EXPOSING THE COUNTERFEITS

today that you join a trajectory shift in the midst of us standing right here well we say have your way come on tell it tell them say God have your way come on tell them have your way I can't hear you come on come on come on y'all veterans have a seat with your pretty selves man it is so good to be back with my favorite family of choice man I'm missing y'all I don't know how this happened where I am gone for three weeks in a row cuz that never happened y'all know the most I like to be goin is once a month and it's got to be like a really great place for me to be going more than that and I've been going and I got one more sunny than would be back but man I miss you when I watch the replay and I hate it because I'm missing it's y'all like part of my family you know what I mean like part of my DNA so on ways to nights I'm so excited that I get to do this with you tonight we're gonna talk about y'all ready for this we're gonna talk about exposing the counterfeits exposing the counterfeits detaching from what destroys you and discerning who sent them when to let friends go when I got chills on that way what when when to know when a relationship is over nah I ain't talking about married people I'm not giving you a free pass I know like yeah boom Shakalaka I get to leave no I ain't all my marriages marriages just gives you a chance to fix it you said I'm saying you got a covenant this is this is just this is this is for relationships and friendships people that were holding on to that are polluting us people that are I say sometimes you gotta fumigate you know what I'm talking about I'm talking about like if we really thought about it and I want y'all to think about missus today he's gonna be a talk back to me situation if we really thought about it and went back and look at so many people we've wasted time with y'all know what I'm talking about well me we don't waste it time we don't wasted all of this time that we knew that relationship had run its course and was over maybe if I would have known what I know now I wouldn't have wasted time on relationships when God wants to bless you he sends people into your life when the devil wants to destroy you what does he do come on now he sends people into your life it's up to us to know the difference and there are some relationships we have that are attached to you and some are assigned to you do you know the difference do you know the difference those that are assigned to you push you to breakthroughs and not break those that are assigned to you when you actin all crazy like ah I'm gonna need you to go back to bed and get back over get even if it's for five minutes I'm gonna need you not to mess up this relationship over here because you have in your 28 day period I I need you to get chopped right those people are assigned to you they are the ones that people will be running their mouth about you and you might have done everything they said you did but instead of them exposing you they protect you these are the people that know we just having some growing pains those attached to you are gonna ride Yoko tell they're gonna ride they they they go hang with you and be behind your back doing things that are just wearing your tail out you know those kind of people that my lord you spent about a minute with some of y'all having coffee with them every Thursday and you wondered how come you can't get ahead you feel like your feet weigh a million pound in fact some of you got more people like that around you than the ones that are assigned to you because the ones that assigned to you ain't got no place to be in your life because of all the people you got attached to you that are draining you're behind I'm preaching wow you gotta take inventory right now who is taking time from you in life out of you and telling you the truth with a bend they got they they telling you the truth but they doing it with that been y'all know what I'm talking about those people that expect you to bend and break for them but they won't Bend a break for you ah and honey this ain't got nothing to do with petty crocker petty Patrick this know this is something called I'm protecting my anointing and I know that you have been on a sea you have been sent from the enemy to be a counterfeit in my life and you've held me down long enough I'm about to shake myself even if I gotta be by myself throwing a party for myself wow I'm shaking you off for me come on this ain't nothing game it ain't got nothing to do with being bitter it's everything to do with there's an anointing on the inside of you and The Devil's trying to take you out and you better learn how to protect your anointing baby you better learn I say it all the time there are people in your front class you better take them to the balcony and tell them to watch you from a distance man I'm preaching I'm telling y'all something I'm preaching up in this house I I don't know about you but I'm preaching up in this house I I'm dropping some wisdom nuggets on this thing there's some of y'all that ain't know what was going on now you're like that's what's been up damn counterfeits oh they look good they follow you Nate they talk they support you but one second one thing you do wrong they exposing you and talking about so what let them talk let them talk who cares you gotta have the relationship I want to win in relationships let's take inventory right now just mentally in your head some of you got your notes write it down cuz of tomorrow whenever they knocking on your hello is it me you're looking for oh no oh no it ain't you ain't never Ben you you just you just had me for a second in a whirlwind but no no no no write this down right write down all of the people close to you write them down in your mental notes or on