If a Man Does This From The Start, BACK OFF! He's Playing You (Dealing With Toxic Mixed Signals)

[Music] like a boss all right ladies so this video is about english a lesson that i learned from dating people who give you mixed signals and i'm gonna tell you the most toxic mixing that you could get in the beginning of the relationship is this when you have chemistry with a guy and you like him initially like when you like him at first really hard but that but but you notice he makes you feel anxious you notice he makes you feel very anxious and what am i talking about i mean that he never responds on time he's always late to the date or he doesn't even look oh he doesn't look at your stories all those things when you like somebody they're gonna make you feel anxious and make you chase and let me tell you something by the way people support me as an artist and purchase my t-shirts uh we have tank tops we have sweaters everything you can purchase them in the description down below support artist alex people that's right but all of those things you tend to forget and ignore because of how good he makes you feel but little do you know even though you like him a lot you have the strength to leave him right now is the easiest time to leave him why because from my experience every time i've encountered that it never worked out look listen man when somebody likes you they should not have the patience to wait eight hours to text you when somebody likes you they should be so excited to see you that they'll get there early just for you when somebody likes you they don't make you feel needy they just don't they validate you and i went through that with this girl that i was seeing and this is how i learned my lessons people the things that i teach her they hurt because that's how i'm learning i learn it through pain it's it's it's a price of for me the price of admission to learn all of this is pain that's just the truth and i was seeing this girl and and she was an escort i don't care to be honest with you um i like their personality and if you're watching this [ __ ] you okay how about that [ __ ] you man you don't don't hit me up ever again please go go go go go trip and hurt your toe i don't [ __ ] care about you no more um sorry about that toxic analysis came out but but seriously go [ __ ] yourself if you are watching this um but oh my god he is really toxic well i'm toxic when you hurt me okay look the the point was that i met this girl and she would come over but when she came over she was always like [ __ ] 30 40 minutes late and i wouldn't mind because she was coming to my place it's not like i was waiting somewhere so i kind of like i kind of like like like like kind of like i gotta say they tolerated it even though i shouldn't tolerate it but i tolerated it because in my mind she she was coming from to my place so i get it but then she will always take five to six hours to respond right and sometimes i will message you on instagram and she will look at my story but not respond or post a story and not respond but then when she would respond she will respond with so much happiness that it made me feel like maybe it was a mistake and then she would do stuff like that like or or one time remember when i got mugged the day that i got mugged i messaged her i was like yo can you come over and sleep over i was i wasn't looking for sex oh like just come over and sleep over i just need some company you know i was really vulnerable i was like i need company she came over but she had to leave like 40 minutes afterwards but then i was like yo can you come back like you could just sleep over here i'll call you know but she was like sure sure and i was like call me because i'm gonna be asleep this [ __ ] decides to [ __ ] text me on instagram she's like hey are you up when i clearly told her not to call to co clips or call me because i wasn't going to see anyway so i ignored her and then i i i deactivated my instagram but then i messaged her on my other instagram my art account i messaged her she didn't respond but she would respond to my other instagram but not that instagram you see people you see those things when you like somebody you you're not going to be able to see things but you can have an instinct and that instinct is that you feel anxious you feel resentful you feel a desire for revenge all of those things are a sign that you got to leave because i left her alone for like she she took like she messaged me i messaged her and i called her right i called her like a month ago and i was like call me back when you get when you get the time and then she messaged me 13 days later saying that her phone didn't ring and i was like i'll message you back 13 days later and i messaged her today and i called her and i was like hey what you up to man how you been because you know i liked her as a friend i really did because i wasn't into the sex i didn't like that as a friend like it was weird i never liked somebody like that um you know what i'm saying so she she then tells me oh i'm married she got this [ __ ] got married in one month you believe that [ __ ] [ __ ] married one month i was like that's i was like okay so there's no hope so i was like look [ __ ] i know exactly what the [ __ ] you're doing anyways so i told her off right i was like look you could have easily called me and as a friend you didn't call me she was like well i was like you know what [ __ ] yourself man i ain't hung up but i should have seen those red flags i should have seen those red flags and and sometimes the emotions of liking somebody blinds you from what's in front of you and what i've learned anytime [ __ ] you any time somebody makes you feel anxiety when you regularly don't and that's the thing if you're not if you're not somebody who suffers from anxiety i i this applies for you if you suffer from anxiety i think you're gonna conflict the two but what i'm saying is that i could have prevented this if i would have just cut her off in the beginning if i would have just cut her off in the beginning and kept my standard when she was 30 when she was an hour late i would after 15 minutes i would have said look just go back i got things to do later on let's do it another time if i would have just followed my rules i would not have made those mistakes look man anytime a guy just for some reason is always texting you back late look look that's gonna make you feel and if you feel anxiety look you don't have to tolerate that [ __ ] man you really don't he's not the only dick on the planet you don't have to tolerate that look i'm being serious any from now on anytime i'm if i'm loaded if i'm low and and this usually happens when i like the girl and we have good chemistry any time a guy takes five hours consistently three hours consistently when everybody responds on time this [ __ ] all of a sudden there's a [ __ ] ambassador of the united nations that she doesn't have the time to text you back in mexico by by that means i'm just going to call her after a few times i'm like look man i would like to talk to you but if this is how you text we're not going to work is out simple that's that's that's what i'm gonna start doing you take eight hours of responding this is how you text after a few times of them doing that you call them out on it because look if you tolerate that deep down you're gonna be resentful you're gonna not wanna look needy which i understand but deep down you gotta hate them for that [ __ ] deep down you're gonna hate their [ __ ] guts and if that [ __ ] happens you're in a bad you're in a toxic relationship you should not be feeling that in a relationship and i learned my lesson and it makes me mad and sad at the same time because it's kind of like i like your personality like that that's what it was it wasn't the physical because i mean she was a beautiful girl getting me wrong she was beautiful and she the crazy thing is is that i didn't feel that way the first day i met her because she said she was an escort i was like oh i don't know about that but then the second time i met her she came over i was a little drunk because it was night and um you know i was eating it was like a friday night and all that let me drink a little bit and then she came over and then for some reason and she looked like my ex it was so weird like like she has some semblance of it and i wasn't over my ex but it was almost like the emotions from my ex transferred over to this [ __ ] and then it was i was like why do i like her now it was because there was a one point where i was laying down and like right here on her chest and she was there and and something in my mind it was like it's almost like she like oh my gosh she looks like her this is so [ __ ] weird i was like you know it was almost like i was like oh wow i could possibly redeem myself that's pretty much what it was and if both of them did the same shape and i acted this i didn't have the same way actually i acted with a little bit more valor but it was a i definitely missed out on that so people don't make that mistake ever again okay if you're sensing anxiety from the beginning give from the beginning any of those negative emotions get the [ __ ] out while you can and i'm happy that she told me that even though i wish her the worst right i'll get over eventually right but i will eventually get over it because she did me a favor but it wasn't a fun lesson for me to learn you know and that's pretty much how i learned it's pretty much my courses the psychological game of attraction my other course natural chemistry i pretty much talk about that and i talk about how to defend yourself and how to avoid it and it's unfortunate that this is how i learned my lessons i really wish there was an easier way for me to get insight but apparently this is how i learn through pain would you look at that this is alex you're a toxic dating coach if you need one-on-one coaching go to the description down below and i'll see you next time stay toxic alright ladies so finally i have released my second course 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Channel: The Toxic Dating Coach - Mindful Attraction 2.0

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Length: 13min 4sec (784 seconds)

Published: Mon Apr 05 2021