The Fear of Death

[Music] foreign death can only be interpreted by people who are alive yet since no one who is alive can simultaneously experience what it's like to be dead who then does death actually concern this logic is oddly reassuring even so if my doctor were to call me up right now and tell me that I would die in 12 hours I would still likely spend all that time in a state of debilitating fear and anxiety just thinking about this possibility makes me realize that whether I like it or not death terrifies me right now even as a person who is fortunate enough to be in good health it seems irrational and perhaps illogical to fear something that I have so little knowledge about or control over but no matter what I do I just can't seem to shake this nagging fear of the unknown and I'm not alone according to the 2017 survey of American fears conducted by Chapman University 20.3 percent of Americans are either afraid of or very afraid of dying but why do we have such a strong fear of death before we 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to imagine the moment you were born of course you can't actually remember this I know but just try for a second to bring yourself back to that time the moment when you were pulled out of the darkness by a mysterious set of hands only to be flooded by fluorescent lights and the chaotic bustle of a delivery room as your eyes adjusted to the light for the very first time you also had to take in a room full of total strangers who were all likely staring at you some of whom you'd never see again and others you could go on to spend the next 80 plus years with on this journey we call life this journey that you in that hospital room however many years ago had absolutely no tangible knowledge about we talk about how scary death is but the truth is birth was probably equally as scary if not more so it's no wonder that we judge the health of the newborn by how sterically they cry in the delivery room my point in bringing all of this up is to say that death isn't the first life-changing existential experience you've gone through was birth scary most likely but every single day since then you learned more and more about the experience that is being alive to the point where you thought of going back to the state you were in before birth has now become the idea you fear Mark Twain once wrote I do not fear death I have been dead for billions and billions of years before I was born and had not suffered the slightest inconvenience from it this perfectly expresses the another truth that most people fail to consider when it comes to death we all know and seem to accept easily that there was an infinite amount of time before we were alive on Earth so why is it so hard for some of us to Grapple with the fact that there will also be an infinite amount of time that comes after our existence on Earth when someone dies at an early age we feel great sadness for all the Earthly events they won't be able to be a part of but when a baby is born we don't mourn everything they missed out on before their delivery we all seem to know how nonsensical it would be to feel sad about that a baby's time of birth is what it is a fixed situation which nobody has had really any control over but when it comes to death there seems to be so many what-ifs or if only is involved maybe it's because of the how when one of our passing seems to say something about the way that we live consider the death of Robert Atkins the man who dedicated a large majority of his life to refining the Atkins diet and preaching it as the most health-conscious way to live only to die by slipping on an icy sidewalk people often reference this as a way to say that death is inevitable no matter how healthfully one chooses to live a message which ironically enough is the exact opposite of the one Atkins spent his life trying to convey stories like Roberts are another major reason why some of us find Death so frightening the idea that the where how and when of our passing puts a climactic punctuation mark at the end of our existence and somehow adds to the definition of what our life meant you either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become the villain we seem to accept and even participate in creating these punctuations or labels even when it comes to external things and people that we have no interpersonal connections to when a breaking news story emerges where an innocent person is murdered the majority of us collectively labeled their life as beautiful and their death is tragic and when that person's Kill Order is found guilty and sentenced to death we label their life as Despicable in their death as deserved libling others is a comforting habit that is strongly hardwired into our psychology it's part of how we organize simplify and make sense of our world yet we all know that even the best one-word label couldn't possibly be used to sum up the entirety of who and what a person is and what the life they lived was so the idea that our death could assign us with one of these simplistic labels which don't allow any room for the complexity of who we really were is terrifying if there's anything certain and non-debatable it's that death is a termination of our physical bodies Our Hearts stop beating our neurons cease-firing and we take one last breath our physical presence here on Earth is terminated at the time of our deaths while this is undeniably true it still leaves us with multiple unanswerable questions a large one being are we just a body a spectacularly designed or random collection of cells atoms and molecules that is purely physical or is it possible that we're composed of a physical body a physical mind and something else something intangible and non-physical like for the lack of a better term a soul this debate has been going on between philosophers for a millennium epicurus believed quite adamantly that we were merely physical beings whose deaths were a total annihilation of our existence while some of Plato's most famous dialogues argue for the immortality of the Soul if you believe that there's