the nose and now it's two of these in a row two of them all centered around bowser and some of the negative behaviors of bowser or the negative connotations of putting them down so this has now happened four times interesting this is starting to form a pattern standing right here had her stitched up a couple times but you know it's um he's such a powerful animal that just the tiniest fraction of a second of just a of a oops you know he doesn't mean it or like he snaps out of it and it's just it's not good it's so um they're not good just because the dog's powerful doesn't mean it couldn't have been the sweetest kindest and most gentle dog to everyone around it bull terriers are not bad dogs just like pit bulls are not bad dogs you're a bad parent for them if you can't handle that kind of dog do not get that dog because it'll end up something like this this joke they are a joke they are a joke it just got to a point to where um you know i had a son and it didn't work out for them are you not sure do you not want to serve as specific for that once logan got to the point of being able to do you not want to share the specifics of that which is her trying to take control of the narrative of this this is another instance of her possibly trying to control this entire situation and then it does a hard cut which i'm sure they're discussing it and then as it comes out it goes the direction that she wanted it to go and she does this weird kiss on the shoulder thing that doesn't fit in with anything as if she's trying to show that she's reassuring him but it comes across as strange and now she's disconnected again immediately from whatever fake emotion she was showing she's disconnected to drink her coffee which she won't put down and go and reference to see how the video looks more or less to see how they look on camera because that's her concern she wants to make sure that everybody's perceiving them the way that she wants them to be perceived and it's so frustrating none of this was about their terrible actions to bowser this is all just about them trying to figure out how to save some of their own bacon more or less because this was stupidity on their part and chances are they knew that they were going to get backlash for that so they tried to manipulate people into not getting backlash what crawl around and run around by himself oh and she's back in her sad state now that she's done sipping her latte i'm so so empathetic for that so just so you know many people are able to see a person and empathize if it's a genuine emotion not all people but many people can there are definitely exceptions to every rule but people who watched this didn't feel sympathetic or empathetic they didn't feel any of that emotional reciprocation that you would expect to feel in a genuine explanation or in instances that have genuine emotion the reason for that is because it's not it is very fake the emotional displays that they are giving are extremely fake they are based out of manipulation rather than genuine emotional displays that's why you don't feel their sadness you don't feel any pain because it's not existent for them all of their displays so far have been to try to get you to feel bad for them rather than you naturally feeling bad for them it's manipulation you know he's really grabby too he he grabbed onto bowser's ear and bowser didn't do anything you know he's he's that calm sounds like you also need to be able to build in some boundaries for your children i do not have kids so i'm not going to speak anymore on child raising on any level i do have three dogs and i have had a very long list of various pets while i was on the farm and boundaries are important for all animals all animals have boundaries the same that people have boundaries you have to figure out how to instill those boundaries and respect them for those animals or you will get lashouts that's not bad behavior on the on the animals part that's bad behavior on the person or other animal that's infringing on that animal's boundaries now there is training that can be done specifically say with dogs to be able to help them be better at managing boundaries doesn't sound like anything was being considered in regards to boundaries during this it kind of seems as if there are no boundaries set almost as if they are inept dog parents what a total shock gentle giant that lives in my house but you know logan got him so good that if you know what an mma fighter looks like or a wrestler they have that cauliflower earring just balloons up that's what happened to bowser's ear that's a very severe breach of that dog's boundary and they are extremely fortunate that he did not do anything back that is terrible boundary management by them oh my goodness to have that sort of torque on a puppy's ear on any animal's ear think of it on your own ear if something randomly that you did not expect just reached out and yanked on your ear so hard that it caused cauliflower ear which is caused by extreme duress on that ear your immediate response would be to push it away or hit it away or do anything to get it away that's your response as a human being who's supposed to have a very complex mind i question it in their case i questioned that complexity they are so fortunate that that dog didn't latch out naturally that is incredible this is just another instance of them being absolutely unprepared and unqualified for what situation they're in i i just can't i can't handle this you might have gotten a couple glimpses of it in a couple videos but um it fully ballooned up and it took about a month for it to go back down but now it's scarred a little bit and um you know hey just there was one incident that happened bowser got logan in the face and it actually happened 20 minutes before we okay so he's doing a lot of shrugging and shaking his head and tilting his head and it's all indicating insincerity or a lack of confidence in what he's saying something about that is making him feel insecure or he's not holding weight to his own words he doesn't have confidence here our question is what that is and why that is let's move on with some more of the science we were supposed to leave to the airport to go visit her parents so um obviously it wasn't bad so now we have another large mouth-blocking gesture like that that happened in regards to her parents so it's happened multiple times in negative situations with the dog and now another time here with the parents so my question would then be is this a response to negative emotion for him this mouth-blocking kind of