We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns. National Competition on Worries! Here are today's guests. Looking at her always makes us feel good. Kim Jiseon. Hello. Shinji. Hello. I'm Shinji. Nice to meet you. FTISLAND's Lee Honggi. She is loved thanks to her husband and her son. Doctor Heo Yangim of family medicine. Welcome. They're rising stars. SF9's Rowoon. He's so handsome. There was the prolific Jeong Yak-yong in Joseon. Kim Jiseon is prolific now, too. You're always smiling, Jiseon. I only frown at home. At home, I have 3 boys and a girl. Two are in middle school, two are in grade school. My second son is going through puberty. One day, I went into his room and on the wall, he had written, "I want to die." Really? You must've been shocked. I was shocked. My eldest son saw it and said, "Mom, I was like that last year. It'll pass soon. Don't worry, Mom." He reassured me. You must feel reassured. Heo Yangim, your husband, Ko Jiyong, is so popular. He's the best husband. Her son is popular. Seungjae is so cute. You don't have any concerns, right? I am so grateful to have a son like Seungjae. But he seems to be lonely now. He is asking for a younger sibling. He's a young child. Then have another child. Get that prolific energy from her. Do you want that energy from me? (Make me a younger sibling) Shinji. You look like a newlywed bride. You do loving? No. Doesn't she look like she's in love? You should've asked if she's in a relationship. (Whether it's a relationship or love, give me some) We should be curious about her new song. But most women are curious how she lost her face fat. Your face has become so much smaller. Tell us your secret. I get massages from the same place as Yeongja. (Yeongja's secret is revealed) At the same place as Yeongja? The same place? Sue them! Sue them! There must be different treatments. Please sing your song for us. ("Good Girl" by Shinji) (She still has a powerful voice) ♪ Do I look that easy? ♪ (Shinji is the best for the summer) Honggi and Rowoon. Did you come here for your new songs, too? Correct. (Correct) - I wanted to get it right. / - I got it right. ("Summer Night's Dream" by FTISLAND) (This is nice) ♪ I miss you so much ♪ (A summer love song to make you forget the heat) (Rowoon can't stay put) He's so tall. ("Now or Never" by SF9) (Sensational and sexy) (So thrilling) (It's a crime not to know SF9) ♪ Now or never ♪ Now or never. (Speechless) Thank you so much for inviting me today. He moves so lightly. We need some joy like this in life. Who needs a vacation? Why were you chosen to be here today? Aren't you the most popular member? The company wanted the most popular one to come - and you were chosen? / - Yes. He doesn't deny it. He's unashamed. Kids nowadays are quite candid. Yes. I'm the most popular one. (I said it) (I'm a fan now) Please show us the concern keywords. "A Sad Honeymoon." "Is This a Concern, Too?" "Who Am I Living For?" It's titled, "A Sad Honeymoon." Is there a bride in that one? Yes. She's in her 20s. Hello. (Pretending to be a newlywed bride) I've been married for 9 months now. Once I got married, I wanted to eat good food and sleep together. I had a dream of a nice honeymoon. But my husband goes out every night. Where does he go? (Where does he go) (Every night?) Where? He's crazy in love with screen golf. He goes to play screen golf every night and comes home at around 3 a.m. I always go to sleep alone at night. (Screen golf is a lot of fun) The problem is that I'm 9 months pregnant. As my due date gets closer, I get contractions. But my husband is not concerned at all. "I'm not feeling too well. Can you stay at home with me instead?" "Really? You're not feeling well? But I still have to go play golf!" "What if I go into labor?" How can I spend the rest of my life with him? Please stop my husband from playing screen golf. How was your husband to you? He was so good to me. Through all 4 pregnancies? No, just up to my third pregnancy. He was so good until then. How do you feel after hearing this, Yangim? People think it's no big deal to become a mom. But a woman goes through many changes. It's hard. Right. Women's bodies completely change. How was it when you were 9 months pregnant? It was in August when it was really hot. It was so hot that I couldn't sleep so well. You keep tossing and turning, right? I wanted to sleep on my stomach so badly. I wanted to lie on my stomach so badly that I almost asked my husband to dig a hole in our mattress. - Right. / - I just wanted to do it once. That sounds like a great idea. Making a hole in a mattress for pregnant women. You want to buy that bed, too? Yes. (It's a customized bed for Yeongja?) I haven't slept on my stomach for 30 years. Someone very close to me is crazy for screen golf. Kim Jongmin is into screen golf these days. We still have many events to perform at. Even now. I am grateful for that. He insists that we return to Seoul early. To go play screen golf. He seems to be crazy for screen golf. But this man is a newlywed and his wife is 9 months pregnant. Who taught Jongmin to play golf? I started to play screen golf first. (It's my fault... I'm sorry, Jongmin...) Please applaud for this newlywed wife. (Jeong Hyein) Help her out. (Welcome to the concern house) Stay comfortable and stretch out your legs. Stay as comfortable as you can. You can even lie down. Please introduce yourself. I'm 24-year-old Jeong Hyein from Yangpyeong, Gyeonggi-do. - You're 24? / - 24 years old? My sister is 25 years old. She's only a year older than I am. - You're 23? / - Yes, I'm 23 years old. You two are about the same age. Rowoon has a strange charm. People normally say, "She's the same age as my sister," or "she's the same age as me." But his sister is older and he's a year younger. They have nothing in common. Seriously. You just said it just to say something, right? Yes. (One point awarded for a sense of humor) Tell us how crazy he is for screen golf. He started to play it right after we got married. So I've been at home by myself this whole time. What does your husband do? He is a manager at a pizza restaurant. That sounds good. One of the brands that we know? Yes. He goes to work at 10:30 a.m. and gets off work at 10:30 p.m. He works for 12 hours. I want him to spend time with me after work, but he goes to play screen golf immediately afterwards. He comes home at around 3 a.m. (He comes home after golf at 3 a.m.) You eat dinner by yourself at home? Yes. I eat alone, clean and do laundry alone. (Did I get married to be by myself?) You didn't expect this before you got married? My father-in-law jokingly said, "He goes water skiing in the summer and he goes skiing in the winter." He's into sports every season. You're just the same, right, Honggi? He was into bowling and screen baseball when we were dating. He is into so many sports. He is just like me. When we were dating, I always went with him. Oh, you went with him. It was nice just being with him. But I can't handle watching golf with him. Is he the type to buy all the equipment, too? Yes. Even the equipment... He's not a pro, but he buys everything. Some people buy the equipment first. He buys it first. If he gets sick of it, he displays the equipment. His bowling ball is on display. And