your cell phone your business connections your bffs your acquaintances your followers your friends your bros your girls your mentors your associates workout buddies friends with benefits friends with no benefits hi y'all better not have no friends with benefits your pastor are they adding value to you are they taking from you truth is if they benefit you at all we will keep them around just for that little bit I've been guilty of it I will keep people that wear the tar out of me only because they can do something for me that I can't that it takes a load off of me and all I'm doing is keeping someone around me and I'm thinking it's taking a load off of me but over here it's sucking the life out of me spiritually and because of what they can do that I need done and because it's easy out let you hang around with me I'm not no nun this season I I don't my brother told me the other day he said girl I'm scared of you he said because you used to hate I hated controversy my whole family thank you mom and dad for that wonderful guest of being I hated contrib not no mo no no more I will handle a business because there ain't nothing like walking through a few seasons where people suck the life out of you where you get some backbone baby and I handle them in love and I'm quick to say bye cuz I'm getting some discernment up in me you hear me every morning when I wake up I'm like God give me some discernment people that are not gonna value me people that are got that familiar spirit if you are in my church and I can't correct you in love you are in the wrong church because your pastor is supposed to be able to correct you because I love you but if I can't correct you then it means we've become too familiar [Applause] truth is if they benefit us we'll keep them around God always takes me through when I preach about always there ain't never a day that I stand up in this platform that I ain't talking about something I made it through some of the problems you are facing are because of the people you are embracing all the people that break you and leave you they always come back with different faces because you never got healed wondering how all the good men are gone so let me just settle for this over here you are so desperate to make it in an industry that you are willing to settle over here when if you would have just held out you would have been in your own lane and those spotlight would have been flashing on you and God could have taken you but what happens is we end up getting ahead of God because he's too slow many keep going church from church to church and his pastors and churches fall all the time y'all leaving every chance you get the pastor ain't preaching the word and if he ain't preaching the word never Church you not ran six people off they are all doing the same thing Yuda come and denominator baby at some point we got to look in that mirror and say I'm sick of not being all that God's called me to be and I need God to do something in me and God whatever you gotta do to get my tail ready do it God is a good he's a good father he's a good father and the one thing I learned about him was when I finally got out of his way the rod that I'm on because I finally realized that Ephesians 3:20 said exceedingly abundantly that meant for real but I had to get out of the way because guess what he didn't need my assistance he created the whole world not me he didn't need me over here trying to interview people for him to see if they fit my life in that position know when God is in it he sends it I have had a huge turnover in my ministry this year and I thank God I cried I grieved I mean I was I was like a pity party Kim cuz people that were walking out of my life I thought would be me forever and I had to go and you know what I didn't blame them I blame myself so you know what I did I started letting God do it work on me inside of me so nobody else would keep walking I didn't want to have a back door I didn't want people to be leaving my ministry and having Church hurt I wanted to be a communicator man when I look now I'm so thankful I didn't stabilize what God was shaking me free from now I walked out of those relationships and I look with blessing them I bless them I bless them I prayed for them I sent them home with money I didn't just be like here's your tax gonna deal with it no I communicated because the way you leave one way is a way you're going to enter another you don't grow you too grown to be living text now now now there are some crazy people there are some crazy people you go have to send a text to every once in a while but the Bible says when you can leave them better than when you left them but I look now in my life and I see what God's done in just 90 days and the minute that Pete the wrong people walked out the right ones came in God took me from the bog talking literally overnight to 12 invites 13 invites a day brought me somebody in my life that loves me and my husband boat and got us in all kinds of peace because I got out of the way I stopped trying to I kept trying to put people in positions cuz you know why right here right here when they can do something that makes your life easier you'll put up with them in the areas that are sucking you dry but when you get out there and realize me and God I'm about to fly I don't know how you gonna do it I don't know how this thing's gonna work out but I trust you and I can't trace you right now I'm crying and I'm grieving cuz that relationships over but I trust you 1st Corinthians 15 and 33 says don't be fooled by those who say such things for bad company corrupts good character why you want to hang around with somebody that's talking ugly about your past or anybody else because if they talking ugly about you about me or anybody else they talking