gesture is that a negative stimulant reaction maybe this is how he displays discomfort with a certain situation interesting it is something that we're still gathering data on but logan still is um has a little mark he's still healing up from a little mark on his face from the bowser's little we call him his dolphin so so here we have some more manipulation for you they're talking about the dog that they intentionally killed and they they'll say later on that they had no choice and that's also not true but they're talking about the dog that they intentionally killed and he's talking about the teeth of the dog and she does this oh thing which is supposed to be like oh i really feel like i'm missing him that's the intention that she has for that but we know that so far all of the emotions that she's shown have been forced so if she's forcing the negative emotions then when this all comes in it comes across as even more manipulative because we know from prior evidence that she's not feeling that emotion so she continues throughout this video to pile and pile and pile fake emotion onto this situation and it comes across as so overtly manipulative to her audience and to the internet and to whoever else that they brought into this scenario that it's disgusting it's genuinely disgusting let's keep watching and it happened in a way that like i mean it almost it almost doesn't matter because the end result was the same but in the spirit of telling the story it wasn't like bowser attacked logan just like you said it was like i need you to make note of that she says it wasn't like bowser attacked logan and it's a very intentional wording very intentional sidestep that she did where she wanted to get this communicated it wasn't in flow with anything so it's very intentional she intentionally went out of her way to say this this is possible perception management she wants you to know that she thinks that it wasn't an attack later on she contradicts that they defensive yeah they logan tried to take food from him sorry to close the window yeah it happened in they had to close the window and of course she also had to grab her coffee again because god forbid she went for a few minutes without drinking her coffee why did they leave this in here why did they leave that entire deal in there what was the point of that that's my question for most of this but why anyway let's continue a moment where logan stole food from him and you know really got in the mix like that lady said you're always waiting for the worst thing to happen and eventually it's like is it gonna get to a point to where um someone else has to put him down or i'm forced to do it because of something that horrible so that puts into perspective they did not have to put bowser down they could have re-homed him they should have re-homed him they did not have to kill him they chose to kill him that detail alone is extremely telling and that really puts into perspective everything else that we've seen that in fact everything that we're seeing as far as the regret or the disappointment and how forced everything feels is because it is indeed forced they're acting as if they had no choice in this matter that they had to put him down that they were required to and it simply was not true what happened um yeah well a cup can i sorry do you look like you're about to go into something no go ahead i was gonna say uh two things one so i mean geez i have so many thoughts around this as you guys know we're getting ready to move and um we haven't said where so if you're like where are you moving it's because we haven't said it yet but you know we weren't she's very concerned exclusively of what people think about her exclusively that's her drive is she wants she loves to get this attention during this video which should be exclusively about them talking about their failures as a dog parent even honestly this video should never have happened because this situation should never have come up so this video is appropriate to their own ignorance but she is so extremely self-centered all that she cares is about how you perceive her and that you like her that's all that she wants that's that's not cool to put it simple that's that's disgusting it's extremely disgusting because they kill the dog they willingly killed a dog who had every opportunity to be a brilliant dog to anybody but their own dumb asses and she's concerned about oh well you might ask about our move because we're moving and i need to check every five minutes to see if i look pretty in the frame and i'm going to force all of these really over the top ridiculous emotions so that you feel bad for me so that i can get more attention sure what was going to happen with bowser because every time we move with bowser it is hard because he is basically special needs like he said so there's a lot that goes into transporting bowser and even picking a new home for bowser like there's a lot to consider in that and so it was really like it was weird to have him attack logan you know right before we're going to different places to possibly look to move and this but this was not what we expected so the way this unfolded and what he mentioned about the comment waiting for the next fight so i'm going to talk about some verbal patterning here because she almost gives herself away almost gives away their idea their mindset in regards to this they have talked about how they were preparing for this they could have put them down ages ago blah blah blah and then you can tell that it was getting to a point that they were going to put him down because she says it was weird that just before we move which they mentioned was difficult because they're terrible dog owners before we move that he also bites logan so in that phrasing with that line of thought the carryout from that is that everything aligned for us to put him down that's what that was going towards they were heading straight towards that direction and it's almost like she caught herself knowing that that's a horrible thing to say and do and then she tries to steer away from it real suddenly by just dropping that sentence and going elsewhere but that's what the logical progression of that was is that all of the circumstances culminated to this event for them this was a relief to them they were planning this they've shown that through their subliminal messaging through their words of showing their own intentions throughout this that this was something that came as a relief to them they finally had all the circumstances right to kill their dog that's horrible