GIRLS Reveal Biggest MISTAKES When flirting (r/AskReddit)

our slash is credit by IRA debt if you like an Nvidia go subscribe to note of you link in the description girls of Reddit what is the common mistake that guys make when they try to flirt with you assume that I'm smart enough to recognize flirting physically touching me as an opener like rubbing my arm your skin is so soft ummm please don't scan me and wear it inappropriate dancers lack of good colors in their wings weak pull and bring unable to perform better than an older male will contribute don't repeat my name over and over it sounds creepy edit makes sense to repeat the name two or three times to remember it but if it's every other noun it gets creepy guys think it's appropriate to get uncomfortably close to you you can be 2 to 4 feet away from me to flirt you do not need to get 6 inches away from me it's not a polite thing to do men who think is somehow flattering to compliment me and immediately too great every other woman in the room last time it happened to me the guy said it was so refreshing to see a girl play the game I was playing rather than the trash that all other women play standing too close seriously dude take a step or two back cornering a girl in isn't going to make her like you she's just going to be uncomfortable the whole time oh and along with that staring it's not making me think you're interested it's making me feel like a scientific experiment blink [ __ ] using pet names right away it just sounds condescending to me many guys especially ones that approach you on the street will be what iiii too aggressive and or persistent right off the bat it's the major turnoff i have guys walk up to me and say hey baby you're my type we should leave here and hang out some more I honestly don't know what they to accomplish but it definitely doesn't work all that fake cute as he should don't I get a hug ' you're leaving without me also mixing in how beautiful or hot you are into every conversation despite knowing a girl for less than a week as weird stop it also pickup lines are always cheesy so if you say them don't try to be overly serious about it assuming that because I'm fat I want cake I mean I do but maybe I don't any sexual comments if I don't know you and we haven't been dating a while keep the conversation decent otherwise it's inappropriate and insulting when I don't have that type of relationship with you that's the fastest way to make sure it will never happen not handling rejection with grace my last boyfriend actually asked me out a year before we got together and I said no he handled it so well that it actually made him more attractive I just wasn't dating at the time but his reaction kept the prospect open well when I say I'm gay and they keep flirting tends to be a mistake you'll barking up the wrong tree buddy negging trying to impress me by just monologuing at me trying to touch me immediately or even after I said I don't like to be touched I'm 25 wow you look so young it looks so good slash indicate that it's that Israel feature I thought you were 16 17 inches no no no no [ __ ] no I look young 18 nice but I'm 25 compliments about how I look like an underage teenager are just so [ __ ] creepy please don't this is the most miles I've had to report a couple of people to management slash security for serious pedophile talk edit since this came up a couple of times I should have clarified in these instances I'm not referring to guys who are in their late teens early twenties assuming I'm the same age as them and flirting I'm talking about men well into their thirties forties or fifties who make a huge emphasis on how much they like how young in a way that is much more predatory than a passing compliment as it is a fetish I've been called a [ __ ] for misleading a dude by looking so young let that sink in for a moment he got excited he thought he found a young girl out in the wild to prey on and got aggressive when it wasn't what he wanted second edit I've also started to respond with thanks but that's an odd compliment don't you think some guys will realize where they said some automated response that in retrospect wasn't that great and will say oh I didn't mean it that way okay cool this is why I say these things to clear that at least then other guys will say how is it weird it's good and we'll go on a tirade about how looking so young is desirable new I use this response to kind of gauge the person not everyone who says that is a pedophile a good 50% definitely armed and just kind of said it automatically but just to be sure I asked also because as I said it's severely unfair challenging me on my interests I was at a bar back from a Slipknot concert wearing a slipknot t-shirt and I still had the bands on my arm a guy had the audacity to ask do you even know that band you are wearing in an obnoxious voice when I said yes he challenged me to name all their songs in the last CD that I probably only wore that to get with rockers and we should head tears I don't need to prove my interests no one has to acting like you are superior to anyone is not attractive being way too self-deprecating I know you would never go for a guy like me and obviously you're gonna say no but it screams lack of confidence and guarantees loss of any more token of attraction please don't get in my space and tower over me I get you're trying to be friendly but you're seriously intimidating and making it harder for me to get out of a bad situation cat calling dunno if those guys are actually trying to flirt though assuming that I should drop my academic responsibilities to go see them instead of patiently waiting for another time no I'm not going to push off my assail projects another night because you want to Netflix and chill go do your work and wait for another day I had a guy just call me girl every time he was addressing me even after learning my name it was always girl hell I'm submissive as [ __ ] but when talking to me and not in that mood I expect to be treated with respect like any normal person do it in a dumb place some guy tried to flirt with me in the line for reception at my university and continued to keep trying to talk to me when I was speaking to the woman behind the desk like mate there's a time and a place dropping hints that they have tons of knowledge related to hip