GIRL CHAT VAULT: Would You Share Your Wedding Day with Your Sibling?

[Applause] all right first up every girl dreams of her wedding day when all of her family and friends shower her with love and tell her how beautiful she is however one bride decided to share her big day with her brother oh not marry him but yes that's right Alabama bride named Amy was getting ready to toss her bouquet when she faked out her guests and handed her flowers to her brother's girlfriend her brother then got on one knee and proposed Amy said that getting to share her wedding with her brother was one of the most special days generous on your big day as Amy was I think it's Bob Wow two-for-one deal man yeah are you kidding me like you get your whole family there you don't you don't miss out on the photography you got video there's no everything is captured in one moment what they planned it instead of the brother do my own his own cuz some people do that you know they exception and that kind of like but because the sister already knew about it and they planted that don't think I want it was for the sister to have I mean for the bride to have another bouquet for the single ladies for them because it's you know customary that tradition those [ __ ] got dating apps define forego there are women who do look forward to that though you have do you guys women do you actually take it seriously that I did that that tradition I did and I caught it and I got married so I believe yes I did no that's a tradition yeah that's what they say you know usually a negative I thought I just I guess I thought it was just for fun wait did you did you like throw in like did you go into their room the time you guys there was a time in my life where I actually would run away from the bouquet I didn't want it your girl yeah but then when I was ready I was ready and guess where I caught it I caught it at my sister's wedding yeah [Applause] yeah mine's at my best friend's no I'd be like deflect I'd be like oh I don't know wait money did you attempt to catch it at my wedding no you were the DJ you were the emcee I was a DJ to emcee the waiter security but you Rabanne caught it my friend Vaughn who sang when I walked down the aisle actually won Grant Achatz series they took it very serious ya know the bouquet toss the garter toss is not what's not because guys don't this Caleb got the Garter yeah that's nice is there any other day that maybe you would you could think of that you know maybe it's important to you like maybe graduation I mean I remember my graduation from college that was a really important day and then my mom ended up telling me something really important that happened that day as well so I did share that but I don't think anything else like a wedding I wouldn't mind sharing my wedding with my brothers I'm actually very very close to them the only thing is I would have to make sure that I really liked the girl I'd have to me your purse I'd have to feel like a part of the family you want to share with your brother you're just not sure you want to share that special day with the girl yeah I get that I actually was in a situation where I went on a birthday vacation to the Dominican Republic it was a couples trip a bunch of couples and it was for a friend's birthday we went we went to the club we party to the wee hours right and then we like went up to the suite after to keep the party going and one of the guys in the couple felt like oh my god there's so much love it such an awesome night he decided by in that moment to get down on one knee and half here the mother of his children to marry him Wow that's a beautiful moment we all enjoyed it and the birthday boy was freaking pissed what no he was pissed like I like it's like furniture like you gonna take my moment right now and like this is not it's my birthday like really what about what your birthday was it like 30 40 Wow like 30 something he was in a dirty something yet and he legit felt some type of way that he this guy asked his Big Mama to act to marry him and I we all thought it was such a beautiful him we thought he was joking the next day we're still on this vacation together it was think he's not happy even a guy will get kind his feelings about oh he he seriously was like that was rude like that was the person's permission like go on thinking of doing this is this cool but I think you think if people love you and they're your friends they're gonna be down for you and a happy for you what do you guys think about this how about announcing a pregnancy at a wedding do you think that that at a baby charts are announcing a pregnancy at a baby shower so they are celebrating your baby no that's too much right now why why because it's it's - my dad has same lines like why because if the baby shower you celebrating that person it's that person's day yeah so let them have their day I mean you can our time [Applause] [Laughter] [Applause] speaking of sharing in a marriage you're supposed to share everything with your partner right what's mine is yours yeah well except when it comes to flying according to Daily Mail there is an increasing number of men insisting on flying first class while their wives sit in coach rude for example 30 year-old tena Kumar says her husband Aaron regularly travels in business class for work when she accompanies him he buys her a cheap seat any section of the plane she says his excuse is that he needs to prepare for all of his meetings and that he needs a seat that will provide him proper rest so what does she need right exactly Wow so ladies would it fly with you if your man did this no absolutely not the comfortable seats to put up with that ball man yeah like okay I'm gonna keep it real mm-hmm this has happened to me before in this situation Israel has more frequent flyer miles than I do so he gets upgraded and sometimes because I don't buy as much as he does mozzie don't be in first class okay right and I have got to say my husband would never do my husband would never do this not just to me to anybody he wouldn't do this to my mother he wouldn't yeah Tammy wouldn't do that if we were flying together he would be like first of all the first option for him always is baby you take my seat mm-hmm but then I don't like to fly by myself so Israel has actually downgraded to sit with me and coach if I camp if the both of us can't be a better class and I love love love this he actually found I had like a 14 year old kid sitting next to me once and he acts the little kid like would you mind upgrading you'll be in first class and it was the kids first time in first class well I go will being close together but we in coach like your husband I can understand like I don't know I could write okay in this case you got to understand there's a price difference