his water skis are too. He bought a board, too? Of course you have to buy your own. You don't need your own for wakeboarding, but you need your own for bowling and golf. But Honggi, you're very good. Is your husband really good? He's... He's not very good. He can mimic what pros do though. You cried and begged him to stay with you because you weren't feeling good, but he went anyway? Right. You tried to make him stay home. I begged him once to stay home, but he said, "I made a promise, so I have to go." He said that with a straight face. So I once ran away from home in a rage. You ran away? I was worried that he might be worried about me or be mad at me. He texted, "You went to your parents' home? You should've said so. Good night." - Oh my goodness. / - That's so upsetting. (Not serious at all) (Why did I get married?) Let's meet her husband. Where are you? Hello. He has a big smile. (Big smile) He looks like a nice man. Do you understand your wife's concern? At this moment, I don't really understand. I don't go play golf every day. I just go for 2-3 hours to relieve stress with coworkers. How many times a week do you go? I go about twice a week regularly. He said he'd go only on Mondays and Thursdays. But he said he wasn't improving at it and started to go 3-4 times a week. He goes 3-4 times a week? I've never really gone 4 times... I guess I did. If I tell him that he can't go, he says, "Then what do I do at home?" What will he do at home? What does he do when you forbid him to go? I was never able to make him stay home. - He somehow goes. / - He always went. You have to be honest with us today. The best thing to do sitting down is gambling. The best thing to do standing up is golf. Who said that? That's a dangerous comment. I think you missed something. All right. The best to do lying down is to sleep. So? So the best thing to do standing up is golf. How long are you planning to play golf? About 3-5 years. I should commit to it for at least that long. You're going to quit if you reach a certain level? If I can get a minus score, I'd quit. Get a minus score in screen golf? - That's hard. / - How well do you play now? My score is around the low 80s. How long have you been playing it? About 6 months. He's good. It's okay to play it as your hobby. But you're married and your wife is pregnant. Don't you think it's weird to act as you did when you were single? My wife has always known that I like sports. She never stopped me from doing sports before. But now that we are married, she has removed her mask. What are you talking about? How can you say that? You got married and she got pregnant. If she weren't pregnant, maybe you could do that. Are any of your friends married? - No, not yet. / - That's why. If this were her second pregnancy, I'd understand, It's her first. Imagine how scared she must be. We all know that childbirth is painful. Did you ever go through it yourself? Try to calm down, Jiseon. If you go to maternity classes, they have things that men can try on. You've never done that, right? No. It's like having a big water container on you. (Right) Rowoon, she's a year younger than your sister. If she were my sister, I... If you were... He made a fist. Because they both planned to have this baby. He seems to be too irresponsible. Don't look at us. Talk to the husband directly. Why don't you ask him a question? (What is Rowoon's first question?) How did you start playing golf? (What?) He was so angry and that's what he asked? It's because he's a nice guy. You got so angry at us earlier. You were most curious about that? Good job. My father-in-law is a golf maniac. - He's really good. / - Your father-in-law. He bought me golf clubs as a gift. - You hate your dad, right? / - Yes. My dad is my real enemy. My dad had so many other hobbies before he got into golf. (Her dad is just the same) I grew up watching my dad and thought, "I'll never marry a man like my dad." Now that I'm married, my husband is just like my dad. How could I marry someone like him? You don't always play with your father-in-law. Tell us whom you play with. I play with managers that I used to work with. We can relax when we play golf, so we can bond. We work, drink coffee and eat chicken together. Yes, relieving stress is important. You've formed a bond with those managers. But you haven't formed a bond with your wife. She's the one that you should bond with the most. I spend time with her on my days off. We go see a movie or go buy baby things. I cook for her, too. After he does those things... - He asks you if he can go out? / - Yes. "I did these for you, so I can go now, right?" So I don't ask for anything from him. You think he does those so he can play golf. (I'm starting to doubt his sincerity now) Our drummer had a baby recently. He's so amazed by it that he's with the baby all day. Sure. It's his first child. Aren't you curious about your own baby? I am. When we're together, I talk to her stomach. I put anti-stretch mark cream on her. That's not the point here. I think you should spend more time with her. He can rub it on her when they're together. You sound like her husband. It's not important what you do for her. You should just try to be with her. You should go through this time together. Are you married or something? How do you know so much? He couldn't know unless he's married himself. I heard that once a woman gets pregnant, - she gets depressed. / - Right. It's depressing for her to see her body change. Where did you hear that? From sex education class. Sex education. Young people take those classes now. (Rowoon is needed in every household) If you play screen golf about twice a month, how much money do you spend on it? I spent about $200. That's not bad. He doesn't drink or smoke. Isn't that acceptable? As for now, $200 is a lot of money. I'm embarrassed to say this, but he hasn't given me money once after marrying. What? (No way) All the expenses are paid by my savings from when I used to work. Also my parents feel bad for me, so they secretly give me allowance. This makes a big difference. You should've said that from the start. This changes things. We are getting by with my savings. We haven't bought any baby things yet. Not yet? When is your due date? September 5. It's very soon. I've been telling him that we need to buy things, but he said, "Why buy them so early?" Where did you spend your earnings? You've never given her money for living expenses? This changes things, you know. You're a manager. Where did your earnings go? I'm sure it's somewhere in Yangpyeong. - Did he bury his money? / - Bury it? Maybe he'll surprise her later and give her $10,000 all at once as a gift. (Knocked down) Let's hear him out. I did some foolish things before we got married. I have debt. How much? About $20,000. For how long do you have to pay it off? I'll be done paying it back next month. Did you know it would all be paid off by next month? No. - You should've told her. / - They don't talk. Aren't you angry hearing this? Please be honest with us. I'm very angry. He goes to play golf very often, so my sister is always home alone. They both caused my parents heartache before. Together? Since my brother-in-law works until late she would go out and come home very late. That's why