We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns. National Competition on Worries! Today's guests are stirring Korea up these days. Wanna One's Daniel, Jihoon and Minhyun. (Saved saved) By the way, the production staff told us it was a special week. They received too many concerns last week. There is no particular reason for that. So they picked out a good concern and told them to come out next week or the week after. But no! The guest said it had to be this week. (We got you) Why does it have to be this week? I think it's because of Wanna One. They want to meet Wanna One members. Daniel is actually a macho Busan man. He looked attractive speaking in a Busan dialect. Can you give us a taste? She's the only woman among us. I'm the woman. (She distorted the original song) She's a sister who's older than your mother. (Nice catch) (#Dongyeob #So funny #Our type) They may think it's real. How old is your mom? She was born in 1967. We are the same age! (NEWS / Daniel's mom and Yeongja are the same age!) She's still an older sister to you. You have great eyes. Why do you look more beautiful in person? (Ahhhh!) So this is what CPR is. My heart is beating again. Since the members of Wanna One are here... I'm sure everyone here is waiting for it. Please perform for us. (This is Wanna One's concert hall) (Repaying for being deeply moved earlier) Music please. (Gulp) ("Energetic" by Wanna One) (Full of energy!) (Sweet!) (Overpowering gaze) Indeed. (Your heart may stop beating) (We're the energetic Wanna One!) ("Pick me" by Wanna One) (Is this for real?) (Everyone becomes one with "Pick me") (Tonight's stars are all of you!) That was great. That was good. There are 11 members. Each member has his own special talent. But when it comes to acting cute... Jihoon, may we see how cute you can be? His eyes are really pretty. Your eyelashes are very long. Thank you. All of you here are saved in my heart. (Saved! / Kku kku kka kka!) Saved. It must be tough. He's only done it once on our program. But he's probably asked to do it everywhere he goes. (Agrees) Have you done it like 10,000 times? - How many times? / - How many times? I think exactly 3,500 times. That must be tough. He probably appears on many programs a day and does this and then smokes when he's back home. (#Wanna One's home #Relaxed #Jihoon's tired) Because it's tough to act cute all day. They probably fight at home and then act cute on television. (You've never been on a program like this, right?) That was tough, right? We have three concerns on our plate today. Let's take a look. Here are the three concerns. "Please quit now." "I want to cry." "A woman with her head down." "Please quit now." (Focused) Hello. I'm a man in his 30s from Suwon. I don't know if you can resolve this concern for us, but I'm sending it in to get help. My father who turned 60 this year is addicted to gambling. This is a first. Every Sunday he goes to a theme park in Gangwon-do. He's been doing that for 15 years now. He's been doing it for a long time. He gambles all night and comes home with tired eyes and a haggard face. Dad! How much longer are you going to do this? Can't you please stop? Hey! Why do you care? This is my hobby! Mind your own business! He loses $2,000 every time. How is that a hobby? Imagine how terrible my mom feels. "Please stop. How much more do I have to put up this?" "I'm spending my own money. Come on. Mind your own business! I'm going to go until the day I die!" He's addicted, right? Please get him out of this mess. This is the concern that he sent us. Our first concern is quite a serious one. It's quite serious. Our guests always said, "At least I don't drink, smoke nor gamble." That was the going excuse. (We have a real gambler here this time!) Jihoon. Has your dad been addicted to anything? He got his hands on cigarettes for a brief moment in the past. (What?) (How cute!) - Briefly? / - Yes, very briefly. How dare he puts his hands on cigarettes! No way! He smoked for a year. How did you feel? I told him in a very serious tone, "Smoking isn't good for you. It's time for you to quit." While you smoked with him? No, no. Right the next day... - He quit? / - Yes, he did. It's upsetting for son to see a father smoking. Let alone, to have a gambling dad? Let's bring him out. Please come out. (Who wants his father to quit gambling?) (Kim Manjung) (Welcome!) That casino is legal for Koreans to enter. So it's not illegal, right? It's not illegal, but he's gone too far. That's why I'm here. He goes every Sunday. He doesn't just gamble for several hours. He gambles for over 12 hours. Sometimes for 15 hours. He only drinks beverages and skips meals. The casino closes at 6 a.m. Then he races home. He drives there? He could be dozing off behind the wheel or he speeds. He gets home in 2 hours. (In just 2 hours from Jeongseon to Suwon!) That means he drives 170-180 km/hr. He drives with anger because he lost money. (Please, dad...) If he loses $2,000 each time that means he lost $8,000 every month. For how many years? It's been 15 years now. He didn't lose that much in the beginning. But within the last 4-5 years he's been losing $1,000-2,000 each time. How much has he lost so far? He must've lost a lot of money. You must've calculated it. If I add up the money he lost since the beginning I'd say about the price of an apartment building. Sure. If he went every week. That's close to $1 million. He must be rich. Where does he get the money? You said it's the money he earned. He's owned a supermarket for over 30 years now. He's owned a karaoke room for 10 years. He asks mom for money each week. So your mother controls the money that they've saved up for the past 30 years and he asks her for money when he goes. Other family members must be concerned, too. Yes. I'm married and we live with my parents. For my wife, she feels uncomfortable when my parents argue. That's why I feel bad. Do they always argue? They get along well most of the time, but they argue whenever he asks her for money. Let's meet his father first. Hello, sir. - Hello. / - Hello. How do you feel? I never thought this was a serious concern. 