ugly about you too because they ain't got no character and the more you hang around with them the more you gonna be effective with it proverbs 27:17 says iron sharpens iron as a friend sharpens a friend better get around some people that make you want to do better you better get around some people that are working out and making you want to go work out you better get around some people that make you want to be able to get the Word of God it when every time I married my when I married my husband I was like oh because I'm in can walk and in quote scripture when I ever opened his Bible and I was like oh I can't do that I was especially in my whole life I can't even retain nothing and I started laying hands on my head and I said God we're going flesh now every time I read the word I want to retain what I read and I'm gonna be able to quote the scripture you hear me you know why I started hanging around with some good people I started hanging around some people that were if you're the smartest one in your circle you in the wrong circle if you're the if you're the best one in your circle you're in the wrong circle baby you better get around some people that make you get a little heated a little butterflies are you you hear what I'm saying you better start stopping going gossiping with your friends and your co-workers and get your tail in the car and turn on some youtube preaching something that's encouraging you you ain't got to have a lot of money to get yourself better and it's only your choice ain't nobody can do it for you can't nobody make you do videos can't nobody make you get in the word can't nobody make you get on that treadmill lose weight can't nobody make you hush your mouth you can a man that will love your lights out ain't nobody paint nobody can't nobody but you in Jesus because you attract what you are baby [Music] when you don't wait on the Lord you give the enemy room to introduce counterfeits man can you tell I me know many of you are unequally yoked people and it's hurting both of you you you were in relationships and friendships with unequally yoked people and you are hurting both of you y'all are both hurting each other because y'all don't have the same values or morals and over time it just makes us dull we are no longer start short but we're stressed cuz used to go to the bar with them every Friday night then you decide ad they don't do not for me but give me the induced flu I ain't doing no more and then all of a sudden they say oh you ain't no fun no more I don't know what's happened you you ain't no fun no mo you walk in here you come to work you acting all holier-than-thou now you know what hush Romans 8:28 says he's working all things together for my good you must be one of those all things oh I need to let you get my spirit going honey I'm gonna let the love of Jesus shine in me and know that all things you would all think he he got you man I always I'm I know God loves me you hear me I know that I know that I am millions of people every day pouring into people I don't get a paycheck even on Facebook or even to do all those calls I do I do it because I love people so much you know why because I used to be this person I'm talking about and I know what freedom feels like and I want you to be free I want you to be free baby I want you to be able to sleep at night without sleeping pills won't you free it's better than winning the lottery watching you get free if somebody gave me a million they offered me literally I promise to God on my life Lord right here in Church of the harvest Fayetteville in front of all of these amazing people I promise you one thing if somebody came and handed me ten million dollars and said if he will shut your mouth and stop speaking about Jesus and loving people back to life we will give you ten million dollars on my keep it it ain't worth it I would I don't need your money money don't do nothing for me that's why I got it I don't need your money I don't get no paycheck you can look at the book saying got one check from you okay I do this because I love you and you know what because I love you God keeps giving it to me that's why hang around with me cuz what's on me so come on you if you tithing [Applause] if you dive and you go live and abundance like me I promise you that how do we know when a relationship should end he proves two of them one love this scripture therefore since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith let us strip off every weight that slows us down especially the sin that so easily trips us up and let us run with endurance the race God has set before us he uses people the most to trip us up we will care more what people think about us some what God knows about us we won't step out and fly in that calling that we feel God wants us to do make that had that bakery write that book do a live video on Facebook cuz we are so afraid what if it fails and everybody's watching us and then they'll say haha told you so you know what ha ha ha I had nerve to do something that you didn't so boom-shaka-laka I'm telling them especially the den that so easily trips us up and letting us run with endurance the race God has set before us that includes relational liabilities if it slows you down get rid of it don't have people around you that slowing you down again this is not for married people don't y'all be getting excited Pastor Kim's let me out no I ain't you gonna fight what you gonna do cuz you married I'm talking about people that you ain't sleeping with talking about people that ain't got you ain't got their last name why you letting them wear you out I am always talking to you about drama and issues you're telling this person I'm always talking about drama issues I am always wasting time explaining myself to help you