Daughter KICKS MOM OUT Of WEDDING, What Happens Next Is Shocking | Dhar Mann

we are gathered here today to celebrate the love between ellie larter and jamal harrington if anyone knows of any reason why this couple should not be joined in holy matrimony please speak now or you forever i'd let my only daughter get married like this mom stop what are you doing i told you it was the four seasons or nothing let's go come on i'm melting let's go you okay yeah just another nightmare about the wedding what did your mom do this time you don't wanna know i'd have to come here for a cake tasting in an hour and next week she wants to go wedding dress shopping with me shopping and eating cake it doesn't sound so bad to me don't even get me started i mean every day it's something different with her i mean she thinks that we should go with these flowers that venue she's driving me crazy she thinks that just because she's helping us pay for the wedding that she should have a say in every little detail you know i just want her to walk me down the aisle and that's it she's your mom she loves you and she just wants what's best for you what would be best is if she would just leave the planning to me i mean the big day should be about us give your mom a chance okay what's the worst thing i could have you have no idea how are we doing the deconstructed lemon one with the raspberry filling is amazing it's good but i think the vanilla with the buttercream and the fondant is the clear winner i mean yeah that one's good too but i really think that the lemon ones were me nonsense you can't go wrong with classic flavors and fondant can you go ahead and pull us a quote for that one in a three-tier design thank you would you like me to pull a quote for the lemon one oh no that won't be necessary i'm the one footing the bill you know i i really think that the lemon is more my style plus you know jamal loves anything with raspberry when it comes to food you have to think of your guests and what they want classics are always crowd pleasers i mean maybe but you know i think it's gonna be a lot more expensive than the lemon and we're already pushing the budget as it is even with your help well we'll just have to think about where we can shave some expenses a little nip here a little tuck there okay as long as we don't cut the roses or the dj okay those are the most important things to me i don't know why you're so insistent on roses instead of lilies i mean lilies are so much more elegant oh and i can get you a great deal on my floors just say the word mom i already told you okay we want roses because jamal and i met the exposition park rose garden well at least reconsider the dj i mean live music is so much more elegant no mom i want a dj to play our song for the first dance okay a live band can't play the ted sheeran song that was on the radio the night that we first said i love you we want this wedding to feel personal okay we want it to feel like us i'm just saying if i'm paying then i should have an opinion well as the bride i would also like to have an opinion on my own wedding oh and you will as soon as the big ticket items are out of the way perfect i gotta run i've got a spa day hey sweetie bought us with chinese food everything okay yeah it's it it's the wedding budget apparently my mother decided to put down a deposit on a professional calligrapher without consulting me i thought we were just going to do print invitations and place cards to save money yeah well so did i but apparently she thinks the professional ones will look better i mean is it too late to just elope and run away to vegas we can't do that but where does everything stand if we don't use the printers well with the cake and the calligrapher i don't know i have to pull from somewhere if we want to stay under budget you know i think uh-huh i think that i can make it work if we cut the appetizers and then and go with the first linens that the vendor showed us i thought you hated those napkins and tablecloths well i do hate those napkins and tablecloths but i don't know what else to do i think this is your wedding you shouldn't hate anything at your own wedding why don't you just talk to your mom well i try but then she just goes on about how we need to be good hosts and oh that reminds me i really need you to finalize your part of the guest list because apparently the calligrapher needs it by next week um already done and i kept the list short just like we talked about close friends and family-owned yes i love you okay that's perfect if we keep the guest list under 75 then we have room in the budget for everything else that we need um including the flowers the dj and my dress i'm so excited about that jess you are going to look so beautiful in it now let's get into the sweet and sour before your mom decides to cut our takeout budget too and play some music it helps shake up the mood a little bit i know you like to start with the fortune cookie don't worry about money the best things in life are free and a palace has clearly never met my mother or it's crazy how spot on these cookies are sometimes i'm pretty sure they just mass print the same fortunes oh it's our song come on dance with me [Music] see i knew music would always lighten up the mood [Music] honey how's it going in there good just give me two seconds well what do you think [Music] it's the one from the magazine oh honey you look gorgeous and i think that grandma's necklace is gonna go so well as my something old with this neckline this is definitely the one so happy to hear that i'll just go grab the bag for it it's pretty but before we make a decision i definitely think you should try this one on the neckline and the skirt go perfectly with the theme theme what what theme this is my wedding not my sixth grade birthday party classic garden glamour with a modern twist what else i really think that this is the one try it on i'm the one paying for it it's the least you can do oh we're fine we're fine i think maybe even adding a little crinoline would give it a little oh wow that is a statement dress oh it's perfect i don't know mom don't you think it's a little poofy and grandma's necklace isn't gonna go with this poofy's good you're a bride and don't worry about grandma's necklace we'll find something old we'll take it mom what about the other dress the other dress pales in comparison to this when you're getting ready for your big day you'll be thanking me how much is this one seven thousand five hundred dollars i'm sorry did you just say seven thousand don't worry about it it's my treat but mom we do not have enough room in the budget for that i already had to recalculate everything based on the cake and the calligrapher and the only reason i was able to fit the other dress was