nothing more to us than the atoms and DNA that compose our physical bodies and Minds then you might be what modern philosophers call a physical list if on the other hand your inclination is to believe that we are composed of a physical body a physical mind and something intangible that resembles the soul then you might be what they call a duelist there are other variations and subsects of these definitions but for simplicity's sake we'll leave it there thinking back now to the problem of death with all this in mind we can clearly see that whether or not someone is a duelist or physicalist makes an enormous difference in the ways they would interpret their beliefs about death and ultimately whether they would fear death or not if death is a definitive end to the physical body then as far as physical lists are concerned death is a pretty straightforward pill to swallow death is just the end but for Duelists the possibilities are quite endless for if we possess something like a soul then the range of options of what could happen to that Soul after our physical bodies die is wide open while some people cling to religious texts and beliefs or some answers and comfort non-religious people are left with a huge uncertainty over what life after death holds and as humans we have evolved and be naturally scared of the unknown maybe the best place to turn to for a further investigation of death is to consider the stories of people who have died the near-death experience Research Foundation presents what many would consider to be the most compelling scientific evidence for life after death Jeffrey long the foundation's creator has studied and examined the accounts of thousands of people who have reportedly had near-death experiences while no two people's near-death experiences are exactly the same there are some characteristic features that have been commonly observed long has conducted and posted 5100 interviews to date with people who have claimed to have had an nde and compiled the data he's gotten from them over the years in this he identified 12 essential elements that are consistently present in his subjects some of which are an out-of-body experience encountering deceased relatives friends or mystical beings and experiencing a sense of alteration in time or space technically speaking having any kind of lucid experience while one is clinically dead without a heartbeat should be impossible still 74 of the people interviewed reportedly felt conscious and alert during their time spent dead than they did in their waking lies the remaining 20.4 percent reportedly felt the same amount of Consciousness awareness in death as they do alive while only 5.2 percent said they experienced less even though the belief that death is the end of our Consciousness is relatively common out of the thousands of people who participated in this survey only five percent reported that to be true for their near-death experience these statistics are startling for sure and there are plenty more like this that are equally compelling but I think that sometimes it can be too easy to tune out the significance of figures like these because well you can find statistical data to support just about any claim you're trying to make these days perhaps a more powerful and effective way to discuss ndes it's a delve into specific stories take this one for example reported by a woman who died by accidental electrocution at the age of seven I was transported out of my body and surrounded by the brightest warmest light ever the only way to explain it is our true home it felt very familiar it felt like home I had never felt at home here on Earth before or after this experience I didn't feel or see my body I believe I was more like a pure light source that flows just like a river of pure love and joy I was just so happy to be home another person claimed that the Earth is like a film that hasn't been developed not until we reached the other side is the film developed everything will be seen in beautiful colors that don't exist here on Earth and another said in an instant I knew that the life we live is an illusion it's not real because it's a creation of our minds we continually create thoughts in the project these thoughts outside of the mind just as cinematic frames are projected onto a screen reports like these are incredibly interesting but you might be wondering where the proof is for all we know these are just subjective accounts that people could be just making up and you would be right sadly as of right now there is no definitive proof of the validity of ndes like you I also started off my research into this a little bit skeptical but the more of these stories I heard and read over time the harder it became for me to believe that there wasn't at least some validity to them no matter what belief you choose to carry with you about what happens to us after we die I think it's important to research the literature out there learn with the people who have first-hand knowledge have to say and use all the information to form a real thought out opinion for yourself because sadly there is no way to tie a bow on this topic and wrap it up nicely no matter what any of us say death will always remain in existential mystery but if you struggle with the fear of death here is something that helped me tremendously in hopes that it helps you too the most comforting thing about death is that it will happen to us all

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Keywords: aperture, philosophy, psychology, death, 5 stages of death, stages of death, near death experience, experiencing death, logic, logical thinking, critical thinking, health, healthy life, american fears, chapman university, epicurus, epicurus philosophy, epicurus quotes, epicurus on happiness, epicurus happiness philosophy, epicurus principal doctrines, epicurus quotes - life and happiness, mark twain, mark twain quotes, mark twain quote, soul, immortality of the soul plato, dualism

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Length: 12min 52sec (772 seconds)

Published: Sun Dec 18 2022