2 weeks ago, my son told me, "Are you going to the casino again?" So I told him yes. "Dad. You really must appear on 'Ask anything.'" (What?) "Ask anything." I will ask you anything, sir. This is called "Hello Counselor." He said that I should go on "Hello Counselor." We do ask many questions on this program. You mistook our program for another one. I thought he was kidding. Then the scriptwriter called me and I was forced to come here today. In your son's point of view you don't think it's a concern? No, not at all. My son exaggerated a bit. I've been going often for 4-5 years now. I go more often now. That's why it's a concern. I've won money sometimes. But generally it's a loss, right? Yes, 90% of the time, I've lost money. (It's 900% concerning) I don't lose other people's money. I'm just spending my own money. You could've spent that money for something else. Why does it have to be for gambling? When I'm at the casino it's me against the machines. When I hit the jackpot, the lights start flashing like fireworks. That's what excites me. - That's how you relieve stress, right? / - Right. You said you lose money most of the time. Does it still relieve stress even then? At first, it does break my heart. My wife keeps nagging at me, too. Does she goe with you? She's my guardian. I think she goes to stop you from losing more money. She's afraid I might cause trouble. She's more like a supervisor than a guardian. That's true. She doesn't gamble with you, does she? She doesn't gamble at all. I think this is the biggest concern for her. She goes with you and you spend the money that you've earned together. I'm sure she does get stressed out a little. You're doing this... You're doing this even though you know that? This is a hobby to you, right? Right. I've spent so many years working only so I never got to enjoy my life. I've decided to have a hobby of my own. Is it okay for her to spend $8,000 on her hobby? There's nothing for her to spend that much on. That doesn't mean she can't spend it. She's being frugal. Why would a woman need that much money? (Oh my goodness!) You shouldn't say such a thing. Most people come on this show wanting to change their bad habits. But he has no will to change at all. Since you're the one who takes care of the finances, we think you should just refuse to give him money. I've tried that. But if I don't, he locks himself up in the room and doesn't come out. He says, "I should just disappear. - I should go out and die." / - That's the worst. Since he says that, I get worried. So I just end up giving him the money. You've worked hard for that money together. Isn't it heartbreaking? Of course it's heartbreaking. Then don't give it to him. Then he gets upset. You should rest on Sundays. But you go with him to keep your eyes on him? Sure. There are many pawn shops nearby. He might sell our car so I get worried. My children ask me to go with him because they're worried, too. What do you do while he gambles? I just stand there. I just stand behind him. Then when I get tired, I sit by a slot machine. Then someone comes and tells me to get up. So I would just put in a quarter and play once. Have you ever hit a jackpot? I did once. I put in 70 cents. How much did you win? (Really?) I put in 70 cents and the number 100 came up. I thought I won $100, but the man next to me told me that I won $1,000. With 70 cents. How did that feel? He's smiling for the first time. (That's what gambling is about) So what? He lost $2,000. So he lost $2,000 and you won $1,000 that day? Yes. Do you eat meals while you're there? No. You don't eat either? You could leave for a moment to eat. I don't eat until I get back home. If she didn't go with him he could've lost a lot more money. He's too gullible so I have to go with him. He trusts people too easily. Did something happen in the past? He lent $30,000 to an acquaintance who never paid him back. Oh my. One time, he decided to close our supermarket and start a phone business and lost $80,000. He lost money even without gambling. How do you relieve stress, ma'am? I just go window shopping. Couldn't you buy something you want? You should. Your husband spends money easily. I have to save up. He spends it all anyway. That's why at least I should be frugal. If I start to spend money too then... That's why I can't play at the casino. I want to, but I can't. Oh, do you want to play? She's hit the jackpot once. She wants to save that in her heart. Sir, you said there's nothing she can spend money on but she must have things she wants to buy. She's been working hard all her life. I'm sure she wants to enjoy her life, too. Don't you feel bad for her? I do, but... I told her to find a hobby of her own while she's home. But she said no. There's nothing more I can do. You said earlier that you can't let her spend $1,000 for herself. Can she have a hobby that costs $1,000 a week? No. Why would a woman need to spend that much? How can you have a hobby without money? Every hobby costs money. She should spend reasonably. You should spend it reasonably. I am doing it reasonably. Your wife said she likes to gamble, too. Let me ask you this. Your son is working very hard right now. Time has passed and he's a lot older. Just like you do now, he spends $1,000-2,000 every weekend on gambling. How would that make you feel? That's definitely wrong. Why? He shouldn't gamble. (Why not? x100) I don't know what better thing will come out then, but I think that's wrong. We're asking you why. I've done it myself. What's so bad about it? - Because you lose money? / - What's bad? It makes you lose money so it's bad. Then you shouldn't gamble either. He'd be spending his own money, too. Well, that... They should just be satisfied with me gambling. What do you mean? So you know that it makes you lose money. - But you keep... / - He can't stop. So it's an addiction. You should admit that it's an addiction. It's definitely not an addiction. So he... This is a serious problem. An addiction is when a man spends many nights there to gamble. I only play for a day and come back home. That's not an addiction. Half of the money you spend is your wife's. Imagine if she were to gamble and you watch. - How would you feel? / - He said that's wrong. That's of course wrong. (How did you end up like this, dad?) What was your dad like before he gambled? He was very loyal to his family. We went on family trips and we ate as a family. Since he gambles every Sunday we don't get to eat as a family often. We don't get together often anymore. Right. As their grandchildren grow up they should spend time with their grandchildren, so you must be quite concerned. He said he's married now. She can't tell her father-in-law to stop and she can't talk to her mother-in-law about it. She must feel uncomfortable. We live with my parents and she's pregnant right now. She's having a hard time as it is already. I am sure it is tough living with my parents. Let's meet his wife. Hello. It must be tough living with them. When he returns from the casino things are very serious at home. When I'm home with my in-laws during the day... It's already uncomfortable living with my in-laws but it's worse since it's gloomy at home. I don't know what to do. Your mother-in-law must be having a hard time. That's right. She has to do chores at home and she babysits her daughter's baby right now. Does your sister-in-law gamble, too? No. She has a job. She has to babysit once she gets home from daycare. She has to clean and prepare dinner. My mom is very frugal. She doesn't throw away empty bottles. She exchanges every bottle for money. She always finds the cheapest place to buy goods. She's very frugal. But he goes out and gambles away so much money. Imagine how tough it must be for her. Does your father-in-law help out around the house? Not really. He doesn't even work that hard during the day. He doesn't? When it's midnight he begs her to go home. But what karaoke place closes at midnight? Right. It's open until late at