you two got married. You were trying to be responsible. That's understandable. What else is there? I was once out with friends and my sister called me crying. She called you? I was surprised and went to see her. She was crying at home all by herself. So I took her to our parents' home once. I thought if I don't go out when she cries... - You thought it'd happen every time? / - Yes. Oh my. (Everyone is very quiet now) I think that a man should act differently once he is married. - Sure. / - Of course. We're both men, so I understand that he's young and wants to go out and have fun. But if my wife disliked it, I would go out less. You should endure it while she's pregnant. (Shouldn't you hold back at certain times?) What would you like to tell your brother-in-law? Look at him as you tell him. Lotto is going to be born soon. (Smile) The baby's nickname is Lotto. Lotto will be born soon. Responsibility is the key as a husband and father. Please be more responsible. It must've been hard to tell him that. (But his face...) It still looks like the husband doesn't realize how poorly he has behaved. Even now... I still don't understand. (He's the only one who doesn't understand) What part don't you understand? You see... (Calm down, my heart) Considering how much I work, I don't think I'm asking for a lot. You think that you work 12 hours a day. So being pregnant and being alone aren't too hard compared to that? Right. I don't even have friends. I can't go out to see my friends on my day off. I have to be with my wife and hang out with her for her sake. "For her sake"? No, I shouldn't have said that. How can he say such a thing? - Shinji. Shinji. / - She's angry. "I work 12 hours a day. You know how hard that is? I need to rest and be rewarded." I think that's what's on your mind. This isn't about being rewarded. Do you think that it is natural for your wife to go through this to become a mom? Yes, a little. Most men feel this way. They think it's natural for a woman to go through this to become a mother. Being depressed while being pregnant is as painful as what cancer patients suffer. - When they're pregnant. / - Their mental state. That's how depressing it is. Most men are very understanding and some men just don't understand. But don't you think it's common sense to stay home when your wife is sick because you're worried about her? It's not easy to leave a sick wife at home. If I was that afraid that she's not well, then I shouldn't even be going to work. If you think of it that way. But she's not that sick. It looks like he has a plan of his own. I don't know what that is. But he won't share it. But you don't say it, so the wife doesn't know what her husband is up to. That's what's so upsetting. It's because you only dated at nights. Those who only date at night only speak of dreams. That's why you should date at night, but also in the morning and during the day. You're a professional. "This is what he looks like. This is what his body is like." That's... I used to date only at nights and saw him once during the day and everything went awry. (Bitter experience, true laughter) What are you most concerned about? He said, "I must play golf while I can. I can't go once the baby is born." I am afraid that he won't change his ways even after the baby is born. Once the baby is born, are you willing to go fewer times or only go when she lets you? I want her to let me go once a week. You won't go when she says not to? (Ha... Ha... Ha...) Your wife can't go out at all right now. It'll be worse once she has the baby. Yes, of c-course... (Unwillingly...) I don't know when I'll go into labor. If it starts while he's out playing golf, I'd call my parents because they live nearby. I'm afraid that he'll feel guilty for the rest of his life for not fulfilling his duty if my parents come instead of him. You care about your husband. You want your husband to be a good husband? I'm most concerned about this. Whether you go out or not, you should never say, "What do I do if I stay home?" That's just ridiculous. If you don't open up, you'll never communicate. Just tell her every trivial thing. We don't always talk about important things. We just talk. That's what being married is about. I want you to get into the habit of talking to her. What do you do when you're at home? My wife says, "Please stop talking!" (You talk too much) "Shut up! Please." You're just talkative. I'm sure you want something from your wife. Don't just stay at home and watch television. Go out to work out or meet friends. You can go travel. I'm okay with everything. Then give her money so that she can travel. I'm so upset because... We live in a world where people give things up. People give up on dating and other stuff. They give up on babies because of money. "Yes. Let me endure it for a year. I'll have lots of fun in a year. Let me be responsible because I'm married now." You don't do any of that. You don't give her money and you want her to go out or go travel instead of clinging onto you. She can't even buy milk. I'm so frustrated. If she was my niece... It's as if I ate very spicy cold noodles. There's a place in Oksu-dong. Why are you talking about food? Things were going great until now. (All she talks about is food) - I can't. / - Very spicy? There's a place in Oksu. You die when you eat it. Have you come to your senses now? Yes. Like she said, you're being very irresponsible. Rowoon has something to say. I'm 23 and she's 24. She must want to do so many things. You're out playing golf because golf is more important to you. I think that's a fact. So from now on... Don't you have something else to say? Rowoon. Rowoon. If you have something impactful to say, it should have more impact than what I said. Get a grip! Please! This is a concern. (Rowoon's opinion: It's a concern!) I think it's a concern. If he doesn't change even after the baby is born, it'll be a bigger problem. He should change things now. I think it's a concern, too. I think you can be a great husband and a great father. I believe in you. I won't press it. Kim Jiseon believes in you. If you think it's a concern, press the button. (What does the audience think?) 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Please stop. This is a crucial moment. What would you like to say to your wife? Hyein. We're young and we'll have a baby soon. I'm sorry that I didn't understand how you feel. When the baby is born, I will do my best to be a better person for you and the baby. Please have faith in me. (Have faith in me) I love you. (I love you) Can you have faith in me? - You trust him? / - Yes. Please show us the result. How many votes did they get? (The husband is crazy about playing screen golf!) 100 out of 200? So many women are here today. 