understand nothing is wrong with me everyday what's wrong with you nothing well I feel like something's wrong with you know it's died you are I'm just busy growing and getting busier nothing's wrong with me you asked me again I'm putting in the balcony these people are wearing you out you see what they're doing right you don't really know that it's a distraction until it's distracted you and you've lost a lot of time and the one thing you can't get back is time sins gonna trip you up but it's easier to overlook it when you are in your lane you're always gonna die to your flesh you're focused forward you must keep all these weights and sins off of you how do I know when friendships need to end and look I just put it here I've already told you three times that somebody else needs to hear this I am NOT saying friendships I am saying friendships not marriage so you don't get to escape you get intervention I'm helping you I love the story about Abraham Genesis 15 and 6 it says that abraham believed the Lord Abraham is told by God he is going to have a son then in Genesis 16 one in four problems are about to start because in Chapter 15 Abraham says he believes in God in one chapter and then just one chapter later there is a problems already there's already problems happening how do you know when a friendship needs to end number one when you start started it and God didn't when you started it and God didn't we start trying to help God because we think God has taken too long many as many of us are trying to help God fulfill his promise in our life I remember a story I left one school in 11th grade my mom and dad let me cuz I was y'all know that I am in your face now and will drive you nuts imagine me as a kid and all my friends were going to another school and so I had gone to Morrow elementary and Amaro high school and I was doing great I went from I'll never forget like ninth grade I was ugly oh my god I had like horrible teeth and I would taste the boys and they would run from me they'll be running for my teeth and my mom wouldn't let me wear makeup I couldn't cut my hair because we were UPC you're not a Pentecostal we couldn't watch TV I had can't I was two kids and blue jeans skirt girl that was me and so in 11th grade I mean so I was there from fifth grade sixth grade seventh grade eighth grade and I would always win like the wittiest Awards I was hilarious and only because I had to be funny in order to be liked so I found out what I needed to do in order to fit in so in 11th in at 9th grade I'll never forget I was going into 10th grade then that year mom and dad took us to - y'all know I'm on Iquitos and it's working my pants are loose my pants are loose so we went to hell in Georgia we went to hell in Georgia and for four months because we came out of UPC I'm setting you up for something showing you how the devil will send friends to distract you and get you off course and so we went to hell in Georgia and it was the first time I ever could watch TV because we've never watched TV ever except when I snuck in Sears and I feel like I got lost and found my way into this TV area and then I was afraid that when I Diamond and the TV was going to get me so I would watch like this and and we were in Hell in Georgia and we were watching Planet of the Apes I'll never forget it the craziest first movie to ever watch in my life and that year I lost 30 pounds that year I got to be about chicka wow wow like I was can't I went from ugly it was like I went on The Swan Show okay and I went and and all of a sudden I started getting a little popularity okay and then I found all these friends these these friends that went to Jonesboro High School not morrow and all that all the kids at Morrow were very good Christian kids and so we would all go to this Phillips Drive every Thursday night for this youth you know you remember that lady this is you think I'm gonna be packed with all the Morrow kids oh but the jonesboro hi they were like party animals and they were rich and you know and so what happened was I got sidetracked and found my way with friends that were fulfilling voids in my life because the enemy knew that if I can get her set up here then because he's he's trying to trip you up your whole life especially if you ever call of God on your life and everybody in this room does that's one thing enemies been fighting you because there's something amazing on the inside of you there's something that it's gonna be a world changer I tell you on the inside of you that's how come God connected you with me because birds of a feather flock together we gonna win some souls honey everywhere we go we're gonna be contagious and that was how I was I was like Miss personality and so mom and dad let me leave the 11th grade and moved to Jonesboro High School and I got involved with some people at that school that I shouldn't have and one of my friends had a hoopty and hoop do you know what hoopty is it's one of those cars I went and preached somewhere this weekend they know who he was so a hoopty is a car that it's like like ugly ugly cars hooped he barely makes it and so Tracey was embarrassed of this car and so she asked me she's like you're only 15 years old but I'm older so you can drive because I'm too embarrassed to drive I'll never forget as long as I live I'm in that car everything every every single week something was happening at that since I joined that school and I remember as sure as I'm sitting here is salt and pepper came home we like the cars the cars that go boom we're Tigra and bunny and we're like double I was like boom boom and all of a sudden I were boom and I hit a trash can like a like a poster like mailbox but it was just a mailbox it was like but brick mailbox I destroyed her car destroyed every lost