night. When customers come at midnight, he sends them away. When customers want to stay longer he just kicks them out. You've heard your daughter-in-law talk. Aren't you embarrassed? What's there to be embarrassed about? And you don't feel sorry either? Why would I be? Did I ask her for money? Did I ask for my son's? Right. That's not what we're talking about here. As the grownup in the family you're wasting away your money every week. But you're telling your son who watches you do it that he shouldn't do the same. Then you shouldn't do it either. Their daughter is here, too. Let's talk to her. What's your biggest concern? I have a 28-month-old daughter. My sister-in-law will give birth in 2 months. I'm afraid that our children will be influenced by what their grandfather does. Of course. Children end up mimicking what their parents do. My mother is very organized and I am organized, too. My father likes to play games and so do I. We just end up becoming like our parents. Children are the mirror. Children are parents' mirror. I don't know how much money you have, but if you lose, let's say, $4,000 every month that's not a small amount of money. Aren't you worried about your later years? I'm preparing for our later years, too. We should ask his wife about that. What is he doing to prepare for your later lives? I don't know. He's not preparing for it. He's probably relying on his wife for that. Don't you wish he would spend that money on you instead? If you had that money, how would you spend it? I'd like to travel overseas and rest. For a month or two. I want to travel as a group. You want to buy some things, too, right? You said he lost about $400,000-500,000 in the last 15 years at the casino. The production staff made a list of what you two could've done with that money instead. It would cost $10,000 to spend a month in Hawaii. Going on a cruise to South America. That would cost about $30,000. To South America for a month. The hotel in the sky. It's a private jet. Traveling around the world for a month. - How much is that? / - $300,000. - They could've done all those things. / - Oh my. But instead, you wasted it all on slot machines. What a waste, sir. Didn't you ever wonder why you live this way? Didn't you ever decide you should quit? I've thought that many times. I didn't even pee in the direction of the casino! But even then when I laid down in bed after work the slot machine would appear before my eyes. Right. The moment I hit jackpot! Coins pouring out. I couldn't stop thinking about it. Sometimes I stayed up all night. I couldn't sleep one bit. All night. So it's close to the weekend... Does your heart start to race? Then why do you say you're not addicted? You can't really say I'm addicted. What? People play for days and nights. It's not about how many days you gamble. Slot machines appear before your eyes. Yes. That means you're addicted. (He can't even admit that he's addicted) It's not about you not peeing in that direction! You go there and pee at the casino. You go to the sauna, too. You know it's a problem, but you can't fix it. Have you thought about talking to a counselor? I don't think it's that bad yet. I do realize that I should go less. We talked to an expert regarding your symptoms. He gave us this advice. Let's take a look. Considering his income, he is spending an excessive amount on gambling. His family is suffering from this problem, but he can't stop. That means he is addicted to gambling. He hasn't been able to quit for years, but he's actually going more often now. I think it'll be hard for him to quit without seeking help from an expert. Right. Since he's going more often. He's going more often and spending more money. How do you feel now? The expert is right, but I don't think I can quit at once. I will gradually reduce the number of days I gamble. No, no. You'll quit when you're completely broke. It won't go that far. But you don't sound so confident. You should seek help. You shouldn't be embarrassed about it. 'Why would I go talk to a counselor?' Don't be. Let's say you're hurting here. You're diagnosing yourself saying it's not that bad. That's dangerous. You shouldn't decide on your own. Why don't you go seek help at least once? I will do my best. Please put off going to the casino and go to Hawaii with your family. We'll have plenty of time to go to Hawaii. Why would you put that off? Go to Hawaii with your family first. Save up money for Hawaii first. How's that? I will try my best. You'll go talk to a counselor, too, right? (Please keep your words!) You were courageous enough to come here today. What do you ask from your dad? He said that he would try. Mom has a hard time going to the casino every week. I hope he remembers that and cuts back on the days he gambles. Please tell your husband what you want. I wish you wouldn't go. Not at all. I will do my best. (He sounds like he means it) Thank you. When it gets worse, you won't be satisfied with slot machines anymore. You can't go backward. Think about how you were 15 years ago. You've changed since then. It has gotten worse. Please remember that the change will accelerate and it will get worse faster. Please tell us if it's a concern or not. I think it's a concern. Daniel. The first topic was too serious. I don't get to see my mother often. You live with your family. I wish you'd make more memories with them. Jihoon. I think it's a concern. Please press the button if you think it's a concern. (What does the audience think?) Sounds like the casinos. 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Time's up. Sir! That sounded like the casinos, right? (Ha) Right? Didn't that excite you? Yes. Please say a word to your son. Please show him what a great dad you are. I am on television thanks to you. I will do my best to gamble less. Maybe just once or twice a year. That's great. I will do my best. I give you my word. A word for your wife, too, please. She's always been there for you. Don't cry. (His son gets emotional, too) You've gone through so much. I will do my best not to go from now on. Give her a kiss on her cheek. Just do it, sir. It'd be great for them to go just once a year. Lastly, ask us anything. Please choose the dates now. Twice a year. What months? And how much? You can't say $100,000 each time. That won't work. That's dangerous. Half of 2017 has passed already. Once in mid-September. Once on Christmas Eve. How much will you spend? I will only be going twice a year. (How much is he going to spend?) $3,000 each time. That's a lot. I'd only be going twice a year. Can you accept that, ma'am? Yes. $3,000 each time? That's a little too much. Right? How much would you allow? $1,000. (Upset) (We hope he gambles even less than that someday!) He hasn't accepted it yet. You promised to go twice a year. (Today marks the first day of an important change!) Results, please. Many people participated. I think it'll be over 150. (Many people pressed the button) (How many votes did they get?) 160? (They got 170 votes) "I want to cry." Hello. I'm a man from Busan who has a beautiful