Mean KARENS Falsely ACCUSE Good People, They Live To Regret It PT 2 | Dhar Mann

hey honey how was your first day i see you made a new friend this is jess is it okay if she comes over later uh sure i mean as long as your mom is hey sweetheart oh my goodness i missed you too excuse me are you her nanny um no why uh are you the babysitter or the maid how do you know this girl well if you really have to know she's my daughter come on sweetheart let's go listen you can talk to me do you know where your mom is did you not just hear me i just said i'm her mom i adopted her unless you've got some paperwork to convince me this girl isn't going anywhere security come quick is there a problem this woman is trying to kidnap this girl wow uh you know you really shouldn't be so quick to judge come on sweetheart let's go no i'm sorry i can't let you leave [Music] what's your name it's jess jess smith okay and what's your name ma'am i cannot believe this is happening again i am so sorry sweetie it's ebony ebony jones see they don't even have the same last name how could she be her mother she is clearly lying i just told you that i adopted her smith is her birth name oh you gotta do something well do you have any photo identification i mean you see my photo right there isn't that enough fine here now can i take my daughter home okay uh sorry for the mix-up you're good to go oh she's the legal guardian have a nice day oh that's unfortunate excuse me i was just saying that's unfortunate that jess got adopted by you she belongs in a white family she would be loved more by her own people you know i don't know about you but in my household love has no color and nothing has stopped me from loving just as my own child you see earlier you asked me if i was just as nanny well i was and more just as mom and i were good friends and i looked after just like she was my own child and that's why her mom loved me so much little did i know that jess's mom was hiding a secret i'll never forget the day that she told me she had been battling cancer for months and only had a few weeks left to live all i could do was cry the next morning [Music] as i sat there still in shock from the news just as mom came to me and asked me to make one of the hardest decisions that i would ever have to make in my life she asked me if i would take care of jess after she was gone i thought for a second knowing the challenges that i would face as a black mom raising a white baby but knowing it was the right thing to do i said yes [Music] so you see may not be the same color as jess but that does not mean that i have loved her any differently don't cry mom i love you so much i love you too sweetheart wait i am so sorry for everything you sound like such a great mom and i i'm so sorry that i judged you you were right love has no color can you please please forgive me okay and honestly this happens to us all the time it's hard and it hurts so we appreciate your apology does this mean jess can still come over later only if ebony promises to come too we would love to have you both over for dinner please mom can we go sure honey [Music] i'm gonna sing me too that's so crazy i hope they accept amber what do you think you're doing hey principal adams what do you mean your shorts they violate the school dress code no they don't how so let me have this put your arms down straight aha your hands reach further than your shorts oh well not just because i have long arms oh i don't want to hear any excuses take this i'm writing you up what no she can't help it if she has long arms it doesn't matter girls rules are rules but what about him his arms are clearly longer than his shorts his shorts are not creating a distraction to learning yours are just because i'm a girl that makes what i wear a distraction that's not fair oh my amber life is not fair do more of these and you'll be suspended you can't be serious over my shorts that's insane our dress code doesn't even make any sense yeah someone should really look into it hmm maybe you're right hey dad hey alex hey how you doing i'm good what do you think you're doing i'm just walking to class why not with that tank top on you're not what what do you mean it is clearly against the dress code girls are not allowed to wear straps that are less than three fingers wide this is not allowed i don't see a problem with what she's wearing yeah i mean we wear shirts like that all the time look less than three fingers i said girls cannot wear straps like this did you hear me say boys but why should a dress code only apply to the girls and not the boys i am not going to keep explaining this to you amber ted and alex's shoulders are not distracting yours are hurts aren't distracting at all yeah i never would have even noticed them if you hadn't said something stay out of this i'm going to write you up again what no how does it make sense that girl should get punished because some boys get distracted so easily shouldn't she be talking to the boys then and not the girls enough this is strike two now hurry up and go home and change your clothes i don't want to have to give you a late violation also it's fine i have a jacket in my backpack i'll just put it on over my shirt even though it's 100 degrees outside good much better but it still doesn't get you out of this hey i'm really starting to go through all of that literally makes no sense the school dress code is so outdated it's a good thing i have a plan to change it [Music] that's the test you girls won't believe what i found what's up i've been doing some research and it turns out the school dress code was written in 1919. no wonder it's so out of touch with reality exactly and i've got a lot of other facts about why needs to change too i made a little presentation you see it hello students i have an important announcement to make next week the superintendent is coming and i want to make a great impression that is why i put together this oh you can put it right over here