Death

to everything there is a season a time to be born and a time to die for some it's grandma or grandpa for others it's mom or dad for some it's a brother a sister a friend or a lover whoever it is whenever it is one thing is for sure at some point we have all experienced the sting of death we often talk so much about the beginning of life we throw parties to find out what the birth gender of the baby is and then we throw another party to shower them with gifts and then we throw another party once they spend their first 12 months on this earth and every 12 months after that we share stories about the day we were born albeit stories we cannot remember ourselves and have only formed from the pieces we've been told by different sources we talk a lot about birth but usually never about death most times the first we're forced to speak of it it has already taken someone we love but it doesn't have to be this way we are all going to die someday so we might at least talk about it while we can here is to death as everyone knows death is the end of well everything for you it's when all the body's vital functions stop permanently your heart stops speeding your breath seizes you lose all brain activity their heart is failing and the body is now experiencing circulation changes their heartbeat is becoming fainter and their skin no longer radiates like the summer sun the pale gray blue of winter starts to take over most visibly on the knees hands and legs their breathing becomes erratic sometimes it's slow sometimes it's fast sometimes it's faint sometimes it's loud chain stokes is happening now they take several breaths then a long pause with no breathing at all and just when we think they're gone they gasp and take yet another breath they're not there yet but they're close in a few hours they'll take another long pause but then there will be no gasp to break the silence when most people are about to leave us to the other side of life they claim to feel a sense of readiness like they're wrapped around mother nature's arms similar to the feeling of a baby in their mother's womb there's a sense of comfort a sense of completion a sense of peace people are often well aware of what is coming next and can even hold on for something significant to happen before giving up the ghost you might wait for your mother to come so you can tell her you appreciate everything she did for you as a child or perhaps place a call to a friend to tell them you forgive them for everything they did wrong to you or maybe you're waiting to hold your kids in your arms again or kiss your partner on the cheek one last time when death comes knocking we often already know who's at the door we prepare ourselves and ready our houses before walking out the door locking it and throwing out the key as we walk out the door we gradually become confused we slip into an unconscious state one last time as we draw the curtains to what our life was as we walk out the door we gradually become confused we slip into an unconscious state one last time as we draw the curtains to what was our life we die everything that happens up until this point we know and understand but everything that happens afterward is still a complete mystery to us the craziest thing about death is that we often describe it as irreversible what is dead will stay dead but there are thousands of people out there who have been medically described as dead but have come back carrying with them tons of incredible stories we call these near-death experiences because again we believe if it was actual death they wouldn't be alive to tell the story but is that true we might just never know there's a wealth of information out there with regards to near-death experiences people who have been medically described as dead for hours and some days come back to life with stories of out-of-body experiences memories of their time in the afterlife down to some incredible specifics about this side of life that they just couldn't have made up one thing many people who have near-death experiences agree upon is the fact that the phrase life flashes before your eyes is very true just before the heart flatlines we're often presented with a view of our entire life however it's not like we think it is it's not the big moments in life that flash before our eyes it's not the wedding the graduation the first time you heard the cry of your child it's just random stuff it's riding your bike as a kid sitting at your desk and randomly checking your email staring at a white cat while climbing a flight of stairs it's the things that we don't give any thought to the moments we don't usually remember in life that are brought before us in the face of death if you thought staring at a white cat while climbing a flight of stairs was oddly specific well it's because it is a young man who went through a near-death experience saw this moment as one of life's flashes however he could not remember ever being on that staircase or seeing a white cat so after he was resuscitated he was able to draw the layout of the staircase the apartment it led to and described the cat to his mother and she told him that they had once lived in that exact building with the same staircase and apartment layout and they had lived there with someone who owned a white cat not such a crazy story until you realize that he and his mother moved out of that apartment when he was just 14 months old this begs the question are all of our memories still in there even the ones we've forgotten when we die do we get to see everything that we thought we forgot during our time on this side of life is what is gone only temporary one of the reasons death is scary to a lot of people is that it seems very lonely you came into this world alone but do we leave alone many people who have had near-death experiences explained that they saw a dead relative there to either escort them to the afterlife or tell them it wasn't their time yet but whichever one it was death was definitely not as lonely as we might think whether this