How to Seem HOT When you are UGLY (r/AskReddit)

our slash is credit by IRA did subscribe for more us credit videos please I need friends in lonely women have read it what makes a man attractive asterisk emotional intelligence knowing when to say things and how to phrase them in a way that is appropriate in that situation and being a good listener asterisk empathy compassion and kindness asterisk not being too proud to say sorry and being willing to accept that he can be wrong sometimes asterisk taking the initiative for things like helping out without asking asterisk being responsible and showing that he really wants to keep to his words asterisk maturity and stability in how he handles difficult situations and responds to things not running away from problems but finding ways to solve them asterisk thoughtfulness showing in little ways that he cares without expecting anything in return asterisk being respectful of people and not making lewd / derogatory comments about people asterisk confidence without being arrogant and self-obsessed seeing him do something that's his thing something that he's really good at and became good at because he just loves doing it basically being in flow state aside from the completely obvious answers does he seem like he mesh well with asterisk any asterisk that guy who literally looks like an Abercrombie model might be attractive in some sense but I'm not going to be very into it because I just don't think we all have a lot in common same for the guy whose entire Instagram is mountain climbing pics or the guy who wants to open his own real estate firm despite only having a year of experience in the industry or the guy who works as an artist and lives in a one-room apartment those guys are probably all great in their own way but I don't get the sense that they are going to mesh with my unpredictable suburban white picket fence preferences the guy whose most attractive to me is the one who looks and seems like he'd fit nicely into asterisk my asterisk lifestock these comments make me think I have a chance not a woman but my friend is one and she said anything opposite of me human idk about y'all but I like vini for arms honestly you could be the ugliest who [ __ ] on this planet if you have beanie hands I'll be all over you definitely complaining about not being able to get a girlfriend and if you can throw in a little something about wishing you were dead get ready for the slip n slide when he wears clothes that fit his body type really well it doesn't even matter what body type you have honestly if your clothes fit you really nicely then you're gonna look good confidence but still being a bit hesitant and have signs of being shy when they ugly and take care of themselves shaving skin care good smell et Cie a magnetic bodysuit not parking your ass on reddit for hours on end genuine kindness not just to me but to everyone it's so attractive yesterday my fiance asked a random guy outside a store if he needed a hand because he had boxes a baby in the collapsed stroller I love him I see this as a teenager gathering information not a woman but one I hear a lot rolling up our sleeves protip women are extremely attractive when they do this too [ __ ] on tables during an average dinner with my family is what makes me want a man intelligence and a sense of humor I've been with guys who weren't likely too attractive to others but their whip smart and goofy personalities made them completely irresistible to me men who Braddock is a big turn-off for me as a guy most of these answers are pretty much me but I'm still single am I just attracted to the wrong type effort in making time to spend / talk / see you a big belly good hygiene super funny has hobbies doesn't give up what people are think of him and embrace his weirdness and eccentricity a big heart that cares about people and things having strong relationships with family or friends is a good sign willing to help the people they care about is another obviously toxic family is an issue that no one can control but in that case making a family out of friends or community shows they know how to build relationships and have two-way communication being passionate about hobbies or issues shows a big part being both interesting and interested able to talk about those passions without being overbearing or alienating while caring enough to listen to what someone else is passionate about in a similar vein humor is great but knowing how to read the room is better personally I'm attracted to people who acts rather than just talk if they complain or critique things but do nothing that is a huge turnoff for me that is why I tell single folks to volunteer whatever the mission is everyone there already shares something they are passionate about everyone there is action-oriented and ready to do something rather than just talk about it everyone there is already part of a community and are more interested in giving than taking even if you don't find the soul mate you will find friends and help your community the lessons learnt will be an asset when you do find a man that has already prepared his wood for winter genuine kindness is extremely attractive being passionate about his interests so many guys apologize to me friends or otherwise for being and note about something they know a lot about but it just makes me happy knowing their something they care about so good looks doesn't seem to be a priority I'm so glad you women don't care about that I think we need more hypotheticals as in college just started back up I've got a few male friends who's the most attractive to you and why and to answer that it's the one who asks questions back and shows curiosity about my life also flirting is not about being witty or impressing but to show your interest nobody remembers that clever comment but they will remember how you showed your interest it also plays double duty of hitting the ball back to their court which is what a witty comment does except in trying to come up with one it gives you brain paralysis and then you think you're never gonna be good enough and give up and start eating the non appeals to feel something anything being kind and funny cute at times nice hands criminal record face tattoos domestic abuse charges no career five children with