friendships what am I saying the enemy is always trying to get you especially when you're in a void in your life where something has taken place see God had allowed me to start finding my voice finding myself and then there he goes it helps me get myself tripped up now what in God's fault y'all need to stop blaming God I had a friend this week that got in trouble got a ticket for DUI she comes on facebook and says oh I'm gonna lose everything because of his DUI I know that God says that he'll never give us more than we wanna hate no but it sure feels like he's trying to give me more than I can handle my girl bye he didn't make you drink he will send distractions in your life and I love you baby girl if you're watching you know I love you but you gonna get through this but you gonna learn through and choose what you gonna do some of y'all have insecurities because you got into wrong partnership you used to know you were so fly some of you got into bad relationships and and now you don't even feel like you even can look in the mirror because you feel so ugly about yourself because you partnered with wrong relationships some of you used to pray you could pray the house down you walked in and you are known as the prayer warrior then you got involved that with a few religious hearts and they start of making you feel a little less than and now you can't even open your mouth and pray at all because of the relationships that you allowed into your life it's occurred because of the people that you allowed in your world proverbs 3:5 and 6 is trust not people in the Lord with all of your heart do not depend on your own understanding seek His will and all you do and he will show you which path to take this is why you got to be careful who you got around you because that clutter demon that chatter demon will be speaking so loud to you that you won't hear what God's telling you to do God is such a good guy when you are in the place that you're supposed to be with him he just says still small voice you're just going about your day the whole world's falling apart around you and you're just walking in a calling and an abundance in your life because you're trusting in the Lord with all of your white not people you ain't even worried about all the people getting the blessings around you and you a cuz you know your times come in Hebrews 10 and 36 has patient endurance is what you need now so that you will continue to do God's will then you will receive all that he has promised number two number two sign that a friendship needs to end don't get anything out of this a number two when no one wants to deal with the real issues the issues where you get sick when you think about that person or situation y'all been going to Thanksgiving and oh the whole week before you getting ready to go you just sick as a dog thinking about having to be back in front of those people y'all been going for years and nobody it's confronting the issue you've been going around your mama and you got to love your mama you got to love your kids you got it you got to be you got to be honorable but you ain't gotta hang around with them your mama telling you every day how pet pet terrible you are hurt people hurt people heal people heal people but you need to get wit what you need to get healed so you can be a healer and so at some point you got a look at your mom and say mama I love you but every time I'm around you you made me feel so horrible about myself and I'm trying to get in a season where I don't need them Cod to do something cuz I've been stuck for a long time and I know I'm only stuck because I'm letting myself keep listening and putting this vomit in my spirit and so I love you but I'm gonna have to love you from the balcony I'm gonna call and check on you but we got a three-second rule I'm gonna say mama how you doing fine love you pray for you click and how about this how about you take a timeout - and while we're taking a little bit of timeout I'm gonna be able to know if you've changed you never know if I've changed and so one day I'm gonna call erskyll me the three-second rule still and I'm gonna hear it there's been a shift and we don't get to talk again but right now we both are toxic for each other same thing goes for exes you got children this is a bigger this is the peoples in my world's biggest excuse that we have children together yes and y'all killed each other when you work together and every single time you're around that person still your children are filling the anxiousness because y'all are toxic and broken for each other well what do I do we have to you know what you do you go get you a mediator that will go with you to drop those kids off or you get a parent my parents were mine and they handled this change now whenever we get grown enough or we can act right with each other then we can start handing the kids off and the kids can see but right now we are polluting each other because we are toxic together you know what sometimes when things end it don't mean they're bad people the people that we walked out of my life are not bad people though our seasons are just up together sometimes you get you you walk through a failed relationship it's not because you're a bad person it's just because y'all just were bad together but showing bad people you saw them saying it's like we try to force relationships when there's a billion people in this world just go find your group find you a tribe honey I tried to get you a tribe that just gets Oh jokes a tribe that just can look at I can just look at angel the other day I was preaching in a church I got my nails done today simply because y'all know I'd be the glue Oh nails and and last week me and her in Macy's and we had a little bit of Barry I was in Macy's and I just did this I did