Motivational Speaker - Divorce Recovery

[Music] grandma remembered are you doing grandma baby I mean for you right now to go around here and I need for you right now right now to go around here and you unplug everything every plug so what are you talking about she said baby I'm scared of a storm yeah baby I can smell the stuff what does it smell like grandma does it smell like your grandpa it does this smell like your macaroni cheese that's what you're talking about grandma I thought my grandma was chipping she said she said baby listen to me she sounds scared of a storm and I can smell a storm coming and I hope and pray that when you give my age that you don't go through the storm that I've been through in my life and so at this time I'm listening to my grandmother I'm actually dating somebody and so I'm dating this dude and I'm loving his swag I'm loving everything about him I love this man from the top of his head to the bottom of his feet and I served my man it meant and so when I'm dating this dude like I'm loving his groove I'm loving his his grind like it takes a really nice man to meet my grind because I grind seven years we date and then he says I want to marry you and so we get married I love it marriage goes very well for a great amount of time and then I notice a shift starts to happen and so there's three things that happen and I notice this shift so the first thing is the communication starts breaking down next thing I know we ain't talking about Jack we're not praying together before we go to bed we're not going different places together we're not talking about doing anything we're not spending time together next thing I know jealousy creeps his head in the door and I'll be honest with you that jealousy came straight from me it wasn't him because he when the communication start breaking down I started thinking other things if you know what I mean and I started noticing my shift and soon when that shift started happening I started thinking it's just a storm the grandma was talking about it didn't smell like bread pudding didn't smell like her macaroni she signed me for you to hear me on that didn't smell like that it smelled like a little bit of pain it started smelling like a little bit of heartache okay and so I started saying okay something's not working all of a sudden I hear I'm talking to him on the phone in the tone of the conversation begins to change and I say that infamous question that most of us women we know the answer but we don't want to hear him I said do you want a divorce and he said yes and he leaves me and when he left all of me broke down all of me now I have multiple sclerosis I used to be blind and unable to walk a divorce process with this was ten times worse than being blind and unable to walk Phil that ten times worse and so was I look into this I say again I can smell the stuff my grandmother was talking about now I smell it and as I'm smelling it it's getting a little bit worse and so I said okay I jump in my car because at this point I've gone through so many other storms and at this time I jump in my car I pretend the garage door and I turn on the ignition and at this moment I said okay god I'm tired and I'm done of the storm I know but grandmother was talking about I turn it on I can smell the fumes coming in the car and at that moment God says Shelley it's not your time I got things for you to do I get things for you to do I get it's not dog time it's okay god I got it what you want me to do he said look I'm gonna put some Melinda in your life and I was like Linda I mean every lady right now just to stand up wherever you are right now right now if you were real quick real quick and I want every lady if your name is Linda I want you to remain standing if your name is Linda remain standing if your name is Linda so know Linda's here right all right and so God tested me I'm gonna bring a Linda into your life and I said God what is the Linda he said of Linda if someone is so powerful so mighty so positive this is a woman that's going to support you and love you they're gonna be there for you as you going through this see Linda is an acronym and he said that L stands for led by the Holy Spirit she said that I is I give mentality meaning the woman he's gonna put in my life has a giving spirit she serves she is there she is gonna serve she's gonna give she gives up her time her ties her money her community everything she gives it's okay god I got he said well the N stands for negativity is my kryptonite feel that meaning every woman he's gonna put in my life if she gossip that she's negative shame for me fill me Lynette ladies shame from me and so the day is for death do us part except Father God put his dad that sounds like what I went through that marriage thing death there was heart I remember those words he's and I ain't talking about that death was part mean i'ma find you some writer that six that's competing for you that will support you that's gonna love you unconditionally when you need to call somebody at two and three o'clock in the morning and pray with you they there for you that's okay god I got it he said that a is for accountability he said you're gonna need somebody to check you Shelly and you're gonna have to check them so I got the problem that god countability is my thing okay and so ladies I need for you to understand that if you're going through a divorce if you're going through some serious situations if you're going through some financial hardships if you're going through some issues if you're going to grab my stone you need some powerful women in your life powerful and so when God did this he placed two powerful women in my life and these two ladies prayed me back to life [Music] pay you back the next thing I know he brings in some other women and then he takes and does the ultimate gives me a hundred and twenty five women and we called them the lady lions prayer warriors and that's okay God he said look Shelley I'm gonna have to do this I'm gonna empower you to empower other women I need for you to show them their grand my storm smell like show them prove to them and then you teach them how to get through the storm not only teach them but smile through that storm forget you God so I invite you if you need to know how to smile through the storm I'm the chick to get you through so my time is up but the name is Shelley Shelton but I got one more thing I need for every Linda to now stand up Thanks [Music] you

Channel: Shelly Shelton

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Length: 8min 30sec (510 seconds)

Published: Tue Oct 24 2017