145 votes. (They got 145 votes) This one is titled, "Is This a Concern, Too?" We have never gotten a concern like this before. Hello. I'm a woman in my 20s with insomnia. Our home is at war every single day. "Follow my lead! Attack! What are you doing? Execute him!" Do you know "King Wanggeon"? It's a drama that was aired in 2000. My father has been watching this drama for 10 years now. (Repeatedly watching the drama for 10 years) He's a fan of Wanggeon. "Dad, please. Can't we watch another drama?" "No! I have to watch 'Wanggeon'! This is the best drama. He watches it 3-4 hours a day. On some days, he watches it for 24 hours straight. "It's so nice to eat out, right, Dad? Isn't this a great restaurant?" "Hurry up and eat. Are you done? Let's go home right now! I have to watch 'Wanggeon'!" And he has the volume turned up so high that even our cat plugs his ears when he sleeps. Their cat. "Dad! I'm going crazy here. Please turn down the volume." "How dare you! You're living in my house!" Her dad said that? He has become Wanggeon! Wanggeon! Wanggeon! Wanggeon! I feel nauseated when I hear Choi Soojong's voice on TV now. Our puppy was even named Gung-ye. Please solve this issue. This is what she wrote. How interesting! What do you think about this concern? When I first started to bowl... There's a dry rehearsal around 6 or 7 a.m. Then I'd be picked up at around 5 a.m. I bowled until 4 a.m. and my manager picked me up from the bowling alley. I went for the shoot, took a nap and went to play bowling again. (Full of passion for bowling) - You were into it. / - He's a maniac. "King Wanggeon" was a great drama, but it's not easy to watch it for 10 years. Please come on out. (Who's concerned about her Wanggeon-loving dad?) (Choi Yeseul) It couldn't be possible. I can't imagine it. Has your dad watched "Wanggeon" for 10 years? Yes, he's been watching only that for a decade. I don't remember much when I was young. But my dad has always watched that. Now that I'm grown up, I realize that I only see Choi Soojong on television. (Dominating the television) Since you were young? He has the image of being a romantic husband. I don't hate him or anything, but I'm tired of seeing him on TV. (How could you say that to me?) If he's a fan of Choi Soojong, then he could watch other dramas Soojong was in. No. He only watches "King Wanggeon." He's not a fan of Choi Soojong? I don't think so. Has he ever told you why he likes "Wanggeon"? He says, "There's no other drama that's better." It's the best drama? He says, "There's no other drama that's better." It's the best drama? (Must I say it out loud?) Does he always watch it from start to finish? Sometimes he does. The biggest problem is that he has several favorite scenes. He repeatedly watches those scenes. I've never watched the drama myself. Even though your dad is a big fan? - You're stubborn, too. / - She's tired of it. He always watches it, so there are certain things I hear over and over. For example, the scene where Gungye explains how he reads minds. I'm Mireuk. There's the ending song at the end. (Epic drama "King Wanggeon") She memorized the sound. (I couldn't help but memorize it) (Let's confirm it) You must! (After the ending scene...) (This is the music!) (The melody is similar) They prepared the mindreading scene. You may remember it when you watch it. - Here it comes. / - This is the scene. (Right) (She already has a headache) He acted so well. Listen carefully. Yes, Your Majesty. Do I know how to read minds, you ask? I read your minds with my mind. I have read your minds. You are all full of crap. Crap! I'm trying to run, but you crapheads can't catch up to me. (Ends with a powerful line) "You crapheads can't catch up to me." How many times have you watched this scene? I wash my hair every night. I heard it every day when I washed my hair. Whenever I dry my hair. All you heard is crap! You're a craphead! You're still full of crap! Is that how it feels? Then... Listen carefully. Oh, that scared me. Then... (Ta-da) We have to keep watching it? Like this? Do I know how to read minds, you ask? I read your minds with my mind. I have read your minds. You are all full of crap. Crap! But you crapheads can't catch up to me. (They're saying the lines, too) (I want to escape it) (It's finally over) (Again?) Listen carefully. (You are surrounded) No! No! - Please stop. / - Stop! Listen up. All right. A craphead. - You're used to it, huh? / - Yes. To be honest, you said he watches it 24 hours a day. That's... It's true. How can a person watch a drama for 24 hours? Once my dad comes home from work, the first thing he does is turn on the drama. He watches it until he falls asleep. He doesn't go to work on some days. He watches it from morning to night on those days. He goes to sleep with it on? He sleeps as he listens to the drama. It's a lullaby? Couldn't you turn it off when he's asleep? I once did. When I turned it off, he opened his eyes and said, "I wasn't sleeping." He opened his eyes and said, "I wasn't sleeping." We all know about that. "I was watching that." You mentioned this, too. You're in his home, so you shouldn't complain? He said that, too. You're crapheads living in my home. That's not all. It's a war drama. It's very loud. He has the volume turned up high, too. If the max volume is 100, then about 70. It's almost two-thirds of the volume. So I have a sleeping disorder - I have chronic fatigue. / - So you're skinny. I also have ringing in my ears. That's how serious it is? Hearing ringing in your ear... We get that after we perform on stage. That's how loud he has it on? - Yes. / - Like in a concert? Doesn't the drama have 100 episodes? - 200 episodes. / - 200 episodes? It'll take a while to watch it all the way through. 200 hours, if one episode is an hour long. Your father's life ends with "King Wanggeon"? He has no other interests. Let's ask him. Hello, sir. Hello. You understand your daughter's concern, right? No. All I do is watch the drama. That's all. That's all he does. I work hard and watch "King Wanggeon" at home. I don't think it's a serious concern. You watch it too much. That's why. Some may say it's a lot and some would say it's not. How can you watch it for 24 hours? I don't do that every day. When I watch "King Wanggeon," I didn't realize it at first, but it has a strange charm to it. (I fell in love with it unwittingly) He's trying to get us into it, too. (Doesn't it get old after 10 years?) Your daughter is saying that she's sick and tired of the drama. Well... She hates it. Not me. (Today's paternal love) - That's true. / - She's the one who hates it. I have nothing to say. He's the typical Chungcheong-do person. "Dad, can I watch something else?" If your daughter begs, you'd still say no? We have two televisions at home. They watch one and I watch it on the other one. When it's time to eat dinner, I get curious about what's going on. You've watched it already. You're still curious? I'm still curious. He doesn't want to miss a single scene. That's not the problem though. You have the volume turned up so high that even the cat plugs his ears to sleep. As for the cat, it's living in my home. He can find his own way to avoid it. The cat. Has your hearing gone bad? Maybe. I work with heavy machines, so my hearing may have gone bad. You work with heavy machines? An engineer. Those machines make loud noises. I'm curious. There are many historical dramas. Why do you only watch "King Wanggeon"? There's nothing better than "King Wanggeon." All other dramas are crapheads. Have you ever watched our program? I'm sorry, but no. So you were confused when she asked you to come today? So I watched one episode to see what it was. It left a bad taste in my mouth. So you don't know any of us here? Do you know