because we capped the guest count at 75. well speaking of the guest list i may have invited a few additional guests are you serious what i'm not allowed to invite guests to a wedding that i'm sponsoring how many more people uh just 25. you pushed the guest list to a hundred people without asking me what i'm not i'm sorry can you give us a second of course who did you invite mom your facebook friends of course not just some work colleagues and some important clients mom this is my wedding i've been dreaming about this since i was five years old i don't want people that i don't know there okay can you please just uninvite them i can't do that i've been going on and on about your wedding that would be rude i've never even met any of these people i told you from the start i just wanted close friends and family and i'm just gonna be paying for dinners for some random strangers that i don't know how does the budget even accommodate for 25 more people well i had to make some cuts where well just around the edges but no one will notice the bar the chairs the flowers and the dj you cut the flowers and the dj nobody wanted those anyway i did i told you that that was the most important part to me okay the cake in the calligrapher was one thing but you've gone too far i don't get a say in a wedding that i'm paying for i am the bride and it's my checkbook what i say goes mom when you offered to help me pay for the wedding i took that as a being a generous gift because i'm your daughter not as a transaction that required something in return i'm just trying to give you a really good party no you wanted to make this about yourself you know i don't want your money anymore how could you even say that you can't even afford a wedding without my help maybe not one that you would approve of but i can get married with or without your help and if you can't deal with that then don't even bother coming [Music] how are those origami flowers coming uh desperately hoping that the phrase practice makes perfect turns out to be true but if it doesn't i plan on blaming the flower girls and saying that they made these okay i will come and help you in just one second why don't you just call your mom i'm sure she feels terrible and she's missing you too no no i am not extending the olive branch okay if she wants to apologize then she can come to me what we really need is an olive branch tutorial [Music] this morning i miss you i feel it in every part of my bones [Music] something hit me [Music] when i opened my eyes i was feeling so empty inside new york looks different without you i find that all that i want to do is close my eyes breathe and try and feel close to you just a second i'm almost ready it's me will you open up are you doing here everybody knows that it's bad luck to see the bride in her dress before the wedding i just need to talk to you i promise i won't look [Music] is everything okay yes i'm just gonna turn around so i'm not tempted to look at you did something happen with one of the vendors is the officiant wait jamal are you getting cold feet no it's nothing like that okay well if everything's fine then what is so important that i couldn't wait until later it's not a matter of everything it's everyone you can come in now [Music] what are you doing here i called her and she wanted to extend all the branch turns out they do make tutorials for that fyi it's a thousand times easier than making those origami roses jamal can you please give us a minute i see the both of you out there you look beautiful by the way you weren't supposed to look i didn't i just know i'm sorry it's taken me so long to call but i didn't know if you wanted me to after our big fight i was upset and you had every right to be i overstepped it took me a few months of us not speaking and some takeout take out yeah i ordered from this place panda palace and i got this fortune don't worry about money the best things in life are free i guess jamal was right i'm sorry i got so caught up in the wedding i wanted for you rather than caring for what you wanted i'm sure you've put together something even more beautiful than i could have even imagined i don't know about that we had to shrink the budget by over half and well we ended up cutting the roses completely so i'm using a origami bouquet instead well i guess it's a good thing that i came prepared just one sec [Music] oh mom they're beautiful thank you i mean i don't know how much of a difference one bouquet is gonna make it a big venue well they're not just any roses i asked jamal where you met at the rose garden and was able to pinpoint the exact rose bush you met in front of these are david austin queen of sweden roses i know how important flowers are to you so i wanted to get it right how did you even manage that well it's a good thing i'm on a first name basis with my florist oh for your something old grandma's necklace [Music] how how do i look like the most beautiful bride i've ever seen we get this show on the road oh um one more thing i saved uc just in case you went with the calligrapher after all no actually um i ordered a book online and learned how to do it myself we might not have agreed on everything for the wedding but one thing's for sure you and i both have great taste in calligraphy and men [Music] mom you didn't have to get us anything i owed you a little something open it let's just say that this was the money that would have been used for the wedding now you can use it however you want are you for real yeah you can use it for a car a down payment however you like mom that was that was so sweet of you thank you you're the best well i think we should get this party started you two need to have your first dance uh yeah about that we didn't end up being able to afford the dj after all well it's a good thing that i booked someone okay mom i thought that we discussed [Music] is that ted sheeran no you wanted your first dance with jamal to be to your song so i made some calls he was available i know it's not a dj but it's okay okay mom this is incredible are you kidding me thank you okay well get out [Music] there maybe i'll practice what i preach may i have this dance she looks her best i don't know me yeah oh i'm sure if he was fine from where i'm sitting maybe i'll fly to new york city look your mom was dancing with my dad maybe there's nothing for me your dad is so sweet it's time i guess she was right about one thing she and i both have excellent tastes wow this is such a beautiful dress that's my dress you're not playing cinderella tonight an indian cinderella you get to be one of the step sisters what i just want to say i'm sorry this thing is just so uncomfortable let me help slip you

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Published: Wed Sep 07 2022