yeah the thing is is that some I think like in it shoot cuz it's um it's pounds so yeah I 300 like let's just say for the sake of it okay $2,500 for the first class her seat was like five hundred dollars so he didn't want to pay extra 25 you get in coach yeah but no but the thing is is that sometimes it depends on the person because he's like me I'm a bigger person so I you know where my boyfriend is he's sitting in coach cuz I'm not gonna pay would you do that okay Lonnie yeah back to you yes I would my wedding what Charlie gone you started it tell it oh come on know what happy Alice okay because it was my wedding everybody was and I guess when you travel abroad idea what the Submariner I have no idea where I was she saying everybody was gonna ride in business class right not me wait hold on I upgraded myself from business to first class my husband died because it's my wedding like yeah so I appraiser addressing it so I get up there to first and business class I know that you guys know you were in business yeah I get the first place guess who sitting right next to me she was no money was in first class with me for my wedding yes she was right up there like the second bride [Applause] she's five I don't know sweetie but you check this out one of my first jobs where I could afford it to get to Paris cuz the tickets to Paris are like twenty five hundred and above for first-class right I took my mom to Paris because she's never been in Paris and she you know Vietnamese are a little bit they share a border colony with the French and so she's like I wanted to go into which people let's go Fran I got her first-class ticket on the day we get into our seats I'm one a mama my's 1b I looked to 1b there's a white man sitting there I'm like where's mama mine she says goodbye honey she walks past me into coach she returned my first class to get pocketed the money and then stole liquor from the cabinet just drinking her Kochi [Applause] refund mom you give me back my money now is crazy is something that might not fly with your husband or your shady mom your wife I'd be having an emotional affair with her bestie Oh according to a recent study by spa and healthcare companies sham sham please women actually loved their best friends more than their husbands the women surveyed just felt that it was easier to have a heart-to-heart conversation with their best friend without them being judgmental so babe's husbands maybe til death do us part but our best friends forever what do you think about this I think it's a difference because men think differently than women so if you go to a spa with your husband or your significant other you know it's just things that you want to do with this father he can't do with you and you're just having a good time and yeah I mean it's just a difference men and women are just different when they're when they're thinking and so I think that's what this is actually saying so I don't think that it's a difference of being better cuz yeah yeah your husband's to me are your best friend I was saying yeah my husband's really a lot Chuck I'm a good time I can talk to my husband about anything me soon um I think the only thing I may not bother him with is like the women petty stuff like yeah he doesn't really care sally rolled her eyes at me today and i couldn't see that so that's when I would probably go and talk to Andrea talk to Lani yeah so yeah I mean I'm yeah I'm great for that and you're right they shouldn't be compared yeah they are just it's like comparing apples and oranges they're two completely both significant relationships but they're just two completely different relationships and I'm sorry but if I had to choose who I am emotionally more attached to I I'm emotionally more attached to my husband that's my husband like a soul mate like I think I think it's the intimacy is that a whole other level in my vagine where my friend is not there's no male love to that friend someone maybe married for about 40 years once told me that the secret to a lasting marriage is the ability to both talk to one another and when I heard it I was like really there's got to be something else like counselling or not learning how to fight well I didn't get it but then I realized that when you get older you lose the things that maybe got you hot in the first place your physical attraction your sex yeah your things that you like to do together you might lose money at some place where you just begin to just spend time but when you can really talk to each other you know what I'm saying like things to change but if you really can sit in a room and just have each other and that's why I Adrian I do give it up to you in Israel because if all y'all who don't know Adrian like we do here we spend like more we more and more time than some of our time our spouses in this job right Adrian I love you she can talk a lot yo so much she's just a lot of stories a lot of opinions but I love that every time you talk Israel is always talking with you he's always listening he's always there is a surprise for that flight for you guys for sure yeah I mean we enjoy each other's company and I tried explaining that like obviously I've been in relationships before I get it what it is to be in love and you know a lot of you guys were like oh my god she just wants to get married actually no because if I did I would have already done that nobody I think it's important that you look beyond just the in love feel like you're saying yo that is my best friend like my friend and I think we developed that obviously because we had a friendship and then furthermore we talked on the phone a lot which I actually hate talking on the phone but we talk too much because we weren't together a lot we were traveling a lot and I love that we could talk together for hours about anything and that has proven to be true over the last two years like it's just been amazing give up his seat for you cuz I I remember that time you were sick and you was doing autumn stories I was like I wish he come back home oh there was one time you were sick I crawled into bed with Adrian at her house and I was sitting there and she was just nervous about medications and sup a chance right I'm sick and tired and did you know about this and I love this show girl you gotta watch Basketball Wives and visitor and I was just sitting there like oh my god in the sooners or joel c'mon he's like honey I'm home I'm like thank you it's wrong [Applause]

Channel: The Real Daytime

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Rating: 4.9119415 out of 5

Keywords: the real, daytime, talk show, women, tamera mowry, adrienne bailon, loni love, jeannie mai, amanda seales, therealdaytime

Id: mYZis80h7Gw

Length: 15min 14sec (914 seconds)

Published: Sat May 23 2020