who I am? Sure. How? I didn't star in "King Wanggeon." You live in our neighborhood. Do you know what I do? You used to be a comedian. Yes, and now she's a female comedian. A bus conductor. (He's talking about her gag from 20 years ago) (Thanks for remembering me though) Do you watch from start to finish? Or do you only watch your favorite scenes? I watch from start to finish at times. Sometimes, I watch my favorite scenes. What scene is that? My favorite scene in the drama is the Battle of Shinan. The wind was against them. The wind was against them. They couldn't win the battle. Arrows can't fly against the wind. He is excited to talk about it. Then strategist Taepyeong finds the southeast wind. (Wanggeon prays for the wind) Please turn this northwest wind into the southeast wind. Does it change? Does it change? How could this be? It's a southeast wind. (Everyone laughs) (He's full of smiles) (They begin to attack on the sea!) Stuntmen are working hard. I'm impressed. (He's focused on the drama) How could this be? It's a sea of fire! (Rad! They win thanks to the gods!) The word "rad" didn't exist in the past. Wow. How could this be? Do you still get immersed in the drama? Sure. He likes the battle scenes. - That's not true. / - What? (Adamant) That's not true. Listen to what he has to say. I'm a craphead! - You're wrong. / - Craphead! Can you do impressions of some actors, too? Like Wanggeon? Shingeom. Shingeom? Shingeom is Gyeonhwon's son. He gets scolded whenever he loses. He gets scared, so he yells at himself to relieve anger. I'm curious. He goes like this. (Do it now) Oh my! What? What was that? Let's laugh together. (Let's watch the original scene) You fools. Go train the soldiers again! Yes, sir. How could we lose track of the king when we had him? Oh my goodness! (They do look similar) It wasn't "Oh my!" Oh my goodness! Please do it again for us. Oh my goodness! How could we lose track of the king when we had him? Oh my goodness! (Respect) (Imagine listening to that for 10 years) In order to find out how well he knows the drama, the production crew prepared a question. We'll show you a scene from the drama. Please tell us what's going on in the scene. Master quiz. Your Majesty. We'll arrive in Muan tonight. In the morning, you will arrive in Naju by traveling on land. I see. Naju. Go in and rest, Your Majesty. Luckily, the wind is in our favor, so you'll arrive there quickly and comfortably. All right. (Here's the question!) I know. - It's not over yet. / - No? His lines are long. How can anyone remember it? - It's so long. / - How would we know this? It's not over yet. (Perplexed) He speaks very slowly. He seems to be complaining about something. What were you going to answer? It's too long. I have to think. I didn't know his lines were this long. - Do you remember this scene? / - Yes. Don't answer it yet. We'll try to guess it. Rowoon, what do you think? Baekje... It's too sad. What happened to Rowoon? You're a craphead! The dad knows the answer. I... What do we eat when we get to Naju? Naju soup and rice. You must boil it for 24 hours. - Sir. / - Yes? Do you remember the lines? Yes. "I'm leaving my hometown. What's the rush? Why would I be rushing to leave?" Something like that. Really? Let's take a look. Luckily, the wind is in our favor, so you'll arrive there quickly and comfortably. (What's the answer?) Quickly and comfortably? What is the rush? I'm leaving Baekje. What is there to rush over? (Almost perfect) Wow, sir. (He is indeed a"King Wanggeon" maniac!) Now I'll quiz you on your real life. When's your wedding anniversary? (Hesitant) You know the answer, right? April... What day is it? Craphead! (Bitter...) He seems to be so happy. I think some people here would think it'd be nice to be more understanding. He's the only one who's happy. Mom shares a room with him. The TV is loud and he has the remote. So they argue 3-4 times a week. It must be the toughest for her mother. Do you argue often over the remote? Yes, we used to. I've given up now. For my sake. She's talking about the remote, but he's only interested in work and the drama. And they can't communicate with each other over that. You must be quite lonely, too, ma'am. - It saddens me. / - Sure. When I'm sick in bed... The TV is so loud. After watching the battle scenes, I sometimes dream about it. Yes, that's possible. I dream about it and it becomes a nightmare sometimes. I have to run away, but my feet won't move. Like sleep paralysis. (I know...) It looks like he gets addicted to things easily. What else did he get into? He once told me that he wanted to learn to play the saxophone. So I got him a saxophone. If that could get rid of "King Wanggeon." But he started to do both noisily. Oh no. He put up a soundproof wall in my daughter's room. The problem is that my father is the chairman of the saxophone club. He plays it in front of me 3-4 times a week and asks me what I think. When I eat or I have friends over, or when relatives come over or when we go out. He keeps playing it. It's hard. Let's see how good he is. (Let's see how well he plays) (Serious) - This is the song. / - "Gaeyeoul." (He must've practiced a thousand times) (Bravo) (But...) (His family doesn't look happy) Everyone else enjoyed the performance, but not his family. You must've heard this song a thousand times. Yes. I'm just tired of it. Is it tough for you, too? Yes. It's fine that he stole my room to practice in, but I became a traitor in the family. A traitor? I downloaded all the episodes for him. All 200 episodes? I didn't think much of it and downloaded the whole drama for him. I didn't know he'd watch it this much. (A big sigh) (There's nothing better than "King Wanggeon") After he took my room, I got a job, too, so I moved out. My sister and dad are always arguing over turning down the volume and Mom is always in her room. So I don't go home often. It may sound like a joke now, but if your daughter refuses to come home, wouldn't it be upsetting later? I guess so. We're talking about your life here. Let me ask you. What was he like before he fell for the drama? We were a happy family. We never fought over what to watch. We all ate together and talked about our day. Sure. Now, even when I go home after a long time away, I greet him, "I'm home, Dad." He says, "Hi," and continues to watch the drama. So I've given up now. When you're addicted to something, your family feels like they've been pushed aside and that's why they complain. What do you think about that, sir? I agree. I will cooperate and watch it less. Watch it less. When you eat together... I'm sure Wanggeon doesn't want to eat with you either. Enjoy your meal with your family. Can you do that for them? I can do more than that. That's great! (Why didn't you do so earlier?) Please say a word to your father. I'm a member of this family, too. Please don't ignore my opinions. Let's try to compromise. I'll clean better. All right. Let's start with you, Jiseon. I don't think it's a concern. I will believe in him. I think it's a concern. - I don't think it's a concern. / - It's not. I think it's a concern. As a family, it's important to do what they like, but it is also important not to do what they dislike. I think you've been ignoring their wishes for too long. I don't think it's a concern. People from Seoul are fooled by what men from Chungcheong-do say. Really? Women from Chungcheong-do cry inside. Chungcheong-do people say nice things. They're stubborn. They say that they'll do it, but they don't. They say that they'll change, but they don't. They don't? Everyone else gets frustrated. I'm going to say this is a concern. If you can relate to her concern, please press the button. (What does the audience think?) 