My boyfriend took it off on purpose when we had our first…

hello everyone my name's ruby have you ever heard trust everyone but always cut the cards recently i've been convinced that it all works like this in real life i trusted someone who was close to me not even thinking he could ever deceive or betray me but he had his own opinion on this point and his own plans for my life how did it happen i'm gonna tell you today make sure you watch this video to the end and don't forget about likes when i turned 16 my friends and i decided to celebrate my birthday party in a nightclub we were already big girls so we can afford to have fun the way we wanted of course most clubs are open for people from 18. some are even allowed only for customers from 21 but we had our shortcut so to speak my best friend's older brother worked as a security guard at one of the nightclubs after a long negotiation he agreed to let us in this event was a real adventure besides that weekend my parents happened to visit my grandma who lived in the neighboring city so our house was at my complete disposal the girls and i gathered in my room we did some makeup hair and chose outfits we had to make sure we looked older than our age and that no one would question us especially the club's employees when we got ready we walked to the club across the city attracting guys looks and attention we knew we would definitely remember this evening for a long time my friend's brother easily led us into the club he later said we had done a great job he didn't believe we were 16 year old school girls instead he thought we were a group of students and we were like 19 to 20 years old since we were all in the club for the first time in our lives we were literally amazed and surprised by everything a huge dance floor a bar where they prepared alcoholic cocktails for us without asking any questions and we saw a lot of positive people dancing everywhere and enjoying the party anyway it was really cool after a couple of cocktails we caught the vibe and went dancing we quickly joined the crowd we even had a group of very attractive guys gathered around us none of us had boyfriends so we were more than happy with such a thing we decided to get whatever we wanted from this night and even more at some point i got tired of dancing and went to the bar to drink something cool almost immediately a nice young man sat down with me and offered to buy me a cocktail i liked him at first sight so i didn't mind when he suggested we get to know each other better mike and that was his name i was a student at a technical college now he was relaxing at the nightclub with his friends and we started talking and then we were on the dance floor together hugging each other not noticing anyone around us my friends even envied me this was my first trip to a nightclub and i'd already found such a cool guy of course at that time mike wasn't my boyfriend yet we exchanged phone numbers and agreed to go out together later might kiss me goodbye and it wasn't a light kiss on the cheek but a real passionate french kiss by the way my first kiss that moment i felt this was the greatest gift for my 16th birthday by the way i didn't tell mike about my real age i was afraid it would scare him away because he looked at least 20. i decided that i would surprise him on our first date or maybe after a month when he would already be madly in love with me and wouldn't leave after such a revelation and the next day i waited for a call or message of course it was possible mike just had fun with me that night and then forgot about me but somehow i thought he really liked me in the evening he called me and asked me out to have a cup of coffee together of course i didn't have as much makeup as i did at the club so mike asked me laughing how old i really was right away i had to confess i was 16 and i was still in high school i was worried he'd get angry and turn away but mike just laughed and said oops i guess i'm in trouble young lady that night mike took me home we stood next to my door mike asked me to be his girlfriend and of course i agreed i was so happy i still remember the first months of our relationship as the happiest time of my life mike was just the perfect boyfriend he gave me flowers took me to different cafes met me after school took me out of town on weekends to go horseback riding he introduced me to all of his friends who welcomed me very warmly into their company this was my first relationship maybe that's why everything that happened seemed like a real fairy tale to me i thought mike was the best guy in the world and i got so lucky in my life i was so happy i had him of course mike had some flaws too but i didn't notice them at first yeah he was very jealous but i just thought it was the way he showed his love for me and appreciated me mike always wondered where i was and who i was with when we weren't together he jokingly checked my social media and messages and he would call me several times if i said i was hanging out with my friends my friend said it looked like he didn't trust me or suspected me of something but i thought my mic was just very caring constantly thinking about me and worrying about me now i realize i was just wearing rose-colored glasses and i didn't see the obvious things the first serious conflict because of his jealousy happened to us after six months of our relationship i went with a school group to a neighboring city for the weekend we had a tour and we wanted to visit several museums and galleries in one of our common photos my classmate steve who i had known since i was a little kid put his arm around my shoulder this was just a friendly gesture why many people have such photos with their friends don't they one of my friends posted this common photo on instagram tagging me i foolishly made a repost to my account angry mike called me right away demanding to know who the guy next to me was and why we were hugging i didn't understand why he was talking to me like that and i calmly replied this was my classmate i'd been friends with him since we were kids so he put an arm around my shoulder apparently mike didn't think it was a good point because he started shouting saying that we should have a serious talk when i got back then he hung up well maybe he just got up on the wrong side of the bed that's what i thought making a fight out of nothing wasn't common in our relationship so i was very worried when i came back from a trip and saw mike's car outside my house that day he yelled at me a lot accusing me of being approachable with other guys even though i had a boyfriend he said i've undermined his trust and he doesn't even want to imagine what else i did behind his back his words hurt me and i knew he was just driven by his emotions not his mind but i couldn't calm him down only when i started crying mike realized he'd gone too far he hugged me stopped screaming apologized and said that he was just really afraid of losing me or that someone would take me away from him i called him stupid of course because i couldn't even imagine anyone else around me we made up and went home to settle down and the next day mike surprised me again he said he'd been thinking all night about what had happened and he said i could find another boyfriend as mike said the reason was too