wife and a 2-year-old son. I'll get another gift in December. My wife is pregnant with our daughter. Honey. Let me read to our daughter. No. I'm busy. Do you want to eat anything? What do you want? Forget it. I'm busy. Women usually eat good food and read books, but not my wife. It's because she's a workaholic. Oh my. You're getting heavier now. Why don't you take a break from your job? Why? I must be happy for our child to be happy. No problem. I'm off to work. My wife teaches English. She has a tight schedule from teaching and tutoring that she doesn't even have time to eat. She's pregnant. Then one day... I'm dizzy. I can't see anything. She fainted and ended up in the ER. Are you all right? Let's go home and rest. No problem. I'm fine now. I'm off to work. Even then she went off to work. Will our daughter be born without a problem? Please help. How would you feel if your wife was like this? You're married and your wife works. I'd be worried. You'd be worried but still make her work? No, I wouldn't want her to work. - I wouldn't let her work. / - You wouldn't? Imagine, Daniel. Your wife is pregnant. Your wife... (No...) What's wrong with you people? (Ha ha ha) Your wife should eat well and rest for the baby. But she just continues to work. I should make her stay home. Keep her from going out? We should keep her saved at home. Saved at home. (3,501st time doing it) If she's pregnant, I should work harder. This is how most men would feel. Let's meet him. He's concerned about his workaholic wife. Please come on out. (Who's concerned about his workaholic wife?) (Hello) (Kang Seulgi) (Welcome) Please tell us what your wife's job is. She's an English teacher. She's a workaholic. She's addicted to her work. She starts teaching at 10 a.m. and finishes at 10 p.m. 12 hours! She tutors individuals and teaches classes. She has about 10-11 classes a day. Since she has such a tight schedule she often skips meals. That's not all. She even works on weekends. - She doesn't rest? / - No. She wants to do make-up classes for students so she even has classes on Sundays. Since when has she been a workaholic? She's a Korean-American. She went to American at age 9 and lived there for 15 years and returned to Korea 3 years ago. She met me and got married after 3 months. - 3 months? / - You were madly in love? In just 100 days. You must have something great. (I can't help but smile...) I couldn't get in touch with her often even then. We were only able to date for an hour sometimes. Then how did you get married so fast? I didn't know it was this bad. I just thought she likes her job. No, no. You didn't get to see her much. How did you end up marrying her after 3 months? (That's...) Well... (You must have something amazing) (Oh gee) When are you most worried? Every day. When women are pregnant, they talk to the baby, eat well and exercise to stay strong. My wife just works every day and doesn't eat while she's working. She eats late at night when she's home. Even then she doesn't eat much. That's not good for the baby. She should eat a lot. - How far along is she? / - 6 months. Many women work even when they're 6-months pregnant. Aren't you being a little too cautious? Our son was born a little too early. He was a premature baby. Since she worked so much. She never stopped working so the baby came out a month before the due date. (Their son was born a month before the due date) So your son was born out of the blue? She ended up in the ER while she was working. She was working even then? The doctor told us that she'll give birth earlier. She asked if my wife works too much or if she doesn't eat well. I was quite shocked then. Our son was a preemie and was in an incubator. Of course you were worried. Having been through that, is she not careful now? Right. Our son is quite healthy now. Most workaholics go back to work right afterwards. - She didn't go back soon, did she? / - She did. She left the hospital 2 days after giving birth. She left the hospital. She didn't work? She went to work that day. Just after 2 days? She went back to work just after 2 days? I tried to stop her. Not only did she have to recover, but your son was in an incubator. She must've been worried. She just went to work? Yes. (We are speechless) You could tell her to rest. I do. More than 10 times a day. But? We always end up arguing when I do. After we argue she says, "I'm going back to America with my babies. I'll leave if you stop me from working." Let's meet his wife first. Hello. - Hello. / - Nice to meet you. Do you understand your husband's concern? I don't think this is a problem at all. Excuse me, but could you please stand? Can we see how skinny you are? Could you please turn around? (She doesn't look pregnant at all) You're not showing at all. Are you really 6 months pregnant? - Please tell us. / - You're 6 months pregnant? Yes, I am. I love my job. I majored in education in college. Kids like me, too. Why is it a problem? It's tough to work while you're pregnant. You should eat well for your baby. I don't know what the standards are. That wasn't intentional, right? You're just speaking naturally, right? You're being yourself right now? I don't know what's considered working too hard. If I shouldn't work, doesn't that mean I shouldn't walk or stand? Just stay home? Do you mean to say stay at home? Yes. Just like in American, Korea has a system called maternity leave. You know that, right? There's maternity leave in America, too. They give you about a week. You rest at home for a week and then go back to work. How do you recover? Do you eat seaweed soup? Seaweed soup? Hmm... We want to try the American seaweed soup. Do you guys eat soup? There are no limitations in America. You can do whatever you want. There are too many rules in Korea. Don't eat anything hard. Don't eat spicy food. Don't eat anything cold. Don't shower. Keep your socks on at all times. Don't wear shorts. It's not a problem in America. No problem. Your son was born a preemie. You must've been worried. Don't you think you should take care of yourself? I don't look too much into the future. YOLO. You live only once. (Ha ha ha ha) If I'm healthy and happy today then everything is okay. If I'm happy, everything is happy. I must be happy in order for my family to be happy. It's like that in Korea, too. Look at him. He lives for his own happiness. He enjoys his Sundays. (You Only Live Sunday) But your husband won't understand. What are you going to do about that? Then I must go back to America. Without him? Then why did you marry him in the first place? I know. (She's an interesting person) What made you want to marry him? My husband? The first reason was... He's handsome. (Oh yeah) And? Busan men are handsome. (He slightly resembles Jisung) What's the next reason? He obeys me. (Oh) What's the third reason? He sacrificed a lot for me. Does he look more handsome than they do? I'm sorry but I don't know who they are. (What?) It's because she doesn't watch television. But do you think your husband is more handsome? Yes. She's such a great wife. We