thank you i have put together a short video about the dress code requirements so that everybody follows them principal adams i have a question what's the point following a dress code if it's so out of date yeah amber did some research and found out it was written over a hundred years ago she did okay well then great amber will have no problems following everything in this video drop your hands pull repeat after me i will not wear short shorts i will not wear short shorts i will not show my shoulders i will not show my shoulders i will not wear yoga pants i will not wear yoga pants again i will not wear short shorts i will not shove my shoulders i will not wear yoga pants louder one more time i hope this video makes the dress code requirements crystal clear i'm confused all it shows what the girls can't wear what about the boys the boys don't have a problem following the rules it's the girls i'm worried about but that's because they don't have any rules to follow you know you have a lot of nerve talking back to me amber especially since you're on the verge of being suspended now is there anything else you'd like to say that's what i thought now as i was saying this isn't fair what did you say i said the school dress code isn't fair i've done a lot of research and i put together this presentation you see first off it's out of touch in reality the dress code was written in 1919. you know what other rules existed back then enlighten me amber woman couldn't vote are we seriously going to enforce rules that were written during a time when it was illegal for girls to even voice our opinions exactly oh amber oh quiet you two and it completely discriminates against girls i've read every page of the dress code there's 37 mentions of what girls can't do you know how many there are what boys can't do no no i don't zero everything says girls can't do this girls can't do that well what about the boys why don't they have any restrictions yes thank you do not get involved in this you know why amber the boys don't wear anything that's distracting i'm glad you said that because it brings me to my next point it assumes all men are picked now you are going too far when i was wearing my tank top earlier were my shoulders distracting you no not at all it wasn't even until principal adams brought it up that i even noticed same here you see not all men are pigs just like not all girls aren't objects with just legs and shoulders we deserve to be heard and seen and respected not just judged based on our outfits fine since you're so smart amber what exactly do you propose a fair policy for everyone no gender specific rules no double standards if girls can't wear short shorts neither can the boys if girls can't show their shoulders neither can the boys it's time we see girls as more than just the outfits that we wear we need to have equal roles for all [Applause] [Laughter] oh that would never work that is the most ridiculous idea i have ever heard but principal adams that's enough amber you know i have tried to be nice to you especially considering you're once again violating the school dress code what are you talking about my straps are more than three fingers i'm not talking about your tank top i'm talking about your ripped jeans i've read the whole dress code there's nothing in there that talks about ripped jeans well maybe we should start a new rule effective immediately no girls will wear ripped jeans to school come up here amber what are you doing teaching you a lesson i'm going to duct tape those holes what no you'd ruin my jeans they already look ruined and besides you have no choice it's either this or you get your third violation and you're suspended so what's it going to be well in that case i'm also in violation of the dress code so you'll have to write me up too sit back down i said girls can no longer wear ripped jeans now get back over here i [Music] don't feel comfortable doing this in front of everyone could we do this somewhere else no we are going to do this here i am going to set an example out of you no i'm sorry fine and you've given me no choice but to suspend you for one week that's insane you can't do that ooh but i can because i'm the principal [Music] i'm trying to give you so many chances amber now you're suspended but this is going to be on my permanent record i'd ruin my shot at going to ucla oh well you should have thought about that before you decided not to cooperate now get your things and go home please go now [Music] [Music] that wasn't right what you just did as long as i'm the principal i decide what's right and let this be an example to all of you especially the girls that going forward you better follow the dress code rules and absolutely when the superintendent is here the principal walks out as all the students look at each other in disbelief [Music] when amber gets home she's so upset about everything she thinks about what to do and then decide she's not gonna stay quiet so she makes a video about what happened she tells the story about how she got suspended and points to all the reasons why the dress code is unfair before long amper's video racks up lots of views it gets thousands of comments from students parents and even teachers all showing support to change the dress code amber and her friends can't believe it our girls are not a distraction clothing does not divide our daughter what do we want evil rules girls are nuts where are all the other students um i don't know and what are you wearing those are way too short oh really well let me see oh shoot you're right oh put your jacket back on and cover yourself you know the superintendent is going to what is going on out there hello superintendent so nice to see you don't worry a thing about what's going on out there it's just a few people are a little upset about the dress code it's outfits like that that make it hard for students to concentrate at school i'm going to write you up if you're going to write her up