this I said I was excited because I found a sale on some shoes and I just went this is God and when I did my nail flew off into a person's hair now somebody else would have been like oh god what am I gonna ever teach her to have to be a perfect you know no angel whip she ran up y'all gotta find your tribe you gotta find people that laugh at the craziness in your world you said I was a you gotta find people that when you ready to cry y'all bokor just look at each other and think of something to happen to laugh your tail off together you need to find a tribe that's healthy number three number three I showed enough that show happened y'all that thing is in that person's hair probably still I lost it I literally I promise you she goes I might have peed my bed that day in flu cows like this is God she laughs with me though you don't say it now my son leaked and when he was trying with me he left me in the store he didn't just grab he was just walked and I wouldn't have seen him again cuz I'm the girl that gets on the plane and I don't just get on a plane either I'm ain't dignified I'm trying but when I get on the plane I like come on a plane like this and I'm dropping my bags and I'm drive just like hitting everybody as I walk through I'm trying to get to a place from I can't do it I walk in a room with a whole bunch of I'm preaching with the big dogs now you know what I'm saying they walking in with hey and what's this they all walk in on and I'm like got my arms right hey hey what's going on I got him to plane the other day that was Tasha Cobb the first one on the plane and her husband was sinful rose bag I thought it was my duty to get them a seat together not realizing that she probably didn't want nobody didn't even know she's on the plane I won't get hey don't would have fives at her I see like I'm sure and then I was like why see backpack or follow the guys say y'all together they might have been fighting they want to be together oh but they gotta see it together when I got done and then I go sit down and say Kim stop why are you so annoying why are you so obnoxious and loud I'm on Instagram and Facebook like well hey everybody and I'm just like when I get to watch stuff like you're so dumb like why can't you talk so why can't you you know why Jimmy tell you why because I have a tribe around me that celebrates me like I [Music] I'm married to a man the litter if I walk out in an ant tailor like sweater dress he's like I'm gonna need you to go back in there put on your combat boots what I'm gonna need for you why is your hair down like that why you got a piece of weave in your hair I'm just gonna put it back on I got a tribe man that lets me be me and when you are you you just fly people ask me and I promise y'all every single place I preach every place without a doubt before I leave that pastors gonna sit me down and say tell me how you did it how did you get to this place of being free I've never seen anyone ain't nobody how did you get to that place or he was so free in your skin and it's so natural to me I don't even know how it happened like I just think I just honestly think if people if they just hang around with me for a second they would like me so I ain't mad when they don't I'm not mad when they don't acknowledge me or celebrate me or support me I support everybody they may not ever support me but you know what it's okay it's coming I'm gonna keep being me and keep being loving and people being kind and keep building my tribe celebrating the people in my world take a people with me what you got to get you a tribe of people huh even if it's just one I would rather have four quarters at 100 pennies number three when you know you got to finish France it's good I think I'm blessing myself this was actually probably for me just say number three when what that relationship produces when what that relationship is producing is picking on your promise a deviated when though it really ain't when though nothing I do is very deep when those people keep isolating you when those people are abusive to you if you have a person bullying your destiny you got to look at the Abraham go back to Abraham and Sarah see see the deal with them was and I didn't really get into it which is okay cuz I only had an hour and I just did a flip and drop in 45 minutes so I really didn't get to Ishmael Abraham and Hagar however I was gonna bring that story in by letting you see how Sarah got ahead of God and how her getting ahead of God to that man free will to sleep with another woman you know that do devil take that pom-pom pop when what that relationship is doing is producing a picking on your promise if you have a person bully in your destiny get them out just like when Abraham told when God told Abraham to get rid of Hagar sometimes you got to do something that you don't want to do and in the long run it's better for everybody when what's you're choosing is fighting your destiny some of y'all have to get indignant about letting all those dead relationships go you got to stop giving CPR to dead situations relationships God's Way they just work they don't play games with you they don't get mad at you for nothing they don't they don't they don't make it one day you wondering do they love me do they like let me know the people that God has supposed to be in your life you ain't got to play hot and cold with them you ain't no yo-yo you got people putting you on layaway and coming and taking you off layaway when they need you you're too valuable for that you got to get it Dignan about letting all those dead relationships go this is why you must be careful because even attachments can form when you open a door to a wrong relationship even with a boyfriend or a girlfriend and you opened the door to a wrong relationship