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Please stop. Please say a word to your family. I'm sorry. Tell them directly. I told you. - I'm sorry. / - To your oldest daughter. What I would like to tell her is... She's lived away from us since high school. Talk to her directly. We were apart then. I didn't get to treat you as well as I wanted then. I'm not in love with the drama. I'll try to control myself and make sure you're not disturbed by it. He's a great father. I love you. Now. Please show us the result. The current winner has 145 votes. "Is This a Concern, Too?" Sure. (How many votes?) 89 votes. (They got 89 votes) I'm up next. It's titled "Who Am I Living For?" Please play the role of the friend. Hello. I'm Kim Beomseok from Gyeongsang-do and I own a Korean barbecue restaurant. People say things are tough because of the economy, but I am too busy. "Beomseok, are you busy? Come on out!" What if it's a woman from Pyongyang? "Beomseok, are you busy? Come on now." (Voice impression from the past) "Right now? Why?" "A new store nearby opened up. We must go and help their business. We are all businessmen. We should help each other out." You're so good. She does it so well, right? What if it's a woman from Pyongyang? "Businessmen ought to aid each other." That was so good! (She's the best!) (Happy) Sure. It's great to help each other out. But the problem is... "I can't go today. We have a group coming in. I am busy doing my own business." "How can you say that? You know that lady from the rotisserie place? She has a sprained disc. Who else will help her? We should! Let's go do the dishes." "You know that woman from Mapo? She's making kimchi all by herself. Who else will help her? We should! Let's go!" He drags me around to run errands and make 50 heads of kimchi. One day, he said, "I started an internet community so that businessmen can help each other out. I'm the chairman. You're the director." Just out of the blue? So I became the director of an internet community. When do I get to run my own business? Please help me out. To us, he sounds like a loyal and cool guy. He'd be a great man for the neighbors. The world is a better place thanks to people like him. What do you think? He sounds cool, but you should be able to take care of yourself first. If I have something to do, but I have to give it up to help others, - I wouldn't have my own life. / - Right. Let's bring him out first. His ribs were fractured today. We'll find out later how it happened. Please come on out. (Who's concerned about his friend?) (Rowoon escorts the guy!) (Kim Beomseok) (Careful) - You have it on. / - You have a belt on. Which side is it? My ninth and eleventh ribs were fractured. They were completely fractured? Yes. Do you own a business with your hometown friend? No, we don't do business together. I own a BBQ place with my parents in Jinhae. What about your hometown friend? He owns three restaurants in Busan and Changwon. So you don't even work together. You don't even live in the same city. Right. (How amazing) Are all business owners in Gyeongsang-do subscribed in your internet community? No. We started out with 40-50 members. That's a lot. Now we have about 2,000 members. (The internet community is quite large now) How long have you known this friend? - About 20 years now. / - That's a long time. How did you two become close friends? We became closer when I started my business and asked for his advice and help. He was an experienced business owner. Then about 3 years ago he wanted to form a group for the self-employed so that we could all help each other. That sounds great. I liked his intention. He said, "I choose you to be my partner." It was a notification. So I became the director. Didn't it feel good? You're a director. I'm the CEO of my own restaurant. This was actually a demotion for me. Before you came here, you tried to say no to him because you were busy? Even so, he came and picked you up? My business must do well first to help others. Of course. He comes over whether it is day or night. When he comes less, that's about 3 times a week. That's coming less? This is what happened once. "Hey! Let's go." He took me as if he kidnapped me. Then he headed to Busan. He took me to a store that just opened. I had a group reservation that night. I got there late and it was chaos. Like I said earlier, there's a woman who owns a rib place. She makes 500 heads of kimchi annually. I am dragged there to help out. But I can't really complain because my hometown friend makes his wife and sons go help out, too. (How tiring) - His entire family? / - 500 heads of kimchi. So I help out without complaining. (That must be tough) I'm curious. What else have you helped out with? Moving tables before a restaurant opens. Remodeling a restaurant. If a kitchen staff member is out with an illness, I go there to do the dishes. I can't really refuse because he helped me a lot when I started my restaurant. I didn't know anything back then, so he helped me choose the right dishes and helped me promote the restaurant. After he formed the internet community, he's been saying, "Who else will do it? We must step up!" I looked at the hometown friend. He is sitting like a rocket ready to blast off. He's always ready to go out and help others. Hello. Hello. I woke up 5 a.m. to get here from Changwon. Nice to meet you. Hello. You're a passionate person. Beomseok talked about a few incidents. Did he exaggerate or is everything true? I think he's too nervous to explain everything. It's a lot worse than he explained it. - A lot worse? / - You're a lot worse? Things are tough nowadays. There are so many people we must help out. (So eloquent) Look at Beomseok. He is well-built. He works very well. Are you the only two who help others? Or do other people join you? Other people have joined us, but after once or twice, they don't call. So it's usually the two of you. It'd be nice if many people helped out, but he's the only one who has stuck with me. Others left? It's because he's too nice. Why did you stay with him? Why did you form the internet community and what is it? Our community is all about doing business comfortably. He looks very uncomfortable. Many independent businessmen are suffering. - As you already know. / - Sure. The only way to overcome this hardship is... Your tone... Do you usually speak like that? I'm not nervous at all. - Do you normally speak like this? / - Yes. He is very driven. He thinks it's his mission to help others. So? So I suggested that we form a community to do what we can to help others. That's how we started this community so that people can comfortably do their business. One's own business must go well in order to help others. I'll be honest with you. Helping others while your own business isn't