most shocking loss of his life

and I I trust every word of it I know for a fact that he's a good person he got called for a ticket to go to a room to fix the TV three women are in the room they're doing their own thing and he's like okay he grabs the nightstand and and pulls it back to kind of like look behind the TV and he notices a 100 bill that's like crumpled up fully Dusty and he's like oh this is probably left here from patrons from 84. see what he grabs and puts it in his pocket with the intention of taking it to the lobby to like turn it into the lost and found and then one of the women goes hey what did you do and he goes uh I just grabbed this I took this and it was money 100 bucks guests that were in the room are like hey that's ours you're stealing from us and they they went from like zero to a hundred super quickly it's very obvious that the money like wasn't theirs because it was so tucked away he was like uh okay here gives it to him and they like kick him out and in his mind he's like those women just like stole 100 bucks I know it wasn't theirs and so he goes on with his day but he gets called into the manager's office the next day apparently the women complained about him stealing and he's like no and he tells the story exactly what I just told you he tells his manager they uh put him on like a leave of absence for two weeks and he's all pissed because he's like this is not my fault I didn't do anything wrong my mom's consoling him it's like ah it's fine it'll be okay you'll go to work soon I don't care about bleeping because I want to [ __ ] talk the company but he worked at Marriott the Hotel chain Marriott does this thing where after 25 years if you work there then you get free hotels for life so that was his only goal I'm gonna stick with this company be here for a long time I'm going to retire and then I'm gonna live out the rest of however many years I have left and he was stoked to get there since day one of working there he was he was just counting down to the days until retirement two weeks pass and he gets a he gets a call from work and they fire him over the phone after he had been there for 24 years he was a year away from from being there for 25. and they fire him over the phone and he took his life uh almost immediately after um I don't know I don't know how he did it um I didn't really ask but um that is how we passed um which is really unfortunate my mom wasn't home at the time so like she couldn't be there I don't like thinking about what was going through his head um but I know it I know it was an act of desperation I guess I don't think my dad was depressed or had depression maybe an event like that could have triggered um a suicide but no I just think it was he didn't want to want to figure out life because that was his only life that was like his his entire adulthood for the most part was working for this company he was slogging away and then they just they can him in a [ __ ] instant he's a perfect employee too it's just you get to 62 after breaking your back support a family and support yourself and then you're like I have to keep going ugh no I I think that's what was going through his head it was like an hour until I was off work and then I just you know see my see my phone as my sister calling a couple times then sending a text to that says please call me but then finally I get off work and she texts me you need to call me right now and she says hey uh are you alone um I said no I'm I'm on the bus right now and she says okay call me when you're alone get home and I call her I Can Tell She's choking up and and like has something to say she gets kind of quiet I go what's up and she just says like very very flatly dad's gone and that's that's how I found out we didn't know the whole drive down how he had passed my mom told uh told us the story the full story she did like a bunch of a bunch a bunch of work to try and talk to lawyers and whatnot about whether or not it was like age discrimination if they were just firing somebody that was like nearing retirement and they didn't want to deal with that or if it was you know like wrongful wrongful termination I'm really really angry about it but I just like don't have the means to to fight that and and none of us did Marriott has a [ __ ] ton of lawyers they could run us into the ground with with fees and whatnot so like just nothing came of it I know my mom uh settled uh at a court but it wasn't I'm even pissed off about that because it's just like no [ __ ] Justice from it nothing it's just he's gone and then that's it nothing changed at all other than a bunch of people are sad I wish I could have done something but I I don't know he didn't even steal it like that's the worst [ __ ] part what the hell that's a good dinner really frustrating I remember being so angry from how [ __ ] pointless it all was and now I don't get to joke with my dad sucks I miss him a lot best memory is a recent one it was the last time that I saw him right as I got the Hopkins job my Hospital job I've been kind of aimless for the last 10 years figuring out what do I want to do with life and whatnot but then I got this job and was just like [ __ ] elated I was so happy it finally finally figured out what I want to do and I've just been very happy since then went down over the summer 2021 it was July I was like you know say clerky you know clerky um I've seen that that you've kind of been struggling in adulthood to like figure out figure out what to do and and [ __ ] pay rent and whatnot I just got to tell you like I've I felt so helpless I'm like all I want to do is is just figure out the answer and provide help to you so that you can you can you know be on your own two feet and now that you've gotten this job it's just it's made me feel so good to to see how happy you are and and you know finally finally taking care of yourself and and that was that was super super awesome to hear I'm very glad that was um that was a memory that we shared together uh the last time that I saw him it was it was a good one I know he wanted to be there just like in general but we grew up not not poor but like I grew up in a trailer and then from there we moved to a farm that we rented he worked really really hard to give my family a living it was just hard they worked