just have one less rival. That's okay. To be honest, working isn't a bad thing. More importantly, she loves it. My wife went to the ER 3 times when she had our son. 3 times? Because she didn't stop working. The doctor always asked, "Does she work too much? Does she not eat meals regularly?" It was just a few days ago. I was told that she fainted while she was in class. That's a serious problem. I got the call and went to the ER. The doctor said it was orthostatic hypotension. - What is that? / - It's from standing up too long. Because she is teaching too many classes. Right. It's from standing all day long. Even when she ended up in the ER she was worried about leaving her students. She's truly a workaholic. The doctor told me that all I had to do was eat well. So I told him, "Don't worry. I'm fine." I felt much better after I ate something. Here I am talking to you, right? Why won't you eat well? I have classes back to back. When I teach I lose track of time because I have to focus on my students. She really doesn't worry about her health. You must be frustrated that she's too optimistic. She's too optimistic. How do you feel? I'm always worried about her. We live in Busan and she teaches in Yangsan. Yangsan? Doesn't it take about an hour and a half? It takes about 2 hours roundtrip by car. She always drives to work. What if she goes into labor while she's driving? When she was about 4 months pregnant she was just coming out of the tollgate when a car cut in front of her. She swerved to the side and stopped right before she hit the railings. She called me right after it happened. I was so shocked by it and yelled at her to quit her job. But... I'm fine. No problem. I almost got in a car accident, but I didn't. I was fine. Most people who sit there are like that. It was a close call but it ended as an exciting event. An exciting event! (Wow...) It's a critical stage when you're 4 months pregnant. You came to a sudden stop. Didn't your stomach hurt or anything? No. I called my husband right after it happened. "Oh my god! This is what just happened to me!" He got worried, but I told him I was fine. So I told him, "I'm okay." Don't worry. She had to renew the contract recently. She did it without telling me. Do you mean her work contract? They renew it every 3 months. Then she'll be close to the due date. Why did you renew it without telling him? You could give birth in the next 3 months. Right. You'll be 9 months pregnant by then. I knew we would end up in an argument. I believe that my husband must love me and what I do as long as I am happy doing it. If you love your husband, and since he's worried about you, shouldn't you help him out a little? I could work a little less, but it's not work to me because I love it. It's not work. If you planned on working this much couldn't you have gotten pregnant a little later? Did you ever talk about that? Was it a surprise? Was it an exciting event? My husband made a mistake. What an exciting event! (Embarrassed) What is it, Daniel? Why are you embarrassed? Oh my. Yes, that's good acting. He doesn't know anything. She's from a different culture. She actually seems to be doing well. I'm being persuaded by her. She's a great person. People who don't know us think I'm making her work even when she's pregnant. Our acquaintances... Aren't you being too harsh? What's worse is that my mother-in-law... She may be upset that her daughter works too much. She doesn't live far away. She lives just 5 minutes away. Let's meet his mother-in-law. Hello. Hello. Are you her mother? I thought you were a friend. - You're his mother-in-law? / - Yes. - Unbelievable! / - Unbelievable! How old? Oops. Please excuse me for asking. I was born in 1963. In 1963? Wow, you look so young. (Wow) Do you understand your son-in-law's concern? I do. My daughter works too much. What mother would like that? When are you most worried about your daughter? When she was a senior in high school her father passed away from cholangiocarcinoma. You went through that pain. I couldn't make ends meet by myself so she studied and got scholarship. She's a great daughter. She even worked two jobs. She worked so hard in the past and she's doing the same thing even now. It's quite upsetting. I want her to put her health first. I think he's afraid to see you. (Sigh) - He should. / - He should? I opposed when they decided to get married. He came to see me after they started dating. - What parent would say yes to that? / - Right. But after they got married, I was nice to him. I treated him very well. You speak in a dialect when you get angry. I have no choice. So I was really good to him. I'm a very nice mother-in-law. You seem like it. - Right? / - Yes. I make him breakfast before he goes to work, I do the laundry and babysit their son. It's an exciting event. People around us tell him, "You must've saved a country in your past life!" That's why he has such a great mother-in-law. (Unbelievable) She's praising herself. It must be tough looking after the two. Yes, it was tough. When? I went through 3 surgeries after I came to Korea. Really? I had a surgery for thyroid cancer. Oh. I had a hysterectomy. Then after a year they found a stone in my gall bladder so I had to remove it. But right after the surgery, as soon as I came home, I babysat their son. (Oh my...) That must've been tough. Your mom went through 3 surgeries. Must you ask her to babysit so that you can work? She insists on getting a job so I told her I would pay her to babysit my son. So all she has to do is stay home. But when she just got out of surgery shouldn't you have helped her out? She looks happy when she babysits my son. But her gall bladder hurt. (Witty) It really hurt. It's no longer about yourself after you get married. It's "we" now. Your mom should've rested after the surgery, but she had to babysit. I think you should've worked less to take care of your mom and son. That's why I asked my husband to quit his job. What? Your husband? (Looking attractive) (You're the best!) Why did you ask him to quit his job? I can earn enough for the entire family. Do you plan to feed the whole family? - Yes. / - That's awesome. She's awesome. For your children one of you may have to give up on your job. That's why I do house chores and watch our son. I briefly go to work in the morning. Then I come back home. My son goes to a daycare center. So I take him there and go back to work. When it's time I pick him up, Then I do the dishes, the laundry... I do all the chores that need to be done. Does your wife not do anything at home? When she gets home, she's tired. We eat dinner together. She could at least put away the dirty dishes. But she doesn't. She just goes into her room. That makes me upset sometimes. If you are in charge of watching your son you won't make any more mistakes, right? How many children do you want? How many what? How many children? - Four. / - Four. She wants 3-4 children, but if he has to take care of all of them... Jihoon, you're not saying anything but you seem to understand what Dongyeob is saying. His ears are turning red. (You're a man) Did you get what he was saying? (A little) He knows more than you do. (Blushing) Their son came with them. Let's bring him out. How cute. He's so cute. (Aww) Daniel, why don't you hold him? He cried. (He goes to his dad) It's daddy. How cute. He cried. (I missed daddy) How cute. Say hello. What's his name? - Aaron. / - Aaron? Aaron. Aaron. Look at how small his feet are. Hi, Aaron. Aaron. You have a runny nose. Do you guys want to hold him? Daniel, hold the baby. He won't leave his dad. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. He misses his mother. Aaron. (Come here, Aaron) Aaron. (Wah!) (Yeongja doesn't understand kids) He's scared. He's scared. Why did you make him cry? He's not a terrible man. Don't cry. (Surprised) (Even more surprised) Please air this without editing it. (Yeongja will now have 10 million anti-fans?) (She apologizes quickly) I'm so sorry. (Oh my) The husband's close friend is here. Hello. Nice to meet you. Hello. I'm 30-year-old Eom Sangsu. You must understand how he feels. Yes, I do. I went to see her after she gave birth. I heard that she bled a lot. She stayed in bed. Then I gave her a call later and she left already. When does he have the hardest time? I have a girlfriend now so when we decide to meet it gets cancelled often because of her. She's very tired when she's home so she often stays home to sleep. She sleeps on her day off. I am getting married next month, so if my wife were to work like that I'd feel lonely. Since she's pregnant, I'm sure he worries a lot. But it'd be good as long as she works moderately? For my wife to work? Sure. We've gotten this concern quite often, but it was always the other way around. (Aaron must go rest now) Shouldn't he go to his mom? (Wah) (Good-bye, Aaron) So do you think it's right for your husband to do house chores and watch the baby? I'm always grateful to him. It's not like I don't watch the baby at all. But I love my job. He told us earlier that you don't even put away the dirty dishes. (Oh, what's the big deal?) That is not helping him at all. What's wrong with that? I need to get going in a hurry. He makes me eat and gets upset for not cleaning up. You're saying he shouldn't have made you eat? Right. From the start. He's making you eat because he cares about you. So I ate. I ate and he got upset that I didn't clean up. Let's say your husband is a workaholic, too. So he keeps the store open 24 hours a day. He doesn't come home. He orders delivery food and won't come home. How would you feel? That's wrong. It's okay for you, but not for him? Talk to the man sitting behind you. Why is it okay for you, but not for him? There's something special about that seat. (Everyone becomes brazen in this seat!) What's sad is that you can never turn back time. Your child is young and doesn't know anything yet. You're missing precious moments with him. I don't see it that way. Sure. That's why. It's not like I don't see my kid at all. He doesn't cry when he sees me. I know that you love your job, but can't you work a little less for your family? I could, but I won't. (Gave up) We're just repeating the same thing over and over. She has a healthy mind. She works hard. She's from a different culture. Because of those reasons I think I can understand her. I'm sure you married her because you like that. Sure. Everyone has their differences. Can't you just accept it? Should I switch seats with her? I've never persuaded someone on stage before. We can't get through to her. She's too confident. She's pregnant though. You want her to work less at least while she's pregnant. She can work again when the baby grows up. Here we go. Can you work a little less while you're pregnant? She already renewed the contract. Any final words to tell your wife? So long. Good-bye. Tell her that you will be good to her. Working hard is great. I don't need anything else. I'll earn the money. Please rest a little. He's so awesome. I'll earn the money. Just rest! Let's start with Minhyun. I still think it's a concern. I think it's a concern, too. I'm worried about her health. But I think she's a cool person. Me too. I wish she would rest until she gives birth. Give her a wink so that she'll rest. (Wink) (Targeting women's hearts) How does it feel to be winked by him? (Saved in my heart) (One more!) (Forcing a smile) They truly love each other. Couples have a hard time because of their lifestyles and habits. Please press the button if you can relate to him. (What does the audience think?) 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - Time's up. / - Stop! Please say a word for your husband. Honey. I love you so much. I'm always grateful to you. Thanks for raising Aaron well for us. Thanks for raising the baby. She's the head of the household. I thank you. Let's live happily. Please show us how many votes they got. So far, the highest vote was 170. (How many votes?) (They got 113 votes) Good job. I need your help. Be "woman 2." ("A woman with her head down") Hello. I'm a 17-year-old girl. People stare when I'm with my older sister. Wow. That's your sister? She's so pretty. Unbelievable! She looks like a doll. Woman 2. What happened to you? Why do you look like that? Oh my. I always get compared to my sister. But my friends aren't not the worst. It's my sister. Look in the mirror. Is that a face? You irritate me. Go away. What? Her own sister? When I meet her friends... It's a guy friend. Daniel. Is that your sister? Why does she look so different? Was she adopted or something? (Oh no) Was she adopted or something? (I didn't know I was the bad guy) (You're so mean!) (You're so mean!) That's what it says. I think so. I think she was adopted. Her own sister? It gets even worse. My friends are coming over soon. You! Keep your head down. I'll smack you if you lift your head up. Got that? I don't want to be miserable anymore. Please help me. She sent in her concern to us. Let's bring her out. Please come on out. (Who gets compared to her sister every day?) (Lee Lin) (She's cute!) Hello. She's so cute. You're so adorable! You're so pretty. Please introduce yourself. Hello. I'm 17 years old and in high school. I'm Lee Lin. Nice to meet you. She's so cute. Is this true? Is this really what your sister said? They are all true. And she really said those things to humiliate you? Yes. How pretty is she? You're pretty, too. We go to a traditional art high school in Jindo. Since we live in a rural area there aren't too many beautiful people. She's one of the prettiest ones. Tell us stories of how pretty your sister is. When my guy friends see her they say, "Wow! Is that really your sister?" They say that she looks like a doll and that I'm ugly compared to her. I'm getting worried. We know who her sister is already. Every time she says her sister is pretty the audience looks at the sister and goes hmph! Her sister is sitting uncomfortably. My sister's name is Lee Ji. Lee Ji. Most people around me say, "Your nickname is the ugly Lee Ji now." When I entered the high school, her friends said, "Is