hop right from the junk yup I'm black no you don't need to rap immediately name-dropping that they own a sports car slash boat slash mansion slash whatever to a Pyrrhic I honestly don't give a [ __ ] what your annual income is and what tax bracket you belong to if you can make me laugh you can hold a conversation and you treat me like a human being oh and attraction helps too then you're halfway there my best friend recently goed up hard like became a model in the past four months not that she wasn't already pretty but even I'm blown away a guy from one of her second year classes commented on a photo with Wow great improvement and then proceeded to try to carry a conversation with her while telling her her personal tea is like Sheldon from the Big Bang Theory because she's super awkward even asked her why she didn't want to talk to him don't do any of these things yay I read all comments and I don't do any of these things D I'm still single though putting their arm around me or touching me during our first ever conversation basically invading my personal space too soon before I've gotten the chance to feel safe and comfortable around them if I'm at work do not flirt with me not just because it distracts me from my job but because I have to smile and nod and play along or risk losing my job for not providing a good enough customer experience that barrister who smiled at you and made smell talk while handing you your frappe not flirting with you just we're in the customer service face and being genuinely pleasant and if you made a gross pass at her and she laughed chances are the moment you walked out she turned to her cow Walker and said what a creep I wish I could have told him off as a customer you hold a lot more power in that interaction than you think and we don't always feel comfortable saying no / being clear we are not interested because if you're vindictive you could get us written up or fire so this is a pretty specific example but I was at a bar once and this guy commented on my hair I'm a ginger he said he heard redheads were going extinct I was like yeah I guess so he says that we need to have babies to prevent that like no just no don't tell a stranger you want to have babies with them pull out their eggs I don't know if apply to all girls but I always have my resting [ __ ] face on and guys think a good way to start hurting is saying are you mad why are you mad and please do not call us names like honey my love or cutie it's kind of creepy when you just meet someone and also uncomfortable for whatever reason I've noticed that some guys think they can earn brownie points with me with weird things pertaining to my race I remember one guy asked me if I was from Thailand and then when I corrected him he started talking about how all his friends at church are from same Asian County and about how much he loves the food the people the girls bla bla bla or I'll get the classic Asian girls are so pretty felis if you want to do some persuasion with the Asian try a different approach it may be innocent to you but all you'll do is make me laugh which isn't too bad in my book I really don't mind and think it's kind of cute but some girls might not take it so well getting super pushy with it I guess guys want to move things along right away and it instinctively makes me panic like subtlety is cool do not ever start a conversation with a picture of your penis having too many expectations in a starting conversation always trying to make a woman laugh just be yourself if you're not that funny cracking jokes will just make her feel awkward but if you talk about something that really interests you she might be intrigued a sense of humor isn't so much just about being funny as it is about not taking yourself too seriously way to sexual and way too persistent in being sexual like ooh making it overly sexual immediately that's an instant turnoff some girls like to be courted by someone they feel is respecting them please for the love of Christ lead with a conversation instead of a proposition ask me a question actually express interest in knowing me rather than knowing my body and if I say I'm not interested leave me alone it is not personal women don't have to feign interest in you just because he walked up to them and said they look nice we are human and we are just as scared as you are about new social situations likely more when Rufus kidnappings and rapes / murder are always a factor to consider and yes they are always a factor to consider like I said it is nothing personal women have to look out for themselves or nobody will it makes me angry when guys hit on me while I'm working I get that my job is unusual and I may end up in casual settings but if my attention is 100% on the tiny man with Down syndrome in front of me you had better not come at me like you're entitled to my attention the biggest one not picking up on it when I try to reject them politely approaching me to flirt while I'm in the middle of a set of the gym mansplaining a subject that I have a PhD in buying me stuff or bragging about being able to buy me stuff I'm not a gift slot that will get you nowhere is there such thing as over complimenting I went on a tinder date with the sky and he said he wanted to take me to a nice restaurant and that I shouldn't worry cause he's paying I said no and that I prefer a low-key / cheap bar then he said how I'm not like other girls and how I'm different but I'm over there thinking that he's just showing off and he's probably dated gold diggers or something guy here I'm always like don't look at boobs don't look at boobs don't look at boobs go hi me asterisk looks do WN asterisk uh [ __ ] not a girl but my general advice to menís do not do or say stuff to a woman that you would not want to hear from your male larger and stronger prison cell buddy bragging / talking about only themselves like it's a sales pitch this one guy just kept talking about cars and how he builds and restores them etcetera I tried changing the subject many times is there not something else you're interested in but besides sex and cars doing that thing where they try to one-up everyone and trash every guy just screams insecure douche [Music]

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Id: 5PzMgL9L7DE

Length: 14min 15sec (855 seconds)

Published: Fri Aug 02 2019