then you have to write me up too you're right fine i will just give me a moment to write her up i am so sorry about this i'm going to discipline these girls discipline them for what for violating the school dress code you may as well write me up too then oh good lord fine i will just wait you should include me too then me too in fact you're gonna have to write all of us up come on guys yo what's up hey hey principal how are you doing thanks for calling what what in the world is going on we all stand for amber yeah and if you're going to suspend her you're going to have to suspend all of us because we plan on dressing like this every day equal rules for all evil rules for all equal rules quiet look i don't know what's going on at this school but but but this this is completely unacceptable i know don't worry i'm going to discipline each and every one of you for what that's what i came here to tell you [Music] we're getting rid of the school dress code you can't do that i can do this because i'm the superintendent besides the board voted on a few days ago it's a done deal so i'll be taking those thank you now then every student that has a dress code violation on their record will have it removed immediately and from this day forward we are going to have equal rules for all [Applause] [Music] what what there's no more dress code and your whole record is going to be wiped clean what no way that's so amazing [Laughter] i still can't believe i got in the ucla i know i was so nervous opening my acceptance envelope with my wow you still haven't heard from them no i heard they send out their acceptance letters first so that probably means that i got rejected or waitlisted hey honey hey girls hey amber this came in the mail for you oh my gosh this is it my future's in this envelope open it okay okay dear amber [Music] we regret to inform you that your college application is denied i'm so sorry honey why would they deny you we have better grades than us do you think it was because of the suspension maybe they didn't remove it yeah maybe or could just be that like i'm just kidding oh my god i can't wait okay kids dinner's ready adam would you mind turning that down please hmm this looks so good thanks mom you're welcome honey that game is so loud now turn it off and come and eat after this game i did not want to have to do this what'd you do that for i was about to win are you trying to upset the neighbors with the loud gunshots now go over there and eat before your food gets cold the neighbors we used to never have to worry about the neighbors at our last place but we don't live in our old home anymore adam i don't even know why you would bring that up because i don't want to live here this apartment sucks and it's so small how are all of us supposed to share that room look honey please let's just try to make it work for right now okay [Music] oh who could that be hi can i help you hi i'm karen i live next door i came by because i thought i heard some gunshots oh that's just my son playing his video game that loud doesn't he realize other people live in this building too yes you're right and i will talk to him about it good i know you just moved in so i don't want to have to file a noise complaint already i appreciate that and it won't happen again i sure hope so [Music] we almost got our first noise complaint so i hope you get kicked out i hate this dump look i'm sorry this is all we can afford right now okay you shouldn't talk to her like that oh whatever i still don't get why mom and dad had to get a divorce to be honest i'd rather live with dad get out of here max this fruit isn't yours [Applause] how'd it go not good that neighbor has two kids and a dog that apartment's way too small for all of them they have a frog no i said dog great now we have to deal with barking too who's parking never mind this doesn't affect you you don't hear anything oh anyway dog is so loud i'm going back over there shoe max this food isn't for you mom someone's at the door mom okay i'm coming hi karen doesn't that dog ever stop barking oh no i i i didn't realize you could hear that max shh quiet down i am so sorry about that we're all still getting used to living in a smaller place you see well you won't be living here long if you don't get your kids and that dog under control i tried to be nice earlier but now i am going to file a noise complaint oh no no please don't you don't have to do that it was so hard for us to find this apartment in the first place i will keep the noise down i promise fine but this is your last warning great our neighbor officially hates us max you just made a big mess no max stop come on want me to clean that up it's fine honey i'll do it let me go grab the vacuum well well what where's the person that was parking no one was parking roger the neighbor's dog was barking they're really getting on my nerves with all that noise we have neighbors now just forget it it's pointless what in the world are they vacuuming at seven o'clock at night i don't believe it enough is enough what now vacuuming at this hour karen i'm sorry i didn't know it was this late you've been nothing but trouble since you moved in next door i tried to be nice but i don't you karen me i told you before this was the last warning give me one good reason why i shouldn't file a noise complaint right this second listen i am trying the best that i can okay i know you don't want us here but we have no choice you see a week ago everything was perfect the kids were asleep i was having a quiet night at home with my husband but little did i know my whole world was about to turn upside down with a single text from my own best friend that's when i started looking into things more the way he would look at her the way she would comment on all of his photos it was right in front of me all along i was just too blind to see it and then yesterday i come home early from work when i open the door that's when i saw them laying in bed