Igniting the Spark of Polarity in Relationships

what makes a relationship work is things in common does that make sense might worth jotting it down what makes a relationship things work is things in common what makes a relationship passionate is things being different what makes a relationship work is things in common what makes it passionate is that things are very different now if there are different values you're going to just eventually hate each other but if there are different energies masculine and feminine energies regardless of whether it's men and women right it could be to women to men man women as long as whatever the relationship is there's a more masculine one and more feminine when there's going to be sparks that's where the electricity comes from but what a lot of people do is they have a lot in common and so they have love but they don't have the passion because they're both being masculine or they're both being feminine or they've worn themselves out and most people when they're tired or when they're stressed put on the mask of the opposite energy most women under stress ladies you tell me become more masculine or more feminine which one under stress which one which one that's right and the minute you get more masking which like a protection source there is ZERO possibility of electricity between the two of you and if you have a masculine male now it's war and you're gonna feel hurt and the same thing happens with ladies if a woman is not seen if she does not feel seen by her man ladies you will feel that energy somewhere else where you think you're seeing won't you because for a woman gentlemen you might want to jot down these are the three Biggie's if these are missing she's missing she might be here but she's emotionally missing she's gonna have a hard time having passionate sex with you because one thing you should all know women need a reason to have sex men just need a place and the reason for a woman is she feels seen she feels safe and she feels understood gentlemen she feels seen she feels safe and she feels understood now these are not just little phrases these are life and death of your relationship with a woman now when I say a woman I apologize a feminine energy because there are women who are masculine these three don't matter right you follow the difference and that doesn't mean sexual preference you can have somebody be gay or lesbian and they can still be the opposite energy it doesn't matter okay so if you're with a feminine energy that energy needs to be seen now men tend to be in one focus all the time that's the way our brains function we go into total concentration our power is our biblical everything except when we focus on a woman's power is that she can feel everything simultaneously a woman can be here talking this woman and she's hearing both of the conversations going on and the child in the back and tell about the tone of voice as a child what they're doing or they're getting in a monkey business or not and a part of her thinking about the checklist she needs to do over here and she's having empathy for the woman in front of her guys are like you're crazy there's no possibility and so women assume that men just aren't paying attention to them when men are doing what their brain does single focus power it's what women would be able to do if they felt the same confidence that men does men statistically have more confidence not because they're smarter knockers are bigger not because they're stronger because they only focus on one thing and you consider everything

Channel: Tony Robbins

Views: 295,982

Keywords: tony robbins, relationship advice, feminine energy, opposites attract, why do opposites attract, sexual attraction, intimate connection

Id: aYBWeOvnJrQ

Length: 3min 24sec (204 seconds)

Published: Sun Feb 14 2016