obvious we'd been dating for more than six months already and we still hadn't been intimate i must admit this topic was very embarrassing for me like i said i didn't have any relationships before mike so i didn't have any intimacy experience yes i wanted him to be my first and only boyfriend but i wasn't prepared for it to happen so quickly i shared this situation with my friends and they said physical intimacy with a girl is very important for any guy so this may be the reason for mike's stupid behavior anyway i decided that if going to the next level of our relationship would help then i'm ready moreover i loved mike i trusted him and i was sure my first time with him would be perfect when i informed him of my decision he was very happy he said he'd take care of everything i told my parents i was going to spend the weekend at my friends of course they knew i had a boyfriend but i hadn't introduced them to mike yet i was afraid of their reaction to the fact he was almost five years older than me i was your dad would definitely want to have a serious conversation with him anyway i talked to my parents and i was getting ready to spend the weekend with mike just him and me i was so excited we would spend two whole days as a real couple living together but despite my joy i was still a little worried after all this was my first time i read a lot of things on the internet about it but i didn't understand should i worry or not after all mike promised me he would take control of everything we had a romantic evening with dinner and music and then we moved smoothly into the bedroom at that moment i wasn't worried because i was sure that everything would go well this is my mic he won't hurt me when we got to the main point just in case i asked mike if he had taken care of protection after all i hadn't heard him open a foil bag he mumbled something quickly but i took his answer for a positive one so i calmed down after all i thought he knew perfectly well it was too early for me to become a mother at least i should finish school first since it was my first time i didn't feel like i knew something was wrong and i wasn't up to it my heart was pounding like crazy it seemed to me that at any moment i would lose consciousness from the excitement and other emotions at night when i got up to drink some water i tripped over something slippery when i picked it up i realized it was a condom but it wasn't used i immediately woke mike up and demanded an explanation he said he hadn't worn it if i had been more careful then i would have known right away that something was wrong and i was feeling something i shouldn't be feeling mike didn't deny it and admitted the truth he didn't have any protection but he just justified himself by the fact that he was allergic to the material they were made of so he didn't use it when i asked him why he didn't tell me about it in advance he only said he was embarrassed to talk about it i woke up in the morning with only one thought and this wasn't about the wonderful night i had but what terrible consequences there could be what if i got pregnant can i get pregnant after the first time google didn't give any clear answer maybe maybe i got pregnant there's a high chance and it doesn't matter whether it's the first time the second time or the 100th whatever i didn't even want to talk to mike about it he tried to apologize and when he realized everything was no use he left the apartment i was afraid he was offended too but after a while mike came back with flowers and pills from the drugstore it was so awkward but very romantic he explained they were special pills birth control pills if you take them regularly they'd stop a pregnancy i was very grateful to mike for finding a solution to the problem and for taking care of me after all we made up and spent the rest of the weekend in bed making love everything was just fine i was happy enjoying my life and my relationship but it didn't last long of course i thought that sooner or later i would have to tell my parents about mike and that we already had sex but i wanted to tell them this thing by myself i just wanted to talk peacefully to my mom and dad but things worked out in a different way anyway one day my mom was cleaning up my room she accidentally dropped the backpack i usually carry to school my notebooks some personal belongings and my pills started falling out of my backpack and now the million-dollar question which one of these things interested my mom most of course not my pencil case with some colorful things but the bottle of pills i wish you'd never see a face like hers in your entire life i was just about to explain everything but then my mom asked me a very unexpected question ruby you want to get pregnant i didn't understand what the heck she was saying my mom replied these pills were in fact vitamins for improving the state of the reproductive system and helping with pregnancy i didn't know what was going on so all this time mike was tricking me and instead of taking birth control pills i was taking pregnancy vitamins what a lot of crap i burst into tears and told my mom the whole story mike our first time together how he taken off the condom and how he'd lied to me about the pills of course my mom was shocked she was afraid for me because if we did it without any protection and i even took these stupid vitamins then there's a high chance of getting pregnant i was really scared i immediately called mike and invited him to our house face to face so to speak i couldn't believe my dear boyfriend who i trusted so much was deceiving me and most important why of course mike didn't expect i would meet him alone but with my mom so i was even a little confused when i put a bottle of vitamins in front of him and asked him why he did it he didn't immediately know what to say and then he explained he was so afraid of losing me he wanted to get me pregnant and then i would definitely stay with him forever because no one else needed a young girl with a kid i started crying i couldn't even find the words to answer mike how could he do this to me of course i immediately said we were breaking up and kicked him out of the house i was very hurt but i wasn't going to forgive such a thing a week later i noticed i had a delay in my period of course nothing good came to mind so i asked my mom to take me to the hospital i was ready to hear the fateful diagnosis you're pregnant but the doctor examined me and said most likely it was caused by stress and i wasn't pregnant no words can describe how happy i was at that moment of course it's wonderful to have kids one day i would definitely have one or two of them but being a mommy at 16 is not cool at all mike later apologized he asked me to forgive him for a long time he said he wanted me back but i decided i would never be able to trust this person again so we stopped communicating would you be able to forgive the deception of your loved one what would you do in my shoes write your answers in the comments below make sure you click the like button to this video don't forget to subscribe to the channel because there's a lot of interesting stories waiting for you ahead click the bell button to turn on notifications see you soon bye

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Published: Fri Mar 19 2021