going well is bad. - Sure. / - That's right. Coincidentally, my businesses are successful. Coincidentally? I am very grateful for that. You started your own business? I work with my parents. It must be tough for your parents. Since I am so busy helping others with him, conflict arises with my parents. I feel guilty often, too. He has to go help out others as he has conflicts with his own parents. Couldn't you help others by yourself? Many hands make light work. (Very eloquent) Yes, that's true, but he has to worry about his parents, too. I heard that Beomseok once argued with his parents and didn't speak to them for 3 days. So now, when I go see him, I park my car far away from the restaurant and tell him to come to me. - That's worse. / - It's like Romeo and Juliet. (He's so adamant) (I can't bear to look) For the past 3 years, I've been through many clinical trials. Clinical trials? Clinical trials in restaurants? I can't eat spicy food. One day, he took me to a spicy chicken place. - They had a new dish. / - Another restaurant. I said, "I can't eat spicy food." He said, "You must taste it in order to give advice and make suggestions." So I forced myself to eat it. That night, I got stomach cramps. You got sick. I ended up in the ER that night. I have a fear of corners and sharp things. Some people have that. So I hate getting shots, too. Because needles are sharp. He took me to an oriental medical clinic. A new oriental medical clinic opened? I was forced to get acupuncture. You were their patient? One day, he suggested we go for a drive. That day, a new hair bleaching product came out at this hair salon. You were their customer that day? They dyed my hair blonde without asking me. I own a Korean beef BBQ place. We have many older customers. They see a guy with blonde hair in front. They are surprised. What's this? Oh, the oriental medical clinic. Acupuncture. You must've been scared. (Oh no!) When that new bleach product came out. So many employees are working on you. (Being blonde is terrible) Didn't older customers complain about your hair? Why don't you do all these things yourself? Rather than doing it by myself, it's a lot better to go together. I didn't know he couldn't eat spicy food. He told you that he couldn't eat it. I thought he was enjoying the food. Now I find out that he went to the ER. I'm sorry! What about the hair bleach incident? I know a person who owns a hair salon. They needed someone to test the product. You could've bleached your own hair. The coach doesn't play in the match. (What is he saying?) Isn't Beomseok handsome? He has a big head. We needed a model and couldn't find anyone. (Until when must I suffer through this?) I'd like to ask you. Are you here today because you don't want to go with him when he comes to get you? No. I just want him to come see me less. I can't focus on my own business. So what happened to your ribs? Yes. I'm very curious about that. I have to have this belt on. (Doing this shoot with a belt on) I'm supposed to rest for about 2 months. He suggested that we go to a valley for a picnic to prepare for the summer business. A rally to strengthen unity. I think it's irrelevant to doing business. I was carrying a huge cooler and I fell down on a rock. You could've been hurt worse. Your parents must've been shocked. Well, my wife is more upset than my parents. - You're married? / - Yes. Sir. Beomseok, I'm very sorry for numbers 9 and 11. And... That evening, I took him home, put some bandages on him and made him ramen. If I were your wife, I would hate your hometown friend. Especially because you got hurt. My sons are 9 and 7 years old. They are a handful at that age. I must take care of the kids, do house chores and help my wife out after work. I'm more curious about the friend's wife. I think his wife should be the one sitting here. Oh, you're his wife. Hello. Hello. What do you think? I have complaints, too. He opened 3 restaurants, so it's me who has to take care of them. I have to look after our kids and work. I also have to do chores at home. He is often gone when I need him, so it's very hard for me. "He was never this irresponsible before." That's what I think these days. When did you feel like he was being irresponsible? He either notifies me late or doesn't notify me at all when he goes somewhere. Lunch time is the busiest time and I saw that he uploaded a video of him going into the water in the valley. Or sometimes, he is at another restaurant helping them open it. That's when I know - he went somewhere. / - While you're busy. If he had another job, it wouldn't be a big deal, but you two do the business together. It must be enraging, right? We own 3 small restaurants. I am very busy doing my best to purchase things at a cheaper price to make more profit. But he goes out to meet people. He's the type to pay the bills himself. So he often spends $2,000-3,000 a month. So I wonder why I try so hard to save money. What do you think of this, sir? Now that I hear it, it sounds like a concern. But you must know that rather than focusing on your own business, helping out others can bring in more profit. - What? / - What do you mean? (What?) What kind of theory is that? I opened a new restaurant last year. The restaurant owners that I helped out all came to help me! Their friends, their families all came. So it looked like our restaurant was doing well despite the slow economy. They helped me because I helped them. That's what you want to believe. I can't believe you just said that. You said it's better to help other people's business rather than do my own. Then you should let your wife help others instead of running your own business, too. If it's that good. You should let your family feel that joy, too. Only one person needs to do it. I help others and my wife does her work. Our roles are divided up that way. Couples who work together are foolish? No, you shouldn't say that. You're not making sense. Some people work together as couples. But I benefit more from helping out others with their concerns. Do you admit it? You own 3 restaurants, but your wife looks after all of them while you help out others? I admit it. I'm curious. Why don't you ever discuss things with your wife? Don't boo at me. Life is easier when you just notify your wife rather than discussing things with her. (Oh my) (People are booing at him) Oh, come on. You know how it is. "You know how it is"? I always get notified of things by my wife. At first, I didn't think this was a serious issue. But his attitude is terrible. You told us not to jeer at you. It means that you know that it's wrong. You may help other people, but you are not a great person at all. We have so many guests here with us today. Let's meet each one of them. I... Their... Son, son. You're their son? How old are you? - I'm 16 years old. / - 16. You were upset on your parents' anniversary? Why were you upset? We were supposed to eat out as a family, but my dad went to meet other people instead. That's why I got upset. Did you tell him that you were upset? Yes, I did. He said that he would change, but he isn't changing. I was also upset that he didn't spend time with us during Chuseok. Did he go make rice cakes for other people? What did you do on Chuseok then? Independent