a ton and you've got these kids that are like pining for you right uh and then you just can't give them the time that led to a lot of uh exploring the barn and The Silo seeing him at all of my like track meets and baseball games I think he really went out of his way to make sure to show up to all of them uh just because he knew how much that meant to me he taught me how to shave that was a good one that was a very funny funny experience we never had it was so it was the first time like we had done like a typical father-son thing we never had the talk we never I don't know talked about things that were like really true life we didn't talk about religion we didn't talk we were just very goofy like surface level people um and I was I was fine with this you know um I'm glad to have had had that but very very few like deep conversations I remember being like all right well I need to learn how to shave this is I know a typical like very father-son close thing for people to do and he recognized that as well and like oh man we never do stuff like that it's sitting there like learning from him how to shave and then as soon as I like figured out the whole process I just wanted him to leave I was like no no get out of here all right we're too close too close and he was like all right and then I was in the bathroom for like two hours getting every single hair he was like hey you're all right in there I'm like oh yeah I'm fine leave me alone I don't know it was very goofy in my mind without a doubt in my mind I am the culmination of my dad's personality and traits I am my Father's son wholeheartedly my personality the jokes that I make the things that I'm interested in I'm extremely grateful for that he was the best person he was so good kind to people he cared about everyone he worked hard for the people that you know were close to him my my desire for to leave this world better than when I got here is from him I know that for a fact there was a co-worker that like didn't speak very much English he was like teaching him English slowly but surely he'd like write a word for uh this guy to take home and kind of learn while they were working they would practice English and this guy told me you know that he was so thankful and I was like yep that sounds like my dad does not surprise me at all for him to be thoughtful in that way he had typical dad jokes at like restaurants and whatnot I know he did that because he just wants to make people laugh a person smiling is is better than anything he'd finish the plate and go can I get a box like dad stopped that's embarrassing I stayed stayed really positive and just kept kept focusing on the on the really really good aspects of my relationship with him and our last moments together like I told you about I am so incredibly thankful that he was in my life I just really really really really zeroed in on on thinking about the good stuff our family got disjointed um as a result I haven't talked to my sister in a year and a half her and my mom had like a really big falling out my mom called me crying my sister complained a lot about hey growing up kind of sucked it's a much more adult to adult relationship between me and me and my mom she just like is not good with kids not a good Guardian I guess a lot of stuff I had to learn on my own she always went to yelling first and that just I don't know made me resent her a lot I just don't think they were ready to to be parents and I wish I wish they would have had kids at a time when they could have like really really supported them I'm not one of those people to man all my problems parents like I I am in control of my life 100 percent um but but I mean you can't well I don't say you can't but Woulda Shoulda could us for all that stuff um and my sister was like very pointed about it was like it's your fault Mom you did this and you did this and clarky feels the exact same way I was like what the [ __ ] don't throw me under the bus um I was I was so annoyed I was like why would you do that like yes it's all true but like my mom called me crying like asking me like do you feel this way and I was like I want to [ __ ] talk about that I said my mom like once a year and she tries to tries to get into deeper conversations of like you know if only your dad were here and no Mom stop like please her sister and Mom had that falling out like really really big argument and then my sister just like left the house and turned her phone off changed her number everything it was really really big and then she tried texting me one time my sister just didn't handle my dad dying very well I mean she was just like kind of an [ __ ] understandably like I know it's a [ __ ] ton to deal with but she just wasn't nice I'm not gonna try to extend and maintain that relationship one if she doesn't want it two oops or did I learn how to twist foreign it's on her she's got to apologize for like being a d-bag I don't know what else to say I played a [ __ ] ton of Street Fighter too with my dad actually he played as M bison and then I would play as as stalem I think with the stretchy arms I have memories of him in my life and I'm so glad that I have those memories he was such an amazing [ __ ] person and I know not many people think about him now I I hope people that were he was in people's lives I hope they think about him but I don't know I I just I really wanted to do this because I want my dad to look like be immortalized in some way you know I want him to exist out in the world more um and I love thinking about it I love talking about him and that's you know kind of what why I wanted to do this and I really appreciate you letting me um it's it's very cathartic if you could tell everybody in the world one thing what would it be it would be let people take care of you I think that is a crucial thing that a lot of people don't do they don't let friends into their lives or they don't let people take care of them for for whatever fear of just like being a burden get rid of those feelings people want to be nice to you I truly think like The Human Condition is is to be a kind person and people want to do that for you too um so let them and I guarantee your life will be better laughs wholeheartedly [Music]

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Published: Mon Jun 19 2023