and to be clear i don't know exactly what dan's emotion is on it he's fairly detached he's not showing too much emotion on any level but she's doing some very overt forced emotions a lot of perception management and some dominating gestures that really kind of give a dynamic to their relationship now i don't know what their relationship is because i don't follow them in any way i have no interest in following them in any way but from this little blip that i've seen she seems to be the one that's calling the shots here all the way around we actually attempted to rehome bowser because like we said we know that i mean he he's our little like clown he was our clown angel like i i don't it's sorry if i'm awkward we're sorry too nikki so she has some jolts in between her emotional states here and it's another indicator for a fake forced emotion she goes from fairly neutral to i'm playful and funny to i shouldn't be playful and funny because of the situation that i'm in and talking a little bit about psychology and emotional responses to trauma or sadness and grief there's no normal way of responding to trauma everybody has their own unique processing methods minds are very complicated things so the body language and the displays of what's processing in the mind is going to be varied at best the only reason that this is an exception is because it's showing a pattern it has shown a regular pattern that has been seen and has been studied and has been proven to show that she is not genuine there's a difference between those two had everything been synchronized before had everything gone naturally and had a normal flow to things and she had behaved as she normally can and does then that would have been one thing during the situation none of that was true and to simply put it with emotional states they do not hard crash into each other like this on a regular basis there are always exceptions obviously but this is not the statistical normal way that emotions display they have a profile they have an onset a peak and an offset it happens every time so the only times that it has been seen to not happen that way despite some rare occasions are when they're being forced by somebody who's bad at acting specifically when they're being forced into various areas that's where we see these hard crashes and that's what we're seeing from her is forced fake emotion the only thing she cares about here is your perception of her and she will manipulate the living daylights out of you to get you to sympathize empathize and like her in this i'm done analyzing this i know that you might want to see more than the 11 minutes of theirs that i analyzed but i cannot do more i'm so fed up with them i'll tell you the scientific part first and then i will tell you my opinion so that you can see what the science of nonverbal communication says as opposed to how it can be interpreted the science of nonverbal communication during this time showed forced emotion this was due to the profiles of the emotion the timing that they lasted and the desynchronization both in the individuals themselves and between each other as one would be displaying one emotion the other would be emoting differently or out of sync with that and it shows that it's forced and calculated everything that they were showing was thought about before delivery it wasn't a natural flow from an actual emotive place in their mindset it was fake from my own personal side of things they're trash they're terrible and this is not uncommon for people to get a puppy that they think they can then take care of and then it doesn't go well and then they just instead of rehoming the dog they keep it and try to just manage it into a different corner that it doesn't belong in and it always ends up poorly and always ends up poorly for the dog now this can't happen and it can be handled correctly for instance i got a dog a while ago that was a mix between a pug and a cocker spaniel right very sweet puppy we were told that she was going to be really relaxed and all the research that we did said that she would bite on to the energy of the owners and kind of match what their energy level are well me and my wife are not overly energetic people so we were hoping the pug side and maybe that ability to adapt would kick in she did not she had astounding amounts of energy extremely lovable sweet kind puppy that we did not have the means to take care of so immediately as quickly as we could we found a good solution and it was to let her play at my parents farm they have 40 acres so now that puppy who is a fantastic dog who if we had kept would have developed behavioral issues would have lashed out to other humans and other pets because of sheer energy requirements she now runs happily almost all day chasing birds out on a 40-acre farm with other animals other dogs to be able to keep her happy and keep her company that's how you can take care of a dog that you know you can't take care of because accidents can happen you can accidentally bite off more than you can chew as long as you realize that and do what's best for that dog that's not what they did instead of recognizing that early on and instead of being responsible and giving the dog the life it deserved they tortured it for almost a decade before they killed it no it's not okay it is simply not okay it's there's no excuse for their behavior so this explanation this was nothing to try to help you understand the situation this was only focused on getting you to sympathize and empathize and like them it was purely based out of manipulation their nonverbal communication showed that their emotional displays were fake the logical processing outside of that and considering the context of everything allow us to go to the conclusion that they are manipulating their audiences because they have been terrible dog parents and they still expect and want you to like them for it now nikki and dan if you're watching this get over yourself and think about what you have done think about it think about what you did to that poor dog anyway i'm not going to say all my normal stuff at the end of this i don't feel like it's fitting so that's all that i've got for the day my name is logan and you have been oh so awesome as you always are and i will see you in the next video cheers guys

Channel: Observe

Views: 573,396

Keywords: Logan Portenier, Observe, Mentalist, Lie to Me, body language, nonverbal, psychology, React, Analysis, lying, detection, reading, behavior

Id: zFYiHrDikXs

Length: 48min 34sec (2914 seconds)

Published: Sat May 08 2021