businessmen are lonely on holidays. Especially... What about your own family? He sounds like a politician. Our people... Our people... (Some may think he's a politician) Did your mom seem like she was having a tough time because your dad is always gone? Since he's always away, she eats dinner by herself. She looked very sad. He's usually gone on holidays, their anniversary, and our birthdays. My son said, "Dad is terrible." I was crying at the time. When I saw that my son was getting mad at his dad, I got very upset. I made the mistake of getting married on Christmas Eve. How can you say such a thing? I should've chosen an ordinary day. Oh my! Many businessmen are lonely on Christmas Eve. (Don't you see your lonely family?) So what did you do on Christmas Eve? We partied. - You partied? / - Yes. This is so frustrating. Restaurants get very busy on Christmas Eve. You held a party instead? They love it when I'm there. How can I not go? If my family just... (Glancing over) Endures the sadness... (Then independent businessmen can be happy) You mean that? Sure. Everyone cares about their own family. I do, too. I love them very much. But... Think about it. Why are you laughing? You've got a silver tongue. (I agree completely) My heart is always with my beloved family. My body is with independent businessmen! What is that? The independent businessmen that he loves so much are here with us. Hi, I'm Kim Seonghyeon. I own a hair salon in Jinhae. You're the hair salon owner. Hello. I own a spicy chicken place in Gimhae. Oh, spicy chicken. (Terrifyingly spicy chicken) Let's start with the hair salon owner. I opened my salon 3 years ago. At first, we didn't have any customers, so I was very stressed. That's when I met Chanho through the Machang community. He motivated me and introduced our salon to many customers. That's when we needed a model for bleaching, so I asked him if he could find me a model. That's when I met Beomseok. Hold on. I just realized something. When we talked about this earlier, Beomseok was told that he'd get a haircut. But you are saying that you were looking for a model to test the bleach from the start? I knew he wouldn't come if I told him the truth. (Shocked) You just found out about this, right? - You just found out? / - I never knew. I'm sure you are grateful for the help. But don't you feel overwhelmed sometimes? He started his business first. It's great that he gives me advice sometimes. But he comes by 2-3 times a day and tells me how I should run things. He points out your faults. When a customer comes in, I greet them, "Hello. Come on in." He said, "That's not how you're supposed to do it. Say 'Come on in!'" We're not a BBQ place. At a hair salon? He makes me greet my customers that way. "Come on in!" at a hair salon? - That's his style. / - Yes. He's quite an energetic person. - He's an actor. / - He is. He talked about this earlier. Do you know the difference between advice and meddling? If the listener thinks it's advice, then it's advice. If he feels uncomfortable by it, I guess it could be meddling. Yes, it could depend on the listener. The difference is that when the result isn't what you want and you insist on the person changing, it's meddling. If you keep insisting he change, that's meddling. That's why other people feel uncomfortable. (Nod) Since you are here today, if there's anything you want to tell him, get everything off your chest. You won't ever get a chance like this again. I've gotten so tired over the past 3 years. I need to take care of my own children now. They are 7 and 9 years old. I think they need their father. I honestly want to go see my in-laws. How long has it been? It's been about a year. I want to go see my in-laws. Once or twice a week would be nice. Please tell me why you want to see me. Then I'll try my best to go along with it. To be honest... I feel uncomfortable with you now. Get everything off your chest. This isn't easy to do. When someone helped you out, but later it became uncomfortable for you, it's hard to tell that person the truth. You just found out how Beomseok feels. What are you thinking now? I think he got tired of everything when he broke his ribs. But if he's very sincere about getting things done, he will never get tired. (Oh my goodness) (I'm tired out by his energy) Until our black hair turns gray, we'll continue to work hard! Let's go get a drink and have a serious talk. (I give up) (I want to go home) I... What have we been talking about until now? He will never change! After hearing everyone talk, he looked quite serious, so I thought he was hurt. Not at all. He's not the type to say he's hurt. I think after hearing everyone talk about how they feel, he isn't the one to be shocked. He did everything willingly. I think it was more shocking to his wife. He gave up on doing his own business and spending time with his family for other families. His wife let him do so to help others. She just learned it makes others uncomfortable. Imagine how upset she must be. - How do you feel? / - His kids, too. I think she must be in tears from being upset. But... He knows how hard it is to start a business. That's why he went out of his way to do this. He really is warm-hearted. He is very kind. Right. When he went out jogging, he always brought $5 bills in his pocket. To give to the beggars in the subway. - He's very warm-hearted. / - How nice. Since he's the president of the community, if he falters... The whole community would collapse. - He's afraid of that. / - He feels bad. He takes restorative tonics on his own because the way I see it... He's squeezing out all his energy from his body. - He's forcing it out? / - Yes. I know that you're not a bad person. Try to control your energy a bit and distribute it equally in different places. I haven't had alcohol since the accident, but I'd like to have a glass of soju today. Let's start with Jiseon. Take a break. If you want to go a long way, you must rest a little along the way. Try to see that the people by your side are suffering and take care of them. I think it's a concern. You're not giving them the right help and that's why your good intentions are undervalued. I think it's a concern, too. If you think it's a concern, press the button. (What does the audience think?) 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. (Beep beep beep) Please stop. Why don't you say a word to your friend and your children? I learned what I lack today, so I believe that I'll make a better community and be a better leader. Thank you. Say a word to your wife and kids. I won't go out on Christmas Eve this year. (Please keep your promise) I'll eat soup without drinking soju so that I can save $4. - Tell your kids that you love them. / - My son! - I love you, son. / - Your daughter. My daughter! I love you. Please show us the result. (Announcing the result) (The last digit is a 1) The current winner has 145 votes. - They win if they get 151 votes. / - Right. 161! (They got 161 votes) Unbelievable. - You won. / - It's a serious concern. "Who Am I Living For?" won this week. This is a reward to cheer you up. Congratulations. Until the day we are all worry-free... Hello Counselor will continue to counsel you. Thank you. ("20 Something" by Jeong Sewoon)
