I Got Dumped

i'm gonna give it to you straight if i ever become a parent there's no way no way i would let my child date at the age of 13. doesn't matter to me if they beg or cry that they're in love and that they're the one for them nope you're 13. you don't know what love is to the future many me watching this i'm doing this for your own good you're gonna thank me later on in life that i saved you from that cringy middle school relationship phase you're not allowed to date till you're 40 have a phd degree and married is what any stereotypical asian parents would say however my mom was quirky she's not like the other asian moms she saw dating at an early age as a learning experience so when i'm older i won't make stupid irrational mistakes like setting my boyfriend on fire in the middle of our fight if you felt like you missed out on dating during your young teenager phase how should i say this uh you didn't miss out on anything just be thankful you didn't have to awkwardly sit outside in your boyfriend's living room while you wait for him to finish his last cod game with his friends but only to be disappointed hearing the words one more game and this my dear friends is that story we're gonna call my first boyfriend at the time mitchell our relationship was the type of relationship where you're both childhood friends who go to the same school and both of your families hung out a lot during the weekends so obviously we got super close and surprise surprise we ended up liking each other i really liked him because we had a lot of things in common and he was he was nice and i wanted to spend a lot of my spare time with him so i hung out with his friends a lot every time i hung out with him it was always with his friends so i don't know why i always felt so hurt and disappointed every time he would choose playing with his friends over me literally i would just sit there and watch them virtually shoot each other on screen for three hours straight then after their game was over it would be almost dark outside then my brother and i would go home i mean i could try playing the game but you guys know where my peanut butter and jam was at restaurant city i still cringe whenever i remember this phase in my life because i know what relationships are supposed to be like now repeat that whole scenario i just told you for four months and to my surprise what you up to he messaged me first hi i finished eating dinner with my family and now i'm talking to you what you up to [Music] nothing much he responded so fast oh my gosh is this what love feels like sorry i can't believe i'm saying this but i i want to break up with you what why did i do something wrong no you didn't i just need time to be by myself and grow i feel like there's not enough time for me to be the real me i hope you understand that it's not you it's me but at the same time i still really like you i don't want you to stop talking to me you're like my best friend i hope you don't forget that please don't forget me oh that's fine i'm i'm fine with being best friends totally so i talked to him like nothing ever happened until one day i kind of went overboard spamming him with keyboard nonsense like while waiting for his very slow responses my expectations only met with reality when he told me i apparently annoyed the hell out of him for chatting to him too much whoa whoa whoa whoa hold up i thought he was fine for me to talk to him granted i did annoy him by keyboard spamming i thought best friends dude i don't know i think this is the point where my heart broke for the first time and my fragile teenage self-esteem took a hit and this ladies and gentlemen is the ultimate example on why you shouldn't act out of pity for someone because it gives mixed signals and hella confuses the other person i'm clearly not a saint in this one since my mind constantly changes from one moment to the next which results in a lot of confusion for some people when i don't tell them how i really feel i don't know how some people do it but i cry and wallow over a breakup for a very long time ever since then i was determined to try and help myself get better even if it means crying while doing my makeup and dressing up to go out on a lunch date with friends whenever my friends go through their own breakup phase and i asked how they are they usually surprise me with this response i'm doing alright cause i gave myself a week to cry about it i still feel sad once in a while but it is what it is what how do you do that you just get over it the tears just stop and you don't think about them a lot anymore but now that we mentioned it i'm thinking about them again and now all i feel is pain anyway my equation to get over a bad breakup is surrounding yourself with good friends allowing yourself to self-reflect and giving yourself time lots and lots of time i mean you could try jumping into a new relationship but i personally feel that it's best to take a time out from the dating world and work on how you can be a better person no judgment for those who get into rebound relationships because we all know how that worked out for me build up that confidence rewrite old limiting beliefs and most importantly give yourself a chance to be happy for yourself another pro tip it's best to give yourself space from your ex you don't have to shut them out of your life but it will definitely be helpful in the long run to getting over them that also means refraining from stalking them online if you must give them the hard block or the soft mute think of it as taking away unnecessary distractions while you're writing that important paper near the end of those five excruciating months i slowly found myself enjoying the things i used to like again i drew more art i wrote more in my spare time i made new friends and best of all i was introduced to the world of anime and manga which was the awesomest thing ever i was probably the happiest i've ever been in my life back then until i had to leave my friends behind and move to australia q in mitchell sliding into my dms after almost two years of no contact oh oh yeah you all know how this is gonna go down hey so i heard you moving to australia uh yeah why no god no god please two hours later you're going to leave me i can't believe i'm saying this but i've always liked you alex i know i've made some mistakes in the past but my heart realizes that it only belongs to you i was stupid and ignorant small peepee boy before but now i've realized after some time i know now what type of person i want to be for you ladies and gentlemen don't fall for this like how i did if my 9th grader brain had the experience and knowledge that i have right now you best believe i would have seen zone this message and continue being unbothered but of course this was my first love so in the end i proceeded to entertain this message i thought that him coming back into my life again was a sign from the universe and since i was influenced by pinoy and korean dramas with their if you let someone you love go they'll find a way to come back i thought that this was the real deal totally they'll find a way back all right if that means slithering into your dms like a snake then why did you break up with me in the first place oh it's because i wanted to play more xbox with the boys i just need time to be by myself and for i feel like there's not enough time for me to be the real me i hope you understand that it's not you it's me you little [Music] he made it sound like he was going through some sort of quest to quote unquote find himself and going deep with life when in reality he was just being a 13 year old boy who had nothing better to do with his time moral of the story young relationships can end over the dumbest reasons and chances are it's not what you would consider love or it could just be me i don't know you tell me your tummies breakups down in the comments so i don't feel alone in this one but even so it's still an important experience to have in life to get dumped over by a chunk of plastic tldr don't date don't marry don't make babies just don't it's been a while since i've made a video about my relationships so i hope you guys enjoyed this i missed you all a lot thank you for all your support and love and i hope you stay tuned for the next video who knows what that might will you be me back dude [Applause] [Music]

Channel: Alex's Corner

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Length: 10min 11sec (611 seconds)

Published: Fri Sep 04 2020