that really your sister? Is she adopted or something?" Did they really say that? They said it right in front of me. What's wrong with her friends? She never denied it. "I think so." Your sister said such a thing? I'm sure she was kidding. We just can't believe it. At first, I took it as a joke. But since she repeatedly says that sometimes I wonder if she is my real sister. When she told you to keep your head down, she was joking, right? We went to see a performance in Jeonju once. She whispered to me, "You embarrass me. Keep your head down. I'll give you a hat so keep your head down." Did you sit still after she said such words? One time, I just lost it. We have many instruments at school. I saw janggu sticks next to me. So that's you two fight? I hit her with the sticks and they broke. We got in a fierce fight one time. But she's your sister. You shouldn't have gotten in a physical fight. You should've gotten into a janggu battle. (I'm the winner of this battle) If she really has problems with her looks as soon as she showed up, people could've been worried for her, but it wasn't like that. Everyone said she's cute. You are cute. I am starting to doubt if this concern is real. Let's meet her sister now. We're seeing her sister for the first time on TV. Is this truly a concern for Lin? Lee Ji. Where are you? - Hello. / - Hello. Please introduce yourself. I'm 19 years old. I'm Lin's older sister. How do you feel? Your sister says this is her concern. I don't think it's a concern. Since I'm her family, she should understand that I'm teasing her. But you teased her in front of other people instead of taking her side. That's why she can't be understanding. I like her reactions so I end up teasing her, too. How does she react? She can't laugh nor cry. - Do you like that she's flustered? / - That's mean. - For example... / - Daniel raised his hand. You be quiet. How dare you! Is it true that people ask if she's adopted? Everyone in the family has double eyelids, but her. Hers are manmade. Why did you have to reveal her secret? (Boo...) Did she get plastic surgery on her eyes? Right. Many students get plastic surgeries over the break. I think you are pretty as is. Before surgery, many asked if she's adopted. So I replied, "I think so" as a joke. Doesn't it upset you when your friends say that? Look at her face. She has no other choice. Your friends are older than she is. Do you think the way she reacts is funny? Yes. I feel bad for her. Listen. What if... "What? You said your sister is pretty. She isn't." Then your sister says, "Right. She's too cocky." What if she says that in front of other people? Would you be upset or not? I'd feel bad and humiliated. And if she says, "Look at her reaction" and teases you? Then I would have to punch her. (Now you know how I feel?) You may have wanted to keep it a secret, but your sister just disclosed your plastic surgery. Do you want us to edit that part out? When this is aired, people will be able to tell anyway. It's okay. (It's not that obvious!) I didn't know you got those done. - Me neither. / - I didn't know either. They look very natural. Everyone says you look beautiful. Why did you get plastic surgery? I was the only one without double eyelids. People kept comparing me to my sister. But every time my sister looks at me she says, "You've become a plastic surgery monster now." That's what she would say to me. "Yours are fake. Mine are natural." Do you think you are really pretty? No, but I know that I'm prettier than my sister. Must you put your sister down like that in order to be happy? She doesn't have low self-esteem like that. She often performs in front of people. Boys would cheer for her or contact her personally. Then she would brag to me. I become spiteful sometimes. I thought that she shouldn't date boys yet. Are you jealous of her? No, I'm not. She shouldn't be interested in boys. That's why I said those things. She's just popular among boys. She is too cocky. I think you are being cocky. No, I'm not. (Mind your own business) (That feels good) We've listened to both sisters, but they speak from their stances only. So we have a friend here with us. Hello. How close of a friend are you? We've been friends for 2 years now. I think that you heard about Wanna One members so even though you're not a close friend... (Eyes wide open) No, no. We are really close. After hearing that Wanna One members were coming... "I'm your closest friend, all right?" Since you're her close friend do you understand her concern? Lin and I were walking down the hallway and she said, "You're so ugly! You should get plastic surgery." Ji said that? Lin tapped my shoulder and said, "She irritates me." - She's good. / - She's talented. She expresses things well. I've watched Ji for a year and a half now. I think she's selfish. - What? / - She's selfish. Does she only care about herself? In what aspects? Ji uses Lin's beauty products, shoes and clothes. But when Lin asked to borrow her things, she said, "Who are you to use my things?" That's what Lin told me. Ji was using Lin's tumbler at school without asking for permission. And Lin saw that. Lin asked for her tumbler back. She threw it at Lin. What? Lin had coffee all over her clothes and she started crying. Then a teacher came and yelled, "Why were you so rude to your sister?" She yelled at Lin instead. I think Ji told the teacher that she was the victim. (You!) (Ha ha ha ha I'm sorry) I have something to say about that. We're sisters. We can share our things. Now you're calling her your sister? She asked for it back. So I gave it back to her. As she was washing it she spilled coffee on me on purpose. So I got really angry. You know that was a mistake. No. - Do you think she did it on purpose? / - No. We weren't there so we don't know what's true. (Things have gone terribly wrong between them) Be quiet. Jihoon raised his hand. How long has it been? Are you embarrassed by your sister in front of other people? She often edited her pictures to look prettier. I've had many guys around me ask to meet her after looking at her picture. They were often disappointed after they met her. I was burdened by their disappointment so I ended up hiding my sister. So you weren't embarrassed by her, right? I was. (This young girl is...) Usually an older sister should tell her friends, "Who are you to be disappointed?" If your sister brags about being popular why would you hate her for that? She's your own sister. You say you're not jealous of her but there's some resentment inside you. She was so cute and lovely when she was young so I really loved her. I would even suck on her toes. Then we went to different schools for a while. When we met after being apart, she had changed. She started to get plastic surgeries and cuss at people. When she's around my friends or her friends she's sometimes mean to me. She should talk nicely to me first. Since we lived apart for a while I care about her even more. When I try to get close and she rejects me it hurts. She won't accept my affections. When I run into her in the hallway