all of a sudden so ties are formed and it's so much easier to get rid of them and then you find yourself praying for God to bless that relationship that he's not even involved in he gets you by forms of attachment so ties when you got to start changing who you are for somebody to love you you gotta buy certain clothes you got to pay for all the food they don't go with you you know what by I'm going on garden eating Alfredo without you you ain't never bought me nothing you ain't never you put yourself in situations you go to churches with people they don't even know your name and you've been there for 45 years and you walk down in church and they put you on the back row and all these other people is like it's like this front row the front rows are like a million dollars there's that gold dripping when you get there because your validation is in man and not in God you walk in places and they look you up and down and don't know you are and you feel this big you watch people on social media they always put up I'm wearing Gucci church folk I'm wearing Gucci on my feet I got Louis Vuitton on my skirt we want you to preach we don't care what you have on but what happens is is they make you start feeling like you got to have all this in order to be where God wants you to be stop and unfollow those people that make you feel like you're not good enough you're grown and you got five fingers we love them but we don't have to follow them because maybe we're not healed enough to follow them you see what I'm saying maybe there's some still some things on the inside of us that need to be healed and until you heal it God will always use it because he uses the little foxes to spoil the fine he'll make you feel unworthy he'll make you feel not good enough he'll make you feel unlovable he'll make it he'll use all of the things from the relationships that you allowed yourself to get into that broke you down in areas that now you don't believe in yourself used to believe in yourself used to stand in front of that mirror with your thick thighs and be like girl you're fine and now you can't even look in the mirror yourself because of what a man or a woman is said to you you gotta find yourself again because we're gods want to take you you gotta be free from yourself you got to be free from those people yoga stand up on your feet I wanna say a prayer for you cuz you know what's happening let me tell you what's happening I got you thinking I got you thinking a little bit who are those people that every time I go around them they made me feel like I've got an extra twenty five hundred pounds on me who are those people that every time I talk to him they make me feel like ain't worthy of nothing who are those people I just need to take a break from who are the relationships I need to let go of hold up y'all hold up all up I've got a great revelation at the end I just remembered it Romans 12 and 18 says so far as it obtains has it pertains to you live peacefully with people you know what that means I can love you but I ain't gonna hang around with you I love you but I hang around with you there will never be the right time or a good time there will never be the right time or a good time to end something even when they do you wrong end it with blessings Abraham even when he had to get rid of Hagar and Ishmael Abraham went and packed food for them and water for them and he even put the backpack on their back and sent them out with blessings Romans 12:18 so far as it obtains as it pertains to you live peacefully with people give stuff back to people stop holding on to people stuff that ain't yours if that relationship ended you better get your heart right give them back the Rings give them back their stuff they with their pictures we don't do that you know we got some grown petty people we'd say in this world we do people are ending it very vague you're saying you know this is the one that kills me because y'all know I do a lot of single conferences this one kills me well right now in my life God's just wanted me to separate from you but there may be a time when we get back together it's not you it's me leaving that person hanging on because of a vague disconnect in it and if it's of God it'll come back if it's not you ain't breaking nobody's heart in the process you're cleaning your hand and you're saying we just move into another place and I love you I love you I love you I pray this blessings y'all father I thank you for every person in this place lord I thank you that you're giving us revelation I think that you're giving us understanding and wisdom I think you right now God even people that I have stirred up something on the inside of them that got them a little light oh no here we go lord I thank you that you're giving them courage to do what they need to do I thank you Father that we're not codependent on people but we're stuck on you we love you we adore you it's a father I thank you right now from the top of our head to the soles of our feet that we are blessed going in a blitz going out father I pray that the joy revival hid our spirits and hid our souls lord I thank you then we're gonna last harder than we've ever left in our lives today and the rest of this week father I thank you for breakthroughs and dev oh you are sure notice we are breaking up with you and all of your little imps and so devil you can't touch this we're taking back our peace we're taking back our joy we're taking back our sanity we're taking back our money we're taking back our peace we're taking back our love for ourselves father we're forgiving everybody and walking in peace in the name of Jesus we pray amen amen amen [Music]

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Length: 47min 11sec (2831 seconds)

Published: Wed Mar 07 2018