five different women playing video games have your [ __ ] together I mean have a fulfilling life of your own complete with job and hobbies and interests clean living space apartment or house not your parents unless you are taking care of them or it is mutually beneficial if you have decorated your space and your furniture matches it's a huge plus for some reason for me be capable of conversation easygoing and realistic outlook on life in general goals and aspirations are knives be in touch with your inner nerd child P but also be mature enough to know when it's appropriate respect me but also smack my ass when I'm in the kitchen you can believe all these comments but for me personally my whole life up until about 27 years old I was the guy every girl said they wish they could find a guy like me then I committed to getting lean like to lean in most people's eyes I looked skinny with a shirt on that I was ripped without one and I had a jawline I also tanned like crazy I've never received more attention from women in my life I know it's bold to say but I actually got tired of it getting laid was no longer a chore women just wanted to feel my ABS I like to think my friendly personality and my ability to make people laugh is what sealed the deal but I know my body at the time is what was getting me all that attention I got addicted to cardio and developed an eating disorder under the assumption the leaner I got the more attractive I'd be to women and the sad thing as it was true looking back I don't regret those years because despite the eating disorder I was very healthy and at times I had with women were wild and I was lucky enough to fulfill a lot of fantasies I always had the thing was that a lot of these girls would say the same things girls are saying here about what they liked in guys but from my experience when it came to their sexual urges they wanted someone who looked like an underwear model to dig their fingernails into so that's what I became it led to a lot of one-night stands and not necessarily in a bad way I met a lot of really interesting and nice girls and the understanding of booty-call was always mutual I'm happily married now to a woman I'm head-over-heels in love with truly my best friend I'm not ripped anymore but I'm in good shape just no defined ABS and no town anymore I just work out now to stay healthy and be active with my wife and friends I still get flirted with by women sometime but nothing like how it used to be and I'm perfectly okay with that I know this question was for women but I thought it was only fair to point this out from my perspective we all have two desires the one we feel good about sailing and the white-hot center that we usually don't say out loud to strangers I found from my experience most women wanted the same thing most men wanted when it came to physical intimacy someone who's hot it's shallow and weak but its primal and it's true I don't regret that part of my life but I'm definitely glad responsibility and competence there is nothing more attractive than a man who handles his personal business like a champ rather than wallowing in filth or expecting his girlfriend to manage all his [ __ ] for him aren't women a myth a nice haircut speaking properly no slacks cuss words et Cie dressing in clothes that fit properly good posture big tits and ass looks like when luigi in any gender a positive approach to life is very attractive humor and responsibility having his [ __ ] together a man who knows how to take care of himself excellent credit knows how to proceed oftentimes my mood timing really can be everything I'm before the fake when he makes me laugh nonsense woman like I'd an athletic frame teeth etc looks get you in the door personality keeps you there emotional and mental maturity with an ability to admit when he's wrong and be able to approach me respectfully when I'm wrong confidence upvoted want to hear more of this a personal sense of style is a huge turn-on whatever that style may be putting effort into your appearance and dressing in a self expressive way is really attractive it shows off the confidence to look how you want and shows a bit of care into how you're seen without betraying who you are it being all you care about it is unattractive you need you know hobbies outside of looking good but having a distinct style is really attractive but prolly even more than that just being interested in things being really into a hobby or being an artist yourself it makes you interesting and fun to talk to inb4 forearms dressing well fitting clothes good smile there wasn't a serious tag guys they're [ __ ] with us lashes this is going to be an R slash NASA guy's playground considering women as other human beings and not as the opposite sex slash a homogeneous group close bracket you designed robots Ida giant robots weeded giant robots chicks dig giant robots being a gentleman magnetism he has a lot of the same life goals as name doesn't care if we don't have kids has interests in common with me that we can spend time doing together but also doesn't mind that I'll sometimes need some space to breathe respectfulness kindness Jesus loving country have a genuine smile someone that respects women sense of humor he must to be talented to be attractive I can't feel attracted to a man I don't admire curly hair and tall for me I'm the kind of person who could fall in love for every person if he is a good person it's not hard for me don't do that don't give me hope okay obvious answer be attractive don't be unattractive doesn't chase after you gosh there's this guy who keeps following me everywhere and asked me out like know if you're gonna act like a creepy stalker am NOT gonna say yes intelligence humility a good sense of humor tattoos and good hygiene when they talk to you like they were talk to their other friends I hate when people treat me different because of my gender confidence knowing what you want good hygiene intelligence as well seeing is laying about in an unwashed robe and browsing reddit silently while half-heartedly applying for jobs I don't currently have isn't on the list I suspect I might be behind the curve loyalty [Music]

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Length: 14min 32sec (872 seconds)

Published: Mon Sep 09 2019