I run over to her. When I try to hold her arm she says, "You're disgusting, you crazy... Don't pretend to be close." (She has a dirty mouth) She acts cute when she runs over to me. How cute is that! She really isn't. Honestly, she disgusts me. So what did you tell her? So I told her, "Go away." You told her that she's disgusting. How are you when you're at home? Which one? The older one? We live separately in our dorms on weekdays. We live together on weekends to take lessons. Where? We come to Seoul on weekends. Only on weekends. We don't get to eat because we leave early. So I always pack her lunch. You do? She says, "You packed our lunch so you do the dishes." Who does the chores at home? I do. I do the laundry. She would lie and say she did it last time. It's all right. That's nothing for kids your age. She would lie and tell me to do the laundry this time. She does it even when I don't ask her to. She's doing it out of generosity, but you've taken it for granted. But she brags about doing good deeds. I can do it for her, too. I can do the laundry and the dishes, too. Then you should do it. (She's so selfish) I have things to do, too. I'm busy with lessons. Things have piled up for many years I think. Things have gone awry between them. Their mother is here with us, too. Let's talk to her. Hello. Hello. What do you think? Whose concern is it? When I first heard about being on this program, I thought it was because of their fights. I got a call from school a few days ago. I was told that they got into a messy fight. (Again? At school?) (Guilty) I was told that they were in a physical fight. They asked me what they should do. I was so embarrassed. They both came home one day and they were arguing again. I tried to figure out why. I guess she borrowed money. Lin said Ji owed her $170. Why did you borrow money from her? - Well... / - To meet her boyfriend. My sister earns a lot of money. She earns about $2,000 a month. From performing? What are sisters for? To share money. Why didn't you pay her back? I don't perform as much as she does. She performs quite often. Many people ask her to perform. So I end up borrowing money from her. Then she comes to me like a loan shark. If you treat her well she could just give that money to you. - Go ahead and spend it. / - She doesn't. It's because you don't treat her well. I've treated her well many times. That's what you think, but she never felt that way. Whenever people talk to Lin about her looks, she comes and tells me, "You made me look this way." I let her get plastic surgery and braces. She was concerned about her face so I let her get acne treatment. To be honest, I'm not all that pretty and I never thought Ji is really pretty, too. She's beautiful because she's my daughter. I went through brain surgery twice. So I am worried about the two of them. I told Ji, "If I die early you must take care of Lin." They live on their own on weekends. It isn't easy to support them. I wish they would take care of each other instead of fight. Who do you think is the problem? They're both the same. In my eyes, they're both the same. How do you feel, Ji? Your mom had brain surgery twice. I don't want to be on good terms with my sister. (You won't make amends forever?) I don't feel that way. You said you went to different schools. When was that? For 3 years when I went to middle school. - You were apart for 3 years? / - Yes. Were you comfortable in middle school? Because your sister wasn't around? She came to my school for festivals sometimes. My friends would say, "She's so pretty. What's wrong with your face?" You should've said, "Because she's my sister. Isn't she pretty?" Couldn't you brag about your sister? I did, but she really thinks she's beautiful. You are beautiful just as you are. Right. You're beautiful, too. You keep comparing yourself to your sister. You shouldn't think of her as your rival. She's your sister. But since I have an older sister, people evaluate me by comparing me to her. People will always give you hardships even when you grow up. You're the only one who can overcome that. You're the one who can overcome it. You must overcome it yourself. Do you think you'll be happy if you become prettier? I don't think so. Look at us. We should die if we compare ourselves to Wanna One. Right? We're octopuses. Looks aren't everything. Of course it'd be nice to be pretty or handsome, - but that's not important. / - Sure. Listen to your mother. She says both of you are at fault. It's not just one person's fault. Your sister doesn't talk nicely. She's blunt. If you speak nicer, she wouldn't be like this. Be a little nicer. You don't mean it, right? Both of you are at fault. Tell your sister what's on your mind. Ji, listen with a smile. Don't frown. You're her sister. I wish you wouldn't tease me in front of others that I got plastic surgery. I want you to take care of me. Do you miss your sister's love? (I miss your love) Let's start with Minhyun. If Lin was hurt by her sister I think it's a concern. I was ostracized when I was young. - Because of my looks. / - Your looks? It was quite bad in elementary school. But like Yeongja said, you must work hard to have high self-esteem. I may be uglier than others, but I dance better than they do now. I just need to do well on stage. Daniel was ostracized for being ugly? (Daniel's opinion / It's a concern!) Instead of fighting, I wish they would be nice to each other like you're sisters. They are sisters. Everything has come true now. If you think it's a concern for the little sister, please press the button. (What does the audience think?) 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Please stop. Please tell your sister what's on your mind. I'm not that pretty, but at least I'm prettier than you are. (Sigh...) This society is all about looks. You can express yourself by your looks. I wish you would dress up better. (When will they grow up?) This is what I ask of you, Ji. Before we check the results, of course she has to overcome this herself, but please help her until she does. She's working hard on her own. How many votes did they get? Please show us. There's no point in pressing the buttons now. Will they get more than 170 votes? 123 votes. (They got 123 votes) "Please quite now" won this week. Here's your reward. Congratulations. We have sad news. Our youngest member Taejoon is busy with many productions. So this is his last day on our program. Please say a word to our viewers. I felt like I was coming to school for a year. It was a special experience for me to be here every week and listen to people's concerns. I will show better acting skills based on what I've learned from this program. We got a bouquet for you. Good job, Taejoon. You've worked very hard. (We'll always root for you) I will laugh and cry with everyone. I will work hard as the youngest emcee. (He truly communicated with others with sincerity) (Thank you for supporting him for a year) Until the day we are all worry-free Hello Counselor will continue to counsel you. Thank you. ("JUST U" by Jeong Sewoon)