together i couldn't believe what i was seeing i was betrayed by my husband and backstabbed by my best friend all at the same time all i could do was cry and the worst part of it all he didn't even have any remorse he just told me to pack my things take the kids and go that's how heartless he was so you see that's what my past few days have been like and why i really need this apartment oh my gosh i'm so sorry dear i had no idea you were dealing with all that you poor thing so that's why you and dad separated she cheated i'll give you some time to talk okay i didn't want to say anything to you because i didn't want you to look at him differently all this time i thought it was your fault i feel so bad now for i've been treating you i'm sorry mom honey it's okay i know that this is it's a lot for both of you to deal with i love you kids so much i love you too [Music] i love you so much roger oh you poor thing i'm sorry you're having to unload the car all by yourself how do you even drive such a big car hand controls thanks for asking oh cool you know i was in a wheelchair once for two weeks in high school so i know what you're going through do you now yep oh no here let me get that for you i got it here let's get you going oh thank you i got it okay oh wait wait wait wait i have an idea let's take a photo together for what you know to to raise awareness on how you should treat people with disabilities um actually i'd rather not and for the record got it people on my facebook page are going to love this wait do you need me to push you please stop worrying about me have a nice day [Music] oh nice oh jeez i thought you were gonna hit me with that thing my legs may not work but i'm not blind oh well you did kind of come up on me a little fast i almost had to give you a speeding ticket [Laughter] [Music] oh let me help you with that oh i got it thank you fine i was just trying to help but wait wait i do want to ask you a question you must know sam right sam yes sam altman well he's my brother's friend's cousin he's also in a wheelchair no believe it or not not everyone in a wheelchair knows each other excuse me oh hello again i had one last question i wanted to ask you i'm sorry what oh um can you tell me why are you crouching down like that i'm just trying to be polite i thought you couldn't hear me is there a reason why you think i can't see or hear you um no can you hear me from up there yeah great well i can also hear you from down here please excuse me sorry hello hi here here let me get some of that i can do it so what happened what do you mean well your injury was it a car accident or skiing or return it'll be 1979. i i got it no why would you do that because i feel bad i know people in wheelchairs typically don't make a lot of money let's just get another no i don't want to take a photo got it there you go just trying to raise awareness here oh wow talk about being ungrateful did you see how she just acted next you don't have to be so rude you know excuse me well you could just be a little bit more grateful considering everything i've done for you that is exactly the problem you think that just because i'm in a wheelchair that i need you to do things for me or because your legs work you're somehow superior what no it's not that at all then why else would you assume i need help getting things out of the car or off of the shelves in the grocery store and why would you feel the need to pay for my groceries really i was just trying to be polite did you pay for anyone else's groceries today no did you help anyone else get things off the shelves well no you see that person over there why don't you help her out of the car don't be silly she doesn't need any help exactly and neither do i just because someone has a disability don't assume they need your help especially when they don't ask for it i get along on my own just fine thank you someone's having a bad day you know you asked me earlier what happened to me and not that it's any of your business but i'm gonna tell you anyway you see my mom had a very difficult birth the doctor told her my spine was so badly damaged i'd likely never be able to move my legs but that didn't stop my mom from loving me with all her heart [Music] as i got older it was frustrating at times doing what most people would consider to be a basic task but since the beginning i always figured out how to do things on my own over time i became more and more self-sufficient i always appreciate people trying to help me but i'm perfectly capable of doing things myself so you see even though it hurts sometimes being in a wheelchair nothing hurts more than when people assume i need help or treat me like i can't take care of myself oh my gosh i had no idea that was the case and to be honest i just thought i was doing a good deed it's fine i know a lot of people have good intentions it just gets tiring when people only see me for my disability nothing else sorry ma'am but you're running late for your 2pm meeting should i push it back for you no it's okay i was just leaving thanks you must be her caretaker no i'm her assistant assistant what do you need an assistant for well contrary to what you said earlier about people in wheelchairs not making very much money i actually own a business and i do quite well for myself don't be fooled by her modesty she has over 200 employees and even though i could easily afford a caretaker i don't need one wow i guess i never should assume anyone with a disability needs any help i am so sorry it's okay thank you for paying for my groceries have a good day [Music] where's your mom i was adopted because school can be so mean that you weren't good enough for your real one so she gave you away do you think it's because she didn't love me not at all like somebody's closed go away i know she loved you or what are you gonna tell your dads

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Length: 38min 14sec (2294 seconds)

Published: Tue Nov 09 2021