was simply a figment of their imagination trying to reassure them and make them comfortable in their last few moments or it was really the spirit or soul of their dead relatives is something we'll never be able to say for sure however what we do know is that death for most people is not lonely or at least does not feel that way speaking of the soul this is one concept that science has not been able to figure out yet or at least have some kind of explanation for but with the number of near-death experiences associated with an out-of-body experience it might be time to start rethinking whether it's something that can even be explained by science i once came across the story of a freshman in college who had just overdosed on sleeping meds they flatlined in the ambulance and were declared legally dead for three minutes however they experienced everything in the ambulance not from their own eyes but from a third-person view an out-of-body experience what was striking was that they saw the emt who was trying to resuscitate them in the ambulance minty green hair so distinct you couldn't miss it after they were stabilized at the hospital three days later they asked for this emt the emt who they had seen while they were dead was a real person the out-of-body experience they had while in the ambulance was filled with real memories of them lying down on the ambulance floor machines beating an emt struggling to bring them back you hear things like this and you have to pause and wonder do we really not have a soul whatever that may be are we literally just made of random atoms and molecules responding to stimuli that mother nature throws at us or perhaps are we something more these are the stories and experiences of the people who have managed to escape the permanence of death and have battle scars to show for it however for most what is death remains dead and so around one to two weeks later it's time to say our final goodbyes much of what we know about human history is down to how we've buried our dead from tombs to mummies dead people have given us more information than the living left behind the oldest known international burial site states were around 10 000 years ago in kafsa israel the remains of the dead were put carefully in a coffin together with items such as garments trinkets and food and these coffins were then placed carefully in a cave there was also evidence in this cave that the living painted the remains of the dead through parties and great feasts to honor their passing and people were buried in groups of families this means that as even as far back as ten thousand years ago humanity understood the significance of death and the need to celebrate a life well spent to date many different cultures do funerals differently most people sit together to reminisce about the life once lived talking about all the good the person did while they were alive many religious organizations pray over the remains to give them a favorable outcome in the afterlife but what that afterlife is is different for different people abrahamic religions believe that your actions on this earth determine where you spend eternity afterwards families are encouraged to be strong in the face of death as we would all eventually be reconnected when we cross to the other side for some other religions like hindu what is dead shall be reborn after the ceremonies and prayers the bodies are buried or cremated and the living that are gathered disperse in a bid to heal from the hurt of losing someone even when we expect it death is extremely painful because the idea of losing someone isn't the same as actually losing them and mourning the relationship that it once was although we are fully aware that these things can happen and that they are part of the human experience when we are faced with a harsh reality the feeling of grief can be excruciating the finality of death is its scariest attribute the waking up one morning and realizing that everything we once had shared experienced they're all gone forever the fact that all we'll have of those experiences are memories old memories we cannot recreate and new memories we cannot form but more often than not these experiences give us a new perspective on life it reaffirms the reality of the brevity of life and gives us the courage to experience all that we can in the short time we have on this earth it teaches us to be good people while we're alive because we won't be there to defend ourselves when the eulogies are being read about us as we lie in an open casket and in the end we're better equipped to help people going through the same thing because people are better comforted by others who have had a similar experience seeing someone just like you survive through their own loss gives you a sense of hope that maybe just maybe you too will be able to pull through when you're sitting there staring at your loved one who is about to die understand that death is normally not as painful and troubling for the person dying as it is for you for the next two hours sit with them squeeze their hand in yours talk about all the beautiful things in life about shared experiences about their kids and pets their lovers and friends talk about a life worth living till its last breath talk about a life well spent [Music] talk about death the earth will keep spinning the birds will keep chirping but eventually everything has an end [Music] death is something we all experience throughout our lives it's unavoidable but as time goes on we're learning more and more about our bodies we're learning about why we age and what biological processes in our body cause us to do that who knows in our lifetimes we may even find a way to extend our life cycles or even transfer our consciousness into the metaverse we need smart and curious people to help tackle and solve these problems and with brilliant you can get your start into solving some of the 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Id: 3QvUtMoEgUg

Length: 14min 53sec (893 seconds)

Published: Fri Nov 19 2021